Hi H !
We are lovely ta mate. Hope you had a nice Crmble :-)
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SilkandBigG
2 weeks ago
Bisexual Female, 56
Straight Male, 58
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Its like Nostradamus only with pussy :-) I predicted this time would come, and I have been looking forward to it.
Dogging has been something of a craze for two or three years , and many swingers old and new have had it on their 'to do' list as just another thing to try. The vast majority put it down as not for them and move on, but in the mean time they have posted here and everywhere else they can with constant whinging, griping and demanding about what the 'rules' should be, what they want dogging to be like and how it should be arranged and so on. Completely missing the point - as J and M mentioned originally that dogging has as one of its main attractions - spontaneity and risk.
I posted here many times telling the folk who would change dogging to something that it isn't meant to be and just politely told them to try something else they might like. That included the so called 'doggers' who whinged just as hard as the couples.
Well now it seems dogging is becoming a rare and difficult to join club , and it is hard to be involved with those that love it unless you know someone that knows. Well good ! Thats how it used to be, and its the only way it works. You know what its still amazing fun, and sometimes all the more fun for the effort - like many worthwhile things.
So heres hoping we meet all the doggers that stick with it for the thrill of the chase and the risk of getting caught, what you are witnessing is its rebirth, not its demise :-)
Peace
G xx
Dogging has been something of a craze for two or three years , and many swingers old and new have had it on their 'to do' list as just another thing to try. The vast majority put it down as not for them and move on, but in the mean time they have posted here and everywhere else they can with constant whinging, griping and demanding about what the 'rules' should be, what they want dogging to be like and how it should be arranged and so on. Completely missing the point - as J and M mentioned originally that dogging has as one of its main attractions - spontaneity and risk.
I posted here many times telling the folk who would change dogging to something that it isn't meant to be and just politely told them to try something else they might like. That included the so called 'doggers' who whinged just as hard as the couples.
Well now it seems dogging is becoming a rare and difficult to join club , and it is hard to be involved with those that love it unless you know someone that knows. Well good ! Thats how it used to be, and its the only way it works. You know what its still amazing fun, and sometimes all the more fun for the effort - like many worthwhile things.
So heres hoping we meet all the doggers that stick with it for the thrill of the chase and the risk of getting caught, what you are witnessing is its rebirth, not its demise :-)
Peace
G xx
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Youd have to meet us halfway and PM where it is guys :-). I have a feeling the name is ok in the thread but not location. Praps privately givvus a clue and we can see if we are down that way and when xx
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Id imagine anyone would be glad to turn up with a suitable coat peg at the ready ! Although we are feeling a bit jealous of the 'special site :-) ' xx
Glad you had fun, she always looks like she does x
Glad you had fun, she always looks like she does x
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Its says Berkshire mate, try and pay attention :-)
Remember that feeling guys, hope you have the most fun ever :-) be safe and have lots of giggles xx S n G x
Remember that feeling guys, hope you have the most fun ever :-) be safe and have lots of giggles xx S n G x
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Well having tyres let down, or worse slashed is of course unacceptable in any situation and I would have to assume that it is very rare since we have been around and about for quite a while and never encountered the like.
That said if you go to a dogging site then the idea of manners is a difficult one. For a start off part of the whole lure of dogging to a greater or lesser extent is the very unexpectedness and randomness of the situation and so it should be. Of course there is basic human curtesy involved, and the over reaching one is that if anyone involved (dogger or player) says it isn't working or they want to stop, then it stops.
Of course we all have personal preferences and they need to be expressed, after all the strangers you encounter don't know them. You may want one individual at a time watching whereas we may want every window occupied for the show - unless you tell them they wont know that.
In the same way as some couples are intimidated by being approached by only one of the doggers present you will see as many complaints that people were disappointed at the response. In our experience nine times out of ten if you just make it known to the parties involved they will accommodate - a brief statement like " just one on the car please guys" will result in the others backing off and hoping for a turn later you will only have to tell a few of em and it will get passed around the others. Similar instructions work for whatever your preferences, and in truth these are every bit as much about 'manners' as the moaning about not getting exactly what you imagined before you set off that night.
I don't wanna sound like I am making rules because I have spent many threads explaining that rules are exactly what dogging doesn't need, but I have to say that if what you want is a totally controlled situation , with your choice of individual and to know exactly what to expect for the outcome, then dogging isn't for you. If that's what you want you should just invite someone to your house ( or go to theirs) or if you like a breeze on your bits then arrange something in the garden.
Now its a well known fact, although not often discussed or owned up to, that for a few couples part of the thrill of dogging is a power trip. That is to say they like the idea of keeping men waiting and teasing, sometimes taking hours to do anything, or its not unknown for some to drive off after doing nothing at all after hours of teasing and leading people around car-parks. I'm sure you have all seen it doggers even if the culprits wont own up. When I read some posts I cant help but detect a less extreme version of this attitude. There's sometimes a prevailing sense that the couples involved are doing the doggers a favour and that as such the doggers should be on their best behavior in order to 'earn their reward', you will meet some couples with this outlook in all aspects of swinging, but in dogging most of all.
We have never seen it that way ourselves, we see doggers as just other people looking for sexual thrills and excitement and they are just as essential in the dogging world as we are , after all there is no exhibitionism without voyeurs. So I reckon its worth giving the guys a bit of help when you express what you want. I'm betting they will be more often accommodating than not, and if they are not then just leave.
Peace
That said if you go to a dogging site then the idea of manners is a difficult one. For a start off part of the whole lure of dogging to a greater or lesser extent is the very unexpectedness and randomness of the situation and so it should be. Of course there is basic human curtesy involved, and the over reaching one is that if anyone involved (dogger or player) says it isn't working or they want to stop, then it stops.
Of course we all have personal preferences and they need to be expressed, after all the strangers you encounter don't know them. You may want one individual at a time watching whereas we may want every window occupied for the show - unless you tell them they wont know that.
In the same way as some couples are intimidated by being approached by only one of the doggers present you will see as many complaints that people were disappointed at the response. In our experience nine times out of ten if you just make it known to the parties involved they will accommodate - a brief statement like " just one on the car please guys" will result in the others backing off and hoping for a turn later you will only have to tell a few of em and it will get passed around the others. Similar instructions work for whatever your preferences, and in truth these are every bit as much about 'manners' as the moaning about not getting exactly what you imagined before you set off that night.
I don't wanna sound like I am making rules because I have spent many threads explaining that rules are exactly what dogging doesn't need, but I have to say that if what you want is a totally controlled situation , with your choice of individual and to know exactly what to expect for the outcome, then dogging isn't for you. If that's what you want you should just invite someone to your house ( or go to theirs) or if you like a breeze on your bits then arrange something in the garden.
Now its a well known fact, although not often discussed or owned up to, that for a few couples part of the thrill of dogging is a power trip. That is to say they like the idea of keeping men waiting and teasing, sometimes taking hours to do anything, or its not unknown for some to drive off after doing nothing at all after hours of teasing and leading people around car-parks. I'm sure you have all seen it doggers even if the culprits wont own up. When I read some posts I cant help but detect a less extreme version of this attitude. There's sometimes a prevailing sense that the couples involved are doing the doggers a favour and that as such the doggers should be on their best behavior in order to 'earn their reward', you will meet some couples with this outlook in all aspects of swinging, but in dogging most of all.
We have never seen it that way ourselves, we see doggers as just other people looking for sexual thrills and excitement and they are just as essential in the dogging world as we are , after all there is no exhibitionism without voyeurs. So I reckon its worth giving the guys a bit of help when you express what you want. I'm betting they will be more often accommodating than not, and if they are not then just leave.
Peace
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We arent talking about manners here, we are talking about preferences. If anyone doesnt like whats happening......................then just stop :-) xx
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aaaw guys dont let it put you off. You are always gonna get newbies and over anxious watchers.
Im sure we all made some faux pas when we all started going. We kinda take it as a compliment when they are that keen, and alway make sure the doors are locked unless we want them any other way. As for the young fellas driving away, the laughs are normally nervous ones - they know why they are there they just dont have the experience or the bottle to go through with it.............just like all the so called 'pranks' at dogging spots on youtube. The young fellas are facinated by these sexually liberated women, they just feel intimidated by it a well, but truth is if they just wanted a giggle they wouldnt drive that far out of their way to get it. THey want the same as all the other doggers they just dont want to admit it :-)
Chill, lock the doors unless you want em open, and have fun with the rest of us and dont abandon the club xx
Im sure we all made some faux pas when we all started going. We kinda take it as a compliment when they are that keen, and alway make sure the doors are locked unless we want them any other way. As for the young fellas driving away, the laughs are normally nervous ones - they know why they are there they just dont have the experience or the bottle to go through with it.............just like all the so called 'pranks' at dogging spots on youtube. The young fellas are facinated by these sexually liberated women, they just feel intimidated by it a well, but truth is if they just wanted a giggle they wouldnt drive that far out of their way to get it. THey want the same as all the other doggers they just dont want to admit it :-)
Chill, lock the doors unless you want em open, and have fun with the rest of us and dont abandon the club xx
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Hi you two ! We arent anywhere near Ringwood, but your profile says you are local to us . Do you ever get out locally that we might bump into you when we are playing out ?
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Hey guys, we are busy this weekend, but wondered if you would share your places in Swindon with us, we have been out there with no success and as its nice and local would love to try again . Drop us a message xxx
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........well that and the bloody sign someone put up on the A=road saying " Dogging Site this way"
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Weve been here ourselves mate. It was beyond my knowledge , Xp profiles seem impregnable even via the registry unless you have specialist equipment and software. We ended up having to find an understanding HDD transfer fella who did it professionally . Sorry hope i am wrong and there's a bright spark here who can help.
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Hi Wigans xxx
:wave:
Yeah we have been on the end of that many times...............many a paysite have nicked ours before now. One of em even set up by a member here many moons ago.
Absolutely adore the pink outfit by the way.........have you lost lots of weight ?? xx
:wave:Yeah we have been on the end of that many times...............many a paysite have nicked ours before now. One of em even set up by a member here many moons ago.
Absolutely adore the pink outfit by the way.........have you lost lots of weight ?? xx
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Not in the least unusual, we have dogs who convert food to poop in thirty seconds
the next poster will alway be remembered for that time in the hot tub
the next poster will alway be remembered for that time in the hot tub
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Weve always enjoyed making the towels twitch, as long as its for fun and not for membership fees :-)
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There is nowhere even remotely like here.............I respect the management for sticking by their contractual agreement. They are simply the first and only people that I have ever experienced on a large website to do so, and trust me we have used the net since it was run on gas. It has to be said all the best things about this site are still the free parts, so it isnt the moeny that doesnt motivate us to use extras, its a lack of interest in what they offer.
I guess what the people running it realised early on is that the real secret to SH, both back when they acquired it and now,is the people. It is far and away simply the largest most genuine repository of real UK people in the lifestyle, and it has to be said that perhaps the life memberships are part of the reason that remains the case.
Thanks Guys
Peace xx
I guess what the people running it realised early on is that the real secret to SH, both back when they acquired it and now,is the people. It is far and away simply the largest most genuine repository of real UK people in the lifestyle, and it has to be said that perhaps the life memberships are part of the reason that remains the case.
Thanks Guys
Peace xx
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Our profile has always been rubbish information wise. The pictures are due an update as well.
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I know which brand Silky would like to have used, sadly I dont need em :lol:
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Perhaps they were thinking of the horse impressionist field of influence ?
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Would love to but my Silky is working til late. Praps another time x Have fun
