I didnt mean compulsory to go on cam, but if you spoke to someone wouldn't it be nicer, that they had a cam, of instead of saying sorry I dont have one.
There have been many discussions on here about people having photos.
I personally believe a cam is a good option, to cam face to face and talk I believe a far better way to get to know a person as I believe you can tell a lot about a face.
It is something you can do in a private room and still keep your identity away from public view if you felt the need.
I have felt before that it is a shame that isn’t compulsory when joining the site, so many say I don’t have a cam but have pictures on profile, but as I said in another thread I have been stung once when meeting a guy for a drink only to find he had not updated his pictures for a couple of years.
So my motto became no cam sorry no meet.
I just wondered what others thought.
Would it be that much harder for admin to check cams?
We are only controlled if you let yourself be drawn into the black hole.
A bit like a whirlpool once you are sucked in it is hard to get out.
We all have the ability to think for ourselves, and step back with a cynical mind and see it, but a lot choose not to and are pulled towards it.
I don’t believe you need to have Anarchy when all you are doing is changing the way you think.
Anarchy to me is when you lose all respect for the law too, I could be wrong.
I have always believe it is media that draws people in, what is written and read is what some believe to be fact. How I have seen it most people read a paper for instance, I am not saying all, but then that is one person’s opinion or write up.
I believe you can’t make an informed opinion just based on that, that then becomes dangerous.
Media to me has the power over the people.
Hi,
Welcome to the forms!
I would add try not to think about things to much as then you could end up having expectations and in turn could feel a bit disappointed after.
Look at a first time as a learning curve, because I bet after you will think I wish we had tried this or done that, you never seem to get enough time to do what you all have spoken about, but come always with things you never considered but all enjoyed within your boundaries.
I found that to be normal and then you can take stock and know what you want to achieve the second time around.
Nerves, excitement, fear, worry, anticipation are all normal feelings, just go relax and have fun and go with the flow.
Good Luck!
When I first heard of Jade from the first BB I could relate somewhat with her as I lived and grew up within 5 miles of where she did and knew of the area she grew up.
When hearing her story of her youth and what she had to endure I felt even more drawn towards her, not because we had similar upbringings but more the fact I knew of children like her friends of mine, it couldn’t have been easy living where she did, lack of schooling and little input from educated people around her.
But her heart shone through to me, her ability to just take the knocks that were thrown her way and roll with them. She could have just as easily turned to crime and gone down a very slippery slope, as many from that area did.
I know a lot of people would say who is Jade goody anyway?
Isn’t it funny most of us know who she is.
I believe her education started after BB I feel she had a good head on her shoulders and given different circumstances within her childhood might of made more of herself on her own.
Who are we really to judge until we have walked a week in someone else’s shoes.
I like Jade she has made mistakes which since has tried to rectify, I put them down to lack of education then to the person she really is.
I am so sad for a girl that’s real life was just beginning to possibly have it end in such a short space of time it really saddens me.
So I say Jade I feel I know you but I don’t, but glad to have seen a girl like you have come from a little and got so far, I wish you well keep battling girl. xxx
I personally dispel the myth of global warming, I believe we are still coming out of an ace age, I feel it is an excuse to try and brainwasher the human race again.
I do believe we need to protect our planet from its own greed and consumption; I replace items when they break and are no longer fit for purpose.
Someone laughed at my £30 mobile phone, why do we need an all singing and dancing one, I only got one within the last year to text and call my children so I can keep in touch with them.
Do we need TV’s the size of cinema screens?
The biggest fastest latest car.
So many people are driven by getting the latest this or that and discard the one they got last year.
It takes resources to keep up demand, and it is greed and selfishness that drives the demand, not the need.
Until attitudes change nothing will.
That’s what I hope this latest crisis will help in some way of doing help change peoples attitudes
The pm's I have received have been for the reasons I have mentioned in my op and I agree with bone, I have always responded and appreciated them, as thought and consideration in their writing is very personal.
As I don’t get them very often they mean so much more.
