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Tania
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 60
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Quote by Shireen_Mids
I take it you have a severe distrust of the medical profession then???
If you cant trust a doctor to take care of you who can you trust
Shireen
Yep, you are right! I have seen too many omissions and errors to be able to trust. My dad would have lived if the docs attending to him had any idea of CPR. He might have lived if the ambulance men had an equipped ambulance and knew how to use the equipment. He would have lived if I had taken control of the situation and given him a prohibited injection to the heart at the right moment and not been intimidated by the doctor who was supposed to know better. I would have gladly gone into prison if it would have saved my dad's life.
Of course my issues with the medical profession in this country are based on what I have seen/experienced. I find doctors here to be too arrogant. They are reluctant to talk plain to their patients, they are reluctant to involve patients in their care. To them we are all like small children best kept unaware. Having said that, I have come across some doctors who were different and treated me like an equal so perhaps things may be changing.
Quote by kinkyred99
Tania,
Your body is full of raging hormones at the minute. Nature is telling it to settle down and "nest" and this is why you are feeling so strongly for him. I'm sure you joined this site thinking it would be straightforward but unfortunately your pregnancy is controlling the situation at the minute - not you
I hope that I have more sense in me than to look for someone to settle with becauseof the baby.
I just wish I could relay to you how it felt to sit across him at a table, listen to his voice, stare into his eyes trying to burn his image into my memory. He is handsome but in a very down to earth way. That means that to others he would seem to be riddled with flaws but to me they are added character. After all 'beauty is in the eyes of the beholder'!
But I will take it easy and be less aggressive; this way I may even give him a chance to show his feelings! LOL
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Thanks for all your replies. I will sleep on it and come up with a decision tomorrow.
:doh: When will you people ever learn? You don'ttrust docs to put you under anaesthesia in this country! God knows what they get up to whilst you are out. I mean think about it: what's the point of being careful intubating you when you are not likely to swing a fist at them?
Be alert, be very alert! :jagsatwork:
Be alert, be very alert! :jagsatwork:
Quote by Bloke2005
Just trying to help - no offence intended
No offence taken.
Although my ad did not stay up long (think it was up for 3 days max), those who read it thought it was a decent ad, not the type 'horny woman seeks cock now' that one often sees. I had tons of replies to my ad - over 200. Out of these only about 5 stood out; his was one of the first and it was not a 'I want to shag you, here's a pic of my cock' type.
My stories are just stories - meant to entertain and titilate. I could as easily write a manual on how to operate the DVD unit as I could write a sexy story.
What amazed me about the first meeting we had was that he was keen on me. I have met lots of men and can normally tell the guy who is only after sex from the guy who is genuinely interested in me. You can't fake the spark, or can you?
I am still not sure I would be able to pour all my thoughts/feelings out though as some people have suggested. I am afraid it will scare him off.
Quote by HungryP
I must admit that would probably have confused me a bit, with it being a swinging site, & the fact that you went to his room!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
I know that going up to a guy's room is not the decent thing to do but the hotel did not have any comfortable seats at the bar (all were tiny armchairs that I wouldn't fit in) and there was a group of guys who eyed me in the most offensive and degrading way making me feel awfully uncomfortable. I made sure to explain how I felt before asking if it would be OK to go sit at his room. I am a straight forward person, would never go roundabouts and find excuses to do something. But of course a man cannot know that unless he spends time getting to know me.
Quote by foxylady 123
Perhaps hes confussed? This is a swinging site and i suppose its easy to assume that if you advertise on here your after getting laid.
He could be confused, he is human after all. As for the swinging bit, as you may be aware, I have not done it yet; it is just a fantasy at this point. But it is a fantasy worth exploring with a significant other.
Quote by SunBunny
Tania, what's the hurry?
Tell him you are not ready to meet yet, that you need more chat, more getting-to-know-you...
He is not the communicating type of guy. He can just about manage a text message and a one-liner in email. He hasn't asked me any questions, hasn't tried to find out more about me. I feel like I have been chasing him all this time, pushing him to react. This is probably why I feel uneasy. Maybe I have given him the wrong impression. Maybe he thinks well if she's gagging for it, I'd better give her some... don't know.
Quote by Vix
Sounds like you might be thinking of him 'relationship' wise, TBH. Is that what you want?
Yes, I am thinking of him that way.
Quote by Vix
Is that how you want to come across to him?
No, that will just scare him off and make me look like a fool!
Quote by Vix
Re-evaluate what you are after. If it's a good seeing-to, then go get laid. If it's a relationship, then take it steady.
I can get plenty of regular satisfying sex from 'friends'. I need more in life than physical sensations.
Quote by Vix
If you just go get laid, though, it may just turn into a relationship when you're not looking.
What if I continue not to be sexually attracted to him? I know last time I was very tired and in a negative frame of mind due to pregnancy aches. Anyway, is it fair to have sex with a man hoping for more?
Quote by foxylady 123
Tania,
Im confussed, maybe its my flu but can you explain what you mean by "met " him. Was this for a drink or more, not being nosey but it really does have a bearing on any advice to be given!!
Met him couple of weeks ago or so, we had dinner and then stayed up in his room talking till late. Didn't do the dirty deed as I did not feel in the mood. Thereafter he lessened contact despite showing me great enthusiasm up to saying goodnight.
Help!
I got myself in a sticky situation and now I am not sure what to do.
First guy I met via my ad (the one I felt so attracted to personality-wise) wants to meet again. He wants us to spend a night at a hotel but I am not sure I am ready to do that.
I want to see him again and have been trying to entice him by sending him a pic of erotic content (yeah, I know, bad me!) And now his interest is rekindled, I am worried sick. I feel I may have led him on. My self confidence has abandoned me. I think that any man in his shoes would have reacted this way, it is not me he wants, it is the sex he is after.
*sigh*
I think I messed up. I think he will never take me seriously now and, if I do not go all the way, he will be angry with me and never talk to me again.
I guess if I were not really interested in him, did not really like him (sort of gazing at him and drinking in his words and gestures like a thirsty person who's just come off a week in the desert) it would not matter much. Just one more man in a long line of men does not make a difference - it is water gliding over a duck's body.
Don't know what to do. Should I come up with an excuse not to meet and try and forget about him? Should I let him travel halfway across England to meet and leave him wanting? (<< it does not seem fair). I feel very vulnerable right now and totally out of control. I am sure he does not feel the same way I feel about him. I am sure I am just a matter of convenience to him and probably safer to date due to the distance than a local girl who could turn up at his doorstep and trouble him.
Please help me make sense of my mixed emotions! Help me do the right thing.
Thanks.
I got myself in a sticky situation and now I am not sure what to do.
First guy I met via my ad (the one I felt so attracted to personality-wise) wants to meet again. He wants us to spend a night at a hotel but I am not sure I am ready to do that.
I want to see him again and have been trying to entice him by sending him a pic of erotic content (yeah, I know, bad me!) And now his interest is rekindled, I am worried sick. I feel I may have led him on. My self confidence has abandoned me. I think that any man in his shoes would have reacted this way, it is not me he wants, it is the sex he is after.
*sigh*
I think I messed up. I think he will never take me seriously now and, if I do not go all the way, he will be angry with me and never talk to me again.
I guess if I were not really interested in him, did not really like him (sort of gazing at him and drinking in his words and gestures like a thirsty person who's just come off a week in the desert) it would not matter much. Just one more man in a long line of men does not make a difference - it is water gliding over a duck's body.
Don't know what to do. Should I come up with an excuse not to meet and try and forget about him? Should I let him travel halfway across England to meet and leave him wanting? (<< it does not seem fair). I feel very vulnerable right now and totally out of control. I am sure he does not feel the same way I feel about him. I am sure I am just a matter of convenience to him and probably safer to date due to the distance than a local girl who could turn up at his doorstep and trouble him.
Please help me make sense of my mixed emotions! Help me do the right thing.
Thanks.
Oh oh poor girl, here, here! There's a cuddle, how does that feel? Shall I go make you a nice hot chocolate drink and bring you your favourite magazine whilst you lie on the sofa recovering from your bad experience?
PS: an endoscopy via your throat is better than an endoscopy via your bum... think about it and smile girl!
PS: an endoscopy via your throat is better than an endoscopy via your bum... think about it and smile girl!
Glad to hear you got seen and diagnosed. You will now need to rest quite a bit and always keep the foot up on a footstool. I am surprised they did not recommend a splint. There are these removable ones nowadays that have velcro straps and you can wear them when you go to bed to ensure you do not move your foot awkwardly and cause yourself undue distress.
I would suggest you see a podiatrist privately for further advice. It shouldn't cost you an arm and a leg to consult one (heheheh... get it? ;) ) and you will get full care instructions and reassurance. Make sure to ask him/her about bathing your foot - allowed/not allowed/what temperatures are safe/how long for.
As for the rest of your problems
a) use a buttplug
b) wear safety shoes next time you dabble with building a computer
Regards
I would suggest you see a podiatrist privately for further advice. It shouldn't cost you an arm and a leg to consult one (heheheh... get it? ;) ) and you will get full care instructions and reassurance. Make sure to ask him/her about bathing your foot - allowed/not allowed/what temperatures are safe/how long for.
As for the rest of your problems
a) use a buttplug
b) wear safety shoes next time you dabble with building a computer
Regards
Soon we will be having sex wrapped up in giant condoms. You want sex? Have a dip in the latex pool first and then stand under the blow dryer. Men must ensure they already have an erection before entering the pool.
I sometimes wonder whether all these diseases are nature's way of keeping the population down...
I sometimes wonder whether all these diseases are nature's way of keeping the population down...
Quote by xxdevil69
Well I looked through the list of affected foods and figured that I've already eaten a load of it anyway so there's not much point me getting rid of the rest
And what about junior? Is he/she a willing participant to research? :cry:
Quote by SunBunny
*sigh*
The fresher the better of course but our lifestyle is so rushed that we cannot avoid convenience and processed foods.
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You mean all these frantic hours posting crap???
YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT.
I hate eating crap. Pot Noodles should be banished from the planet. And if you like ketchup on your chips - why not just pour 2 spoons of sugar over them and watch your teeth deteriorate......?
Sorry. I have VERY strong views on processed food......
I don't spend frantic hours posting crap. I spend frantic hours trying to find something of interest.
Personally I try and cook fresh because that was the way I was brought up, but I can't blame others for using lots of processed convenience foods.
If you have never had a hamburger/KFC/doner kebab/chinese/microwave dinners/canned soup or spaghetti or sausages or ham/frozen meat or vegs and Sunday roasts with heaps of Bisto on them, then you deserve a special medal.
I read somewhere (forget where) that some school children were taught about the carrot and were surprised to see it in whole form as they thought carrots came in frozen packages, in neat little shapes. Also my friend told me that when they run an inner city farm in Wales for underprivileged children, the kids were amazed to find out that milk came from goats/cows.
Can't wait for Jamie's programme tomorrow. Hope he manages to change school children's food habits.
Quote by Libra-Love
Ah.....But if any amount of money did tempt you, then as Winston Churchill said, ma'am we've already established what you are, now we're negotiating the price.
No amount of money could buy me, I'm pretty priceless me
Agreed that you are priceless. However, one could argue for the sake of argument that every human being has his/her price. Some do it only after a drink, others do it only after a meal, others do it only after several dates that include romantic gestures such as candlelit dinners, flowers and chocolates. Then there are women who will only go to bed with a man if they can see long term profit... e.g. engagement ring or a roof over their head and so on.
Personally I think that the prostitute-punter relationship is the most honest of all.
Of course this has nothing to do with the original post in this thread and hope our friend does not get offended by my temptation to draw people into a debate.
So I ask again: what would it take to take you to bed, people?
Yes, you will be able to play the piano again, silly! Just use your foot rather than your toes - problem solved! Or get an electric piano without pedals...
As for brown stains... Daz and 60 degrees long wash is the best combination. Hope you wore clean underwear in case some pretty nurse decides to keep you in for the night ;)
As for brown stains... Daz and 60 degrees long wash is the best combination. Hope you wore clean underwear in case some pretty nurse decides to keep you in for the night ;)
matt
When you get home, get some Arnica cream from Boots and apply it on the bruised toe(s). It speeds up healing of bruises and reduces the pain. I know... I have conducted experiments on bruises treating them with Arnica, Lasonil and nothing at all. Arnica produced by far the best results, even in severe bruising.
When people are cruising for a bruising, it is useful to be prepared....
When you get home, get some Arnica cream from Boots and apply it on the bruised toe(s). It speeds up healing of bruises and reduces the pain. I know... I have conducted experiments on bruises treating them with Arnica, Lasonil and nothing at all. Arnica produced by far the best results, even in severe bruising.
When people are cruising for a bruising, it is useful to be prepared....
Quote by cu3b4ll
'spect he's gone off to A&E now, but I'll stick my two penneth in nevertheless.... it might cheer him up when he gets back :twisted:
Even if the injury is just a bruise, one of the worst places to get those is in the lower limbs. Feet are such a long way from the heart that it takes much more pressure to move the blood away from the site of the injury, which could lead to thrombosis (blood clot). DVT is common in frequent flyers because the lack of movement means less blood flow to the legs (deep veins).
Cheery sole ain't I
I didn't want to mention the risk of thrombosis even though my dad died of it and a foot injury was involved. It is scary how one simple thing can escalate if we do not pay attention. I have little faith in doctors and I always make a point to be well informed about risks and put questions to the people involved with my care, even if it makes me sound like a hypochondriac. There are plenty of docs around but only one of me
Hope he did go to the A&E and after the usual 3-5 hours waiting time get seen and reassured that all is fine.
*sigh*
The fresher the better of course but our lifestyle is so rushed that we cannot avoid convenience and processed foods.
This incident reminds me the paprika scandal last year. Apparently some git decided to mix the good and pure Hungarian paprika with cheap paprika from South America that had been contaminated from a poisonous weed. The result was toxic paprika circulating for a long time without anyone's knowledge (as the git never revealed what he had done and paprika got sold as genuine 100% Hungarian paprika). Needless to say the Hungarians are gutted to be unable to use their favourite spice.
The fresher the better of course but our lifestyle is so rushed that we cannot avoid convenience and processed foods.
This incident reminds me the paprika scandal last year. Apparently some git decided to mix the good and pure Hungarian paprika with cheap paprika from South America that had been contaminated from a poisonous weed. The result was toxic paprika circulating for a long time without anyone's knowledge (as the git never revealed what he had done and paprika got sold as genuine 100% Hungarian paprika). Needless to say the Hungarians are gutted to be unable to use their favourite spice.
Maybe he is just so used to paying for sex that he thought he had to pay you
Anyway, what is women's value for sex in here? Would you do it for 100 quid? Maybe 500? Or 1000? What amount of money would be enough to tempt you? I have often asked myself that question and the truth is unless one is faced with the dilemma, one can never be sure how they would react.
Anyway, what is women's value for sex in here? Would you do it for 100 quid? Maybe 500? Or 1000? What amount of money would be enough to tempt you? I have often asked myself that question and the truth is unless one is faced with the dilemma, one can never be sure how they would react.
