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Tania

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Straight Female, 60

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29 Jan 2005

Quote by HungryP
But people make their own choices, with many using condoms for penetrative sex, but being prepared to let someone come in their mouth. Seems like double standards to me

Quite right! The herpes virus will transmit through oral sex and once you get it, you've got it for life. Not worth the risk. Also something very interesting: you can't tell by looking who's got the virus and who hasn't. A good friend of mine contracted it from her girlfriend and has been devastated ever since.

29 Jan 2005

Yes it was till he said 'hmphrph..nuff' and I was midflow and unable to stop. LOL Very frustrating. I find it more exciting to pee all over them as they lie on the floor but must confess to getting the giggles and having trouble commencing the operation.

29 Jan 2005

Ah it is a bit like peeing straight into a guy's mouth, I see! ;)

29 Jan 2005

Quote by roger743
OK here's the question: circumcised or uncircumcised? Which do we ladies prefer to give bj's to?

Well, you're a lady - time to 'fess up! ;)
I'd go for uncircumcised as I have had my fill of circumcised cocks. I like the extra sensation of the foreskin but having said that, please men, don't let that stop you approaching me, I am sure I can happily accommodate you all! ;)

29 Jan 2005

I like it with plenty of saliva!

29 Jan 2005

Liked the sperm bank joke - quite unexpected. biggrin

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I would normally ask (being an inquisitive girl) what is the attraction of a woman swallowing your sperm but I will probably get some guy or other telling me to do a search for it in the forums. rolleyes

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29 Jan 2005

What? Do I have to do a search for each question that comes up in my mind? What's the point of having a forum then, we can all just sit and do searches all day instead of exchanging info. I give up!

29 Jan 2005

Well I am sure if a man likes me enough, he will invite me over to his neck of the woods and show me what I've been missing! smile

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29 Jan 2005

OK here's the question: circumcised or uncircumcised? Which do we ladies prefer to give bj's to?

29 Jan 2005

Yes, you should! You don't expect your Lady to do it, surely?
I think you could benefit from some training in domestic servitude. PM me for details.
Tania

29 Jan 2005

Hello and welcome from me too. I am less than 24 hours old but maturing fast. smile

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29 Jan 2005

Quote by VenusnMars
I`d like to improve mine :mrgreen:
Personally I fail to see how a mouth can be so athletic when it`s filled to the brim, there is simply not enough room for variety...(not one bloody word Scandal, not one :huh
Forget deep throat. I want to live.
Guys, tell us what you like, and girls, tell me how the fuck to do it!
Please :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

Have no fear, Tania is here!

The above link is from a website lovingly compiled by a good friend. The website is quite extensive in content and would satisfy lots of hungry appetites. If you enjoy what you read in it, please drop him a line to compliment him about his work. smile

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29 Jan 2005

Quote by partyman
If I happen to "pull" I will use a condom.

Wow! Do people still go on the pull? I must be missing something in life, only recently I learned from an American that the way to meet people in Britain is to actually stand at the bar because, he claims, if you sit down at a table it means you don't want to be disturbed. And to think of all the frustrating evenings I spent at pubs sitting down because my poor feet hurt! *sigh*
I am telling you people, I need serious help from someone who is mature and knowledgeful.

29 Jan 2005

Quote by partyman
There are clubs with focusses on virtually all scenes and fetishes, so if you do your homework and pick your right clubs, you can do whatever pleases you there. A well-run club would give new members a guided tour when joining, and explain to them what goes on and where. After that you are left to enjoy yourselves in your own way.

My only experiences were BDSM related and I went to a members' club once as a guest of a friend but found no info about acceptable behaviour. Oddly enough my friend said that sex in public was not allowed yet no longer had she said this that we saw a young Dom give it to his blonde subbie doggie style. There was also a fucking machine in the site and that blonde got to monopolise it - heck they were insatiable them two! LOL I recall a box of wet wipes and some condoms and lubricant by the fucking machine but wet wipes are not disinfectant wipes and the lubricant on offer was a particularly nasty one, known to cause allergies (note the writing on the black sachets: 'non non allergenic', i.e. allergenic).
But it seems that the BDSM world and the swinging world are oceans apart and it is reassuring to hear that new people would be given the tour and the talk - at the end of the day the owners of a club can't know who is experienced and who is not.

29 Jan 2005

Quote by bluexxx
It depends what party you go to. Why all the questions?

Duh, because I am a newbie and terribly self conscious. But I will stop posting questions for a while, give you a breather. Gee, this must be a record for me, not even 24 hours on a message board and I already seem to have rubbed people the wrong way! sad

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29 Jan 2005

Quote by freckledbird
I dunno, all these questions - do you work for News of the World??

Damn! My cover is blown! Now I won't be getting any sex... *sniff, sniff* lol

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Would be nice as a fantasy though... Reporter goes undercover to get story then gets gangbanged at a club and thoroughly enjoys it. People make sure they have loads of pics of her debasement for blackmail purposes and she goes back to the editor empty-handed.
Seriously now, I apologise if my question made you feel edgy and I will search the posts and hopefully find some that mention 'safe sex'.
Regards
Tania

29 Jan 2005

Quote by MrLickingham
I honestly don't think a woman can notice the difference between wrapped and unwrapped, at least that's what my girlfriends have said.

I have to politely disagree with you on this subject. Some women CAN notice the difference but would rather lose out on sensation and be safe rather than risk catching an STD. I am one of them smile

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29 Jan 2005

Quote by frogster
Anyone know where you can get wide fit condoms.... (and ones that arn't 2ft long) I used to be able to buy them, but can't find them anywhere nowadays....

Try Avanti. They are sold at Boots. They are the most expensive condoms as they are non latex. Also some advice about fitting a condom on when it is tight: use a drop of lubricant on the tip of your penis! Brilliant, eh? Not my original idea, though. Just read the packet instructions... smile

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29 Jan 2005

Quote by jgjsmith
Most of the negatives on the "Do women like DP" seem to centre around not liking anal sex or finding it difficult. Interesting to know what all sexes think about this subject. !

DP is great but you have to know how to go about it. Get the A filled first and then the V. Only one man can move at a time. Or best, just leave it up to the lady to move any way she fancies!
It is important to listen to your partner and watch out for signs of non verbal communication. A sharp 'Ah!' is bad. A long 'Ahhhhhh' is good. Kicking and punching the mattress is bad... very bad, means you are hurting the hell out of her/him. Grasping the sheets/pillows and making caressing movements with your hands is a good sign - you are approaching heaven!
I would not recommend penetration without some lubrication as it can irritate/cause haemmorhoids. Believe me, you don't want that!
Never lost anything inside. As long as the muscles are in good shape, the body will prevent anodic movement.
People are advised to do their homework and play safe. And don't believe tales that you can insert things 1.5 metres long in your ass, it is not true.

29 Jan 2005

Quote by Noel1977
Is it really true that women get realy horny when they are pregnant? A couple of pregnant women have told me that but I wondered if it was really true.

It is true and it has to do with the increase in hormones. Also there is a psychological explanation for it: when a woman is already pregnant, she does not have to worry about getting pregnant! wink

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Of course there are some women who are totally overwhelmed by the changes in their body during pregnancy and are afraid to do stuff lest they hurt the foetus. This is when a partner/husband needs to be sympathetic and patient.
(Personally I can't stop staring at my nipples!) :P

29 Jan 2005

It's me again with another question before I get on with my life...
Are there activities that are off limits at swinging parties? For example gangbangs, bukkake, watersports, S/M, male homosexuality and so on? Would a club inform patrons of the no go areas or are people expected to just know what is appropriate behaviour and what is not?
I am so worried I would do something wrong and offend people. redface

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Looking forward to your replies
Tania

29 Jan 2005

Hello again
After a good night's rest, I've come back to an email filled with responses to my ad but sadly today's responses are not as good as yesterday's. Today seems to be dedicated to married men looking for some extramarital fun - sorry, not my cup of tea!
Anyway, I spent a pleasant night dreaming of all the possibilities and thinking about my forthcoming date with a member of SH. Then panic set in as the reasoning part of my brain began warning me about possible dangers.
I am sure you have been there yourselves and know what I mean, but for those who are not mind readers here is what it is: safe sex.
What is the general rule or tendency in clubs/parties? Do people engage in sexual activities with barriers (condoms, gloves, latex barrier sheets) or do they just dive in, flesh to flesh? How can you safeguard your health when engaged in swinging and more important, how can you safeguard the health of your partner who is placing his/her trust upon you and your better judgement?
And what about the rooms used for play? Does anyone disinfect them between users? Are there disinfectant wipes and is it up to the players to ensure they clean up before and after?
Please educate me, help me get into swinging without seeming like a total fool to the seasoned players, explain the dos and don'ts to me with regards to safety.
Thanks.
Tania

28 Jan 2005

Yeah, that's me... I got them all in here! LOL

28 Jan 2005

Quote by Cicero
Hi Tania
Sorry to read of your at your posts you seem a really nice person. You realize that sex isn't just about flesh (nothing wrong with that of course) but also a coming together of two personalities. Something that enhances it and makes it much more enjoyable. That meeting of minds between kindred spirits mixed with the sex can be a real turn on. Good luck to you. I hope you find what you're looking for.

Thank you Cicero. I am confident that I will find someone who operates on the same wave length as me for a meaningful relationship. I am in the right place for that and all of you people sound wonderful! smile

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28 Jan 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
You do get the private parties for the beautiful people but give me a party for all shapes and sizes which is totally inclusive and you will see what Swingingheaven truly is about.

Amen! I think we all have to reconsider our prejudices against people. Personally I would love it if our society were more inclusive in general, but especially towards people with disabilities.

28 Jan 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
You have got to be kidding - most clubs CANNOT get ENOUGH single fems through their doors. Take it from me I have been in the club scene for about 6 years now and I LOVEEEEEEEEEEE It.

Hi Sexysteph and thanks for your response.
It is true I know very little about the swinging scene and how things work but I have noticed a couple of places that advertise to be open to 'young and beautiful' couples or something similar. Well I do not fall in these two categories and I would hate to be in a place where people were measured by their looks. (I have had explosive orgasms with men who were not handsome or well endowed but who possessed an ethereal quality about them that made me shiver with desire.) I also am under the impression that where single ladies are welcomed, there is a stipulation that they are bisexual - again another category I don't fit in sad

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Personally I would feel much better having one steady partner with whom to enjoy swinging and fantasy realisation with. I don't think I'd be brave enough to go to a club on my own. Heck, I won't even go to the movies on my own and I hear lots of people do that nowadays (hats off people!)
I shall explore the forums a bit more as I am sure there will be many interesting threads from which I can learn and hopefully I will in time be able to contribute. And of course if even I venture out on my own, you people will be the first to know! wink

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28 Jan 2005

OMG! I have to hire a secretary to read all the emails I am getting! Wow! And to think that I have been wasting so much time in other dating sites when this site rocks!
Long live UK Swinging Heaven!

28 Jan 2005

Quote by WickedWindsor
shame im only 31 or i'd be happy to swing with you! i am quite mature though

You have a great advantage: you like BBWs! So who knows, when I get into the scene and go to a club or private party, we might meet and play. Must first find someone to be my regular swinging partner as I understand clubs do not appreciate singles.

28 Jan 2005

Quote by xxdevil69
Well I see straight away what the problem is............
She doesn't want to have sex with women!!!!!! :shock:
That's just wrong!!!!

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28 Jan 2005

Thanks everyone, I feel a little better now. I gave all the relevant details to Sgt Bilko and hopefully he will sort this sad guy out.
As to my ad, well... have a look at women seeking men, it will be one of the most recent and possibly most provocative although I can't see why that should be.
Hugs back to all!
Tania