Quote by HarryJones
sounds miles away but I'm up for this sort of thing
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About 270 miles from Cambridge ...
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Quote by flidais-media
Seems you ticked every box in the preference rather than just the ones you should really be looking for!
Yes, nothing like someone who carefully thinks about what they put on their profile is there?:roll: :roll: :roll:
Probably a case of widening the net to increase the possibilities ... thinking/hoping that it'd be ok to shag the female part of the couple and the bi-male just making up the numbers as it were
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Only times I've had unprotected penetrative sex has been in LTRs, outside of that, regardless of whether you like or don't like condoms and most guys probably don't ... it's basic common sense for both parties that they are used.
Actually, as a side note to this, how many people actually DO go for regular check-ups? I could be wrong, but my guess is many people would say, "Yeah, that's essential" but the reality is that very few do ... part of that being because it really can be a major exercise just to get an appt at a clinic unless you're within reach of one of the few walk-in places.
Actually, as a side note to this, how many people actually DO go for regular check-ups? I could be wrong, but my guess is many people would say, "Yeah, that's essential" but the reality is that very few do ... part of that being because it really can be a major exercise just to get an appt at a clinic unless you're within reach of one of the few walk-in places.
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Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
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You need to put a little more effort in, let people get to know you, join in the banter and dont just post for meets. There are thousands and thousands of single guys asking for meets, how many are successful? The ones who put the effort in!
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Good advice here ... 11 posts in 4 months doesn't give people the chance to find out anything about you, maybe you're different in chat but not everyone here uses chat.
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At the risk of asking the obvious - keep seeing a load of posts in the LMU sections, almost entirely from single blokes, single digit post counts that say little more than the heading ... give or take an extra 'well-hung' or 'heavy cummer' or whatever ...
Do these guys really expect to get any responses, and do they? I can't see people queueing up somehow ...
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Has anyone been to this club before and if so, what did you think of it? It's listed in the club pages but can't tell how up-to-date the reviews are ...
Am looking to check it out in a couple weeks - there is what appears to be optional membership but at £200 it ain't cheap though you get first 2 attendances free ... still, it's a big commit ... though I do like the 'masked' element to it.
Am looking to check it out in a couple weeks - there is what appears to be optional membership but at £200 it ain't cheap though you get first 2 attendances free ... still, it's a big commit ... though I do like the 'masked' element to it.
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Quote by Bloke2005
Oooo rubbish, what do HR know? Try and slip her one at work behind the photo copier I say
Doesn't matter these days - it's all about covering the comapnies arse from litigation - if someone makes an accusation, regardless of what it is, they have to be seen to be acting ... it's all a kangaroo court and total bollox but not so funny when it happens to you.
Happened to me once, nothing sexual, no bullying or any nastiness from me but the bitch in question took offence over a joke and rather than say anything to me about it, she went to HR !!! All I can say is, what complete and utter bollox the process was and is!
The thing that really pissed me off? She threw a house party a few weeks beforehand and I was literally the ONLY person to show up to it!!!
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Quote by redpantherman
Best thing to do is leave it... My guess you could be close to being hauled into human resources to answer a few code of conduct issues?
If you think that might happen then it might be an idea to get your views down on record with your boss...?
I'd agree with this ... with all the political correctness and 'dignity at work' bollox, it's all too easy these days to find yourself hauled in front of HR and having to defend yourself over some imagined act of wrong doing.
I'd steer clear and keep things 'civil and professional' on the occassions you see her as I take it your jobs mean a certain level of interaction that can't be avoided.
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Seem to be two streams of argument here if I read it right ...
Get rid of the stealth cam ... because there does not seem to be a reason why someone watching should have reason to keep the fact that they are watching from the people on webcam?
Agreed.
I think is the argument that the person on webcam should be seen by nobody unless they have explicitly invited that person to view? Or is the argument that public view is ok as the person on webcam can 'block' someone they don't want or feel comfortable is viewing ?
I would go with the fact that as it's a public chatroom, if you're camming, then other people 'should' be able to see you ... so long as you have the option to 'block' ... for 'invite only' I think that's what 'private chatrooms' are for ... bit like you have private rooms in most swingers clubs.
Get rid of the stealth cam ... because there does not seem to be a reason why someone watching should have reason to keep the fact that they are watching from the people on webcam?
Agreed.
I think is the argument that the person on webcam should be seen by nobody unless they have explicitly invited that person to view? Or is the argument that public view is ok as the person on webcam can 'block' someone they don't want or feel comfortable is viewing ?
I would go with the fact that as it's a public chatroom, if you're camming, then other people 'should' be able to see you ... so long as you have the option to 'block' ... for 'invite only' I think that's what 'private chatrooms' are for ... bit like you have private rooms in most swingers clubs.
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Reading through the messages here and with the absence of locations being mentioned ... I have to ask, how do newbies actually get to know what the good sights are and avoid the dodgey/dangerous ones?
The dogging locations info seems to be very out of date so doesn't look like the info is showing up there either.
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The dogging locations info seems to be very out of date so doesn't look like the info is showing up there either.
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Quote by lilnfil
Something I thought of this morning - there are often threads in LMU saying "we are going to.... .... if you are going come and say hi".
I often wonder when I have been to a club or some other form of swinging venue if there were any other SH members there - usually this ocures to me on the way home.
So the thought I had this morning was to try a "I/we were at...." thread, where those who wanted to (I appreciate people may wish to keep annonimity) could post were they had just been and see if there had been any other SH members there.
Yes, I know there are flaws in this:
1 - you actually have to have been somewhere
2 - you announce you were there and others don't - but they now try and work out who you were (but if you are not comfortable in posting where you have been then it is no problem - don't do it.)
3 - posting this in the week is not the best time
But what the hell - you never know until you try!
So - let's see what happens.
BTW - Last night I was at Chameleons.
we were out dogging tonight at xxxxxxxxxxcarpark,at xxxxxxxxx,on the Axx just outside xxxxxx
were there any peeps from swingingheaven there
fil
Not me ... distance calculator says you're 170+ miles away from me ... :cry:
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Quote by london_wood
I'd like to visit a club in/near North London with my partner for the first time - I'm trying to decide which one would be most suitable. I've read the reviews on here, but would like some info on "The Couples Club" .....has anyone been? If so, what was it like...eg how many couples, how was the venue, how much happens there etc?
If not, has anyone got a suggestion for a good first timer club near North London?
Don't want my partner to be freaked byt lots of single blokes following us round having a ham shank, therefore one that just allows couples is a must. Would like a place where there is some onsite action (however discreetly) as we're hoping to get off on a sexually charged atmosphere.
Top tips greatfully recieved.
Sounds to me like you would be better off going to a couples only night rather than a mixed one if single guys is likely to be an issue ... particularly if this is your first foray.
The Couples Club - I've been to some of the mixed nights for that and even as a single bloke, I didn't rate it ... believe it or not, even single blokes don't like it when there are too many single blokes! If that's the one you go to - definitely, choose a couples only day though I obviously can't vouch for what those are like ... They also run fetish nights there which I think are a bit better in terms of ratios but hit and miss.
If you don't mind going slightly out of London, try Club Arousal in Dunstable ... they do couples only nights, and also mixed nights and on Fridays 'Ladies Choice/Greedy Girl' nights ... have not been to the Friday ones in some time as I didn't like the ratios much though someone was saying, Friday's were getting better. Planning to get there this Saturday, week Friday is their new Fetish Swingers night so may give that a go.
Little rambling but hope that helps a bit!
