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SunBunny
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
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I think it's because otherwise the parties are flooded with young horny males who upset husbands and do not understand fully the concept of swinging.... 
Maybe I'm wrong .....it's a wild guess...
Seems to me that a few bad apples make it difficult for beautiful people like you fabio.
If they let one in they must let all in, no?
Maybe I'm wrong .....it's a wild guess...Seems to me that a few bad apples make it difficult for beautiful people like you fabio.
If they let one in they must let all in, no?
Anyway I'm bumping up the thread lest it should get lost in the depths of page two.
Come on guys.....you turning down PoloLady's fantabulous offer? She may never ask again...........there must be more out there. You just haven't seen the post yet. Have you?
(of course I am merely aiding my friend. NO interest WHATSOEVER in the results of her online quest. )
Come on guys.....you turning down PoloLady's fantabulous offer? She may never ask again...........there must be more out there. You just haven't seen the post yet. Have you?
(of course I am merely aiding my friend. NO interest WHATSOEVER in the results of her online quest.
) There really are a lot of genuinely LOVELY people on this site and like others I feel it would be unfair to name all the ones who have helped me personally and restored my faith in the whole scene just recently.
But as I said in a previous thank you thread, what shocked me was that THEY came to ME - which makes the whole situation so much more believable.
Do as you would be done by and good things will come to you.
I feel very fortunate to be part of a community that boasts some damn intelligent, caring, understanding and bloody decent people. It makes up for all those who are not.
You all know who you are.
Thanks again.
But as I said in a previous thank you thread, what shocked me was that THEY came to ME - which makes the whole situation so much more believable.
Do as you would be done by and good things will come to you.
I feel very fortunate to be part of a community that boasts some damn intelligent, caring, understanding and bloody decent people. It makes up for all those who are not.
You all know who you are.
Thanks again.
Blondeslave it is honest. But I think the point here is that in the eyes of many, it is WRONG. 
As someone who as lived as a bisexual on the lesbian scene and in the 'straight' world, I would say that this judgement comes from both sides of the fence.
Lesbians let their resemntment known. Bisexuals let the side down, are not 'pure'
Straight people cannot understand how we can switch from one to the other. We have to remember that swingers are a minority and so most people do not comprehend the idea of group sex as a way of life and so presume that a bisexual will always have to cheat on their partner to satisfy both cravings.
We are a little different. Very comfortable in the world of swinging but I wonder if that is why so many of us are here? Because in RL we cannot go to a bar and pick up a couple. Especially if out with a group of 'straight' or lesbian friends. Its just not done.
However, I have always been honest and open about my sexuality and am proud of it. I get the best of both worlds.
As someone who as lived as a bisexual on the lesbian scene and in the 'straight' world, I would say that this judgement comes from both sides of the fence.
Lesbians let their resemntment known. Bisexuals let the side down, are not 'pure'
Straight people cannot understand how we can switch from one to the other. We have to remember that swingers are a minority and so most people do not comprehend the idea of group sex as a way of life and so presume that a bisexual will always have to cheat on their partner to satisfy both cravings.
We are a little different. Very comfortable in the world of swinging but I wonder if that is why so many of us are here? Because in RL we cannot go to a bar and pick up a couple. Especially if out with a group of 'straight' or lesbian friends. Its just not done.
However, I have always been honest and open about my sexuality and am proud of it. I get the best of both worlds.
I used to prefer Brad, cos he is such a pretty boy, but now I would opt for George, who appears to be more of a man...although both are hot, of course. :twisted:
But let's face it - they can afford to look good with their bank balances. If they were living in a squat in Tooting I guess neither would look quite so cool and sexy.
But let's face it - they can afford to look good with their bank balances. If they were living in a squat in Tooting I guess neither would look quite so cool and sexy.
It doesn't really matter whether it's cut or not....it's the old, old story, it's what you do with it...but I was brought up to believe cut is infinitely better.
Being jewish my family knew no different and it was their way of trying to get me to meet a 'nice jewish boy'...(never have though... )
However....if I had a preference...I would say cut. I find it offers a more pleasant BJ, and is more attractive to look at. Can't explain why but it's just the way it is. Not that I mind a bit if foreskin. I'm fussy, but not THAT fussy......
Being jewish my family knew no different and it was their way of trying to get me to meet a 'nice jewish boy'...(never have though...
)However....if I had a preference...I would say cut. I find it offers a more pleasant BJ, and is more attractive to look at. Can't explain why but it's just the way it is. Not that I mind a bit if foreskin. I'm fussy, but not THAT fussy......
Okay . I'm with Gailen on this one. You guys can't tell me you have never wondered if the hunk/hot babe in the car next to you , as you crawl along in rush hour, is single/up for it?
Never flirted whilst drumming your hands on the wheel listening to loud music on the radio? Never have your eyes across the lanes as you waited for pedestrians to cross?
Maybe we are alone here Gailen....but I know there are plenty of other road users out there who also like to flirt.
The North Circular on a friday afternoon is particularly flirtatious.
Never flirted whilst drumming your hands on the wheel listening to loud music on the radio? Never have your eyes across the lanes as you waited for pedestrians to cross?
Maybe we are alone here Gailen....but I know there are plenty of other road users out there who also like to flirt.
The North Circular on a friday afternoon is particularly flirtatious.
Rght well okay if Rachel's coming....how many girls will you consider allowing on your friday night finger food frolic into the depths of lovely leicester? I mean, if the salesman proves too much of a dirty bastard, you may need a hand . Strength in numbers and all that...
May I offer my services....at least some of them. Depends how dirty funbloke really is...
Tell you what PoloLady - get back to me.
May I offer my services....at least some of them. Depends how dirty funbloke really is...
Tell you what PoloLady - get back to me.
One of my all-time fave films.
I was Rizzo, in our school enactment. Me and and my mate (Sandy) directed it, bossy little nine-year-olds that we were, and my mum knitted me a pink mohair cardigan. Danny was a guy who always got the girls in juniors...complete with dimples....and Kenickie was my boyfriend of two years. We held hands somethimes. It was sooooo exciting. ....it was absolute perfect casting. Everybody looked the part. We were so proud.
There are worse things I could do, than go with a boy or two
Even though the neighborhood thinks I'm trashy and no good
I suppose it could be true, but there are worse things I could do
I could flirt with all the guys, smile at them and bat my eyes
Press against them when we dance, make them think they stand a chance
Then refuse to see it through, that's a thing I'd never do
I could stay home every night, wait around for mr. Right
Take cold showers every day, and throw my life away
On a dream that won't come true
I could hurt someone like me, out of spite or jealousy
I don't steal and I don't lie, but I can feel and I can cry
A fact I'll bet you never knew
But to cry in front of you, that's the worst thing I could do
I was only discussing Grease with someone yesterday.
And it was John Travolta's birthday today. I have always been a big fan. What a guy.
I was Rizzo, in our school enactment. Me and and my mate (Sandy) directed it, bossy little nine-year-olds that we were, and my mum knitted me a pink mohair cardigan. Danny was a guy who always got the girls in juniors...complete with dimples....and Kenickie was my boyfriend of two years. We held hands somethimes. It was sooooo exciting. ....it was absolute perfect casting. Everybody looked the part. We were so proud.
There are worse things I could do, than go with a boy or two
Even though the neighborhood thinks I'm trashy and no good
I suppose it could be true, but there are worse things I could do
I could flirt with all the guys, smile at them and bat my eyes
Press against them when we dance, make them think they stand a chance
Then refuse to see it through, that's a thing I'd never do
I could stay home every night, wait around for mr. Right
Take cold showers every day, and throw my life away
On a dream that won't come true
I could hurt someone like me, out of spite or jealousy
I don't steal and I don't lie, but I can feel and I can cry
A fact I'll bet you never knew
But to cry in front of you, that's the worst thing I could do
I was only discussing Grease with someone yesterday.
And it was John Travolta's birthday today. I have always been a big fan. What a guy.
Quote by Rainbows
1. You have to be ready to pull the hairs out of anyone's privates one by one right now
Wheres me tweezers....
4. You have recently sent a "way over the top" rant and then instantly tried to hit the recall button.
5. You have found solice in alcohol "cos no-one understands you"
I have found solace in alcohol because it understands me and is my friend. And the bubbles in the champagne cause the corners of my mouth to turn up, ever so slightly..
Rainbows please can I be in your team. I want to kick some balls around a field and then suck on something juicy at half time....and I promise not to burst into tears if we lose. I will just kill our opponents with my stony gaze. :twisted:
Hello there Mr GenHertsCpl....you have finally ventured into the throng I see. Took your time.
Sorry about the redundancy. Happens to us all but no less of a bummer.
You have joined the site on my birthday so I felt I HAD to say hello while it still is. Another year older and another step closer to 40 :cry:
Will be looking out for your input........if you can get a word in edgeways (your missus does like to natter....
)
Bye for now
Love sunbunny.
Sorry about the redundancy. Happens to us all but no less of a bummer.
You have joined the site on my birthday so I felt I HAD to say hello while it still is. Another year older and another step closer to 40 :cry:
Will be looking out for your input........if you can get a word in edgeways (your missus does like to natter....
)Bye for now
Love sunbunny.
Quote by mal609
Just to add something here. I know personally two separate people who struck lucky with their very first post.
well I hate to say it but on the day of my first post (on a munch thread - and the day I joined) I recieved four PMs and had three shags planned within a week. One of those guys is still on the scene so he must have done something right.
Think it was those bloody baubles......
Hi Surrey Couple I did email you with a pic but have heard nothing back...........what do I need to do to get in? Please advise.....or are single women not allowed ( I was told otherwise)?
I think enough people on here know me and would tell you I am pretty genuine and a good
laugh....................
Love sunbunny xx
I think enough people on here know me and would tell you I am pretty genuine and a good
laugh....................
Love sunbunny xx
