Can anyone say `get a life`!
I worked out one of them
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I agree, that`s a really bad idea which only works in fiction. If she gets shy talking about it, imagine how she would react being confronted with it?! Explore it as fantasy for the time being, there`s much fun to be had with that!
Let her play on here that`s titillating too, and eventually she may want to go further one day
Venusxxx
Let her play on here that`s titillating too, and eventually she may want to go further one day
Venusxxx
My head hurts, my stomach aches, I feel sick. :violin:
It`s a distinct possibilty I might die.
So I`d like to take this opportunity to thank all of the wonderful people here for making me feel welcome, and for putting a smile on my face each time I log in. It`s been nice knowng you all. :sad:
If anyone would like to make my final hours as pleasurable as possible it would be much appreciated. Please be quick, for I don`t believe necrophillia is an acceptable pasttime on this site.
I think I shall go to bed and kick the bucket now.
Venusxxx
It`s a distinct possibilty I might die.
So I`d like to take this opportunity to thank all of the wonderful people here for making me feel welcome, and for putting a smile on my face each time I log in. It`s been nice knowng you all. :sad:
If anyone would like to make my final hours as pleasurable as possible it would be much appreciated. Please be quick, for I don`t believe necrophillia is an acceptable pasttime on this site.
I think I shall go to bed and kick the bucket now.
Venusxxx
Well said. It`s good to see that caution is encouraged here. I`ve never been made to feel as though we are wasting anyone`s time because we are not quite ready to take the plunge. If I`m to be honest, I`m finding the company and characters of those who post regularly here far more interesting than the idea of shagging any of them! Making friends with like-minded people is much more important to me. The shagging will come in it`s own time
Venusxxx
Venusxxx
Ah, Webmonkey! I`ve used that site before, for the HTML colour chart, thanks for the reminder, it is a good site.
You post baffled my for a brief moment......I didn`t know about opening files as a web folder via IE
. Like I said, I know some really vague things, but the some of the obvious passes me by!
Venusxxx
You post baffled my for a brief moment......I didn`t know about opening files as a web folder via IE
. Like I said, I know some really vague things, but the some of the obvious passes me by!Venusxxx
trouble with Myers Briggs tests is they are affected quite drastically by your
current environment
I think that`s a good thing. It reflects that we change along with our environment.I`d be more worried if the resultsdidn`tchange.
Do you look at the big picture or the details?". Both, simultaneously. That's why I'm a programmer. A different answer for that one question would have put me in a different category.
I have alot of trouble with questions like these also. Having the test taken professionally would possibly help to define the answer. For me, it really depends on what kind of situation I`m imagining at the time.
Dr Phil is like Jerry Springer only with even less personality. He does a chat show in which people come to be told what to think, how to live their lives, and generally talked down to by an arrogant, insolent, humourless man who actually expects them to be grateful.
A bit Like Trisha then :dry:
Venusxxx
And this site is great for detailed portraits of the types, including marraiage, parenting, and career personalities.
I even found a site which suggested which types were likely to lean toward which personality disorder. Three of my friends took the test, and their personality test results reflected their diagnosed disorders. Two suffer from bi-polar, and one from codependancy. I wish I could find the site again, it was interesting stuff.
Well it is if you`re me
No doubt all of this is arguable, but if you don`t study, you won`t learn nuffin, either way!
Venusxxx
I even found a site which suggested which types were likely to lean toward which personality disorder. Three of my friends took the test, and their personality test results reflected their diagnosed disorders. Two suffer from bi-polar, and one from codependancy. I wish I could find the site again, it was interesting stuff.
Well it is if you`re me
No doubt all of this is arguable, but if you don`t study, you won`t learn nuffin, either way!
Venusxxx
I think alot of these tests are loosely based on the `Jung Typology` psychological tests, from the one above, to the `What cookie are you?` type tests! There is alot to be said (and debated) about the validity of such tests, the Jung test if done properly can very telling, but even the online Jung tests are pretty accurate for the most part. I think it covers about 16 different personality types, but each type varies within its own catagory depending of the strength of each individual characteristic. They are worth taking as long as they are not takentooseriously. Don`t let a negative trait in the results bum you out!
Venusxxx
Venusxxx
Would it be ok for us to build a webpage for SH to host before we post an Ad? We`d get great enjoyment from building one, showing off our wares etc, but I`m not quite ready to advertise for meets yet.
If it`s ok, then I`d need some advice on how to build from scratch, I`m pretty good at editing existing sites, and have some basic knowledge of HTML, and SQL, but this is based on self taught `muddling through`, which I enjoy! Yet I am amazingly ignorant of some of the basics. Would I need a programme to test the HTML off line first? I assume I would, but I don`t know what these programmes are called, so if someone could point me in the right direction I`d appreciate it!
Yes, I will blush, I probably deserve to!
Venusxxx
If it`s ok, then I`d need some advice on how to build from scratch, I`m pretty good at editing existing sites, and have some basic knowledge of HTML, and SQL, but this is based on self taught `muddling through`, which I enjoy! Yet I am amazingly ignorant of some of the basics. Would I need a programme to test the HTML off line first? I assume I would, but I don`t know what these programmes are called, so if someone could point me in the right direction I`d appreciate it!
Yes, I will blush, I probably deserve to!
Venusxxx
Arundel is not out of reach for us, but I`m unsure about finances at that point in the month. I won`t bore everyone, but suffice to say, overdrawn, bank charges, and money which gets swallowed as soon as it come in, really might make this an impossibilty! We really do want to come though, and will do our utmost!
I hope that a great many people show an interest, it will be our first, and we`d prefer to blend in the background.........this time! Hard to do if only a few people show!
OMG! My first post outside of The Cafe :eeek:
*looks around......
I`m a lost cause now!
Venusxxx
I hope that a great many people show an interest, it will be our first, and we`d prefer to blend in the background.........this time! Hard to do if only a few people show!
OMG! My first post outside of The Cafe :eeek:
*looks around......
I`m a lost cause now!
Venusxxx
I love all kinds of music, from Trance, Hard house, Tribal, to Pink Floyd, The Doors, SKA, rock, and Adam Ant, even some of my daughter`s tastes extend into mine, or should I say visa vera, Muse, Placebo, and much to her disgust, The Red Hot Chilli Peppers (she `grew out` of them!)!
Never been a huge fan of `Girly Pop` though, and if I do hear any I like, I tend to keep it under wraps, like a dirty little secret!
I love clubbing, proper clubbing, not the `meat markets`, because the atmosphere is so different to the one you find on a Saturday night in town, where the main sport is counting punchups on your way to the next pub! Everyone is there for the music, and everyone respects that.
Not that I go clubbing that often :violin: . Last time I went was in the last week of November, in Birmingham...................and that was a meat market!
Venusxxx
Never been a huge fan of `Girly Pop` though, and if I do hear any I like, I tend to keep it under wraps, like a dirty little secret!
I love clubbing, proper clubbing, not the `meat markets`, because the atmosphere is so different to the one you find on a Saturday night in town, where the main sport is counting punchups on your way to the next pub! Everyone is there for the music, and everyone respects that.
Not that I go clubbing that often :violin: . Last time I went was in the last week of November, in Birmingham...................and that was a meat market!
Venusxxx
Quote by DJohn
I'm not very good at confrontation. My response to intolerance is usually to ignore it. That doesn't mean that I approve; simply that I don't want to make things worse by throwing fuel onto the fire. Yes, I'm a wimp.
I haven't (yet) been involved in any actual swinging. So far I'm just here for the social side. Equal measures of lack of time, nerves, and my "don't ask, don't get turned down" nature.
In reveiwing the thread today, I do seem to have come across as a little provocative! I didn`t really think and `sex police` would respond to a challenge, which is just as well, as I`m not in the habit of becoming confrontational either! I can be, but I don`t like to be, primarily because my sex life, and anyone elses is noones business but their own, (and those they invite!)
I haven`t swung yet either, although I have had experiances with threesomes way back when!
Now I`m older and wiser I prefer this approach
Venusxxx
Golly, what a luscious enormous great cock..................
Um, I mean, er, what an excellent use of resources. I was particularly impressed by the use of the soft country light and fauna, which was particularly useful in recreating an ambiance remeniscent of the Pre-Raphaelite era, little seen since the late 19th century.
Well done
Venusxxx
Um, I mean, er, what an excellent use of resources. I was particularly impressed by the use of the soft country light and fauna, which was particularly useful in recreating an ambiance remeniscent of the Pre-Raphaelite era, little seen since the late 19th century.
Well done
Venusxxx
Quote by niceguysdoexist
Along with death disagreement is the only certainty in this world. Disagreemnt challenges us to re-examine our views of the world and often is the seed of change; sometimes it merely reaffirms our thoughts and feelings.
Which is why I invited the `Sex Police` to the thread. Where the hell are they?
Venusxxx
Thanks, I can`t look yet, but I will when the kids are in bed! I can just about get away with the forum if I scroll past the flashing pics at the top quick enough, and the kids are busy!
I have one plying with lego, and another with her nose stuck in a book, but I wont risk silkies just yet!
Venusxxx
I have one plying with lego, and another with her nose stuck in a book, but I wont risk silkies just yet!
Venusxxx
