I`m out of the loop, didn`t realise there had been a robbery!
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Got it! Judy you owe me one 
Venusxxx
In Britain there are many words to describe people from this social group, and they are often limited to a particular town or region. Other words with a similar meaning to chav are townie, scally, ned and charver. The word chav has become common in southern England, and is generally thought to come from Chatham girls (Chatham is a town in Kent.) Some people think, however, that the word comes originally from the Romany word chavo (boy), which is also the origin of the Spanish word chaval.
Venusxxx
No worries 
Your problem is that if your are only using 25 yo and black in your description, then in getting a curt response then I suppose it might be easy for you to narrow the problem down to your use of the word black. However, the problem is broader than that, it`s your approach in its entirety, or perhaps I should say lack thereof.
Although there are some here who find the anonymous act exciting, with so many time wasters on the site, a little more effort is needed before people will take offers of meets etc seriously. They need to see that a member is prepared to put the effort in. Single men in particular have their work cut out for them, as there are so many.
If you are single, then your best bet would be to join in the conversation in the Cafe, and not to PM girls without invitation until you are a little better known, or at least have something more to offer than just a brief description.
I hope this helps
In fact, if you look around, I think you`ll find some threads and site information offering some very good advice to help you get started.
Venusxxx
Your problem is that if your are only using 25 yo and black in your description, then in getting a curt response then I suppose it might be easy for you to narrow the problem down to your use of the word black. However, the problem is broader than that, it`s your approach in its entirety, or perhaps I should say lack thereof.
Although there are some here who find the anonymous act exciting, with so many time wasters on the site, a little more effort is needed before people will take offers of meets etc seriously. They need to see that a member is prepared to put the effort in. Single men in particular have their work cut out for them, as there are so many.
If you are single, then your best bet would be to join in the conversation in the Cafe, and not to PM girls without invitation until you are a little better known, or at least have something more to offer than just a brief description.
I hope this helps
In fact, if you look around, I think you`ll find some threads and site information offering some very good advice to help you get started.
Venusxxx
Quote by AndyS-NE
I see no problem with using black in the description, I`d use `brunette` in much the same way, it`s a strong visual characteristic.......however, I agree, most here prefer a little effort. A preference for diversity does NOT indicate easy. That was the problem, not your skin colour!
Venusxxx
Not sayiing it's a problem, but his only physical descriptor is black, no mention of anything else, i would presume if you placed an ad with some sort of description of your hair you'd offer further details about height, body size etc.
I was just wondering why he felt tthe need to only offer the black bit thats all.
Cynical mind maybe!
Akso i am in a shite mood so may be picking up on totally pointless things !!!
Oh, I didn`t mean to suggest that yousaw it as a problem, but he did, and I cringed to think that hisidea of racism would be enforced by the suspician! And yes, I would offer a great deal more.
Sorry you are in a shite mood :rose:
Venusxxx
Quote by MQ
As long as I don't have to dress like a Chav it's alright!
OK I admit being totally out of touch with pop culture but WTF is a Chav?
Roger the hibernating Dragon.
It's those nasty common teenagers who hang around in gangs wearing sportswear and wearing half of Argos jewellery department! Usually scruffy, thick, and accompanied by manky females wearing huge hoop earrings with their hair scraped back in a ponytail ('council facelift') and wearing Clown necklaces and pushing grubby whinging brats in filthy buggies while screaming at them and shoving stained bottles of tea and Greggs sausage rolls in their mouths.
Um..broadly speaking of course........
Venusxxx
Quote by JudyTV
What we're talking about here is something very small and discrete and much more classy...........
Classy?! But then I`d have to ditch the shell suits, buy new clothes to match, stop wearing Claire`s Accessory crap.......and I`m not sure I could get a Social fund loan to cover this.
You see the can of worms here? Divisions are being made already!
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Venus
I know what you mean about Claire's Accessory Shop, its strange how you go in with the intention of not buying anything at all and always manage to part with a tenner on crap. It always amazes me.
Judy A girl after my own heart! :lol2:
Venusxxx
Quote by Ice Pie
What we're talking about here is something very small and discrete and much more classy...........
Classy?! But then I`d have to ditch the shell suits, buy new clothes to match, stop wearing Claire`s Accessory crap.......and I`m not sure I could get a Social fund loan to cover this.
You see the can of worms here? Divisions are being made already!
Venusxxx
