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30 Aug 2005

Quote by corriefem
hmm now this is a really interesting question Debbie Webs and one I cant fathom out at the moment.
The fact is men in their 40's tend to prefer younger women whereas men in their 30's can often be looking for an older women. Now which year does their body clock switch over and when do you become the older 'woman' is it your age or the age difference?????????

Hmmm, I think this means that men are all looking for women of around the same age. It's just that when we're in our 30's that age is a bit older and in our 40's it's a bit younger !! Does that make sense?? Guesstimate for perfect woman's age therefore is 38 !!
What do I know - last girlfriend was 19 years younger than me, before that was 8 years older.... biggrin

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Ant

30 Aug 2005

Quote by sexyscotcarol

if your going to have a poll with scotland and wales.. you have only 4 choices, scotland, wales ireland and england...
if your having south east, south west etc,.. like england, scotland and wales are divided into areas too!

No you don't - Britain has a North which is mostly Scotland, a West which is mostly Wales and other directions which are mostly England. Not too hard?
Except that of course if you're in Ulster, you're still f***ked....
Ant
Im sorry Ant but i have disagree with and go with Nicola & Alan on this one. Why should England be divided into areas and Scotland and Wales be be lumped as a whole with parts of England. mad

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You either have countries a a whole or each country should be dived. There is quite a large scottish crowd in here and we like our own identity. :x
Carol
Sorry, I think I phrased this badly. What I was trying to say is that if you take Great Britain as a whole and then split it up into compass points etc, then most of North Britain is in fact Scotland (with Cumbria, Northumberland, etc as well) and most of West Britain would be Wales (with Somerset, Gloucestershire etc). However East & South would be entirely composed of England.
I entirely agree that if you split England into regions, it's only fair to do the same for the other countries in Great Britain / UK / British Isles (choose as appropriate but the results are different for each!!!).
Hope I didn't cause offence - none was intended.
Ant.

30 Aug 2005

Quote by Nicola&Alan
if your going to have a poll with scotland and wales.. you have only 4 choices, scotland, wales ireland and england...
if your having south east, south west etc,.. like england, scotland and wales are divided into areas too!

No you don't - Britain has a North which is mostly Scotland, a West which is mostly Wales and other directions which are mostly England. Not too hard?
Except that of course if you're in Ulster, you're still f***ked....
Ant

28 Aug 2005

Quote by bluexxx
Those that are down on the list as staying over, there are a number of comfy places available - one double bed, 2 singles, and 2 double sofa beds - the rest of you will be kipping on the floor :uhoh: (or not kipping at all :twisted: ).

Is there a booking system for these or is it first come first served ? (a poor choice of phrase in the circumstances, I know).
Perhaps as contingency I should pop along to Cotswold for a new sleeping bag....
Ant

26 Aug 2005

Bloody hell !!! This is actually a real event..... :shock: :shock:
I WANT TO GO !!
............. starts saving for next year..........
Ant

23 Aug 2005

Just back from hols to find this thread, so here goes:-
1: Manchester and a driver = 2
2: Before 17 Sept = 0 After, should = 2
3: Prefer groups and clubs myself = 2
4: Orally bi = 2
5: Fairly flexible with a bit of advance notice = 1
So, I reckon a score of 7 at the moment, without adding on spurious points for all sorts of things :-)
Am I in the running?
Ant.

11 Aug 2005

Quote by freckledbird

So ditching the SIM card and getting another one is not a good way to handle situations like this then?

Nah.... not when you can use the work email directory to fnd out all you need biggrin

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Ooooooo you sneaky bugger lol

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Working in bloody IT has to have some advantages !!!

11 Aug 2005

Quote by bluexxx
Did I ever tell you about the bloke who, after a clear email from me afterwards saying it was a one-off (I was in a good mood considering he was a crap shag - though I spared his feelings and didn't tell him that) decided to email me three times a day and ring me up to 30 times EVERY DAY for TWO MONTHS :shock: :shock: :shock: ... sad or what...... :shock:

Not until now !!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
Names should be hinted at for that amazingly thick behaviour.
I give up after 2 reminders as 1 email could easily go astray (and I am also owed a set of photos by one couple.... evil

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Ant

11 Aug 2005

Quote by bluexxx
So ditching the SIM card and getting another one is not a good way to handle situations like this then?

Nah.... not when you can use the work email directory to fnd out all you need biggrin

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11 Aug 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
As a single guy, if you get 2 or 3 meets out of 1 couple you are quite possibly doing very well, especially if you meet via the ads rather than a club.

That's quite cheering then ! I always find it hard approaching couples in clubs, usually because there are so many singles around, so yes most have been via ads.

Quote by northwest-cpl
However, we would never suggest that it was anything more than a one-off nsa when we first play and repeats and friendship are a bonus.

Absolutely the way it should be. As Vicky has said though, it's only polite to at least say thanks!!
Ant

11 Aug 2005

Quote by roger743
And ladies, if you wake up the next morning and it's all being a horrible mistake, then picking up the phone when it rings and saying "hi, look I'm sorry, I might have got a wee bit carried away last night..." is the absolute best way of handling it. Blame it on the beer if it makes it more credible. Much better than just letting me keep ringing and ringing and not picking up.

Absolutely!! This happened to me last year (not someone from here, I was on a course from work with a woman from a distant department - and it was gin not beer biggrin

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) and I reckon she regretted events but didn't say, perhaps because she picked ME up.
A bit of digging found she had a b/f so it's understandable but I wish she'd have just said something the next morning.. And I still wish he'd bugger off, whoever he is, mad

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'cos she was good fun to be with.
Ant.

11 Aug 2005

Debz, all I can say has been said above; he's most likely married and gets his kicks from the thrill of the 'chase' and conquest rather than just the sex.
From a single male point of view, there are an awful lot of couples out there that do the same - one or two meets and no more. I suppose sheer numbers allow them to get away with that, but I can count on the fingers of one hand, those who were honest at the outset and said they just wanted a one-off. I don't have a problem with that type of meeting at all, but it can dent your confidence a bit when you're not sure if that's the reason for sudden silence, especially when it happens for the 2nd or 3rd time !!
I'm now at the stage of being pleasantly surprised when that's not the case biggrin

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I am of course ignoring the possibility that maybe I'm just a crap shag ! redface

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Ant.
p.s. I wouldn't be offended if you passed my name onto your friend !!

11 Aug 2005

Quote by steve_j

1) Indecent Exposure (men only, women can no longer be charged for this)

Surely a case of sexual discrimination if true. Don't suppose anyone is brave enough to drag it through the law to find out though !!!
Ant

10 Aug 2005

Quote by redstilletto
i dont read in bed
i have better things to be doing

If only.... sad

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Currently reading Michael Palin's Himalaya book (lots of piccies and I missed the tv series).
Not long since finished "Once More, With Feeling" which is a very funny true story about how two British journalists go to Amsterdam to make a porn movie with a plot. They just about succeed too...
Ant

9 Aug 2005

I'm interested ! Pleae have a peek at my advert and get back in touch if you would like to meet up...
Ant.

9 Aug 2005

Quote by piercedJon
Lets hope they're not scared of heights!

I bet he doesn't get that !!!
Ant
Took me a few seconds to scan birch (spelling) as beech... but then again I've just got home for a fetish club and still got hitting arses with wooded things on my mind ;-)
Now I don't get that ! I was assuming the original post was a mis-spelling for beach. No birch trees at all.... confused

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9 Aug 2005

Quote by Happy Cats
Lets hope they're not scared of heights!

I bet he doesn't get that !!!
Ant

8 Aug 2005

Quote by bluexxx
Here, there, and everywhere. We sometimes buy chips and throw them at people.

Thank goodness these are Northern chips and not London ones...
Despite years of trying, I still cannot fathom why people get violent when p***ed. Maybe I'm missing an 'angry' gene? If anyone could enlighten me, I'd be happy to hear. (Although I usually know who to avoid, I always wonder why...).
Ant

8 Aug 2005

Hmm,
House, office & car keys.
RAC phone box key (are there still any around??)
Ex g/f's car key :shock: taken it off to give back now I've seen it
Tesco clubcard
Metal Tunisian camel fob, with enamel bits falling out...
Metal Les Arcs ski fob, with enamel bits falling out...
Time to express my personality and get a new fob !!!
Ant.

7 Aug 2005

Just got back from a great night out in the windy wilds of Lancashire, so a massive thanks to Naughty Wigan Couple & Gingerjo & Lee for organising tonights event. biggrin

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It was good to get to meet some more faces, even though it was very cold towards the end of the evening. Thanks also to Trainmanone for the music! Shame on those who skulked off early though evil

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Memo to self: next event I attend must be indoors :-)
Ant.

6 Aug 2005

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
AMENDMENT TO DIRECTIONS
Not going into details on here but in the directions I sent you all last night, in the first paragraph I tell you to turn left. This should have said TURN RIGHT
I know, I know, bloody women, hopeless at directions!!!!!!!!!! Never been good with my left and right

Help! maybe it's not quite where I thought it was then..... Turn left made sense to me - mind you it's 3 or 4 years since I've been down there confused

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6 Aug 2005

Quote by debz4u
Awwwwwwww i dont have a chair just looked in the shed( nothing) looks like its cold bum for me xxxxx cya all in 21 hours lol

I'll rummage in my garage and see if I can find 2 chairs.... :-)
But I'll be putting them in the shy persons corner !!!!
Ant

5 Aug 2005

Hope they haven't 'cos I've just logged on to check and haven't got one either confused

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Ant

4 Aug 2005

Quote by gingerjo-lee
hiya ant
when i get to know you i will go with you
jo xxx

And only 2 days now until you start getting to know me :-)
Ant

4 Aug 2005

You have to admit that Â£70 :shock: is very steep on a first visit........ I think I'd be asking if any ladies wanted to accompany me as afternoons aren't guaranteed to be busy anyway.
Too late for today, but of course there's always tomorrow and next week.... hint cool

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Oh, alright, here I go, asking if any lady would accompany me to Cupids one afternoon then !! biggrin

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Ant.

3 Aug 2005

Looks like I'll be there the full evening now biggrin

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But it means I'll have to think what to cook...... confused

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Must dig out a deckchair too .....
Ant.

3 Aug 2005

The VIP used to be frequented by many couples (mind you I'm going back up to 20 years !!!) along with the 3 other sex cinemas in Manchester (all unfortunately now gone). I think the swingers clubs have taken most of that custom and there really are only dirty old men left. (and when I last went a couple of years ago, most customers were dirty & old !!!)
If you want to go one day Jo, I'll risk the dodginess to take you !! It's right by Oxford Rd station so if you don't want a lift until you know me better then it's easy to get to. I used to be a member so presumably can dig out my old card and renew there and then.
There were strippers on every day when I last went as well (some were good as well) so looks like it has changed a bit...
Can someone tell me if you need to join first to go to the Empire in Huddersfield? Sounds like it might be worth a trip one day..
Ant.

3 Aug 2005

you'll be lucky !!! Most blokes who know how to wash themselves don't go in there..... :shock:
Ant

31 Jul 2005

Quote by gingerjo-lee
Antwest
will be good to see you again
this time lets get to know each other lol
jo xxx

Hi Jo, hopefully we will get better acquainted this time biggrin

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Ant

30 Jul 2005

Hi there,
Any chance of me being invited to this party / bbq thingy? Hopefully NWC remember who I am.. :-) I didn't ask before as I thought I was stuck up in Blackpool for the Sat & Sun but it now seems I'll only be there one day or the other.
If I'm there Sunday, I could arrive at the start of festivities, but if I'm there Saturday it would be late in the evening when I arrived (i.e. 10pm ish) assuming it would be ok arriving at that time.
Thanks,
Ant.