I am an well educated, clean, recently single dad and friendly person that loves sexual situations that are erotic and have some thought behind them, something to stimulate the mind as well as the body. Not interested in quickies or 2 minute wanks.

Very open minded and looking to experience something that can be described as eroticism, as I like to be aroused and tickled with anticipation, therefore situations that manifest mental excitement coupled by skilful physical teasing would be the perfect scenario. No tease, then no please. Being made to watch while tied up so that I can't touch myself, performing interesting scenarios or being teased until stomach aches or precum leakage ensues can be very nice as a starter :) edge, stop, edge, stop, edge, stop, if you understand my point.

Traditionally I am a lover of women and consider myself straight as I am not attracted to men, but with a cheeky twist as I would like to try some male/male oral/wanking (no kissing or anal sorry) as it has a slight taboo mystique to me; preferably in a couple scenario but I may also be interested in one on one if the character fits. So female, male, alone or together, or multiples thereof could work depending on the situation; I find that sex is more about the whole experience than the particular sexes or activities involved. Cumming is not a requirement either, though it is obviously good.. but many times I have slept after a session without cumming at all, even though the other has, and still feel that I had a wonderful time; an acquired taste after many cock domination and control sessions :)

I believe that female/male are equally capable at creating a satisfying time (yet If I had to choose only one then it would surely be the female), individually being no better or worse than the other, except by the skilful delivery of their art. For me eroticism and sexual creativity is an art and should be done with total care and focus, changing a 'same old' cum into a powerful and memorable experience.

Have you ever successfully managed to cum without being hard, or without having the clit touched / something slipped inside?

Have you ever managed to cum only from playing with the tip of the foreskin, or the hood of the clit with no pressure to actually touch the clit?

I think mastery of 'head n clit' is the new Van Gough, demanding a certain level of real self control, patience to bring forth something a little more meaningful than the usual, hum drum and thoughtless rubbing that is usually called sex. Might as well hump a melon or a pillow, no?....

Age and looks are not so important for me however I demand cleanliness, manners and some common courtesy to make everything fun and enjoyable. Other qualities I like are being creative and willing to try new things, forbidding shame, fear or uncertainty that can restrict and prevent true sexual expression. Society is so focused on what we should not do that many people feel trapped and unable to express their diverse sexuality to the fullest, and I feel that can cause people never fully satisfy their sexual desires and that is a shame.

For example, feeling free to say that you want to be pissed on when you are having an orgasm... now granted I might not do that nor let you do it to me because I don't find it sexy, but you should still feel able express that desire without fear of judgement; equally you should be open minded enough to reciprocate that non judgemental stance; every human has unique, individual curiosities that they find sexy, and I feel each one has the right to be who they are and experience what they enjoy (as long as it is not being forced on another against their will of course!!)

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