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Witchy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 56
UK
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Quote by fluff_n_stuff
I'm with Minxy, if I thought saying sorry would make someone feel better, I see no harm in saying it. It causes me no hardship whether I think I'm to blame or not. I try to instil in my children that it is bigger to say sorry and mean it even if you think is not justified, than to refuse and make someone else feel aggrieved unnecessarily. If I collide with someone in the street/supermarket, I always say sorry and my kids see that. That's more a matter of basic courtesy. If I bump into someone, I'll apologise even if the fault was mutual. It's an accident. Apologising when you're not at fault is more akin to saying sorry if someone has rudely and deliberately barged you out of the way. I hope it makes them realise that saying sorry does not weaken you.
Ok, so you've wronged me. You've done me an obvious disservice. For the purpose of this discussion, it's a black & white fact. There's hostility. I apologise. What has that achieved? You've seen that you can wrong people and get away with it. It's merely reinforced your bad behaviour.
Saying sorry when you're wrong is the correct thing to do. Saying it for the wrong reasons is only storing up problems.
Messy quoting, lack of time. Pah.
Minx, in here as in real life, people will argue. There will always be strong opinions, and each argument has more than one side. Arguments come about because people have different standpoints, or different memories of the same event. You can't make people be nice to eachother- to stop people falling out you'd need to police peoples emotions.
I agree that if you're in the wrong you should step up to the mark & apologise. There's not a snowball in hells chance you'll find me apologising for something I haven't done. It solves nothing. You can apologise for hurt caused by a remark, whilst standing by the remark.
There are many, many people on here capable of disagreeing with another persons standpoint without getting personal. They can debate whilst remaining friends, and it's wonderful to see.
I'd rather see some of the grudges taken to PM. The sniping & backbiting can become tiresome. However, the steam room is there for people to vent. If it upsets your sensibilities, steer clear, and stay happy.
Simples
I agree that if you're in the wrong you should step up to the mark & apologise. There's not a snowball in hells chance you'll find me apologising for something I haven't done. It solves nothing. You can apologise for hurt caused by a remark, whilst standing by the remark.
There are many, many people on here capable of disagreeing with another persons standpoint without getting personal. They can debate whilst remaining friends, and it's wonderful to see.
I'd rather see some of the grudges taken to PM. The sniping & backbiting can become tiresome. However, the steam room is there for people to vent. If it upsets your sensibilities, steer clear, and stay happy.
Simples
@Mar
Quote by Lucyandmike7
I dont like "visuals" at all, but then I aint very keen on BJs either.
A man who doesnt like BJs??
Never heard of that before Ben!
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I'm not in to porn at all in any form.
One of Travelmans posts got me wondering though the other day, about the video section on the bar above.
I had never clicked on that before, who has to watch all of those and allow them to be posted????
There was a thread on the subject, many moons ago. However, subject of said thread was subsequently converted.
An alternative for Cherry- I can just hear her singing it;
In these shoes, Kirsty Macoll.
Movin on up, M People- for Flizzard & Stormy
Sunshine on Leith, The Proclaimers for Maz
Sex is on fire, Kings of Leon for Splendid
You've got a friend, (by everyone who ever made a record) For Mar.
There'll be more...
:idea:
In these shoes, Kirsty Macoll.
Movin on up, M People- for Flizzard & Stormy
Sunshine on Leith, The Proclaimers for Maz
Sex is on fire, Kings of Leon for Splendid
You've got a friend, (by everyone who ever made a record) For Mar.
There'll be more...
:idea:
I only care about the opinions of people who matter to me, of me.
They're the ones who know me, and they're the ones I care about. If someone has come to matter to me, I know they're not a fuckwit. That's not to say that anyone I don't care for is one, mind you.
In the same way, people I care nothing for don't have the ability to hurt me. I don't try to come across as anything I'm not. What would be the point? Take it or leave it, I am what I am. 99% nice, but with a Turbo Boost on my bitch switch. Fortunately, few people flick it these days - a result of either maturity or contentment with who I am I guess.
They're the ones who know me, and they're the ones I care about. If someone has come to matter to me, I know they're not a fuckwit. That's not to say that anyone I don't care for is one, mind you.
In the same way, people I care nothing for don't have the ability to hurt me. I don't try to come across as anything I'm not. What would be the point? Take it or leave it, I am what I am. 99% nice, but with a Turbo Boost on my bitch switch. Fortunately, few people flick it these days - a result of either maturity or contentment with who I am I guess.
Inflammation of the foreskin reminds of your smile
I've had ballanital chancroids for quite a little while
I gave my heart to NSU that lovely night in June
I ache for you my darling, and I hope you get well soon
My clapped-out genitalia is not so bad for me
As the complete and utter failure every time I try to pee
My doctor says my buboes are the worst he's ever seen
My scrotum's painted orange and my balls are turning green
My heart is vert tender though the parts are awful raw
You might have been infected but you never were a bore
I'm dying of your love, my love, I'm your spirochaetal clown
I've left my body to science but I'm afraid they've turned it down
My penile warts your herpes, my syphilitic sores
Your moenelial infetion, how I miss you more and more
Your dnob's itch my scrumpox, our lovely gonorrhoea
At least we both were lying when we said that we were clear
Our syphilic kisses sealed the secret of our tryst
You gave me scrotal pustules with a quick flick of your wrist
Your trichovaginitis sent shivers down my spine
I got snail tracks in my anus when you spirochaetes met mine
Gonoccalurethritis, streptocalbalinitis
Meningo myelitis, diplococcal cephalitis
Epididymitis interstitial keratitis
Syphilitic choroiditis and anterior uveitis
For someone in the field
I've had ballanital chancroids for quite a little while
I gave my heart to NSU that lovely night in June
I ache for you my darling, and I hope you get well soon
My clapped-out genitalia is not so bad for me
As the complete and utter failure every time I try to pee
My doctor says my buboes are the worst he's ever seen
My scrotum's painted orange and my balls are turning green
My heart is vert tender though the parts are awful raw
You might have been infected but you never were a bore
I'm dying of your love, my love, I'm your spirochaetal clown
I've left my body to science but I'm afraid they've turned it down
My penile warts your herpes, my syphilitic sores
Your moenelial infetion, how I miss you more and more
Your dnob's itch my scrumpox, our lovely gonorrhoea
At least we both were lying when we said that we were clear
Our syphilic kisses sealed the secret of our tryst
You gave me scrotal pustules with a quick flick of your wrist
Your trichovaginitis sent shivers down my spine
I got snail tracks in my anus when you spirochaetes met mine
Gonoccalurethritis, streptocalbalinitis
Meningo myelitis, diplococcal cephalitis
Epididymitis interstitial keratitis
Syphilitic choroiditis and anterior uveitis
For someone in the field
Paying taxes to the government doesn't buy anyone the right to make me ill.
Smoker friendly pubs could work in principle. However, ensuring they were staffed by people who had genuinely volunteered for the jobs couold be a nightmare. I'd imagine they'd have to sign disclaimers too...it could be a minefield.
Smoker friendly pubs could work in principle. However, ensuring they were staffed by people who had genuinely volunteered for the jobs couold be a nightmare. I'd imagine they'd have to sign disclaimers too...it could be a minefield.
My first "love" added me on facebook a while ago. I sent a "Hi, how ya doing" message- it was friendly and had no sexual overtones whatsoever.
He messaged back, hitting on me.
My first *real* love- the five times a night type love :rascal: - I've not seen for 20ish years. I do think of him occasionally- but usually only when the OH is trying to wind me up & make me jealous. He comes in handy then as he was hung like a donkey
I do occasionally wonder what became of him
He messaged back, hitting on me.
My first *real* love- the five times a night type love :rascal: - I've not seen for 20ish years. I do think of him occasionally- but usually only when the OH is trying to wind me up & make me jealous. He comes in handy then as he was hung like a donkey
I do occasionally wonder what became of him
Dear Creator,
it is with regret that I find it necessary to write to you. Unfortunately, it would seem that the equipment you provided me with has left me, well, ill equipped. I do believe that under the consumer protection act, my wife has cause to ask for a refund.
I would like to give you the opporchancity (TM) to rectify this matter before we demand a complete replacement. Should I awake tomorrow with the face of George Clooney, the body of a young Clint Eastwood and a penis which would make Ron Jeremy cower in the shower- I will take the matter no further.
I trust that now I have bought this matter to your attention, we can deal with the situation amicably and there will be no need for me to involve Watchdog.
Yours sincerely,
Resonance.
Aka Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells.
There you go- a template
it is with regret that I find it necessary to write to you. Unfortunately, it would seem that the equipment you provided me with has left me, well, ill equipped. I do believe that under the consumer protection act, my wife has cause to ask for a refund.
I would like to give you the opporchancity (TM) to rectify this matter before we demand a complete replacement. Should I awake tomorrow with the face of George Clooney, the body of a young Clint Eastwood and a penis which would make Ron Jeremy cower in the shower- I will take the matter no further.
I trust that now I have bought this matter to your attention, we can deal with the situation amicably and there will be no need for me to involve Watchdog.
Yours sincerely,
Resonance.
Aka Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells.
There you go- a template
Quote by Resonance
Oh, so you want verification when it is GOOD do you eh? Typical... Mutter, grump, groan, whine, wheedle, Waddle, Lineker, Beardsley...
My good news is that today, I didn't stub my toe against the front door while opening it to a tardily dressed Jehovah's witness with Halitosis and a strange side parting that even Richard Whiteley would not have accepeted sartorially. Who then turned out to be my long lost, better looking and more elegant brother.
Sometimes, you have to be thankful for the small things.
Should we expect the "Give thanks for Resonance's Manhood" thread tonight, or tommorrow?
