My ex-boss used to look after my boy after school once a week whilst I cared for my mum-in-law. She kept asking if he could stay the night, sometimes two, and it was becoming a habit. Her boy has everything, and I couldn`t help feel that she was using my son to `entertain` her nipper. It just didn`t sit well with me.
My mum has him after school on a Wednesday now.
Venusxxx
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((((Debs))))) Now you`ve brought it up, I`m sure much of it will stop. You are such a bubbly character with a great sense of humour about all of your traits, I rather had the impression that many people were trying to laugh with you about it, not at you.
Perhaps for the most part no malice has been intended.
I hope that helps.
BTW, Mars can`t spell for shit either!
Venusxxx
Perhaps for the most part no malice has been intended.
I hope that helps.
BTW, Mars can`t spell for shit either!
Venusxxx
(you can have back the one I edited earlier......seeing as Sarge is rationing them) :mrgreen:Quote by Silk and Big G
No need to be coy Hayley . It was me that said that in a reply to your confusing PM . We dont have to keep it secret , we think SH is a bit of fun on the internet . It has great intelligent and funny people and is most definately the best of its kind weve encountered .
But thats all it is , a bit of fun , and not huge at all in the scheme of things .
I`m glad this was brought up, because it`s a sentiment that has been voiced before, which for me personally, and for a few others, is not actually the case.
In my case I have very few offline friends who I can interact with as fully as I`d like to, they seem to be of a different breed! That is not to say I`m an unpopular saddo, simply that I get more satisfaction from life interacting with the kind of openminded (amongst other things ;) ) people who are rife on SH. Now, I could have carried on hanging out with only people who didn`t stimulate me, or just not bothered interacting with people at all, but neither of these options appealed to me much, so I did something about it! When I found SH, I recognised that I would be able to build the kind of real life circle of friends a personality like mine demands. I have been determined that this would extend beyond the keyboard, and it has, but due to distance and finance, the main bulk of my contact is acheived through the SH forum.
As a result we both have many close friends here, and just because we are separated by the PC, it is not an indication that the person I am interacting with is any less of a person as a result. For people like me, bust ups on here are just as valid as falling out with any friend in the flesh.
For some here, this forum is just a bit of fun, and that`s fine, others choose to make more of it than that, and that`s valid too, as long as it IS fulfilling, then whatever approach is not an indication of `not having a life` (Big G, I know you didn`t say that)
People just need to realise that some things mean different things others. It`s a personal thing. I suppose it depends what your scheme is, and what you decide to make of it.
Venusxxx
I`d be really interested in the results, even from those who doubt the validity of such tests (yes, and I do know the online tests are very `loose`!)
My results-
In fact, if you are a cynic, let me know, it`d be interesting to see if those of you who are share a trait! :P
Venusxxx
My results-
Your Type is
ENTP
Extroverted Intuitive Thinking Perceiving
Strength of the preferences %
67 67 22 33
You are:
distinctively expressed extrovert
distinctively expressed intuitive personality
slightly expressed thinking personality
moderately expressed perceiving personality
In fact, if you are a cynic, let me know, it`d be interesting to see if those of you who are share a trait! :P
Venusxxx
After feeding Vegetarians on the above diet for three weeks, marinate in a combination of soy sauce, ginger, brown sugar and vinegar, overnight in the fridge. Slow roast (40 minutes per 1lb) basting on a regular basis. Serve hot with Egg fried rice and green tea.
Alternatively cover with Fig leaves and garlic cloves, and smoke over hickory, this process will take several days, but after cooking the meat will keep for longer.
If unsure of the smoking process, please refer to the `Jag`s essential SH member cookbook`.
*Please note that all SH vegetarians are free range and have not been genetically modified in any way.
Venusxxx
Alternatively cover with Fig leaves and garlic cloves, and smoke over hickory, this process will take several days, but after cooking the meat will keep for longer.
If unsure of the smoking process, please refer to the `Jag`s essential SH member cookbook`.
*Please note that all SH vegetarians are free range and have not been genetically modified in any way.
Venusxxx
It`s ok everyone, I found him!
Venusxxx
Troller is looking for a response...ANY response, and he will chum the waters with complaints, insults, compliments, and inflammatory tidbits hoping that someone...ANYONE, will take the bait. Generally quite harmless - practices a form of catch and release. Nonetheless, he can upset the delicate ecology of a discussion forum. Once a forum becomes aware of his presence, however, all feeding activity ceases and Troller must move on to more promising waters.
Venusxxx
Quote by well_busty_babe
its tongueys fault i had to climb loads of steps!!!!!!!!
he found us a "short cut"up to the sacrecour spelling???), anyway.. it was not till we reached the top of montmatre (so named cos its a f###king MOUNTAIN,) that we saw the cable car that we could have taken instead!!!!!!!!!!!!
hmph
That`s where I stayed when I went there. Did you go to the Louvre? My stay was an art trip, the experiance will stay with me always.
Missed you.
DON`T DO IT AGAIN!!!
Venusxxx
Hmm, posted twice, such is my connection :huh:
Steve, I suppose in that case I shouldn`t add that I am now wearing the robe I made for him, and that it actually looks quite sexy!
That said, wearing my sons Greek costume for horny purposes makes me the biggest monster of them all :shock: :shock:
Venusxxx
Steve, I suppose in that case I shouldn`t add that I am now wearing the robe I made for him, and that it actually looks quite sexy!
That said, wearing my sons Greek costume for horny purposes makes me the biggest monster of them all :shock: :shock:
Venusxxx
Quote by Calista
Been having a fairly good day although I'm fecking tired ...
i blame you and Little Gem personally ;) ;)
*COUGH COUGH SPLUTTER*
And I suppose you and Little Gem had nothing to do with why I was making this costume at 7am today?!!!
I`m chuffed to bits with my lad, he`s done nothing but write in Greek since he came home from school, and has been going to friends houses to show them his schoolwork. It`s great to see such enthusaism
Venusxxx
Quote by Calista
Been having a fairly good day although I'm fecking tired ...
i blame you and Little Gem personally ;) ;)
*COUGH COUGH SPLUTTER*
And I suppose you and Little Gem had nothing to do with why I was making this costume at 7am today?!!!
I`m chuffed to bits with my lad, he`s done nothing but write in Greek since he came home from school, and has been going to friends houses to show them his schoolwork. It`s great to see such enthusiasm
Venusxxx
First of all I actually managed to send my boy to school in a Greek costume......which actually looked Greek! :shock:
He asked me nicely not to send him to school looking like a carpet this time, I think he was trying to highlight something :huh:
My connection has been pants, been connecting, reading, posting, connecting, reading.....
It`s been driving me nuts!
Sarge thinks he won the battle of PMs....silly bugger, I`m regrouping Sarge, you may have won the battle, but you didn`t win the war! You`d think being a military man he`d have recognised this, but no, he`s been too busy getting carnal with emoticons. The beast should be locked up.
As should those who have been unmentionable with certain specialist brands of sausage :shock: :shock:
But, the best part of the day is, Mars took the gas card and electric key in for recharging, £10 quid on both. He handed over his £20, and the shopkeeper inadvertantly put £20 quid on both!
Not our mistake, and we get to keep it! How cool is that?! :bounce:
Venusxxx
He asked me nicely not to send him to school looking like a carpet this time, I think he was trying to highlight something :huh:
My connection has been pants, been connecting, reading, posting, connecting, reading.....
It`s been driving me nuts!
Sarge thinks he won the battle of PMs....silly bugger, I`m regrouping Sarge, you may have won the battle, but you didn`t win the war! You`d think being a military man he`d have recognised this, but no, he`s been too busy getting carnal with emoticons. The beast should be locked up.
As should those who have been unmentionable with certain specialist brands of sausage :shock: :shock:
But, the best part of the day is, Mars took the gas card and electric key in for recharging, £10 quid on both. He handed over his £20, and the shopkeeper inadvertantly put £20 quid on both!
Not our mistake, and we get to keep it! How cool is that?! :bounce:
Venusxxx
No, not at all, but then if this is in reference to Gooner, I didn`t read his threads after the first couple so I`m not sure how obnoxious he was!
Saw you get mad for the first time today Deb..........wow :shock:
I am a tad leery on what opinions I should share for fear of encouraging discussions which quickly go downhill, and I don`t want to be the participant of anymore grief for the mods, and I wouldn`t be surprised if even this thread ends up deteriorating.
Shame, but it`ll pass, such is the traffic here.
I`ll just be me, and anyone who thinks I`m contributing to any downhill slide can feel free to PM me Hopefully I`m being careful enough!
Venusxxx
Saw you get mad for the first time today Deb..........wow :shock:
I am a tad leery on what opinions I should share for fear of encouraging discussions which quickly go downhill, and I don`t want to be the participant of anymore grief for the mods, and I wouldn`t be surprised if even this thread ends up deteriorating.
Shame, but it`ll pass, such is the traffic here.
I`ll just be me, and anyone who thinks I`m contributing to any downhill slide can feel free to PM me
Hopefully I`m being careful enough!Venusxxx
Well, to be honest, some of these discussions have been quite interesting when they haven`t become too aggressive. The aggression tends to crop up and destroy any rational adult contributions. Some of us try to add humour to diffuse it, some of us try to avoid the thread altogether, and some of us would like to see some of the more restrained discussions continued, but feel safer if we just run for the hills!
So, in my most restrained and rational manner, for I am genuinely perplexed. I`ll ask the following.
If someone posts a fairly aggressive criticism of a thread/post, and as a result receives a fairly aggressive criticism back. How is it an acceptable working argument that the person reacting to the original criticism should just avoid the post?! Especially if this is coming from the poster of the original criticism of a post they didn`t like?! How does this work exactly, and how could I have worded that better?! 
Venusxxx
So, in my most restrained and rational manner, for I am genuinely perplexed. I`ll ask the following.
If someone posts a fairly aggressive criticism of a thread/post, and as a result receives a fairly aggressive criticism back. How is it an acceptable working argument that the person reacting to the original criticism should just avoid the post?! Especially if this is coming from the poster of the original criticism of a post they didn`t like?! How does this work exactly, and how could I have worded that better?!
Venusxxx
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