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Tobias69
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 61
Bisexual Female, 60
0 miles · London

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Quote by twos_company
5 different pubs??? now thats going a bit far....
invite 5 guys 2 meet u 1 may show up - if u r lucky 2.......
people fall of scaffolding and everything lol ,
so do 1 pub saying `if we meet u 1 at a time,we may never get round to u...`
worked perfect the other night - we ended up with 2 really nice guys fromhere

exactly what we said tobias
one or 2 out of 6 will show
so the brave one gets a nice time & the others stay at home & hide behind their pc`s.......
can only assume theres no way they can match their description or photo`s
2`s
And you were absolutely right cool
And, to the guys who DO read the advert and respond as per request a big thank you Here's to you :cheers:
And thanks to the single guys who responded to this thread. It's always good to get inpout from all sides, ooer missus.
Oh, and we're definitely going to have some fun with the chap who turned up.
Guys - you're missing my fact is that single guys often moan about how couples don't respond to their advances. The point I'm trying to make is that even when we do we get let down so often that it's does make us very sceptical about anything that people say.
Anyway. as you say, we have moved on. We met one guy, we clicked. Brilliant. biggrin We'll all have some fun. smile Even better :D
Whilst I can appreciate that sometimes events happen beyond people's control it seems jolly odd that four guys - none of whom have been named here by the way, so there should be no casue for bad taste in anyone's mouth, apart from ours (but we'll slosh it out with a glass of wine) - would all encounter an event that wasn't national news on the same evening that prevented them using the mobile.
I just wonder what makes people confirm an arrangement and then dip out like that. dunno
Anyway, our next way of meeting peeps is going to be via a munch which all sounds very civilised to us.
MOD EDIT - I HAVE MERGED THIS WITH THE ORIGINAL THREAD
A quick reca:
- we post ad to meet single guys for fun. We get inundate with a zillion replies (ok maybe slightly less). We want to arrange to meet them first so as to see whether we 'click' but there are only so many bars we can go to in a night without getting paralytic and anyway we don't want to trapse from bar to bar only to find someone doesn't turn up (again). :cry:
So, we read through all the fab advice smile and decided to meet all six guys in the same pub. We sent messages to all of them AND got replies from them saying that they'd turn up. I game them all my mobile number in case of problems or if they had trouble finding us in the appointed bar.
The result: One guy turned up :) and one texted to say he couldn't make it . Ergo, four guys didn't turn up or have the courtesy to text us, even if to say they'd bottled it. banghead :banghead: :banghead: :banghead: mad :x :x :x
... and they wonder why we complain! Maybe we're being unreasonable but what a waste of our time!
Rant over ! Sorry.
Quote by i want that one
AAArrrhhhh thats cool writing horror books. Love reading them. Do you base them on peeps you know?

Not sure that would be a good idea cool
I do base a lot of the action around where I live and have lived, so I am sure some people recognise a little about themselves in it wink
Actually, most authors that I know (and I know a few, honest) base their characters on people they know. It's almost unavoidable. I, myself, redface am the basis for one of the main characters in a book about to be released by a well established author (won't name him on this forum).
Sometimes, people who are the basis for characters can get upset by how the character is portrayed but that's missing the point. It's both possible and legitimate to base a villanous, evil, character on someone you deeply like and respect by adding faults to the character that the real person doesn't have. It lends plausibility and depth to the character.
It's also interesting to read a book and see aspects of your life reflected in it. Kind of weird actually. :uhoh:
Anyway, for what they're worth, here's some of my recommendations for a good read:
In the cut - Suzzanne Moore
Life of Pi - Yann Martell
Illywhacker - Peter Carey
American Pastoral - Philip Roth
I also quite like some science ones (it's the nerd in me trying to escape):
Enstein's universe - Nigel Calder - is the easiest explanation I've found yet of all things Einstein.
The road to reality - Roger Penrose. Big meaty book but excellently written.
OK - I'll get back in my box now bolt
BTW - Guys, making a little effort when we do meet is a really good idea. After all, you are on a sort of first date and the ladies - in my experience - appreciate a well presented, polite, confident, man - especially if he's got a good girth about him.
On the subject of the London munch...
Quote by twos_company
5 different pubs??? now thats going a bit far....
invite 5 guys 2 meet u 1 may show up - if u r lucky 2.......
people fall of scaffolding and everything lol ,
so do 1 pub saying `if we meet u 1 at a time,we may never get round to u...`
worked perfect the other night - we ended up with 2 really nice guys from here
and there is a london munch / social -
read the forums
if u need 2 do some serious screening c if u can borrow a mobile screening unit from the nhs!!!!!!!!!!!
2`s

... er, I did read the forums... I guess some myopia has crept into my old age. Will try and join the fun, if there's still some room.
Hmmm. that Munch thingy seems like a good idea but there doen't appear to be a London one. The stickies in the 'Lets meet up' threads all appear to be for other places. sad
Am I just being blind or can someone enlighten me smile
By the way - the 700x10 seconds thing? Good spot fabio grooverider :cheers: That's another very important point. As a single male, you have to accept that some times there just aint the time.
Well - we always reply if someone actually tells us a bit about themselves, includes a piccie, etc. We will delete the ones that simply say something like "I like your profie. Get back to me" because there are a very large number of those and if they can't be bothered to write a few lines about their hopes and expectations then why would we spend time on them? Everyone else gets either a "we'd liek to meet for a drink" OR "thanks but no thanks" reply.
Oh, and the system seems to be working just fine at the moment.
Must try and work out this list thingummy one of these days! Oops. redface
Well the original post in this thread didn't say what we're looking for 'cos that's (supposed to be) on our advert (please do PM us if it's unclear and I'll change it). The point of this thread was to find ways of 'screening' people. Mister_Discreet puts it very well but heres our version:
timewasters (there are plenty of guys who will talk to you on the phone and then not bother to turn up on the night. That's happened to us on more than one occasion and it's very frustrating)
People who misrepresent themselves on pictures (we've even had our own picture sent to us, which was quite something!
People who look nice and sane on the pics but clearly have a screw loose when you meet them, and
People who, for whatever reason, you just don't feel attracted to even though they looked quite nice in their pics. Funny how life works in that way really.

It's also nice for Gloria as it makes her feel nice and warm and fluffy biggrin and that has to be a good thing, does it not.
Quote by midnight
Hi,
I read your post carefully and you mention screening guys, but you dont mention what your screening guys for, not unless im missing something. Not being one to open a can of worms, but if couples were more up front with what they are looking for or even what they expect from another person then they may be able to narrow the field even more and in doing so, find exactly more of what they want. Im sure your not doing anything terribly wrong, but by just being a little more open it can go a long way. I do realise that there are alot of guys out there whos lives revolve around what they would like to be rather than what really is. Im now awaiting the backlash for my comments.
Its a lot less bover than a hover.
Best wishes.
Sounds like a great idea. biggrin Next question: where do we get details of London Muches?
We're a couple where she shags other guys while he watches / joins in. All god fun. But we have a problem whcih, I suspect, is an age old one.
We place an advert for men to augment our fruity goings on and get a great wodge of replies. We instantly delete all of the one-liners, 'I'm a great shag get back to me', and guys that can't be bothered to attach a piccie, so that's about 2/3 gone ( :small-print: guys, a tip: read the advert properly).
Then, we like to meet the remainder to see if we like them in the flesh but we won't play on that night. We have kids, so to meet blokes means we have to get a babysitter in. So, we'd like to make best use of the time and meet as many of the 'potentials' as possible on the same night.
THe solution we've come up with this time is to arrange to meet them at half-hourly intervals at different pubs so that they don't bump into each other. One problem with this is that we could end up completely smashed by bloke number 6 OR we could be stood up 5 times in a row (which has happened to us before mad )
confused: So, my question is - does anyone know of a better way to meet and screen the men ahead of the fun starting? We'd love to learn from someone else's experiences.
:?: Also, does anyone know of any clubs in North or Central London where we could meet guys and have fun on the premises (bearing in mind that some of that fun would be male bi-oral)?
G&T
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Good news for Blonde! biggrin
Unfortunately all I got was a link back saying that I had to go through the same process as I already went through. sad So I did and ended up having to pay. :shock: At least this time I didn't get a page telling me my IP address had been logged for investigation!
I would like to state that I'm not generally a whinger but as with others the missus & I joined as seperates and wanted to combine, given all the changes. I just hope the charge I just paid was a one-off and not a monthly one, ooer. confused
Other than that, would like to say how much fun me an' Glo are having... even when hanging out and just lurking. Love yas all passionkiss
Thanks for comments so far. Have sent a grovelling (I hope) PM to admin to see whether they'll change us into a couple (phtoomph!) - Will post the outcome here.
Thanks for the tips folks - will have a look at your suggestions. yawn, gosh, is it my bedtime already? smile
I gotta ask - me and the missus have been swinging for a while now. We love getting bi-guys involved and I know that some clubs will entertain that sort of thing, however, why do all clubs start so late and end so late? Or are there any that are earlier? We have kids and even though we can get babysitters we still have to get up the next morning. Not to mention the extremely high costs of a BBS if you're out till 3 or 4 AM!
So, anyone know of anywhere we can go that's doesn't require us to have no sleep for 24 hours?
Just tried to change our membership type from 'male' to 'couple' ('cos that's what we is). but get an error saying that a connection to 3Bill was refused and, to rub it in, when I tried to make a connection myself I got a message saying that my IP address had been logged for investigation. Seems a bit harsh as I was only trying to get our account set up right. Anyone else had a similar problem? Do we have to pay to be a couple nowadays?
Happy to do that wink only trouble is that I can see my poor e-mail client being sticthed up for weeks to cum sad
You're right about MSN and also offer that way. Will investigate that further although I read somewhere that MSN were going to close theirs down. Will do more research.
What about the SH personal pages? Do they allow h/c (legal) porn and are they easy to find? Anyone know?
Well yes, but only by Windows XP firewall. But even with a firewall you have to open the Ports to enable the P2P traffic, and that's where the nasties get it, as I understand it. Additionally, other machines on the P2P can utilise resource on your machine once that network is given permission on your firewall. A good example is which, although free of nasties, is essentially P2P and uses the resources of your PC to service / route calls that you have nothing to do with (this is public domain information available from the website).
Only trouble with that is that we'd then have to run a P2P client - would we? I know that some of them (no names) have a nasty habit of exposing your PC to all sorts of unwanted attention.
Now here's the dilema. Mrs Me and I like to enjoy ourselves with other men and like to film our experiences (with the consent of the others), both with pics and with mpegs, etc.
When we started out, a couple of years ago, we decided that we'd set up our own website so that we could share our piccies and mpegs with anyone that wanted to see them. I should mentione that we only share where all of those in the pics / mpegs are happy for us to do so. (Not going to mention the name of the site here as a) this is not a plug for the site and b) I don't want to incur the - understandable - wrath of any passing mod).
Thing is, that running such a site costs money, so we had to make it a chargeable site (not much but something to cover the hosting costs). Also, it takes a lot of time because you have to resize every piccie and create all the pages, ensure none of the links are broken, yadda, yadda.
So, my question to all is this: is there an easy way we can share our pics without it costing a fortune to do so, that's easy to load, and that will allow us to put MPEGS on the site? Prefer if we didn't have to pay anything 'cos then we wouldn't need to charge anything.
If you're gonna suggest a URL please do so in a PM unless you know it to be OK to post it here - I don't wanna fall foul of the site policy and I don't want you to either. But we would love to know how we can do this.
A supplementary question is whether anyone knows of any software that makes the job an easy one?
xTC
Ocean's Twelve!
Oh no, that's a real non-porn movie. Darn. Perhaps someone could make one called Ocean's 9 1/2?
It's pants but it happens to us all too frequently, only we're the couple and it's the guys who don't show. Nowadays it's our policy never to shag on the first date, for this reason more than any other. We insist on a half-hour meet for a drink on the first date and then go off and do something else (maybe even a threesome / moresome biggrin with people we already know). Doing this means that when we encounter (or rather don't) a timewaster we're not left feeling to down-at-heel about it.
Thansk folks. So, it's a personal thing - not awsome news. I was jus' wondering if it was like the men all (almost all) love bi-women - whether there was some correlation. Gues not.
THanks for the replies tho' - will go and indulge myself tomorrow everning with the Glo
Sorry if this has already been asked before but I did a search and couldn't find it. I'm a bi male and Gloria, my significant other, has realised, since we got together, that she quite likes two men playing with each other.
I was wondering whether this is a turn on for other women or not?
Very possible to perform double vaginal. We do DP alot and love it. Also agree about a thrid cock being available for oral at the same time - we also love this. Another thing I enjoy is licking the pussy juices from the cock(s) after they've been inside her and doing double oral with her. Very horny!
There are two on Brewer street and, yes, action does happen in both but it's a bit hit or miss. There is a dedicated group for the subject. If you PM me I'll send you the address.