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VenusnMars
Over 90 days ago
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Quote by JudyTV

*Thou shalt not buy a car in the colours of brown, pink, lime green, yellow or sky blue.
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Yea but, I know but, yea right but, I told ya but I didnt buy a pink car but i didnt nick it but and that is sooooooooo unfair cos my dad did buy me A PINK car. Sort of. Mark done it.
Judy

:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: <---- last one`s for Sarge :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Quote by Calista
:sleeping:
A yawn! I actually yawned ..... a first this year!!!
woohooo I'm off to bed whilst it's a fresh yawn ... hopefully I can sleep
nite xxx

Traitor!
Venusxxx
Sorry, don`t do red and blue, it disagrees with my natural colouring! :giggle:
Venusxxx
Quote by JudyTV
What is the best topic that you or anyone could talk about to keep the chit chat going

This comes across as a desperate need to post something , anything. It appears to be forcing the issue, the chat flows anyway allow its natural course by posting a positive topic.
Judy

Guilty of that myself Judy, 2am is a very lonely uninspiring place to be! Thank god I have some good company in chat!
Venusxxx
Quote by Calista
Wouldn't be another insomniac perchance???
I'm totally incapable of maintaining threads at the mo! LOL
C xxx
Doing pretty well on MSN though! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
It`s not `what` its `when`, us insomniacs get the thin end of the wedge!
And no, I`m not talking to you, I`m talking to a mate on MSN! :P
Venusxxx
Andy thanks, I should clarify that this was my first signing on after the initial interview. My previous experiance was that I`d be asked questions at each visit. I didn`t limit my options at the interview, I felt too guilty! Needless to say I have in fact only been applying for jobs which are relevent to my career aspirations, mainly because I want the security to get me off of benefits altogether, so a job with prospects is the way I want to go. However I felt as guilty as sin when I went in, and was quite relieved to be let off the hook so easily! It just occured to me that if I was inclined to stay on the dole, and that was now the general approach until someone hits six months (which seems not to be the case from your post), then they were making it very easy for me!
I do have a question, but I`m on MSN, so I`ll PM you later,
Cheers
Venusxxx
Oh, I`m going to have so much fun with this! :twisted:
Cept I can't find anything I want to post on now! rolleyes
Venusxxx
Quote by easy
I often run around the forum correcting Quotes that have gone wrong. surprised surprised surprised surprised

Does that make me as sad as Venus?? :shock: :shock: confused confused confused confused confused lol

I wondered who was editing the grammar and spelling in my posts. confused confused
(obviously Sarge has done this one. rolleyes lol lol lol )
wink :thumbup:
He will, I suggest we spread ourselves out a bit, he`ll never get them all!
BWUAHAHAHAHAHA :twisted:
Venusxxx
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
I really do wish you all the best in your job hunt and that you are successful in your interview on Friday. And Venus, if I offended you in any way, then I really do appologise.

No no, I apologise! :sparring: wink lol
Just a theory, but the way I see it, the bonuses and help offered to those who have been unemployed for six months or longer could be much better utilised from the beginning. I realise that this would involve much more cost at the outset, but considering the cost of supporting those who do end up claiming for the entire six months, would this not balance out, or even perhaps save money? It might also help to prevent people from becoming demoralised?
Just before Christmas I went into the job center in order to work on my cover letter and CV (there was more space and less kids), but I`d forgotten the stamps, I saw a sign saying that there were free stamps, and phone usage, and enquired, but wasn`t allowed any stamps (I could use the phones). No biggie, I just went to the Post Office!
I also consider myself lucky to have internet access, as this too is not available unless you have been out of work for a while. The jobs I apply for are frequently updated on a website, without my net access, I may have missed the position I`ve applied for. I`d also like to see more resources to enable people to undertake better paid postitions, instead of being encouraged to take on jobs which mean you simply have to swap one benefit for another! Whether it`s Unemployment, or Family credit, it all costs the tax payers, not enough effort is being put into long term workable solutions. Perhaps those who have families to support, or other dependants, could be fast tracked into gaining better qualifications in order to stay off of benefits in the long term.
I realise that many college course fees are greatly reduced for those on benefits, but it`s pretty damn soul destroying to have to drop out of a course halfway through because of finding badly paid work! Mars worked a 40 hour week, and it was hard slog, yet our tax credits were almost as much as his wage! This hardly left him the time or energy to further his prospects. Instead I have done that in periods between childrearing.
Vote accessable apprenticeships for those OVER 25!
Sorry, getting a little carried away! redface
Venusxxx
Quote by Sgt Bilko
I often run around the forum correcting Quotes that have gone wrong. surprised surprised surprised surprised
Does that make me as sad as Venus?? :shock: :shock: confused confused confused confused confused lol

OI!!! Who are you calling sad?!
Venusxxx
Debs, if you are feeling like this then it is a bad time, regardless of others, and you are entitled not to feel guilty by default!
kiss
Venusxxx
Thankyou LC smile
Now I have recovered from feeling like an absolute turd, can I clarify that I`d assumed it was the system at fault and not the individuals who have to work in this system?
I`m really very sorry if my thread upset you Naughty Wigan Couple, and honestly meant no offense, which is why I highlighted all those things I`ve been which are easy to pigeonhole. In fact, I encounter aggression when I mention my career aspirations, so I`ll be damned at both ends! lol
:rose:
Venusxxx
I`d suggest organising it a LONG time in advance if you want a good turnout. The numbers are not so great down South.
BTW Sussex would be nice ;)
Venusxxx
Perhaps it would be prudent at this stage to add that my despair is not aimed at...
No. Perhaps it would be prudent for me to add nothing. sad
Signed former council tenant, teen mum, who wasunmarried, has claimed benefits for best part of her life because of low wages, and also worked in telesales once.
Destined for hell.
Venusxxx
The use of Tory obviously went straight over your called irony
And that was called sarcasm!
Hey people, not on my watch! lol
Venusxxx
Quote by hornyred and dino
I was going to say "very" , but the topic isn`t what i thought it was going to be about redface

Me too! Even got all excited for about 2 second then!
Gawd what a let down :P lol Should we threadjack??should we , should we biggrin .
Sometimes I despair, I really do........ rolleyes wink
Venusxxx
Quote by neilinleeds
rotflmao
erm . . does typing 'em up in notepad, checking spelling, punctuation, swapping lines and paragraphs about, then pasting into the posting page and still doing it all over again in preview before hitting submit, and then going back to edit a single spelling mistake when i do the view your post thingie to check the formatting and tagging and stuff qualify? dunno lol
neil - not anal at all oh no!

And STILL the guy doesn`t know how to use Caps lock! wink
Venusxxx
Quote by little gem
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*Women who claim they "love to watch sports" must be treated as spies
until they demonstrate knowledge of the game and the ability to drink as
much as the other sports watchers.
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In which case it is perfectly acceptable to assume she is a lesbian*.
*It is every mans duty to try and convert a lesbian, unless allowed to watch.
Venusxxx
I have just finished editing yet another post (yes, it`s about the use of English you dirty-minded buggers), and became curious as to how anal others are here?
I`ll edit posts for the most petty of errors, a missing comma, the use of the word `got`, which I don`t like using, the odd typo and even when I review posts from months back, if I see a mistake I`ll edit it!
And yes, I do realise I still miss some, and in many cases am unaware a mistake has been made, because I`m not THAT good!
Venusxxx
No broken bones, no fillings, not had any childhood diseases in the way of chicken pox, mumps measles etc (unless you count glandular fever early on this year), not even had a nosebleed, ever.
Doncha just hate me?! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
One thing that does irritate me is that although my local job center is modern, has good resources for finding work, and so far I haven`t been kept waiting (more like `sign here` goodbye) is that they seem stuck in their policies to the point of not offering support when asked! I enquired about many things to help me get back into work, only to be told that these options were not available to me unless I`d been out of work for six months or longer, and years ago, when we had to run this guantlet, and it was DH who signed on, I was not able to get any support from them when trying to find work independantly because I had kids, and the fact I wasn`t the one on their books. Never mind that this would have helped get us off of Income support.
I have a lovely little book about how to look for work, and how to dress for interviews (look in papers and dress smart- gee ya think?!) but ask them for an advisor to go over your cover letter and CV for the more ambitious job, and they are at a loss (sorry, we only offer that service for people who have been out of work for six months confused )
It`s a damn good job that I`m clued up, because I`d hate to see how we`d be coping six months down the line.
Venusxxx
Quote by tallnhairy
Good luck in your interview Venus, hope it goes well...
As to job centres I know what you mean. I signed on for a while a few years back, ghastly place, no help whatsoever, rude, arrogant gits the lot of them. I think we should sack job centre staff and employee the un-employed.

Who could then make their previous advisors wait for an hour in a queue! rotflmao
Venusxxx
Welcome! Funny enough I didn`t actively look for the site either. I stumbled on it when I was doing some research on sexual deviancy for educational purposes! No, really! rotflmao
Venusxxx