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Quote by northwest-cpl

now that is simply not true. there was something like a whole 4 or 5 day period when i simply wasn't here! just having the odd browse doesn't count. you can only be here if you post, and given that i was deactivated and had no account, then clearly, i was not here.

Is browsing the forum equivalent of soft-swinging? Can anyone verify that you were only browsing?
so you're now suggesting verification be applied to forum! just leave it right! i can't be arsed with another 50 page thread on that little chestnut ta very much! :lol2:
Quote by MikeNorth
Hi Neil,
I see you've changed that sig that said you were back to observe the chaos that SH was declining into in its last days - does that mean you think we might last a little longer??
Mike.

no mike not at all! i mean yes! i've been persuaded that being Certified as a loon by Warwick, and as a Kinky Slapper by Blue, might have some merit after all. we're just seeing how it pans out?
but, my usually accurate psychic skills seem to have been off-beam. the chaos and open warfare predictions were pretty accurate tho! ;)
n x x x ;)
Woo Hoo !!! ((( TM Missy 2004 )))
:bounce: Congrats on 1000 posts!!!! :bounce:
so xxdevil69 is officially a Goddess! well we knew that anyways, but least it's now official! ;)
see you saturday! and can you believe i hit my 50th post today? get that! :lol2:
neil x x x ;)
bassman
best of luck mate. take it easy. and take it from one who knows, it ain't quiet so easy to stay away goddammit! :lol2:
neil x x x ;)
Quote by honeyriderx
yes iam 19 and im not just looking for a woman 39-50 im looking for a woman that will dominate , if ya know wat i mean

What you mean smack your bum and put you to bed with no tea you bad boy smackbottom :smackbottom:
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
so that's what happens? always wondered about the whole Dom thing? dunno
n x x x ;)
Quote by JonJon
"You're a typical member of the most unwelcome of cliques - wealthy, vacuous, pretty young things, who couldn't give a fuck about the true ethos of the site but, rather, simply want to add swinging to their social CV"

rotflmao
erm . . can i just point out that despite my well known objection to clques of any kind, it was not me that sent it! just in case! :lol2:
JonJon, don't worry mate. i've been accused of it too in my time. fair made my day it did! woo hoo!
n x x x ;)
Quote by RedHot
i think we should just keep this thread going to keep neil here
:twisted:

Shh! Don't tell anyone, but he's been here all the time wink
T-J
now that is simply not true. there was something like a whole 4 or 5 day period when i simply wasn't here! just having the odd browse doesn't count. you can only be here if you post, and given that i was deactivated and had no account, then clearly, i was not here.
now please don't entice me into more logical argument and rants cos i've had enough of 'em ok! :mad:
rotflmao
neil x x x ;)
Quote by little gem
:therethere:
Corrie the username "youaintseenmeright" is neil......... he said he is only come back temporarily for this thread but if this thread never ends....... at the moment it is looking like people will never get the answers they seek, so he might just stay for a bit ey!
Long winded and badly constructed but I'm feeling a little giddy tonight! lol
kiss

oi you! smackbottom
corrie, what gem meant to say is, well we're not really sure if neil's back cos obviously noones seen him, so we can't really say if he might be back or not? dunno :lol2:
but yeah we're was me damn email! s'ok i think i had one so i'll let you off.
anyways, for the record, given that i'm officially a newbie, has anyone ever hit their 50th post, by making them all on a single thread? must get a prize for that!
neil x x x ;)
Quote by Calista
Yes, let's get back to Neil's bollox FFS.... they must have marinated for long enough now??? They'll be spicy and tender enough to fall apart in your mouth.
wink

I'm sure Neil is wincing and hiding them as you speak Jag's LOLOLOLOLOLOL
Excellent thought though ... but are Neil's bollox enough for everyone? There must be some other contenders around???
i'm more than bloody wincing. i'm trying to decide whether to simply log-out and go look on lessy for a bit, post another rant to force us back on topic, or simply keep bumping this thread with further discussion of my bollox.
after that cooking with cum thing there may be some girlies intrigued by the whole idea who are even now heading for the pm submit button! :lol2:
neil x x x ;)
Quote by little gem
poor taste........ I thought they tasted ok actually ;)
and as for swearing your averageness......... I also faked all 6 of those orgasms! :P
:smug:

no you bloody never! did you? sad really? and i was just sooooooo proud of me little self too! :cry: :cry: :cry:
*breaks down into uncontrollable sobbing etc etc*
s'ok sarge. you don't have to eat me balls mate. i'm sure none of the girlies here would really like to see that. no i'm sure they wouldn't. they're just winding us up eh?
n x x x :P
Quote by little gem
Hang on one little second here..... he is tiny you know!

:shock: :shock: :shock:
gem you swore they we're average FFS not tiny! you're just trying to draw me into a rant now eh? well i ain't having it! all ranted out! ((( thank fuck i here you cry! :lol2:
but i have to say gem and calista i find having my balls outed in this way to be in poor taste!
n x x x ;)
Quote by Jags
Neil sweetheart -you NEVER talk bollox so you shouldn't worry about the safety of your dingly-dangly bits. Mind you I have it on good authority that your penis tastes especially nice, think how much better it would be with a Chili and garlic sauce!
:P
Edited by Jags to avoid Sarge fainting!!
smile

rotflmao
jags i reckon there's a good few on this thread might disagree with you there!
now who's been telling tales on the tastiness or otherwise of my willy eh? can we have no secrets! rolleyes :lol2:
n x x x ;)
Quote by Jags
Jags smackbottom Stop it now :smackbottom:
Dawn :silly:

redface surprisedops: :oops: Sorry, it's jus the idea of fried penises seems strangely tempting - especially when such bollox is being written here. Can someone get me a recipe for fried balls too??
:P
look! no way am i coming back into this bloody thread if it's gonna descend to the level of fried penises and balls! :shock: is that the point? eh? well is it? :mad: lol
neil x x x ;)
well so now more and more are coming to the conclusion that there could be some other agends here?
it's already been established that The Topic is being pushed, cos ex-ops and users have said as much here that certain convos are out as far some are concerned, and T-J quoted comments that suggest that is the intention. that pushes the membership down a certain road in itself. users freedom in the room is changed. we've been arguing about that all along.
we've also been saying all along that this damages the site, and has potential to tear the site to shreds. obviously that's already happening on every level.
we've also been saying that it calls the integrity of the site into question. if it's not open and transparent, and if it can be seen in any way that there's been a touch of dishonesty here, even if it's only a little white lie, obviously that raises questions.
we're all asking the same things, and getting no answers. and i just wanna point out that every single question i've put forward on this thread has come up in convos with members. if they are asking those questions, then it's likely other users are. they deserve a public answer. if simple answers to simple questions aren't forthcoming, then more questions will be asked, and if they go off on tangents it's only cos those questions naturally arise.
even now, i still think the depth of feeling, leading to real frustration and even real anger, of LOTS of users, is bein seriously underestimated.
neil x x x ;)
Quote by little gem

saves me any more typing! me poor calloused fingers need a damn long rest i can tell you! :lol2:
n x x x ;)

Offers to massage those poor tired hands of yours :rascal:
woo hoo! :bounce:
erm . . . gem? it ain't just me hands that are tired though? :twisted:
n x x x ;)
and i thought i could talk complete bollox! rolleyes
well done blue! :cheers: and drinkies and vodka jelly all round!
n x x x
It has been pointed out to me by an op (not Jon) that the chatroom should be used as a place for people who want to arrange a meet with other members.
When I pointed out that surely the room is not an extension of the "Lets meet up" forum, but there for like minded people to enjoy a chat and banter, I got the reply that this is a swingers site and that's what swingers chatrooms are for - not for idle chat!!!
Ok so we're quite new to this lifestyle, but it never occured to me that a "chatroom" was for anything other than "chat"
If this chat then leads on to personal contact and meetings at some stage, then that is fine, but I now feel a fraud going in the room when I have no intention of arranging a quick shag to verify my position
As far as we are concerned, this system was badly thought out, inappropriately implemented and cannot hope to gain anything apart from division of members
I also agree with everyone else - we need answers from the Admin and we need them NOW.
HOW MUCH LONGER CAN THEY LEAVE THEIR HEADS IN THE SAND AND HOPE IT WILL ALL BLOW OVER IF THEY IGNORE IT LONG ENOUGH

ta t-j kiss
saves me any more typing! me poor calloused fingers need a damn long rest i can tell you! :lol2:
n x x x ;)
little passionkiss
thanks for encapsulating the entire thread into one post. biggrin i'm still playing catch up on this thread, but . . .
why do we object so strongly to +V . . .
+V denotes difference. it can only denote difference, no matter what the grounds or criteria or whatever else. you either have it, or you don't. the fact you either have it or you don't can only signify difference, no matter what the basis of the assertion that somehow *this* group of users, is different to *that* group of users.
even if the +V serves no purpose, and actually denotes nothing whatsoever, at least in that regard it serves to distinguish 2 camps of SH members!
whether you add +V cos someone has red hair, blue eyes, or has shagged someone with +V, makes no difference. well actually it does make a difference cos for whatever reason a difference is being made, and that designation is made for us!.
SH is founded on the belief that difference is to be celebrated. no matter who or what you choose to be, or what you choose to do, we celebrate your right to choose, and your difference! we also celebrate your right to be treated equally, and to claim equality on your own terms, in your own right, by your own efforts!
we do not need to give you that difference! you have it already in your own right, on your own terms. you define your self at every stage. it may be that at some point it becomes clear that you aren't what you say you are, but that is entirely up to you. we do not seek to establish that till you give us personal grounds to say *you* aren't what *you* said you were.
+V gives others that right, and that right is assumed for you, to assign you that difference. i.e. someone somewhere is quite able to say that *you* are not *that*
well i deny you the right absolutely to say that i am anything other than what i say i am, or what i choose to be at any point! i don't need it, i don't want it, i absolutely refuse in the strongest possible terms to allow you that, no matter what the basis of that assumption!
+V allows others to define you! you are not allowed to object to the right of others to assume the right to define you. they have the right to define you and that is all. you no longer have that right, but we will not discuss that with you.
if you cannot claim +V from another +V, you are defined as being different to someone who can claim it. please allow us who know best to do that for you! we will suffer no argument! we do not have to explain ourselves! but we can say *you* are not *that* at our discretion!
neil x x x ;)
i just wanna comment on the suggestion that flooding the room was done out of petulance, or arrogance . . . and on a few more recent comments.
it's been said that this is a chatroom issue, so there's no point going round the houses on forum. and forum members really have no place to make comment on it anyway.
it's been said it's up to chatroom users to decide on this themselves.
it's been said we need to talk to ops or to admin.
it's been said it's working cos people are signing up. it would appear to be a success.
it's been established by comments on this thread, that discussion of this in chat is out. it get's stamped on. i have the odd pm of chat logs from other users that show that too. we also know many room users never even look at the forums. i didn't for many months as a chat user. lots of other chat users never look here either. they won't see this discussion at all unless they are aware of it and interested.
if ops are gonna impose something, that has an element of compulsion to it, and then ask people to accept it and sign up, then surely room users need to know what they are being asked to sign up to. if there can be no debate in chat on this, then they aren't getting a free and open debate on exactly what +V might mean. it's already been said some newbies don't even know what the + is, so it is not helpful if they don't know what it is that is supposedly there to help them. i think it's been established by god knows how many members that haven't "flounced" and yet share exactly the same concerns, and argue exactly the same points, that there are some pretty big holes in this, on all kinds of levels, bringing in all kinds of issues.
there are any number of ops and ex ops on SH. some used to op SH, some have opped elsewhere. some have seen from both sides what +V can do, and what it might do, as far as splitting the room goes. it's been said already by those that this has had a negative effect at times as they have seen it elsewhere. they speak out of genuine concern on genuine issues here.
i freely admit that flooding the room was a stunt, but it was not done to flame, or show off, or show anyone up. i freely admit i was a touch angered by the non-progress of this debate despite questions raised in 900+ posts, cos this is of real concern to lots of us, who have made their anger quite clear on this thread. ban evasion means i will never now be unbanned. but at least for a few seconds everyone logged into SH was presented with at least one side of the discussion. it also meant for a few seconds that this was presented in chat as a free and open exchange of views.
i know exactly how it will be seen by many, and that means i'll be seen in a certain light because of it. we've established that on this thread since. i got a response back here fairly quickly that we have been asking for for the last 40+ pages. it shouldn't have been necessary to mount a stunt to achieve that.
neil x x x ;)
well it's been implied that i somehow have a personal crusade, am engaged in an "all about me" thing, and that i am arrogant enough to try and speak for site users? and that somehow every single idea put forward in 800+ comments was somehow wrong because of that. and that cos i was putting forward complaints that others have made here, then somehow all the points others have raised here should be dismissed cos i can be dismissed like that.
the whole point of this, is that verification is purely an op tool. it was voted in by ops and admin can only be an op so can noone see why that looks wrong? and i'm not saying that is the intention, but +V will have applications once it's in place.
the application of +V, even if it's not used, is to police the room in some way, cos those with a + won't want to lose it, and those without it will want to have it, and so it is in effect a way to control the room members. it's not about saying who's genuine at all, cos if it was, the systems would look very different. it is that there is an element of compulsion here that we object to it on priciple.
the purpose of of it still hasn't been explained, and it's at the expense of others who will lose out. others will lose something from the site that we take for granted. they will find it harder to click with what will be a clique.
it took some daft stunts from me and push after push, but we still haven't seen how this helps anyone? and some people are relly disturbed by it, as can be seen by the mass of comments made by others than myself.
we're saying it'son trial to see if it's successful. well since people are saying they don't like the idea, but better have it and sign up cos we have it, can you not see how that in itself has an element of compulsion to it, let alone that it was brought in solely by ops? and obviously it will be claimed to be successful cos people sign up even against their better judgement if they object to it on priciple but accept it in practicality.
it's been admitted the vote wasn't unanimous, so some ops clearly weren't in favour, and some ops no doubt had their objections overcome and they went for it? all we're asking, and i dunno why it's taken this much, is what are the benefits then that so outweigh problem after problem?
chatroom users have already proved why it's wrong, cos the've proved it does make a difference to the room, and made that obvious here..
why did it take some that amount of pushing, and some daft stunts, that i know full well has put me in a bad light to get a simple explanation of where we're going with this? what is the problem that this provides any kind of solution to, and yet splits the site?
neil x x x ;)
ok steve, so you had your own objections to start with but must have found reasons to change your mind?
that's pretty much all we've been after. with all the objections, what compelling reason is there for +V.
neil x x x
Quote by Steve_D
i've thought long and hard about what follows on this post, cos i've been very, very reluctant to fire this particular bullet. i want to make it clear i am not suggesting that what follows is the intention of anyone here! but it's been asked by ops, so now i'll tell you!
let me say that again . . a bit louder . .
neil x x x ;)

It's also possible to Akick *!*@* (effectively everyone) wtf would we do that for???
you akicked every single user that might ever ID as mirc on aol dial up? just so you could silence me in chat? i checked the akick? a little OTT surely? you and i know that . . . well opping secrets so best not go there? i evaded that ban anyways so it's imposition as you know was pretty pointless, yet kept people out of the room in theory. i know you know that steve? you didn't get IRCop for nowt??
Neil, you are reading too much into this.
i may well be reading too much into things, cos we have had no answers till you were provoked. heavy handedness ain't me, but i'll do it if that's what it takes? and loads of us had to progressively force your hand? do you think we enjoyed that? i have had the respect of some users tarnished forever to get this far? that doesn't make me at all happy steve? fortunately some of those i respect know my true intention, and respect me still! i put that on the line to get you here!
It's use in SH is purely a way of adding (pun intended) something to a nick.
steve i think it's been established that it adds nowt. and it puts the entire membership under threat? and it prevents in some way further addition to the membership by serving to exclude?
This has already been explained a looooooooooooong way up this thread.
no it hasn't? we have been dismissed and flamed! all we asked for was your presence and a clear exoplanation?
+m (and it's m not M) is a useful tool if the channel gets hit by a flooder. This has only happened once since I've been opping SH. And that was tonight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
it took me flooding the room to get you into the thread? so in that regard, my akick was useful for many members?
Steve
steve?
we ain't debating technicalities really? we are debating principle? there are 30 odd pages of reasons why +V has huge implications not only for users, be they newbie or not, but for the entire existence of the site?
is it really worth jeopardising everything *we* as members ((( forgive the arrogance there, i happen to believe this site *is* it's members! )) for the sake of an opping tool?
that is what we are arguing about? i am ***genuinely*** glad we now have ops in this thread to debate this? that is all we have asked for for 30 odd pages? that ops who voted for this explain their reasoning?
and please believe me, cos i can't keep saying this, i am ***not*** engaged in a flame war cos of a personal axe i have to grind! i don't give a flying one about my SH status, which is why i feel free enough to make arguments on behalf of those who do care about there status, and tell me off site that they are afraid their status will be jeopardised?
steve our only intention was explanation, which has not been forthcoming. we have pointed out fundamental flaws in this to provoke that explanation admittedly, but at least you are now here?
and again i will ******genuinely****** apologise to *****anyone***** who thinks my intention was to flame them. i have met the vast majority of you IRL, and that is not something i would seek to do. i truly hope you realise that! i really, sincerely, genuinely, in absolute honesty, hope you realise that!
n x x x ;)
i've thought long and hard about what follows on this post, cos i've been very, very reluctant to fire this particular bullet. i want to make it clear i am not suggesting that what follows is the intention of anyone here! but it's been asked by ops, so now i'll tell you!
let me say that again . . a bit louder . .
i am ***NOT*** suggesting ***for one minute*** that what follows is the intention of anyone here!
i am merely stating that what follows exists in possibility.
technical shit first. . .
your status as a "Verified Genuine Swinger" is being denoted using the Voice command. ((( +V )))
when you enter the room to find a + beside your nick, you are being Auto-Voiced from a database. that is to say, the Voice command is being run automatically from a database that assigns +V to a "Verified Genuine Swinger"
Practical application of +V ((( Voice ))) in +M ((( Moderated ))) chatrooms
It is possible to set the SH chatroom Channel Mode to +M ((( Moderated ))) at present it is not.
with a +M channel mode, only those with a +V can speak in channel. hence Voice.
with a big enough database of +V users, it is feasible to reduce the chatroom to "Verified Genuine Swinger" with a simple tweak of Channel Mode to +M
other users can still log in and watch the room, but they cannot contribute to it.
in order for them to contribute they would have to have +V ((( Voice )) awarded.
chatroom verification can only be assigned on recommendation by another +V user. i.e. an existing +V member would have to apply on your behalf to have you assigned +V status before you could contribute to the room.
now let me say it again . . .
i am ***NOT*** suggesting ***for one minute*** that what follows is the intention of anyone here!
but the mere possibility that such a course of action would actually be feasible at some point, and ***could*** be contemplated, is IMO more than adequate reason to kill this.
i await a deconstruction of why my argument is technically inaccurate. i believe it is possible, given a fair amount of research.
neil x x x ;)
Quote by Steve_D
steve
yes steve i know damn well posting an essay into channel will get me akicked. i did it before knowing that and requested it. i did it again knowing full well that ban evasion will likely result in an attempt to Kline me. i do not care about my status as a site member over this, but i do care about the status of other site members who do not know what i know, and most likely never will given the implications of +V?
n x x x ;)

Ok neil, what exactly ARE the implications of +v (that only you know)
Steve
steve you know damn well what a +V in a +M room can do? do you wanna post it or shall i?
you also know damn well that this is purely an opping decision? do you wanna post why that is or shall i?
you also know damn well what the dynamics of this site are? i've already posted them? you have flamed? what does that say?
at least we have now got a response, which is all god knows how many of us have asked of you for 30 odd pages?
you know damn well anyone can discover exactly how to op a chatroom, and how +V might assist that, by doing a simple search on google?
perhaps you'd now like to summarise your argument in ops channel over +V before you bin me completely?
neil x x x ;)
steve
i hope people take me seriously because every single argument i have made can be seen by anyone who actually reads the thread to be a serious, well thought out one, that is based in fact, and real belief that this changes everything the site has previously been about!
dismissing me as a flouncer is no argument! i have come back cos this is wrong! all my posts are on this thread, not cos i need to come back, cos i simply don't? the site has served it's purpose for me. for that i am immensely grateful! that the purpose of the site as i see it could be denied to others is my concern, pure and simple? how many times do i need to say that? you and i both know what +V does!
yes steve i know damn well posting an essay into channel will get me akicked. i did it before knowing that and requested it. i did it again knowing full well that ban evasion will likely result in an attempt to Kline me. i do not care about my status as a site member over this, but i do care about the status of other site members who do not know what i know, and most likely never will given the implications of +V?
i know that! and knowing that i fully took a full deactivation from this site upon myself, not cos of a personal crusade, or because i have a personal axe to grind, as my arguments make clear, but out of real passion that this is simply arguments are the same as many on this thread? you cannt dismiss them quite so easily?
maybe you'd like to use the same argument against the mods who have been flamed on this very thread? i ain't the only one on this thread to say what i've had to say?. in fact i've made about 25 posts out of 700'ish? it is wrong steve! and if you don't know that i have no personal axe to grind then i . . . well . . . i simply dunno? we opped together? we have done munches together? you know me to be gen? so all my arguments are suddenly false?
would you like to dismiss the entire thread or can ***all*** of us raising the same issues to protect what we believe to be the ethos of SH have some answers?
deactivate away?
n x x x ;)
OPS . . .
how much further down this line do you want us to go?
ADMIN HAS TO BE AN OP!
quite a few of us with an ounce of intelligence have worked that out by the arguments on this thread!
ADMIN IS NOT . . . .
Mark . . . too open to abuse . . he'd never do it!
Steve_d / Debs_uk . . . likewise . . IRCops . . too much power to abuse!
Steve_g . . . i sincerely hope i know him better than that!
it ain't Level 8! that won't work! i checked that for 2 days to make sure! i trawled IRC sites to work that out, and most of you are out! it takes level 10!
ADMIN IS . . . .
i ain't feckin' saying ok! but there ain't that many names left!
kill it! what do you want me to do?
the cannon i have to shoot you down is here! i *** do not *** wanna load that particular gun, but i have the bullets in my hand ok? naming names out of 4 or 5 of you to prove you lied. +V in +M. if you don't want the mere suggestion of it kill +V! :mad:
n x x x
As requested by chatroom users saying the argument needs to be made in chatroom, i have just just consigned myself forever to the chatroom dustbin on your behalf. so shoot me!
just posted in SH chat room. complete deactivation / Kline / Akick for ban evasion now follows! i have just abused my knowledge to evade a chatroom ban. if that gets me permanently banned from SH / forum completely so be it. freely admitted!!!

OPEN LETTER TO SH OPS!
guys please believe me i am not here to have a go at you. i respect some of you immensely. i like some of you personally. i would not be an SH member now were it not for some of you. nor would i have gained anything whatsoever from SH were it not for some of you. i could not have discovered what it is like to like to fuck 6-7 people simultaneously without you. i would have had less love in my life without you. i would not be ***me*** without you. need i go on? do you imagine for one minute i don't know i owe you masses for what i've got from SH?
i would not have chosen to OPUP with you were i not concerned about SH and it's members. i opped up out of love for SH, and it's members. i well remember the debate on +R, and the numerous debates in Ops Channel about how we were gonna keep the room usable for legitimate members. i opped down cos it changed that love, and i wasn't adding anything to the room to achieve those ends, and i didn't much like it. i freely admit i was a bloody shite op, but i like to believe i was a principled one. i threw my reputation, that i painstakingly had to build, away completely when i opped up. i had to rebuild that on forum all over again. the room was never the same again. opping killed it for me. i genuinely respect those who can do it, cos i know full well i couldn't.
but we all know what +V is, and it's uses. i've checked and rechecked my thinking on this again and again. we all know this is an Op tool. that is all it is. please take it down and think again. i could nearly accept +V if it had any kind of positive effect. it doesn't.
i know you know what i know you know! ((( does that make any sense! )))
i don't wanna be seen to be launching something personal, cos i truly ain't. i might have flamed an OP knowing i'd get Akicked. i did that to demonstrate exactly how the kind of language used by Ops on forum could be perceived. i used the same kind of language here, but just made sure *my* comments could be seen to be directed personally. the akick says it's Op Abuse ((( i checked it ok? ))) i was willing to lose the chatroom forever to try and get that message across. i still can only see certain actions as extreme arrogance. there is no place for ego on SH! you have not the right to impose this to make opping easier!!
i have no grudge here. had i not chosen a ban, you and i know i could / would have been +v'ed cos a +v can +v me. in fact several +v's can +v me. but that is not the point! i would reject it absolutely even then. i have lost nothing that i have not rejected out of hand. many users *WILL* lose many things with +V.
please remove +V. it has potential to destroy this site as far as the possibility of newbies learning what i have learned here goes. cliques we do not need. nor should *anyone* use a tool that establishes one! this room is hard enough for newbies. you have just ensured it is now inpenetrable. users have already demonstrated that. take it off!
i don't wanna go into the use of +V in a +M room, cos i believe that to be a disservice to you. i hope noone has that intention. i will use that argument if that's what it takes. and i will name those who i have sussed could possibly be Admin. stop lying to the site. Admin is an Op. why are you denying that? it's easily worked out by god knows how many members who have reached that conclusion.
regards
neil x x x ;)
oooooo btw good akick. sweeping ban on anyone who ID's as mirc on aol dialup? bit sweeping just on my behalf eh? wonder how many that took out? lolol ;)
adios guys i won't try again honest. smile
ok we've been going round the houses nit-picking and poking holes and going off into vaguer and vaguer territory to try and show just how far reaching the possible implications of +V are. we have hopefully demonstrated by now exactly where the problems lie with +V, in all kinds of practical and theoretical ways.
it's far too late to play the peacemaker now, cos i well understand how some would see me as having an axe to grind, and so might just say pretty much every argument i've made has been an attack on them personally. that could not be further from the truth, but i'm gonna make an open apology to those who i suspect have taken offence. i have put the opinion of those i always got on with on the line to make my case. every single statement i've made has been based on real beliefs, and as far as i can possibly tell, is grounded in fact!
i best apologise now cos i'm about to do it again.
the people who have mainly been continuing this little row, for the last 15 pages or so at least, are largely mods ((( 3 or 4 ))) ex ops ((( 4 or 5 ))) and long standing, well respected, members of this site ((( loads ))) who have between them made massive contributions in terms of time and effort out of love for SH.
i think it's fair to say, without seeming too arrogant, that we truly understand the mechanics of SH, on many levels, because we have seen it from all angles, inside and out. i know that the ops who made this decision understand those same things.
given that that's the case, i have to conclude that those proponents of +V know full well that there are massive problems with this sytem. i also know they know full well what it's possible effect on the site could be. i am forced to question the intention of +V.
i have to conclude then that this is an opping decision, and the benefits of this sytem relate purely to opping SH, to the detriment of the site and it's users.
it has nothing to do with helping newbies as has been stated. it is pure and simple an opping tool, to police the chatroom in some way. that is one of my major concerns. it adds an extra dimension to opping powers, which is unneccessary because ops already have all the necessary tools ((( +R, Akick, Ban, Kick, Warn, Advise ))) and yet it detracts in huge ways from the site itself. it is easy to see why ops might vote for a system that increases their powers.
i'm not even go down the road of suggesting practical applications of +V for ops depending on Channel Mode cos i think that would be seen to be grossly unfair. i'm prepared to risk that though if that's what it takes to protect the fairness of SH.
i also have to conclude that Admin could only be an Op, otherwise the system is completely unworkable, and raises all kinds of questions. that has been consistently denied.
while i understand full well why Admin would wish to remain anonymous, the fact that they have chosen to issue that denial, rather than just remain silent on that particular issue, as they have remained silent on every other issue, calls the integrity of their statements into question. that is deeply regrettable.
after trawling the IRC forums plastered all over the net, to check i fully understand the mechanics of implementing +V, i have to conclude that Admin can only be an Op, and i also have to conclude with some educated guesswork that Admin could only be one of half a dozen or so people. i don't wanna push that button either, cos that too would be seen to be grossly unfair of me.
take off the +V and rethink it, or come here to explain it! please.
neil x x x ;)
Quote by bluexxx
All those who want to be verified, simply re-register with a + at the beginning of your user name

I'm sorry, but this isn't technically possible, the IRC chartoom system doesn't allow + in user names (or the "@" that signifies ops for that matter). This is something that's beyond SH's control.
The + doesn't even show up as a + in some software... for ircle users, they will see people's names in green rather then with a +, and ops appear as red instead of with a @. rotflmao - what about ¬then - we had a whole string asking what that key was for. cool
However it is shown - the principle remains, that if there are a group of people who want to say "we are a group of people" let them set up a system to identify themselves, and administer it themselves.
lhk
Kat
You will notice such structures already forming on SH as we speak. I have already set up the KINKY SLAPPER club. Some members are identified by their flashing KINKY SLAPPER avatars. However, not all kinky slappers are using the said avatar, therefore actually it is imposssible to tell who is and who isn't a kinky slapper. Anyone in any doubt.... a kinky slapper is someone who has shagged or been shagged by my good self 8-) . Members are openly and freely allowed to disclose their kinky slapper status (or not) as they choose. You will also notice a small set of kinky slapper wannabes who are also using various different flashing avatars. These are rougues.... though most are on the list for kinky slapper verification :twisted:
You will also notice that warwick has set up his own forum certification system. The rules are simple. If warwick knows you to be a loon he will certify you and after which you are allowed to post this: :shock: after your name in any post.
This verification stuff can be fun you know.....
Ingroups and outgroups - don't you just love 'em.... and can't you tell I did a psych degree rolleyes :roll: :roll:
Blue xxx :shock: (certified loon and kinky slapper)
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
blue?
do i take it to mean then that i'm not yet a Kinky Slapper cos we haven't yet consummated our relationship in that way, despite disgustingly pervy goings on at a recent social function, that have been plastered all over the World Wide Web??
please clarify my status re: Kinky Slapper versus Rogue??
many thanks
neil x x x ;)
judy kiss
yep. as i understand it, if it can in any way be said that what is being stored is confidential information, and if it can in any way be said that that data is being transferred from SH to a remote site on Foreign Shores, then we could be in breach of DPA. all depends on very grey definitions.
the mere possibility that it is possible for that suggestion to be made ((( sorry did that make sense? dunno ))) puts us on very shaky legal ground. even the most unlikely legal challenge over a technicality within DPA would probably bankrupt the site in legal arguments. reason in itself to bin it.
the fact that it is verification that could bring this about is worrying. as things stood before DPA had no application. as soon as +V is brought into effect it might. the mere posibility it might, purely for the sake of an unworkable system that we object to in the strongest possible terms, is insane.
neil x x x ;)
neil x x x ;)
oh and fred you asked about logs.
yep. every single comment, script, command executed is logged and indicated in some way. all ops keep logs of every single channel they are opped up in. that includes ops channel, main room, and even personal PM's, cos you need to be able to validate any decision made if a complaint arises, or risk being deopped.
neil x x x ;)