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Toshuk
3 hours ago
Heteroflexible Male, 80
0 miles · Suffolk
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Warming the Bed
I usually only get on to this site twice a week and haven't been a member that long anyway. What I enjoy is the chance to read and perhaps reply to people who share the same outlook to sex as myself. Out in the real world there is so much repression and silence. I enjoy the chat rooms as there is a chance to speak to people who are geographically close to me and of course I enjoy the cam shows. ( Perhaps they could be renamed chatte rooms) On the minus side, the attitudes of so many men in the chat rooms make me groan with embarrassment though.
So, altogether, visiting SH does lift me.
So, altogether, visiting SH does lift me.
Warming the Bed
I've always been able to last fairly well, helped by the fact that I like to come out every so often and switch to other things - fingers, tongue and so on - before going back in but now I'm an older guy I find it has its drawbacks as it takes me too long to come. I often find I have to finish with my own hand and that isn't what I would choose to do. One partner likes it that way as she likes to watch the ejaculation but I can appreciate the feeling women have of being almost there but not quite.
Warming the Bed
I know it is used as a term of abuse and I know it offends both men and women to hear it but all the same I think it is a shame. It is no nastier on the ear than country or countryside so the offence seems to derive from its sexual meaning. If a vulva is a beautiful thing then our original word for it should be accepted as equally beautiful.
People have tried to rescue the word but all in all have failed so far. The Victorian cunny seems far too arch to be used nowadays but we don't have many playful words for it. I wouldn't use it unless a woman was comfortable with it but attempts to give the word respect should be honoured.
People have tried to rescue the word but all in all have failed so far. The Victorian cunny seems far too arch to be used nowadays but we don't have many playful words for it. I wouldn't use it unless a woman was comfortable with it but attempts to give the word respect should be honoured.
Warming the Bed
I will probably miss you today but I go there regularly. It would be nice to say a polite hello to you if I come across you another day. Have fun there it is usually a friendly place.
I saw your pictures, very nice, and would be happy to rub sun cream into wherever you like!
(only teasing, pushy blokes can be irritating. It's just nice to say hello to people with similar interests)
I saw your pictures, very nice, and would be happy to rub sun cream into wherever you like!
(only teasing, pushy blokes can be irritating. It's just nice to say hello to people with similar interests)
Warming the Bed
I have been fortunate enough to be invited back to the couples I have been with. For me a big part of the fun in sex is the pleasure the others feel. My own orgasm is relatively easy to fit in to the proceedings and is only incidental to the overall fun. You only have to listen to chatroom directions to realise how many men are selfish or uneducated or insensitive though.
Warming the Bed
Hi Wannabes. I have the same problem. When I joined a couple of months ago I could see the photos in ads and profiles but within a week or so the facility vanished. All I get now are the words ,'Page one of two' or whatever. Someone suggested I try pressing CTRL while I click on profile or photos but that hasn't worked. I suspect it may be a firewall thing but I have fiddled with my Zone Alarm settings with no joy. I like this site and the people here but it is disappointing.
Warming the Bed
As a man I am curious and appreciative of the opposite sex. No pussy looks wrong to me and I love looking at all of them. If someone shows their pussy with the fingers pulling the lips out then that is the way they want to show it. It shows that they are quite rightly proud of it and good for them. I guess I like variety and I like to see it semi discovered because there is a hint of a tease about it so seeing it revealed up a skirt has a special pleasure but basically however it comes. Pussies are beautiful.
Warming the Bed
When I first joined up a couple of months back I could see people's photo albums in their profiles and in the ads but shortly afterwards they stopped appearing. If I go into someone's profile I can see all the details except their photos - now I see 'page one of two' only. I tried amending Internet Options with no effect. Has anyone else had the same trouble? I can see people's cams in the chatrooms.
This is a great site by the way and its nice to see such friendly people.
This is a great site by the way and its nice to see such friendly people.
Warming the Bed
I spend time during the summer on my local nudist beach and I can say that irrespective of personality women can look good naked from 17 to 70 and from the thinnest bodies to the plumpest. Clothes define a shape or age more than bare skin does. A desire for life in general and sex in particular means far more than looks though.
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If you like women you like them in all shapes sizes and ages. My pet hate is those vile women columnists who hang famous women out to dry if they don't conform to what they think is essential that week. Some women just hate other women. The sexiest thing about a woman is her mind. Not that I don't like admiring their pussies too
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Never done air guitar, I'd feel like a fool, even on my own. Air drums though, that's a different matter! 
I'm friends with a girl who was in the finals of the British Air Guitar championships a couple of years back. She chose to play to Iron Maiden's Run to the hills. She played as Iron Muff.
I'm friends with a girl who was in the finals of the British Air Guitar championships a couple of years back. She chose to play to Iron Maiden's Run to the hills. She played as Iron Muff.
Warming the Bed
Because I love women, I like seeing any part of them and certainly a pussy pic is beautiful. After all the pussy is a beautiful thing. As are the buttocks, the knees, the hands, the back of the neck, the way the boobs slope down from the top of the chest......you get my drift. Nor does it have to be an either/or question. Personality shots or action shots are just as attractive; I wouldn't like to have to choose only one sort. If someone has only posted a cock or pussy shot and nothing else it is a bit limited, true, but the pussy in itself is well worth looking at and admiring.
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I'm fond of fantasy. Tolkien knocks everything else out of sight. Terry Pratchett is wonderful, funny and humane. I'm currently reading 'Jonathan Strange and Mr Norrlell', a weird fantasy about the revival of 18th Century magic.
I like erotic novels but they are not always well written. Anais Nin and the books about sexual daydreams by Nancy Friday are good.
I have also liked the comic crime capers of Donald Westlake.
I like erotic novels but they are not always well written. Anais Nin and the books about sexual daydreams by Nancy Friday are good.
I have also liked the comic crime capers of Donald Westlake.
