Nope transparency is always good in politics, moderators and blouses.
This site has always had some of the best Mods on the net, and long may it reign so. If you have the courage to do the job then you should have the courage of conviction as well.
Id prefer a sticker :shock:
Now THAT is a forum Moderator ! :-) xx
Just for the Wigans xxx
It wont let us use the really good old animated ones :-(
By the way Nola I posted the first post whilst eating my toast, and having read it again It sounds bit aggressive,im not a morning person hehehe sorry hope we're mates still :-) , anyway the sentiment still holds x
We are thinking now the weather has started warmin up we may have another venture down there this year. Praps if anyone is gonna be doin the beach this year it might be nice to be there around the same time..........we like to watch as much as we like to show :-)
Peace
What do you decorate them with ? :shock:
LOVE the new avatar Wigans xx
Isnt that just what happens here ?
Doesn't anyone else find that thread being locked a wee bit offensive? I'm no political correct tambourine beater, but it seems to me asking about disability and its relationship for the individual with swinging experiences is exactly the sort of discussion that would be fabulously relevant for an open swingers forum (if it is still a forum).
Are we finally witnessing the slow demise of the values which founded SH ? Or was it just an error of judgment?
I for one would like to think discussion here about all aspects of society involved in swinging lifestyles is open and honest without compelling discussions to 'private' ones for fear of offending the sensitive souls among us. We as a couple have always said one of the most important things about swinging folk is their willingness to discuss without judging.
Happy Bank Holiday everyone xx
Peace
What are the all for ??
You cant homogenize a forum, it makes it pointless. Come on guys, if some people dont want to read a spectrum of views then they dont want a forum.
I wondered what that creaking sound was . Hi mate
You say that like politics and getting fucked up the ass are not synonymous .
and they wonder why the chase can get a bit crowded.................
I get it alot when Silky goes on top...........but only if she has left her hair brush on the bed.
Holding the coats ??
Warming the post fuck pies in the microwave ?
I think theres a weird kind of contradiction in this fantasy, and obviously I generalise. Silky likes rough sex to a point, and has often mentioned near ' ' fantasies. However on closer inspection the erotic nature of these ideas almost always centres around the feeling of being to incredibly desirable to the other party/parties that they simply cannot control themselves and have to take you. Thats all fine and dandy except what is implicit in that also is the euphoria of having sexual power and control because of your desirability. Of course in its true meaning has very little to do with the victims control, and often very little to do with sex- centring more around violent dominance to assuage insecurities in the attacker.
I suppose the classic scenario often involves groups of men as this adds to the feeling of total sexual helplessness but it has to be said you can probably substitute 'helplessness' for 'responsibility' because the one thing that can be said for forced sex is that no matter how much you enjoy it , it was not your mind that instigated it and so you are not the one that suggested such filthy things happening.
So like many fantasy scenarios it is a very complex mixture, probably different proportions of each in each individual, involving at once a feeling of sexual desirability and control and of total abandonment and lack of responsibility. As long as the proportions of each remain in the right balance in the psyche of the fantasist its fun, but from what I have seen it isnt always an easy balance to maintain.
Whatever it is, it aint.
Peace
(did i go on too much again?)
Yeah i miss Kenty (where is he by the way ?)
He did go through a phase when he was posting a wee bit too many controversial just for the sake of it threads mind. However when on form he was fun to exchange with. On the whole this forum is living thing and goes through its different cycles, as far as arguments go they are like buses and there will be another one along in a minute.
I have tried many times to post the odd controversial thread which is more 'on topic' for the swinging fraternity but more often than not it gets very few answers, and i can usually predict those that will answer beforehand (they will be the ones who dont feel the need to add 'we are very secure in our lifestyle' in their profiles). Perhaps its best not to over analyze something so complex that gives you pleasure, so I bow to the silence and keep my peace- not wanting to make people feel awkward.
Its fun still though or I wouldnt be here :-)
Peace
maybe she means spare not extra lol
Gappy teeth , weird huh ?
Dont sweat T , its not time wasting as long as they dont mind
1) Empty industrial unit
2) 3 willing strangers
3) A sex swing
4) A blindfold
5) Three video cameras
:twisted:
:lol: :lol: :lol: Hes on form of late x
XX Hope it was great