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adi1567
19 hours ago
Straight Male, 57
Bi-curious Female, 56
0 miles · Haverfordwest

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Quote by mickandmich
I see a lot of flirting in the forums and chat...and Im a big culprit of it cos Im a right flirty girty confused wink
I often wonder *if* those people ever meet, is it the same in reality?
I only have little experience of meeting people offline... and I found because of the flirting thats gone on between you, you can capture it in person as well. Tho, not always...rally does depend on certain factors!
Anyone else feel that online flirting can work in real life? Is it the same, better or just plain online flirting with no meaning to it?
xanaisx

We are terrible flirts and have moved from the chatroom to mobile phone and in person. The flirting seems to remain at the same intensity with some cpls but is very hard to duplicate with others.
Having said that it takes all 4 to participate in the "flirting" or it just dosn't work.
The latest form of flirting is now more commonly known as pesting in Sth Wales......... 69position smackbottom hump
All 4 or is that all 6? lol LOng live pesting cool
Quote by mickandmich
I see a lot of flirting in the forums and chat...and Im a big culprit of it cos Im a right flirty girty confused wink
I often wonder *if* those people ever meet, is it the same in reality?
I only have little experience of meeting people offline... and I found because of the flirting thats gone on between you, you can capture it in person as well. Tho, not always...rally does depend on certain factors!
Anyone else feel that online flirting can work in real life? Is it the same, better or just plain online flirting with no meaning to it?
xanaisx

We are terrible flirts and have moved from the chatroom to mobile phone and in person. The flirting seems to remain at the same intensity with some cpls but is very hard to duplicate with others.
Having said that it takes all 4 to participate in the "flirting" or it just dosn't work.
The latest form of flirting is now more commonly known as pesting in Sth Wales......... 69position smackbottom hump
All 4 or is that all 6? lol LOng live pesting cool
Quote by LondonPlaything
Do you ever find yourself browsing the forums and purposely not reading a thread because it has to many pages?
Or am I just lazy...

certainly... and Im pretty sure others do too...
however, at the time of typing, this is a shorty, so many may well pop in, especially with a tantalising title like that...
I mean:
Do you ever find yourself....
people may have been expecting something along the lines of;
do you ever find yourself....
unexpectedly burst in upon in your tiny rancid little flat when your indulging in little depraved rubber fantasies by a bevvy of Amazonian beauties lusting after pleasure and blood... eager to bind and flog you to within an inch of either orgasm or death?
could have been that couldn't it?
but it wasn't...
if it had have been... my fantasy answer would have been....
funny you should say that Guys... it does happen on occassion, more often than you may think... and is a beautifully varied and enjoyable experience everytime... so far only having experinced the joys of orgasm rather than death as may be able to tell by the simple fact that I am >sadly for you< still typing...
my answer in reality would have been...
no!
lp
not me though, I'dnever have even imagined a question like that, very impropper for a man of the cloth
yes
I think you also need to thank the room hosts; if we open a room we have a responsibility to host the room correctly and not allow certain behaviour. It is refreshing to know that chatroom ops are available to sort out problems when things have escalated; and I am sure that the ops are aware of the rooms which tend to be better run, and therefore give less trouble. It is good that the ops trawl the site and pop into rooms and stay for a little while. They can assist the room hosts in 'best practice' and try and educate the peeps into what is allowable or not in the rooms.
I think if you start remunerating chatroom ops this will in turn bring in other problems; and could certainly make the site a worse place to be.
On the whole the ops are doing a great job.
Just my 2p worth redface
Boing................. rolleyes
Count us in m n m (if mr adi still not banned redface )
Nice to see you two back................... passionkiss
and mrs adi says awwww :smitten:
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Quote by keeno
I'm just happy to receive a PM let alone be picky about the length. biggrin

what's a pm? sad redface :P
Once hit Jerome Flynn (of soldier Soldier fame etc)for six third ball redface
Was in the company of a former england spin bowler at a charity do whilst dressed as the brunette from Abba surprisedops: :oops: ( he commented on my fine pair of upper bollocks :shock: )
Quote by wencra
adi you being a tart again biggrin

Someone has too :shock:
Quote by stockinglegs
Men in gorilla suits
Luckily I don't come across these every day. What are you afraid of??
smile

DONT come to a south wales social then redface
Im afraid of myself rolleyes
A friend of mine had a phobia of Andy Pandy dunno
Another excellent night bringing the 'welsh way of swinging' to the masses.
Great to see the other members of the s wales tour team, soon to go international.............
To all those lucky enough to have been in Chams Sat nite; you were witness to the s wales room on tour, and the 'screams ' from the far corner were merely for artistic interpretation. Oh, and well worth the 470 miles round trip.
Look forward to next months outing lol
Tarticus and Biteicus xxx
Quote by keeno
Having given this some thought it seems obvious now. Should you be discussing tennis you could use it in the phrase
5 times Wimbledon champion Bjorn :borg:
or
Bruce Springsteen's great hit :borg: in the USA
hmmm any other examples?

:borg to be wild
:borg free
First :borg
cy :borg
As probably one of the worst offenders redface in chatting bout the socials I think U should explain my actions. We went to our first social in May 2006, we were scared stiff. However, within a few minutes we realised that the peeps we met were all quite normal ( :shock: ) and that there was similar banter going around the room as you would find in any bar where a groupof friends gather.
At subsequent socials I have donned various 'costumes' which I beleive 'lighten' the atmosphere of the social and give all the peeps attending something to talk about. I also ensure that scooby or the gorilla goes around every peep attending so that no one feels left out.
There is only one thing worse than a load of peeps chatting wildly about something , and thats laods of peeps just staring at a blank screen. Thankfully, most of the regs in the rooms we frequent make newbies welcome and do try and include them in chat. However, some newbies dont help themselves by being rude and plain obnoxious to the other chatters. By being in the room and contributing to chat you will gradually become part of the furniture. We were once quiet newbies sitting quietly in the corner, however, if we are not on line in chat for more than a few hours we start getting text's from peeps wondering if we are ok surprisedops:
Room socials are the next stage of the chatrooms; they are a simple progression, and peeps do feel they know you a little after being in chat and when meeting you face to face.
Adi (chatroom and social TART ) rolleyes
Quote by Missy
There was a classic complaint come in against someone yesterday (it happens a lot in some way or vice versa to this etc). "THIS IS RACIST"

It don't take Sherlock to figure out the complainant was a person of colour...
Just one more example of the mistake people make when trying to be 'Politically Correct' It's not minding your P's & Q's with ethnics... You will get ethnics who are just as ignorant!
mad rant rant!
This was just yesterdays complaint I saw, it happens a lot rolleyes Not just that way round either, just as many white people shout racist when reporting "Black only" ads :roll:
As I said, looks to me like they've had a knock back, and rather than agreeing they don't fit the criteria, they throw in the PC racist card :x ....... what they expect then I don't know :shock: I wonder if they should reword their complaints.....
"This person is a racist, they only want to meet blacks/whites/asians etc - this is outrageous racism and they should be told they have to fluck me or get banned!!!!" :shock:
Missy - having a pedantic day confused
Oh and PS: It's not just the racism that gets reported, there is on occasion the agesim or heightism complaint :?
So it appears that the pc card is only used when you've failed to get a shag by normal means? :roll:
Just our belief that for every no thankyou you receive there's another five that would say yes please..........its just that you havnt asked them yet lol
.................off to change profile........... redface
Ageing fat ugly couple desparate for a shag ..............answers to fido on a weekend...... :P
Perhaps I should have worded the question better, but my point was that, in general, we have both found most peeps we've met very tolerant of others, and most tend to be more polite and considerate. Granted, we have our preferences for couples of a certain type, but we do not 'look down ' on others for having a different outlook, they are entitled to their point of view as we are to ours. And we would certainly not insult another person because of their preferences, as long as they did not impose themselves on us. So I dont think that PC exisits in swinging in the same way as in day to day living.
Live and let live lol
Quote by Freckledbird
- nobody can tell I'm a teacher when I'm naked!.

Thought we all teachers when naked...........................or we all pupils? lol
Just had one of those days dealing with so many examples of political correctness gone mad; made me wonder whether it exists in swinging? Or is it because we are tolerant of others' lusts and desire's we can co exist in harmony?
Cannot really think of an issue of PC rising its ugly head since we been here.
Feck; if thats the case we SHOULD take over the world lol it would be a far happier place. :P
Quote by Mr-tickle
Hi there folks, on certain adverts I see that people are either looking for, or are professionals. Does this mean that they go to work suited and booted, have managerial or executive jobs and don't get their hands dirty or does it mean that they class themselves as professionals in there chosen profession and have reached this position through time, commitment and qualifications.

Well, I got letters after my name redface and go to work as a suit surprisedops:
I would change everyone to see the best of everyone not just the obvious..................
oh feck, now talking total bollocks without even been drinking redface
We all know you ladies are worried about what everybody thinks of your body shape. However , us men do generally prefer a lady who has the confidence to be herself. A confident (non pushy) lady is far sexier than a bean pole who is so concerned about her weight that she becomes obsessive with it.
But spare a thought for us lads; we can be as worried about our shape as you all. And mrs adi says that a confident man who is built for comfort more than speed, is far more sexy than a guy more interested in posing infront of mirrors.
Apart from that ladies, well done on losing the excess weight and we are pleased that you feel so much healthier. We agree, being healthy is far more important than being thin.
Does this post now qualify for a sympathy shag now? rolleyes
We dont show our faces on here purely because we do not want to be recognised by anyone too local to us. It would affect our work and our family. We do appear on cam occasionally, but chose generally not to show faces, unless genereally its peeps we've already met are watching.
On saying that, mrs Adi was recognised by her arms ffs, mind you , the lady that recognised us is now working for us. :P In fact, its made the working environment really relaxed .
Quote by Freckledbird

( even if I've been called duracell arse by a certain lady after a visit to chams last month)

Duracellarse - what does it do? :shock:
Apparently was moving quicker than the duracell bunny beating his drum redface rolleyes surprisedops:
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
me thinks us girlies need some new pics of cute bums to glance at what do you reckon dawnie lol

Now that is a very good idea :twisted:
redface surprisedops: Well, you not seeing mine :P
( even if I've been called duracell arse by a certain lady after a visit to chams last month)