Quote by Al_mighty
Hi Suze,
A common problem amongst couples of any age..and not just couples may I add!
A relationship needs to be worked on at every turn..from the bedroom to the kitchen..know what I'm saying?
Take me..I work hard and play hard and no matter what type of woman I end up with I have my faults..but one thing is I'm never boring!
So its upto you..you both either start doing something together or you both start to lead separate lives..its that simple.
Well best of Al_mighty luv, think we are already leading separate lives already!!
Regards
Al
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Quote by shortouseI cant sleep either, just wanna say hi and welcome - i love it on here!!
Thanks both. Looks like I'm the only sad git left here, as I'm having trouble sleeping tonight!
Hope I can keep up with all the quick wits on here. My partner reckons I'm good at holding my own anyway.:twisted:
Looking forward to getting to know people.
Quote by shortouseI know we have problems and after being together for almost 22 yrs we do love each other but everytime i bring the problem up he ignores me. He has suggested we go to Utopia and i said "u could never do that, how could u shag someone else, a stranger, when u cant shag me". He didnt answer so i have had to resort to other measures suffice to say. Its now am, i cant sleep, and this is getting a bit too heavy for this time of night so ill leave it there xx
Dammit he has the opposite problem to me. Reckon we (he and I that is) ought to swap places! :twisted:
Seriously tho'... I was once a 'sleeping' partner, because it all became too comfortable and easy, and I thought my partner had lost interest in sex.
It led to a downhill spiral, and by the time we tried to sort it out, it was too late.
So first Suze, as others have said, talk to him about it. If you still love each other, then you need to put some excitement into your relationship. Get out on the town together, get some sexy undies and get partying... (But not necessarily in that order
My guess is he is not getting it elsewhere... Sounds like he just needs energising!
Of course if he has lost interest, and cannot be rejuvenated, then that's a bigger problem for you...
Good luck Suze :therethere:
I watch Trisha most mornings whilst im cleaning the lounge, it makes me feel like my life is ok and i cant believe some of the clothes the people wear on there, if i was going on tv i would wanna look my best!! Also dont some of the couples look totally mismatched! Bit sick of allthe Car Booty, Bargain Hunt type of programmes, anyway dont seem to be watching anything now ive discovered SH!!!! 
Quote by fun4acoupleJenny Ellison is lovely till she opens her mouth!!
who would it be and why? It dont have to be one person, you could have a massive gang bang hehe
me i choose jennifer ellison see my sig because is is so sexy :P :P , now going to go bed and dream of her with me and my man
(oh and try to paste pics to makes it much better)
Quote by Nomad_Soul
MUNCHIES
Munchies are milk chocolate covered sweets with a soft caramel and crisp biscuit centre. Launched in 1957, this product is available in a tube and also a hanging bag.
Whereas a Munch is a meeting of like-minded souls, usually in a pub, club, cafe or restaurant, where you can meet and greet other members of the site in a public environment for a drink and a chat.
Its a great way of meeting the rest of the crew, as mad as they are, but there you go
Don't say you haven't been warned
Thanks for telling me what a Munchie is, sounds intriguing, bet they dont have any going on around here tho!!! Quote by RedHotAre u serious???? About the bj thing, i can honestly say ive never noticed! Making me think now :shock:
Good luck Steve and remember this little incentive . . .
I prefer giving bj's to non smokers 'cos they don't taste like an ashtray
. . . . . see you in June
Tracy-Jayne
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Addictive, ill say, not fed my kids for days, work what work, ironing what ironing, life what life lol
Hiya Suze, welcome to Swinging Heaven and all that it encompasses. Don't worry about the kids, they'll evolve. Work is unavoidable i'm afraid
. Don't worry about the ironing, it'll not hurt it to stand awhile. Now then as for your life, you may find that you encounter major changes here that make you forget the first three anyway, most of us have Just relax, grab a beer ( or wine or whatever) and have a little Suze-time. You'll be glad that you have
Have fun, and see you around Thank you so much for this reply, really made me smile which after the evening ive just had i need! mwah mwah mwah xx
i will try and put a pic up later, not sure how to reduce the size of my errrr pic!! Thanks for the replies - so lovely!! Im from Telford, im 5ft 6, shoulder length chestnut hair, dark brown eyes, curvaceous and sexy!! Interested in all of you!! Addictive, ill say, not fed my kids for days, work what work, ironing what ironing, life what life lol xxxxxxxx
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