C`mon ere then, we can be skanks united :mrgreen:
((((hugs))))) to you :rose:
Venusxxx
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Quote by Riff Raff:therethere: :therethere:
I't might not sound like a great comfort now.............
I`ll be the judge of that!
Posted: Sat Jan 08, 2005 3:15 pm Post subject:
Come back and play Venus , we miss you xx
Now that`s all going to depend on the game........ :twisted:
Hoping things will pick up soon, I`ve been shortlisted for a job, which is a foot in the door for a career path I want to follow. Even if I don`t get it, I`ve been shortlisted, which I hope will go a long way toward my being considered for future positions
Venusxxx
I suppose it depends very much upon a personal character. Some people find indepth relationships with friends more rewarding than others. I have friends who are content to have more genuine relationships with thier partners only, and they are the people who are less likely to be stung when a friend turns out to be `fair weather`. There are those, like me, who tend to prefer indepth friendships outside of a partnership. It opens us up to burnt fingers, but it`s a risk I`m prepared to take if I`m to have the rewarding social life I deserve. Unfortunately there is now way to know until proof comes to the pudding, unless a person is naturally perceptive.
Venusxxx
Venusxxx
You know I love it when it takes me so long to write a post that by the time I`ve posted it I`m managing to ramble off in a completely different direction and so manage to avoid the traffic accident 
Like a doddering old lady me...
Now I`m definately not touching this one :shock:
Leave you guys to it, later.
Venusxxx
Like a doddering old lady me...
Now I`m definately not touching this one :shock:
Leave you guys to it, later.
Venusxxx
Brave man! 
It would be nice if all cases turned out as happily as yours. The choice your birth mother made was good for you, and provided a childlesss couple with...um....you :shock:
OMG THOSE POOR PEOPLE!!
Seriously though, your point is a good one, adoption is an option which I feel should be made more accessable. The criteria prospective parents are expected to meet, are far more rigourous than those who can have their children naturally are expected to meet! Sometimes it can end in tragedy, when the birth mother demands her child back, and I wish there were an easy answer there too.
I`m going to give up now, I can`t compete with the damn cat!
Venusxxx
It would be nice if all cases turned out as happily as yours. The choice your birth mother made was good for you, and provided a childlesss couple with...um....you :shock:
OMG THOSE POOR PEOPLE!!
Seriously though, your point is a good one, adoption is an option which I feel should be made more accessable. The criteria prospective parents are expected to meet, are far more rigourous than those who can have their children naturally are expected to meet! Sometimes it can end in tragedy, when the birth mother demands her child back, and I wish there were an easy answer there too.
I`m going to give up now, I can`t compete with the damn cat!
Venusxxx
Quote by Libra-Love
Oh hun, haven't had time to read the thread, but big
Ta pet, and don`t worry, you didn`t miss much. I didn`t go into detail. I just needed a thread to help people distract me and stop me from brooding........to get me back into the swing of things so to speak! :P :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
I'm pissed and lonely, come swing with me
Oh! Now I`m going to feel guilty, I know what it`s like to be up and lonely!
((((hugs))))Venusxxx
And yup, insomnia is crap. Gonna try to get some kip though, since a couple of people have been PMing me and telling me off for staying up! There`s some good people here, even when you are quiet, but not sleeping, they will check up on you. :rose:
I`ll get my arse whipped if they see me up this late!
Goodnight everybody, and cheers for the distraction.
Venusxxx
I`ll get my arse whipped if they see me up this late!
Goodnight everybody, and cheers for the distraction.
Venusxxx
Quote by Libra-Love
Oh hun, haven't had time to read the thread, but big
Ta pet, and don`t worry, you didn`t miss much. I didn`t go into detail. I just needed a thread to help people distract me and stop me from brooding........to get me back into the swing of things so to speak! :P :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Certainly was!
For the benefit of those who don`t have a clue what we`re on about, it was the weekend of the Notts munch. I told Timmy how Mars had spotted one of our children`s teachers called `Mr Butt` in the middle of a busy town. The bugger shouted `Oi Butt!` at the top of his voice, and ran off to leave myself and the kids there looking like pratts.
Timmy died laughing. We died laughing because Timmy was...well you get the picture
Venusxxx
For the benefit of those who don`t have a clue what we`re on about, it was the weekend of the Notts munch. I told Timmy how Mars had spotted one of our children`s teachers called `Mr Butt` in the middle of a busy town. The bugger shouted `Oi Butt!` at the top of his voice, and ran off to leave myself and the kids there looking like pratts.
Timmy died laughing. We died laughing because Timmy was...well you get the picture
Venusxxx
Quote by tallnhairy
Only if you don't tell Mrs TnH
Cheer up babes, could be worse, I could be down with you explaining how DNS works
:shock: :shock: :shock:
Ah the AV etc.......for reasons I won`t go into here, a mate found SH, I wasn`t up for being too `in her face`, although I don`t mind her knowing...in baby steps though!
Venusxxx
Been under an immense amount of pressure at home, and been finding it a bit tough to join in, bit of a bugger when you can`t sleep either! That only serves to make you bored shitless.
So I figured I have nothing to lose by starting a `Look at me` thread. I actually don`t care what anyone makes of that, I have bigger fish to worry about! :moon: :mrgreen:
Gizza snog!
Venusxxx
So I figured I have nothing to lose by starting a `Look at me` thread. I actually don`t care what anyone makes of that, I have bigger fish to worry about! :moon: :mrgreen:
Gizza snog!
Venusxxx
Quote by stevio
The state should always be there to support people whether they be male or female at the time of most difficulty in their lives not when they choose to have a child knowing that the state would pick up the cost. To me that is not responsible parenting. So my point was why should society do so.
This would free up more money for the people that require aid and therefore give them more to help them in there period of need
I choose to have my child because I could not face the idea of having an abortion, and for me a connection was there from the very beginning. I couldn`t, and wouldn`t chose abortion over the `good of the state`, and neither could I give up my child after the birth. I was never a single parent, but the principle remained the same, as neither of us were working at that time.
We haven`t `chosen` to be dependant on benefits, which we have for many years, most of which has been whilst there hasbeen a wage coming into the house. I just don`t think there is a workable way of distinguishing between those who are in genuine hardship, and those who choose to put themselves in that place. I certainly don`t think it can be judged upon whether a woman decides to keep her child.
Ok, nuff of this, bedtime for me
Venusxxx
I rue the day that mothers are forced to give up thier babies because they are not in a position to support them financially. Far too much of a terrifying thought to have someone `decide` whose being a leech and whose life has simply taken an unlucky turn. Better these mothers are offered training and jobs which offer childcare support, or even better, home employment.
Many mothers do manage to get access to education and training at the expense of society, but once they are out the otherside, also manage to give much back to society.
There is no easy answer.
Venusxxx
Many mothers do manage to get access to education and training at the expense of society, but once they are out the otherside, also manage to give much back to society.
There is no easy answer.
Venusxxx
