I don't find the idea of sending a story too unappealing, but I wouldn't say it was an appropriate way to respond to an ad.
Surely part of 'eroticism' is the seduction of somebody. Seduction is quite intimate and requires some level of understanding of each other, which isn't gained from reading one ad.
If someone's going to write a story in response to an ad, it's kinda insincere and so loses much of its appeal.
If you've chatted a while and there's a genuine fondness, then the same story can be highly erotic. Then it's an expression of how someone thinks / feels in relation to you, and not just themself. I'm all for a bit of eroticism in those circumstances.
So, I kinda agree with Blue's lack of enthusiasm for them in response to an ad, but I'm all for them once the story becomes a genuine expression of intimacy.
I'm writing this as I imagine the warm encompassing breath of a woman upon my neck... tender and seductive as she whispers to me... *oops I was daydreaming there*
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TheAnalogKid
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 120
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Stimulate the mind, and there's a reasonable chance that the body will respond in a favourable manner.
Stimulate the body alone, and the mind tends to wander eventually.
I find it a tragic state of affairs that poeple find stimulation in the visual at (seemingly)_ the expense of all other attributes. There's nothing wrong with visual stimulation, but compared with all stimuli, it's a fraction of the whole picture (pardon the pun).
The mind paints a scene that's far more elaborate, intimate and intricate than even Nikon's finest efforts. Sometimes we have to close our eyes to see an awful lot more.
Here's to the thinking man / woman's sexuality *bottoms up*
Stimulate the body alone, and the mind tends to wander eventually.
I find it a tragic state of affairs that poeple find stimulation in the visual at (seemingly)_ the expense of all other attributes. There's nothing wrong with visual stimulation, but compared with all stimuli, it's a fraction of the whole picture (pardon the pun).
The mind paints a scene that's far more elaborate, intimate and intricate than even Nikon's finest efforts. Sometimes we have to close our eyes to see an awful lot more.
Here's to the thinking man / woman's sexuality *bottoms up*
... since it's such a feminine shade.
It's clean, exudes good taste and if you're into that sort of thing (as I am), suggests a certain ''je ne sais quoi'. I like some semblance of sensuality coupled with my sex.... Ivory seems to manage that for me.
That said, I'll settle for 'dirty tart' black and red if I have to.. put it's never truly done it for me. :-)
It's clean, exudes good taste and if you're into that sort of thing (as I am), suggests a certain ''je ne sais quoi'. I like some semblance of sensuality coupled with my sex.... Ivory seems to manage that for me.
That said, I'll settle for 'dirty tart' black and red if I have to.. put it's never truly done it for me. :-)
Sometimes, mistakes are made... it happens!
That said, the majority of mistakes are by single males, or the male half of a couple. Perhaps it's indicative of their 'hurry' to get onto a site like this and pick up some 'swinger' since they evidently have the impression that swinger = easy lay (oh how wrong).
I don't mind the mistakes, and in truth... let's be honest here, it's sort of good that people post in the wrong sections too. That way we simply skip over them straight away instead of wasting our time on them. It's a nice little filtering process... if you can't post a message in the right pigeon hole, then it's fairly likely that the same applies in the bedroom :-)
That said, the majority of mistakes are by single males, or the male half of a couple. Perhaps it's indicative of their 'hurry' to get onto a site like this and pick up some 'swinger' since they evidently have the impression that swinger = easy lay (oh how wrong).
I don't mind the mistakes, and in truth... let's be honest here, it's sort of good that people post in the wrong sections too. That way we simply skip over them straight away instead of wasting our time on them. It's a nice little filtering process... if you can't post a message in the right pigeon hole, then it's fairly likely that the same applies in the bedroom :-)
Technically a cuckold is the husband of an unfaithful woman.
In the context of most sexual fantasies / practices, the term 'cuckold' is used to merely refer to the male partner of a woman who enjoys other lovers.
It's most commonly associated with a slightly dominant streak in the woman, where the cuckold is effectively informed by the female that she will enjoy other lovers, with or without his consent. The ultimate purpose being for the male and female to find pleasure in this.
Some cuckolds like to watch the female with other lovers, some don't. The majority remain sexually aroused at the thought of the illicit sexual activities of their partner, and enjoy the female recalling her exploits.
So there you have it... technically it's a husband with unfaithful wife, but these days means woman likes other men, and the partner doesn't mind ;-)
In the context of most sexual fantasies / practices, the term 'cuckold' is used to merely refer to the male partner of a woman who enjoys other lovers.
It's most commonly associated with a slightly dominant streak in the woman, where the cuckold is effectively informed by the female that she will enjoy other lovers, with or without his consent. The ultimate purpose being for the male and female to find pleasure in this.
Some cuckolds like to watch the female with other lovers, some don't. The majority remain sexually aroused at the thought of the illicit sexual activities of their partner, and enjoy the female recalling her exploits.
So there you have it... technically it's a husband with unfaithful wife, but these days means woman likes other men, and the partner doesn't mind ;-)
