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winchy ......what are you doing on the "virgin" thread.......
Quote by markz
I hate throwing away food and make less food rather than throw it away. I'm always checking best before dates and cook accordingly. I think throwing away food is a kick in the teeth to all the starving people in the world..............
amen to that markz i think i love you :thumbup: 
Quote by easyeasehow about talking to your wife and telling her what you feel? what are you scared of? her rejecting you? I can assure you that she would be more hurt by lies and deception of you cheating than your honesty in expressing your feelings.
Ok, Easyease
put your self in my shoes for one minute. I'm in a relationship, (married 14 years, 2 kids) wife devolops medical condition that reduces libedo to zero, then has operation now finds sex painful and has zero urge to have sex. so if it's so easy, black and white what do I do? bearing in mind I am still emotionaly involved with my wife? a little light relief on this web site or break up the family? or give up sex? I have never cheated yet but I may be tempted in the future and many in my position would be tempted to. Ask yourself what would you do? not an easy one, no matter what you do someone gets hurt hardly suprising people arn't allways honest, although I would not play with anyone else without telling them my situation first. At the end of the day there's always a but, if,or a maybe. Personaly for me I'd rather be in the same group as others in a similar situation and not have to explain myself to people who just want to drag you through the mud because you are not as fortunate as they are. Their been honest, now tear me to shreds.
Quote by northeastcoupleukya must go to the same bra shop
i apparently have a lookalikey from the same town as me :shock: i wonder if anyone has ever approached her and said "hey ur that swinger aint ya"
Quote by easyeasefair enough, people like that shouldnt be surprised at hearing a point of view they dont like when they chat about this subject in a someones stupid enough to ask the op's original question then dont be surprised if they get some flack for it.
easyease every man married or otherwise pays his money like the rest of us what they do here is their business as has previously been said it is not just the men but women to
Quote by Bonedigger
d'ya know what, I usually take everything I read on this forums with a pinch of salt, much prefering to bumble along in my own little bubble of happiness.
Its very rare I will stick my head above the parapet and rock the boat, by speaking my mijnd or my true I am truly disgusted at the way this thread has progressed. It has turned into a witch hunt against singlies who for whatever reason chose to seek physical love with another person without their partners knowledge.
There have been some very well though out and salient points, on both sides, but also some downright rude and aggressive posts. Its up to PERSONAL choice as to why people decide to seek sex with another person outside their relationship, and PERSONAL choice if you wish to play with people who do so without their partners knowledge or consent.
But to slag other people off for doing so is not on, and to start flinging names and slurs about because you have suffered personally from a cheating partner, and tarring everyone with the same brush, smacks of bullying. The people who do what they do are not freaks or monsters, they are people, with feelings, and as such deserve respect, civility and manners, as a basic human right.
I am appalled that in this day and age, people can be judged so badly by people that they have never even met, and that such negetive feelings can be spewed forth without so much a s a by your leave. A lot of people have been very hurt by comments on this thread, and it seems that the original OP has skipped off after lighting the blue touch paper.
We cannot all be fortunate enough to be in a perfect relationship, and for everything to be hunky dory, i have said it before, and will say it again....there but for the grace of god go any of us.
And I hope that those who have spat bile and venom on this thread, never need any support or sympathy at any time, and be shot down in flames like some people have been on here.
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oooooooooooh im confused... (doesnt take much...) are you answering me uk or fanny?? either way .. hello!
ehehehehe xx
hello furby im getting confused now :haha: i was replying to fanny aka tan i think 
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i know im new to forums........but can i flirt with everyone?? or is that being to greedy..... anyway .. big hugs an loads of wet sloppy kisses to everyone..
furby xxxxx
erm yes im not a new member 
i just never realised you had a single account too till now, i even perved it a couple of times too. :therethere: 
nps i just thought everyone knew by now Quote by Ukwineman
but its still down to common sense.
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I don't make soup from chicken carcass cos I don't trust the carcass the next day, yes I know I'm being over cautious but I'm so flippin wary all the time. I would maybe make a curry with left over meat the next day but that would be it.
I've done a food hygiene course and can see the horrors of re heated food, especially rice that's the worst of the lot! :
Quote by jaymar
Just looking at how the voting has changed since the start of the thread.
I'm now wondering if the married folk playing away are the silent majority on SH as most of the people in the Cafe seem like 'proper' swingers. I'd hazard a guess that if the poll was PM'd to all the members (who logged in during the last couple of weeks) the vote would be much higher?
) unless ya got 10 memberships Quote by Mrcoupleseekfun
My missus is on strike this year after me and our son were taking the piss out of her sat in our car about a month ago.....hence i now cook it or we dont eat
Dont get me wrong, i can knock up a chilli or spag bol no probs, but i havent got a scooby where to start for a christmas dinner.
Chicken & mushroom pie, chips & beans it is then
Anyone have "an idiots guide to cooking xmas dinner"?
im doing a takeaway xmas dinner service pick ups only though 
does the quote" its only easy if ya know how" come into this 
Quote by jaymar
Just looking at how the voting has changed since the start of the thread.
I'm now wondering if the married folk playing away are the silent majority on SH as most of the people in the Cafe seem like 'proper' swingers. I'd hazard a guess that if the poll was PM'd to all the members (who logged in during the last couple of weeks) the vote would be much higher?
) unless ya got 10 memberships 
Quote by Mrcoupleseekfun
My missus is on strike this year after me and our son were taking the piss out of her sat in our car about a month ago.....hence i now cook it or we dont eat
Dont get me wrong, i can knock up a chilli or spag bol no probs, but i havent got a scooby where to start for a christmas dinner.
Chicken & mushroom pie, chips & beans it is then
Anyone have "an idiots guide to cooking xmas dinner"?
im doing a takeaway xmas dinner service pick ups only though Quote by robhambledon
My missus is on strike this year after me and our son were taking the piss out of her sat in our car about a month ago.....hence i now cook it or we dont eat
Dont get me wrong, i can knock up a chilli or spag bol no probs, but i havent got a scooby where to start for a christmas dinner.
Chicken & mushroom pie, chips & beans it is then
Anyone have "an idiots guide to cooking xmas dinner"?
Quote by easyease
true stormwalker, some are even lazier and think a wink is an invitation for sex with no communication required.
Quote by Mrcoupleseekfun
My missus is on strike this year after me and our son were taking the piss out of her sat in our car about a month ago.....hence i now cook it or we dont eat
Dont get me wrong, i can knock up a chilli or spag bol no probs, but i havent got a scooby where to start for a christmas dinner.
Chicken & mushroom pie, chips & beans it is then
Anyone have "an idiots guide to cooking xmas dinner"?
Quote by westerross
My unread emails are not showing up bold either. I've missed one or two as a result
Now that is a technical hitch isn't it?
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Quote by Ukwineman
i know im new to forums........but can i flirt with everyone?? or is that being to greedy..... anyway .. big hugs an loads of wet sloppy kisses to everyone..
furby xxxxx
erm yes im not a new member Quote by FurbyHug
i know im new to forums........but can i flirt with everyone?? or is that being to greedy..... anyway .. big hugs an loads of wet sloppy kisses to everyone..
furby xxxxx
s ouch ouch ouch