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Over 90 days ago
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Quote by Eagerslut9
could only find a place in thailand, but this is what it looks like...........are you sure you want it done ((((((((crossing legs))))))))))) :mrgreen: :scared: :scared:
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: Errm..........................not exactly!!
Oh thank god! *insert extreme relief emoticon here*
:disclaimer: Venus would just like to add that she is in no way judgemental of anyone who want to turn their cock into a JESUS MARY AND JOSEPH WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT?!! :shock: :shock: :shock: in any way shape of form.
Thankyou
Venusxxx
:mrgreen:If I want to cum the same time as Mars, I sit on top which will hit my g-spot, and ride him like a bitch on heat, not up and down, but back and forth because it gets my clit at the same time. If he sits up to suck on my boobs, that also adds pressure to my clit, but will interfere with the rythmn as I'm getting closer, so I throw the poor sod back, ride him faster, and sometimes will play with my clit at the same time until I have reached an earth shattering climax which has possibly injured him in the process. I am very selfish when I want to cum, but I always apologise afterward. Promise!
Um, yeah, mebbe I'll shut up now :uhoh:
Venusxxx
Um, yeah, mebbe I'll shut up now :uhoh:
Venusxxx
Quote by Libra-Love
Ok Venus, if you say so.
I'll come back in a few day when perhaps the board is back to normal.
Christ, if that is how discussions like this are really making people feel I'll STFU. I have no intention of being a part of a bigger problem than those which I perceive.
/slumps of wailing "why am I so misunderstood!"
I'll be working soon anyway, honest!
Venusxxx
Quote by Libra-Love
You guys have used up 5 pages, bouncing this thread to the top.
Why?
This is a swinging forum, not an English lesson.
Because it has turned into an interesting discussion about Dyslexia and other things.
Quote by Ice Pie
Can't say I'd noticed that, but yes, if it happens a lot I guess it must be a bit of a bore for a lot of people.
Or alternatively perhaps it grinds to a halt because people are busy reading an interesting debate? :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Quote by easy
Seems like we've been here before. Newbie comes in. Newbie gets flamed. We all dissect the threads and comments made and then do exactly the same thing next time.
Is the forum really that boring that we constantly need to do this every time someone gets flamed?
I think the question you should be asking is 'Is the forum really that boring that people feel the need to constantly flame for their own entertainment'
And yes, I will confront it from time to time. I don't do so all the time, but when I do, I'm not afraid to see the discussion through to the end, and all the time it encourages people, myself included, sit back and re-evaluate their approach, and I believe it does, then I find it valuable. It will happen again and again because of the traffic here.
Fortunately, or unfortunately, depending on how you perceive it, I'm very good at happening again and again and again also, and so are many others.
It's a balance, of sorts.
Again I am not speaking with this thread as the main focus.
Venusxxx
No, you are not alone Davej, I do it too, and I think it's a wonderful way to communicate on here. It's one of the reasons I love Neilinleeds' posts so much, they give a wonderful idea of the person behind the keyboard.
That still doesn't stop me from wanting to rip the Caps Lock key out and beat him over the head with it though!
I sincerely hope that people don't see this thread as citing standards which everyone here expects them to meet. The first couple of posts maybe, but not the rest of the discussion. I'd just like to polish up on my English, I don't promise to use it here!
Venusxxx
That still doesn't stop me from wanting to rip the Caps Lock key out and beat him over the head with it though!
I sincerely hope that people don't see this thread as citing standards which everyone here expects them to meet. The first couple of posts maybe, but not the rest of the discussion. I'd just like to polish up on my English, I don't promise to use it here!
Venusxxx
Quote by Ice Pie
Just to clarify, I'm not having a pop at people whose spelling isn't great, it's people who won't even try and then lie about the reason that I have a problem with.
I totally agree with this. Just to throw a spanner in the works (sorry, I'm in one of those moods :mrgreen
Do you not think it's possible that Dyslexia, abeit more accepted, is misunderstood enough by some to cause them to believe that they really do have it? Perhaps is not so much a matter of people lying, but just jumping to badly drawn conclusions?Venusxxx
Quote by northwest-cpl
This is supposedly a swingers site although at times it seems that there is more attention paid to spelling and correct grammar than sex. So long as people can be understood, does it really matter how they write? Havantcouple's post was perfectly understandable to me and I don't send texts.
Personally, I found the initial post hard work, and I'm afraid to say that I probably would avoid a thread in which many of the posts were written as such simply because I prefer more fluid reading. I think people should to meet meet half-way. Whilst I don't like to see people get too pedantic about it, equally I like to see an effort made by the author to be understood, after all, their post is supposed to be communicating to an audiance, so some consideration for the audiance is necessary to a point IMO.
I do try to get an idea of a person's character from their posts, and considerate people are much more attractive to me. People who are too judgemental turn me off, and people who become aware that their posts are difficult to understand, but don't give a shit enough to be bothered to try to improve this, despite easy options being available, also turn me off.
That said, maybe the author wouldn't find me attractive for exactly that reason, in which case their posting style would do a wonderful job of filtering me out! :lol2:
Venusxxx
I think it' s worth doing, as Ice has a point. Many of us would prefer to err on the side of caution for fear of ridiculing someone who possibly doesn't deserve it, and this is very easily taken advantage of. That's not to say I'd be happy jump on people who have severe problems with spelling but not dyslexia, because I wouldn't, just that I don't like to be taken for a fool!
Mars is much less wordy than I. He says, "I can't spell for shit, but I'm not like some of the twats on there, I know how to use a spell checker..........."
That's his say then! :shock:
Sometimes people just need a gentle nudge toward using one.
Venusxxx
Mars is much less wordy than I. He says, "I can't spell for shit, but I'm not like some of the twats on there, I know how to use a spell checker..........."
That's his say then! :shock:
Sometimes people just need a gentle nudge toward using one.
Venusxxx
Arron, this is a site for over 18's. You are over 18, and therefore are welcome here.
If people want to raise the issue of age in relation to Swinging, then it belongs in a seperate thread in the cafe, not on your 'Let's Meet up' thread.
However, some people have no qualms about singling people out when they have an opinion.
Venusxxx
If people want to raise the issue of age in relation to Swinging, then it belongs in a seperate thread in the cafe, not on your 'Let's Meet up' thread.
However, some people have no qualms about singling people out when they have an opinion.
Venusxxx
