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SunBunny
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by da69ve
Do we get worshipped now that we are godlike?
seeing as you are now a god and I was always a little :angel: (
)...can I come and sit on your cloud and help you be godlike???
(I make a nice cuppa tea and I will bring plenty of Philadelphia. Big Buns we have already.....And the devil is in us all ....
) Quote by kinkyluton
sunbunny wrote
neither should we label offenders so negatively in a public forum.....
yep you right we should just let them get on with it.......not say nothing...and know in our hearts....that it just be a grope next time and not something worse...
You totally miss the point.
Quote by Marya
Ridiculous!
The fact is, two guys who happened to be Asian (wooooo! i said it!) caused a lot of hassle for a lot of people. The fact is, the majority of the Munch attendees were white. The fact is, if the two guys were ginger 6 footers, as Kinkyluton said, thats what they would have been called.
FFS! Can people stop finding excuses to have a bluddy dig and get back to the real issue????
Whos having a dig.
Ginger 6-footer is not the same as Asian. Not if you're Asian.
The issue, for me, is that two guys groped and nothing got said.
Then we all make a song and dance about it, and come at it from all sides, as LilMiss noticed.
Then the thread starter thinks a racist question is a personal dig at himself, which it isn't, and starts getting unecessarily personal in what is essentially a very serious topic.
It was a point that needed to be made and something that i have considered a good deal beforehand. In the same way that we shouldn't allow gropers at a munch, neither should we label offenders so negatively in a public forum.
I have decided to post this after all, but edited, after what steph wrote.
What is groping, actually ?
Touching a woman without asking her in a place he shouldn’t? Invading personal space? Being overly friendly? Trying to smooch to a fast song? Not taking no for an answer?
Are these guys the only gropers on the site (or off it)? Or at the munch? Think about it.
Gropers exist and are not welcome. agreed.
What bothers me a great deal is that they are referred to as Asians - not young guys, or students, or a couple of troublemaking lads. . . .in the title of this thread.
How can we complain about a couple of guys who stuck out because of their colour when we were having a grand old time flirting our tits off with as many people as we fancied, TOTALLY ignoring the general public ? Except for the (white) rugby players having their own fun on the dancefloor, and they had big hands...how come they are not also sullied? They were well dodgy.
Why are the Asians singled out as gropers after the event and yet no one actually said anything at the time?
I’m sorry I disagree with this thread in many ways. They should be kept off the site and away from munches, yes, of course, but there are many many guys who ‘give single guys a bad name’ to quote kinkyluton. The title thread sullies more than their singledom.
please correct me if I am wrong.
What is groping, actually ?
Touching a woman without asking her in a place he shouldn’t? Invading personal space? Being overly friendly? Trying to smooch to a fast song? Not taking no for an answer?
Are these guys the only gropers on the site (or off it)? Or at the munch? Think about it.
Gropers exist and are not welcome. agreed.
What bothers me a great deal is that they are referred to as Asians - not young guys, or students, or a couple of troublemaking lads. . . .in the title of this thread.
How can we complain about a couple of guys who stuck out because of their colour when we were having a grand old time flirting our tits off with as many people as we fancied, TOTALLY ignoring the general public ? Except for the (white) rugby players having their own fun on the dancefloor, and they had big hands...how come they are not also sullied? They were well dodgy.
Why are the Asians singled out as gropers after the event and yet no one actually said anything at the time?
I’m sorry I disagree with this thread in many ways. They should be kept off the site and away from munches, yes, of course, but there are many many guys who ‘give single guys a bad name’ to quote kinkyluton. The title thread sullies more than their singledom.
please correct me if I am wrong.
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Orgasms I can fake in an instant. Just have to plug me mike in and think of past shags.
I could be of help to you........and I give you good price.
Quote by roaster
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And why would I believe you could make me CUM when so many others fail?
Because you have a long tongue and a big dick?
If only it were always that simple...........
good luck ..
Quote by Jags
But this wasn't a private party - it was a munch and as such there shouldn't have been any playing. That's the point of munches. Surely it's to meet others in a SOCAL setting without any pressures of play? Private function is a more suitable term. See threads passim for the discussions about the differences between parties and munches - seems very clear to me.
:P
Yes perhaps it was the wrong word but there was more 'activity' than you would find on an average night out. Its about mood, isn't it? Guys pick up on the sexy vibe and by playing I mean girls snogging, bums flashing, everyone being very 'friendly'. It is what makes a munch and I love it all . I have snogged many many girls and do not disagree with it - jesus - but if done in a public place repeatedly and with such obvious enjoyment, these ignorant men (I am not generalising but specifying) will take it as an invitation to try their luck.
I will check out the thread you mention though.
And yes Chris you are right it should NOT be tolerated. But if it is causing a problem - do something about it. No point moaning about it afterwards. Just get someone to have a word, maybe ask them to leave. As would be done on a friday night in any pub, when some of the lads have been on the hard stuff and the girls are showing their bits. I wouldn't tolerate it - absolutely. But I didn't see any trouble that night, apart from some well dodgy impostors.
Quote by marmalaid
I would have no problems going there again. I would be more vigilant against those that might wish to molest my friends, but I wouldn’t be put off going.
Chris
Nor would I Chris. Nor should anyone. Yes we get this behaviour anywhere and it is unacceptable. But I would PREFER a more private venue, thats all. Private parties are meant to be that. So we can play freely amongst likeminded friends and not provoke ignorant hangers-on who stumble upon a munch and mistake our behaviour for something they can join in with. Public place . Public playing.
I am not criticising the venue - just saying that this is to be expected, given the brain activity of horny young men.
Okay I have given this reply some thought, in the circumstances. Here is what I have come up with.
Firstly, as great as the munch was, there were a certain amount of non-SHers lurking about...especially towards the end of the night. I got talking to three quite rough-looking burly rugby players who looked smugger than cats when approached by me regarding their usernames. They had never heard of the site and had somehow picked up some badges. I approached them on the dance floor - where they stood ogling the sexy sexy ladies dancing their stilettoes were not hassling as such but were definitely 'getting a good look'. I got their names and their intentions and left it at that - as I say - they were not threatening, just definitely not part of our community, and definitely enjoying the show. I didnt mention it to Steph because it was so obvioulsy a public bar that I think it would have been hard to get rid of them.
Now, as a few others have said, if we hold a munch in a venue as public as that, and we walk around with hardly any clothes on, problems like this are BOUND to happen.
I know as much as any other woman that what men do is wrong - let's face
it some are brainless when faced with alcohol and provocatively dressed women. As one example, my dancing partner (lovely though she is) was wearing hold ups and a skirt shorter than a hankie. There was tight PVC, 10-inch heels...boobs almost popping out....I was not exactly 'covered up' myself and am not criticising. But when ignorant guys like this see this kind of get-up...and girls snogging girls and very sexy names on badges and people playing pool that quite frankly bordered on foreplay and men squeezing bums etc etc etc....they do not stop to think about their actions and just try to jump onboard and act the same as everyone else.
If some groped and did not take no for an answer it is because they are stupid and have no manners or respect. But at the end of the day we get that anywhere we go and I for one would not rush to security. A punch in the face is a good idea but being the non-violent type it is not something I would actually do.
I think what has been established with this thread is that we need to ensure munches are held in purely private venues. I know Steph had booked a private room but as numbers went down we had to remain in the bar area. So hardly her fault.
I just wanted to make my comments. I had a great munch, regardless.
Firstly, as great as the munch was, there were a certain amount of non-SHers lurking about...especially towards the end of the night. I got talking to three quite rough-looking burly rugby players who looked smugger than cats when approached by me regarding their usernames. They had never heard of the site and had somehow picked up some badges. I approached them on the dance floor - where they stood ogling the sexy sexy ladies dancing their stilettoes were not hassling as such but were definitely 'getting a good look'. I got their names and their intentions and left it at that - as I say - they were not threatening, just definitely not part of our community, and definitely enjoying the show. I didnt mention it to Steph because it was so obvioulsy a public bar that I think it would have been hard to get rid of them.
Now, as a few others have said, if we hold a munch in a venue as public as that, and we walk around with hardly any clothes on, problems like this are BOUND to happen.
I know as much as any other woman that what men do is wrong - let's face
it some are brainless when faced with alcohol and provocatively dressed women. As one example, my dancing partner (lovely though she is) was wearing hold ups and a skirt shorter than a hankie. There was tight PVC, 10-inch heels...boobs almost popping out....I was not exactly 'covered up' myself and am not criticising. But when ignorant guys like this see this kind of get-up...and girls snogging girls and very sexy names on badges and people playing pool that quite frankly bordered on foreplay
and men squeezing bums etc etc etc....they do not stop to think about their actions and just try to jump onboard and act the same as everyone else.If some groped and did not take no for an answer it is because they are stupid and have no manners or respect. But at the end of the day we get that anywhere we go and I for one would not rush to security. A punch in the face is a good idea but being the non-violent type it is not something I would actually do.
I think what has been established with this thread is that we need to ensure munches are held in purely private venues. I know Steph had booked a private room but as numbers went down we had to remain in the bar area. So hardly her fault.
I just wanted to make my comments. I had a great munch, regardless.
I've been forgetting all day....now I've remembered to remember -
Bev and Chris - it was lovely to meet you....you make a great couple and I look forward to longer chats some time...
Marmalaid - he of the luscious lips lol. next time ask me a question don't run off !xxx
sure there's others but I'm doing me best...
xx
Bev and Chris - it was lovely to meet you....you make a great couple and I look forward to longer chats some time...
Marmalaid - he of the luscious lips lol. next time ask me a question don't run off !xxx
sure there's others but I'm doing me best...
xx
....but thank Quote by well_busty_babe
"SunBunny,
You are a top bird,
You have a great wit,
Then theres also the fact
That you have great tits?
:twisted:
You are hot as hell,
But I know my place,
Is there any chance
You will sit on my face?
I just wanted to send
This ditty to you
"Happy Valentines SunBunny"
Can you guess from who?
Anon"
a few names spring to mind.....but I think I've cracked it lol
Thank you xxxx
Thanks tosexysteph andvoddies - was great to meet you....you know the rest xx
Da69ve- I think it is me who should be thanking you
Fabio- What a complete sweetie you are. Hope you're planning that surprise.......
Marcuso- You are such a happy thing even when you're snogging.... great to see you
Wishmaster - I hear dunstables lovely this time of year.... andBlondeslave - you looked beautiful
PoloLady -
LC - Sorry I diidn't see you mate and no - I certainly wasn't hiding. Did you not see me making Lusty dizzy on the dance floor? That girl can move - and her pool is as bad as mine but I laughed till I ached. Sexy lady.
DukeReid and Mimms, last time I saw you you were enjoying yourselves immensely.
MikeNorth - I'm still thinking of bloody celeb nics.... great thread. :cheers:
Vicky - loved the red dress and then the black number....
LilMiss - almost forgot u hun - keep smiling it suits you.
HardnLusty- You are totally diamond. So glad you made it down. That is the funniest sexiest pool I've played in a long time
And nice to meet
HannahnAlex- very sexy couple but alex you need to buy cheaper shirts mate - or at least ones that are not flammable....
Alex_Female- WOW. I never seen a white suit look so yummy.
Daz_Diggler- it was brief but I remember you were smiling
Tanina , PoisonDwarf, Friendly, Cuddle Bunny, the Muttleys, Medic (any pics yet???)....glad I got to meet you
....sure I've forgotten a few but hey. Its been a long day.
Oh. And a big shout out toBigDanny who ended up missing his first taste of munching. Not long till the next one mate.
Nite all.
Da69ve- I think it is me who should be thanking you
Fabio- What a complete sweetie you are. Hope you're planning that surprise.......
Marcuso- You are such a happy thing even when you're snogging.... great to see you
Wishmaster - I hear dunstables lovely this time of year.... andBlondeslave - you looked beautiful
PoloLady -
LC - Sorry I diidn't see you mate
and no - I certainly wasn't hiding. Did you not see me making Lusty dizzy on the dance floor? That girl can move - and her pool is as bad as mine but I laughed till I ached. Sexy lady.DukeReid and Mimms, last time I saw you you were enjoying yourselves immensely.
MikeNorth - I'm still thinking of bloody celeb nics.... great thread. :cheers:
Vicky - loved the red dress and then the black number....
LilMiss - almost forgot u hun - keep smiling it suits you.
HardnLusty- You are totally diamond. So glad you made it down. That is the funniest sexiest pool I've played in a long time
And nice to meet
HannahnAlex- very sexy couple but alex you need to buy cheaper shirts mate - or at least ones that are not flammable....
Alex_Female- WOW. I never seen a white suit look so yummy.
Daz_Diggler- it was brief but I remember you were smiling
Tanina , PoisonDwarf, Friendly, Cuddle Bunny, the Muttleys, Medic (any pics yet???)....glad I got to meet you
....sure I've forgotten a few but hey. Its been a long day.
Oh. And a big shout out toBigDanny who ended up missing his first taste of munching. Not long till the next one mate.
Nite all.
Danny I was looking for you mate - wondered where you were and thought how hard can it be to spot a guy your size I won't make you jealous and tell you you missed a fantastic night. But let this be a lesson - next time tell the yanks you are far too busy and that munches come first.
Sorry about the crash - at least no one was hurt, which is the main thing.
See you next time maybe xx
I won't make you jealous and tell you you missed a fantastic night. But let this be a lesson - next time tell the yanks you are far too busy and that munches come first. Sorry about the crash - at least no one was hurt, which is the main thing.
See you next time maybe xx
