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Theladyisaminx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 62
United Kingdom
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Do you think mind programming is why more don’t admit to want others?
Sorry a little deep thought for a Sunday morning.
I have come a long way from my own thoughts a few years ago when I believed to have or lust to have sex with another was so wrong not that I have ever wanted to have sex in that time with others, as for 28 years I never looked at another man as I was with the man I have always loved.
A few years ago after discussions together about the possibility of my hubby offering me the choice to have other men it awoke other thought processes that was hard to understand at first, but the thoughts also excited me. I was being offered if I wanted it the chance to not only have the person I loved there with me, but to have the experience of others to if I wished.
I realised that you could also have sex out of lust for others, but the love for my hubby is his. My mind has been reprogrammed and liberated.
Is this so wrong, when we look at sex the act is very natural it is part of nature after all we come from the animal kingdom.
Should we really be expected only to experience sex with one partner for years?
I also believe there are many people that programming is the only reasons they would not admit they would like to try this to.
What are your views?
I believe liberated minds would extract the tabooness of the whole thing.
Sorry a little deep thought for a Sunday morning.
I have come a long way from my own thoughts a few years ago when I believed to have or lust to have sex with another was so wrong not that I have ever wanted to have sex in that time with others, as for 28 years I never looked at another man as I was with the man I have always loved.
A few years ago after discussions together about the possibility of my hubby offering me the choice to have other men it awoke other thought processes that was hard to understand at first, but the thoughts also excited me. I was being offered if I wanted it the chance to not only have the person I loved there with me, but to have the experience of others to if I wished.
I realised that you could also have sex out of lust for others, but the love for my hubby is his. My mind has been reprogrammed and liberated.
Is this so wrong, when we look at sex the act is very natural it is part of nature after all we come from the animal kingdom.
Should we really be expected only to experience sex with one partner for years?
I also believe there are many people that programming is the only reasons they would not admit they would like to try this to.
What are your views?
I believe liberated minds would extract the tabooness of the whole thing.
I dropped my cam a few weeks ago, and it hasn't worked since, hubby has tried I have tried we have reloaded the drivers but it still wouldn't work. :cry:
I was just fiddling about on the pc playing with buttons and the cam just come on :shock:
How the hell that happened I haven't a clue but the damn thing is now working.
We are both shocked in how thats come about.
Have you had anything happen that you can't explain?
I was just fiddling about on the pc playing with buttons and the cam just come on :shock:
How the hell that happened I haven't a clue but the damn thing is now working.
We are both shocked in how thats come about.
Have you had anything happen that you can't explain?
Quote by mancunian
Now that's funny Minx. Not breaking your toe but the way you did it was. Bet they had a good laugh at A&E.
I was awarded Three Stars today
I left it 10 hours before going there trying to convince myself it wasn't broken but the pain would not go away.
And yes I was the joke of the hospital said it was the best story they had heard for a long time.
The worst thing was I had doctors and nurses that kept coming in and saying are you the lady that had a fight with a toilet laughing and going out again
I am a twit at times
Quote by Kaznkev
oh lady minx,we have to know how you did that!
ha ha
Thought it was a good idea to stand on it to reach the window to throw water at my son in the garden, but the seat slipped as I reached across and my whole weight went down, I thought I was going to get it trapped around the U bend.
But it taught me a lesson as I was in plaster for the first 5 weeks of the summer holidays
I have never stood on a toilet seat since
Quote by fabio
This question always annoys me when it comes up.....
Who has the right to "label" anyone as anything... for a community that is supposed to be open-minded, there are a lot people who don't display it....
I'll come back later when i have calmed down a little....
Who's putting a label on who?
I think people are giving their own interpretation of a word meaning as they see it.
The pure fact we are all here in swinging heaven means somebody gave it a name, and we knew where to look to find what we all would like.
I don't see us as swingers as such, as we have only met guys. What I do feel is the feeling of sexual liberation where by my attitude towards sex has changed. Not that I devalue it but I realise you can have sex for pleasure and fun outside of normal boundaries instilled in us from upbringing.
I only see couples that swap with other couples as true swingers, so anyone that is not doing that I personally wouldn't class as a true swinger in the old sense of the word, so that includes us.
So I would say I am a sexual liberated person with a mindset that hold sex as an important factor within life to be enjoyed and not just given away.
I don't know what that makes me.
I only see couples that swap with other couples as true swingers, so anyone that is not doing that I personally wouldn't class as a true swinger in the old sense of the word, so that includes us.
So I would say I am a sexual liberated person with a mindset that hold sex as an important factor within life to be enjoyed and not just given away.
I don't know what that makes me.
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I think I remember being told that the techies took the most commen size of screen and went with that rather than using resources to change the size
But, but, it's 2009 and Dawnie! There's people out there with widescreen monitors on their laptops 2000 pixels wide! The forum will look about >>>>>>>> this big <<<<<<<<. Still, glad they didn't go the whole hog and make it 800x600.
;)In edit: The size tag doesn't seem to be working work up there?
Does anyone else see an image from their private gallery apparently showing as their avatar alongside their post when they're in post preview mode?
N x x x ;)
I did, but deleted it from showing there but still remains in priavte, can't remember how I did it now
As no way did I want that picture showing as my avatar
Quote by flower411
I always read that as 'will shag anything with a pulse' so it's more than a little off-putting
That`s the way I read it but I`m sure a lot of people are trying to say that they are more interested in your personality.
It`s just a clumsy way of putting it !
Flower I agree with you.
