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TallFunLondon
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 49
0 miles · Greater London

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Somebody else mentioned this the other day - I had a look at it. Club review bit was good but rest not really!
Quote by AtomCom
The title of the thread is "Black are not on average bigger"
So we are now on the right topic

so why in your original post did you start on about racism and get everyone wound up as that word always, quite rightly, does?
I know its not pc to mention him these days but would have to be Wacko Jacko on his 'Bad' Tour at Wembley in the 80's - was only young at the time but remember being spellbound.
Hi Jane - it sounds like in your case BBW should mean Big Breasted Woman!!
Difficult to say - not being an expert - but from experience your size in my book does not label you a BBW - but then who is to say!!??
Hi Lisalust - welcome and enjoy - and dont get too addicted too quickly - well actually - do.... lol :lol:
I might be a single guy but always make home-made yorkshire puddings if eating beef and equally home-made bread sauce when eating chicken - cant beat it. (in my opinion - although the m and s bread sauce is good - haven't found a good alternative to home-made yorkshires)
Quote by northwest-cpl
Not much. Same as, same as.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/63698.html
lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

:lol: :lol: :lol: - as you say same as - same as.... :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by Mister_Discreet
'Only do to thers as you would have them do to you'

Ruins things if you are purely sub or dom though!
very good - like you angle of thinking, hadn't crossed my mind! :thumbup:
My favourite quote and its the only one I know from the Bible as am not a religious person but goes something like.....
....'Only do to others as you would have them do to you'
Matthew chapter 7 verse 12 ( I think)
..seems to be pretty good logic to set your morals by....
Was just reading a thread this morning about moral v immoral and got me thinking - hope this isn't too heavy for a monday morning and hope it makes sense...
.....do you think morals are defined by society or by religion - personally think that originally our morals were put in place by religion many years ago and therefore as swinging is probably very much against the morals of the church this would suggest that swingers are moral less....is this a valid point or a bit random? - lol
Quote by Ice Pie
What blue said....
.....although the fact I am lucky and have a high metabolism and can never put on weight makes it easy to say!

Make the most of it while you can... I was like that and then one day my body said "Right you bastard, I've been very patient but you've abused me for 35 years... now you PAY!" :lol2:
Am keeping a close eye on my ageing father but doesn't seem to have kicked in yet.
And yes I might be lucky in that respect but when its as cold as it is this morning would prefer some more padding!!
My only fear is snakes in the wild.
can feel the goosebumps coming up at the thought,
have had two crashes in my life - both at over 100mph - not fun and does shake you up - good old RAC.
No sympathy - promise!!
As someone has already said the ultimate thing we be to find a life partner with the same mentality and not a green eyed monster.
Unlikely to be that lucky but you never know!!
What blue said....
.....although the fact I am lucky and have a high metabolism and can never put on weight makes it easy to say!
Lots of people saying they dont like it but also clearly watch it. If you want it off the screen then stop watching it and they will then stop making it!!
My parents are great - always there when you need them and had more than a little to do with who I am today so never knock them even when they wind me up.
Quote by Alexandra
Someone said this site is immoral.
Is it or do we just have different morals to the mundanes?
I have morals!
I don't paly with women at my work or my wife's.
I don't play with friends and family even if I do want to play with my wife's 3 sisters, OH and I do want to.
I alway use a condom when I play away.
I do not peach swinging to the mundanes.

I think calling non swingers MUNDANE is a bit of an insult personally!
Just because people don't swing - does not make them mundane, if fact they may have a far more exiting life than you do. Perhaps their sex life with their partner is tremendously exciting and fulfilling, so they feel no desire or need for other diversions.
You may feel their lives are mundane compared to yours sexually- but that is purely your opinion and one for which you can have no basis as you have no real idea of their sex lives.
If you had said vanilla that is more acceptable and less derogotary.
Just my thoughts.
Alex I agree with you on that one - nicely put.
Elliott - hope the beer is good.
Were you expecting this onslaught?
Seems to me that once everyone, including me earlier, have voiced there concerns over this weekend then you need to keep us regularly updated on what you are doing and what effect it will have. Perphaps even start threads about your plans and see if any of the regulars have ideas in which they can help.
Not much anyone can do but say hope you get to understand this 'community' before you make any big changes and keep us informed.
I agree a whole hearted welcome - think everyone got very excited when the initial post was made - including myself - and no doubt others will when they see it for the first time - but on reflection - welcome and I hope we can help you keep everyone happy!
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though noone was supposed to be mentioning this till it was announced, or have i missed something confused

was announced - its in a sticky.
Welcome to the newbie owners - think Alex's suggestion is sensible - if you are going to be transparent about it all then be transparent about yourselves and let us know a bit about you....
.....hope you have settled in for a friday night of questions!! lol :lol:
Quote by naughtynymphos1
every bit of humour seemed to be at the expense of some minority group

but isn't that the whole point of little britain? dunno
thinking about it your right - but before yesterday's the humour had been funny was as lots nights with the odd exception was about being scandalous - which didn't work for me but may have just been in an odd mood as was in fact no different to how it is usually!
Quote by Phoenix
Couple of things...
might wanna run spybot or sommit similar everytime you leave the site in case we start having more tacking cookies dropped on us,
and also do some IP Masking....

sounds good - but in laymans terms? IP masking??
I'll try...basically when ur on the net u send out your IP address...which is a sort of registration number of yer PC....if you mask it when you get on to the web you go through via a 3rd party which could be on the moon and gives u completely different ip address. just sort of limits commercial entities from profiling you...(which they do !)
Generally unnecessary, unless you're doing something illegal.
Thanks guys - but as long as swinging remains legal (and free!!!) then should be ok!