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Versace__Vase
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 122
0 miles · Derbyshire
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Good luck. Quote by Vix
We were talking earlier and realised we have not fucked anyone else for bloomin' sges!
Is there anyone out there who fancies a visit to Somerset, to stop over, no pressure (yeah right!!)
I am 35, and enjoy 2 into 1. He is 41 and (almost) as lovely as me.
PM me, please? I want cock... tonight!
122082 -is us
Do you know, what gets my goat is when people advertise, they never really get to the point of what they actually want, must be another newbie
Its not him thats depressed, its her, thats why she left him, and yes he is totally upset at the whole situation. but im sorry, and i know i might get a right kicking for this, the facts as i see them are, she wants space, fine, not a problem with that, but she left him without a word, not a note, nothing to say where she was going, and then turns up in the pubs he goes in, in the areas of the pub we as a group, always go. I just think thats not on depressed or not. to me i think he should just put this down to experience and get on with his life and leave her to her depression. and im not being nasty, she didnt look too clever either. but when they spent all that time together and now cant speak about a problem that thier relationship didnt cause. well baffling.
Well, guys, ive looked and read everything youve said, after everything, we go out on a lads night out, tonight, and hey gues what, she turns up with two of her friends, in the same pubs that we go to, sat or stood in the same place that we usually go, and its not usually her night out. i told him to go and have a chat with her." no im giving her space." Sorry with all due respect but i think its bang out of order. didnt say anything but come on she could have sat or stood else where.
Not sure on question 1 hed had the affair, and shed stopped with him for two years to try to make it work, but realized she couldnt trust him. and got out.
Question 2 no children.
and was he right to give him a mouthfull, i agree, they are still married mind, although, he bought her out of the house and she bought a new one with a view on renting it, which was a joint idea by him and her. But he was sticking his 2 peneth in way too much.
However i was talking to another close (down to earth) friend and he said
" Cant see a problem, she knows how happy they were before the depresion, and when she starts to come out the other side she will realize what she had, and should want it back. If not he will know that theres something or someone else involved."
Question 2 no children.
and was he right to give him a mouthfull, i agree, they are still married mind, although, he bought her out of the house and she bought a new one with a view on renting it, which was a joint idea by him and her. But he was sticking his 2 peneth in way too much.
However i was talking to another close (down to earth) friend and he said
" Cant see a problem, she knows how happy they were before the depresion, and when she starts to come out the other side she will realize what she had, and should want it back. If not he will know that theres something or someone else involved."
Ive just called round on my way home from work, hes sat looking at his mobile praying for it to ring or beep, as i walked in, he was looking at the little love notes shed written to him, anyway guys and gals hes coming round to me tonight to watch the game and have a few drinks, i cant really say we will watch much of the game, probably just talk, however he is a big England fan and the irony of the situation is the her husband.... is Irish. ouch.
Thanks for your views,
Hes never lied to me before, far from it.
The facts are as he sees it, he bent over backwards to help her, she told him she loved him, she did say that she needed space and he couldnt understsand it. which yes in hignsight was wrong, and yes he did phone the husband back to basicly tell him to leave her alone which turned into a slanging match, which to be honest i "dont" think was wrong. i think he had every right to give him a mouth full. She didnt leave a note which again i think is wrong and he did try to contact her, but she didnt take his call.
So the way i see it. Is she still feels something for the husband wether it be lust or grief, the illness is life threatening, that is if hes actually got something and not making it up.
or the deppression has compleatly screwed her up and she does need some space. Just to complicate things further she still left some cloths at his house???
Gues ill just listen and learn.
God im glad to be single
Hes never lied to me before, far from it.
The facts are as he sees it, he bent over backwards to help her, she told him she loved him, she did say that she needed space and he couldnt understsand it. which yes in hignsight was wrong, and yes he did phone the husband back to basicly tell him to leave her alone which turned into a slanging match, which to be honest i "dont" think was wrong. i think he had every right to give him a mouth full. She didnt leave a note which again i think is wrong and he did try to contact her, but she didnt take his call.
So the way i see it. Is she still feels something for the husband wether it be lust or grief, the illness is life threatening, that is if hes actually got something and not making it up.
or the deppression has compleatly screwed her up and she does need some space. Just to complicate things further she still left some cloths at his house???
Gues ill just listen and learn.
God im glad to be single
Ive just left my best friend whos in absolute bits. Theres not a lot i can say to him except hey you will feel better in time and i dont know. All i can do is recount the story he gave me,
About eight months ago he met a smashing woman. They met, and fell in love and started living together almost imeadiately, (she had been sepperated from her husband who had been having an affair,) they really were the perfect couple. or seemed it, after about four months into the relationship his girlfriend was diagnosed with stress and deppression. brought on with family/work/marrige problems which had been bubbleing under the surface for years. However for the last four months hes sat, listened, talked, helped his girlfriend and they thought that she was getting better, after two months off, she returned to work.
Apparently her husband started ringing her up, turning up at work, it seemed as tho every time he approached her that the husband expected a phone call back from her. He demanded a divorce infront of all her work collegues, she didnt ring, then he said a suspected serious illness had reacured. she didnt ring, then the husband started ringing the family, which started causing her more problems, finaly she stated that she " thought" she needed some space from the boyfriend, because it wasnt fair her feeling sorry about the husband although she didnt fancy him in that way. Jim in a vain attempt to snap her out of it said that if she left that would be it. the relationship would be over.
Unfortunatly on Sunday night the husband made another attempt to call her but spoke to jim and lets just say words were said.
She came home from work in the morning, to find that the husband and boyfriend had argued over the phone. The upshot of it all, she left the boyfriend. They didnt argue, he went to work and when he came back she was gone, no letter, no explanation no nothing, and all he asked me is why. and im affraid i dont have any answers, She said that she still loved him but , again i dont know. He wont phone her because he says its obvious she wants space. Hes just in absolute bits.
So if anyone out there can tell me about deppresion do tell because i dont have any of the answers for him.
About eight months ago he met a smashing woman. They met, and fell in love and started living together almost imeadiately, (she had been sepperated from her husband who had been having an affair,) they really were the perfect couple. or seemed it, after about four months into the relationship his girlfriend was diagnosed with stress and deppression. brought on with family/work/marrige problems which had been bubbleing under the surface for years. However for the last four months hes sat, listened, talked, helped his girlfriend and they thought that she was getting better, after two months off, she returned to work.
Apparently her husband started ringing her up, turning up at work, it seemed as tho every time he approached her that the husband expected a phone call back from her. He demanded a divorce infront of all her work collegues, she didnt ring, then he said a suspected serious illness had reacured. she didnt ring, then the husband started ringing the family, which started causing her more problems, finaly she stated that she " thought" she needed some space from the boyfriend, because it wasnt fair her feeling sorry about the husband although she didnt fancy him in that way. Jim in a vain attempt to snap her out of it said that if she left that would be it. the relationship would be over.
Unfortunatly on Sunday night the husband made another attempt to call her but spoke to jim and lets just say words were said.
She came home from work in the morning, to find that the husband and boyfriend had argued over the phone. The upshot of it all, she left the boyfriend. They didnt argue, he went to work and when he came back she was gone, no letter, no explanation no nothing, and all he asked me is why. and im affraid i dont have any answers, She said that she still loved him but , again i dont know. He wont phone her because he says its obvious she wants space. Hes just in absolute bits.
So if anyone out there can tell me about deppresion do tell because i dont have any of the answers for him.
Only a personal point of view, and probably not a popular one, try to spice up you sex life and light the flame again without the aid of swinging, Just between the two of you. Im sure the ladies on here would be prepaired to give a little verbal advice and ideas.
Then when and if you feel the need to experiment, then so be it...
Then when and if you feel the need to experiment, then so be it...
Quote by fabio grooverider
anyone wanna come round then?
if it helps anyone... I can certainly vouch for these 2 people being absolutly gems......
if there is any single bi fems looking at this and dithering about getting in contact with then, then make their day and do so....
sean xxxxxxx
:) :) :) :)And i can vouch that Fabio is a very good judge of character, and good with directions, especially around Newcast#e after the N/E munch
