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SinSi
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 110
0 miles · Nuneaton

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If I have to smoke anything I prefer Nakhla or Moassel Sidi Mansour double apple lol
Quote by Cubes
Nice one Amber and Jay! :thumbup:
just a shame they don't come with any kind of warranty or notes from a previous user.

Isn't that what they call 'a full service history'? ;)
Thought that what where SHrep was supposed to help out? dunno
Quote by Clubpartypeeps
I largely agree with what Jed says.
It's not that the lack of interest is there, nor is there the lack of demand, it's more that we are facing one of the worst economic struggles in the country of all time, and after Xmas and New Year is always quiet on the club scene, the next busy night normally being Valentines day themed parties.
Just to look at how the scene has grown / changed since I was first on it, there were 58 Clubs / Regular Advertised parties back in 2003, the scene probably peaked around 2004 / 2005 with a very healthy attendance pretty much at any club or party we went to regardless of when it was.
In 2012 at the time of writing there are over 80 permanent clubs or parties in the UK, but to put that into perspective, even though that's more than back in 2004, almost double when you take into account the addition of groups such as Killing Kittens and so on, you also should note that over that time over 30 Clubs have shut for various reasons. Some of them quite frankly should never have been opened in the first place (A smelly dark room below a Kebab shop does not a great club make!)
We want to see the scene grow and prosper as much as everyone else does I am sure, but we are surprised to see some new clubs open in direction competition of existing venues and although at times competition can be a healthy thing, right now that's probably not doing either club any favours.
The scene has expanded in Europe to a huge degree. When we started compiling the German list of clubs for example, which we began two years ago, there was about 130 clubs at that time, at the time of writing there are some 255 in Germany and almost 200 in France, and even though some clubs have come and gone, its no where near many as have opened and closed in the UK or Spain (Some opened by ex-pats)
If anything those that have experienced clubs on the continent and see the amazing standards that they set, will have impacted and improved the standard of what we offer over, that is no bad thing.
A club must constantly re-invent and improve itself to survive, and it should embrace constructive critcism and not be afraid of it. Any different attitude to that will only hurt it in the end.
Under the current climate those clubs that are always improving and setting standards will no doubt survive. VA might have had a quiet club in January, but its membership and attendance is increasing all the time, as is Liberty Elite now that they have pulled their socks up a bit. This is no bad thing, pressure to succeed is a good thing.
It is true that people will gravitate towards the club where they think they will find the right people, HOWEVER, the right club will attract the right people in the first place.
Good facilities
Great Atmosphere
Good hosts and friendly staff
Clean facilities
Good music
Decor and lighting that is conducive to playing.
Get all those right and set your prices accordingly and your half way there.

:thumbup: Well put there
Quote by twos_company
well ian u all ways put yr foot in it,
n shows u have to watch what u say,pmsl

True enough indeed!
Quote by Gorgeouslyyours
The reason why the list is closed is because there is a limit on the numbers the venue can accommodate.
Since closing the list I have 7 add +1 request, 5 couples who are great friends with the big wigs in the chat-rooms and 2 singles who are so popular with everyone on the site that without them the social will be a let down.
Adding these 19 to an already full list, doesn't increase the venue limit, and defeats the object of closing the list so to keep within the venue limit.
It is very simple. The venue has a limit, cramming people in a room like sardines is not an option I am prepared to entertain.
If you don't make the list on this occasion, make sure you get your names down first for the next Cov social and be a leader, not a follower who waits to see who else is on the list first

oooh Try so masterful ;0) xxx
Ahh!! The popularity of Try's music lol
Quote by Big_Fraser
as for an energy meter i wouldnt bother just unplug everything when it is not in use it will save you money :thumbup:

Gotta agree, even as a lover of techie things my energy meter got forgotten very quickly.
You will probably expend more energy setting it up than it saves! wink
I agree with the above, plus if you don't buy one you'll save money that way too!!
Quote by Staggerlee_BB
To date .... my Mother has died 3 times my Father 4,my non existent elder daughter has been pillaged by a hoarde of marauding vikings whilst they performed the blood eagle on me,and the dogs have killed several neighbours leaving us to dispose of the corpses
I always think it best to be both honest and not too elaborate with ones excuses

You missed off the number of times you've also died Staggers!! lol
Quote by Dawnie
Never actually noticed, too busy looking at your face innocent

rotflmao
Are you sure about that dunno
Nothing I can put my finger on?
Hang on ..... no, it's gone.... was on the tip of my tongue too!!
:rude:
Quote by Ben_Minx
Wolverhampton Wanderers 0 Birmingham City 1
Well I blame Deancannock.

:laughabove::laughabove:
Quote by Meeko
Well i havent had the luck of seeing your bum, but for what it is worth I (Mike) love big bums! There I Said it and I say it with pride :-)

I've been told I am a big arse before but Mike isn't my type :giggle:
Are you lot trying to say that Dawnie's got a big bum? dunno
When I'm working - cup of tea, porage oats with a swirl of honey followed by 2 slices of toast
When I'm not - several cups of tea, toast, a cooked breakfast (dependant on whats in the fridge), greek yogurt with honey and granola
Nom nom nom!
For me, breakfast is the most important meal of the day
Closely followed by second breakfast whihc is probably why I'm so fat!!
Howdi Try
Unfortunately you'll have to confirm me too please lol and since no one recognised me in my mask I might need to get a new one?! :huh:
Quote by Dawnie
I thought everyone's name was their real name just like mine is ?! lol

:doh:
Are you trying to say that your name isn't Dawnie then?! dunno
Quote by HnS
Bump lol

You are such a shitbag at times :lol2: :lol2: :lol2:
Yep bolt
Who's turn to 'bump' tomorrow ?
:lol:
:bolt:
What's a bump?! dunno
They are things that go bang and release paper streamers over party revellers?!
Quote by Lizaleanrob
this explains the situation far better sinsi

Brilliant Rob :thumbup: I've just posted on to friends in Athens, thanks again
That's a different thread Max, but thanks for the suggestion
Quote by Dawnie
FFS Try, its bad enough Si keeps bringing up my backside let alone you joining in!
I'll spank you too smackbottom

Excuse me?! But as promised I haven't mentioned it
innocent
Quote by SinSi
If you go away on this summer day
Then you might as well take the sun away
All the birds that flew in the summer sky
When our love was new and our hearts were high
When the day was young, and the night was long
And the moon stood still for the nightbird's song
If you go away, if you go away, if you go away
But if you stay, I'll make you a day
Like no day has been or will be again
We'll sail the sun, we'll ride on the rain
We'll talk to the trees and worship the wind
Then if you go, I'll understand
Leave me just enough love to fill up my hand
If you go away, if you go away, if you go away
If you go away, as I know you will
You must tell the world to stop turning 'til
You return again, if you ever do
For what good is love without loving you?
Can I tell you now, as you turn to go
I'll be dying slowly 'til the next hello?
If you go away, if you go away, if you go away
But if you stay, I'll make you a night
Like no night has been or will be again
I'll sail on your smile, I'll ride on your touch
I'll talk to your eyes that I love so much
But if you go, go! I won't cry
Though the good is gone from the word goodbye
If you go away, if you go away, if you go away
If you go away, as I know you must
There'll be nothing left in the world to trust
Just an empty room, full of empty space
Like the empty look I see on your face
I'd have been the shadow of your shadow
If I thought it might have kept me by your side
The original French version is best though
Jaques Brel

Erm don't know why this posted twice - apologies!
I don't know if people picked this up a while back but a good friend of mine from Athens came across it recently - it didn't make her laugh though!