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... Umm excuse me I have to go and masturbate. :twisted:
masturbation makes you go blind you know...unless you get a tft monitor
Who said that!! You must look at me when I talk to you, I'm a bit deaf in that eye. :twisted:
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Our opening up of the marriage stopped the risk of us shagging anything we could get our hands on... it took control of a very risky situation... she was cheating on me, I was retaliating etc, etc... Not so much of a problem for me, I was a big strong boy, but for Lorraine creeping about late at night often with strangers, was risky I felt... we felt, should I say.
No one person should ever claim to own another outright, marriage is a man made institute, it isn't a natural state, basic human nature often causes us to rebel aginst man made institutes doesn't it... If more marriages were opened up, the divorce rate would drop through the floor... The thing that causes divorce for infidelity is often possessive jealousy... not a wish to make a person happy, but a wish to own them outright.
Why get married, cos our parents like us to do such meaningful things don't they, and our kids like a stable family unit... cos the reception was bloody good fun... who knows.
No one person should ever claim to own another outright, marriage is a man made institute, it isn't a natural state, basic human nature often causes us to rebel aginst man made institutes doesn't it... If more marriages were opened up, the divorce rate would drop through the floor... The thing that causes divorce for infidelity is often possessive jealousy... not a wish to make a person happy, but a wish to own them outright.
Why get married, cos our parents like us to do such meaningful things don't they, and our kids like a stable family unit... cos the reception was bloody good fun... who knows.
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as a young perv, i always expected the clubs and communities of the fetish and swinging world to be full of freaks, weirdos and cartoon villains, all shagging away like billy-o... yet i've discovered as time goes by, that if anything, you find more 'normal', well adjusted people in the seedy underworld of sex & spanking than you do in vanilla life.
take this place - while i'm sure there's the occasional offensive perv turns up, the ratio of troll posts to decent posts seems significantly down on other (non-sex) forums i read... no flaming, everyone seems to behave with respect for everyone else. which is nice.
so where are they all, the sexual predators & deviants we've all be warned about? do they put on a friendly, respectful face to the outside world, pouncing as soon as our backs are turned? or are they actually by and large a creation of the powers that be, trying to keep the floodgates shut against the inevitable tide of sexual liberation?
first post btw. hi.
Can't think what you mean, no pervs about here, hidden or trolling... Umm excuse me I have to go and masturbate. :twisted:
Quote by Wilki
Hi people just a little warning that if you get a reply to your advert by someone who has a "famous american, black heavyweight boxers" name in his email title, do be a bit wary. ive had about 6 mails from the person behaving a little bit.. well lets say strange. I maybe wrong, but somehow i dont think i am.
Thanks for the warning friend, it pays to take care especially with pictures... We had a prob the other year with a porn pay site illegally using pics of my misses we'd posted on another chat site... prob was resolved, but we never post full on pics in public any more.
Quote by Fun365
A little while ago I asked for advice on Gangbangs.. and had some good advice via PM's and responses.. This has now taken a step further. I'll apologise if I don't get to the point straight away , but..
Myself and Carolyn (alright it was me - Paul) were perusing the ads today - and found an ad that showed a woman in a swing and restrained by her arms. So, in essence she was totally vunerable (is that a good word?).. Anyway we discussed this and Carolyn would love to experience this scenario.. But I cannot arrange this for my home (where we feel most comfortable - I don't have the necessary equipment) so, would like to know if there are any Clubs in the South (we are based in Basingstoke) where we could have Carolyn restrained and held open legged and fucked by all and sundry (again not good terms but what the hell)
Any advice would be gratefully accepted
Thanks
Paul xx
Yeppers mate, listen to the others, go to a regulated organised club if she must have it that way, take a male friend if you have one, big bugger as well if possible, no big tall. not that way, perverts :twisted:
Whatever you do, now I don't want to treat you like a kid but... don't try this at a private house miles from anywhere with a load of strangers... I've been in the swinging and kinky play scene for many, many, years, and I've seen and heard of some very nasty events with people new to the scene being taken advantage of and abused badly.
PS: If you go through with it, I'm also available for weddings, bamitsva's, and gangbangs, completely free of charge.
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Hi im Paul and i joined today,ive always been fairly openminded and intresting in the swinging scene but to be honest ive been scared/nervous to do anything about it.I had a look at this site yesterday and it seems so friendly so here i am
.Where you as nervous as me when you joined the scene or am i being daft?
Hello paul from another Paul, nice to meet you, I'm new here too, but not nervous cos of the vast age and experience of playing and pissing people off on various web sites around the world
At least you've had a welcome, no one's spoken to me yet. Quote by jsw
Hi All
Just wanted to say hello to the forum.
We placed an add about a month ago and found a great guy. This was to be our first step into the world of swinging.
Like many people we have talked about doing this for years, but never took that final step.
ARE WE GLAD WE DID !!!!
After lots of chats on the phone and on we met the other day.
We had a great night of chatting, fun, kissing...well not going to tell you all of the rest!!
At the end of the night we all had smiles on our faces!
We are seeing him again this wednesday for more....... :D :D
Wish we had done it a long time ago.......but then again it was worth the wait!
At the moment mrs s is happy to stay with the 3sum. So she has said that i can try and find myself a couple to have fun with. But the way this has got her i think we will end up in a 4 or more sum !
Well thanks swinging heaven, here's to a life as a swinger!
Speak soon
Mr J & Mrs S
Oh and i will be placing an add back on here for me, but will include a picture from our first night!
And Mrs S said if anyone wants to confirm we are a couple and that she wants me to play,then she will always chat on the phone.
I dont want people to think we are timewasters
Nice one friend, fun once you take the plunge, (excuse the pun) isn't it, have fun and take care out there.
As Kit Kat says, send the misses in for a chat... I won't try it on with her honest :twisted:
You could be right G I mean don't want to scare people away before we start do we.
Psychogical Diss... Peeps think it's only the woman who's attractive enough to warrant attention, the lady is the tool of seduction. Plus a lot of blokes like me think we'd turn your milk sour with our ugly mugs.
It is daft though, if you're advertising something you shouldn't leave out half the product.
Psychogical Diss... Peeps think it's only the woman who's attractive enough to warrant attention, the lady is the tool of seduction. Plus a lot of blokes like me think we'd turn your milk sour with our ugly mugs.
It is daft though, if you're advertising something you shouldn't leave out half the product.
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Hey. I'm kinda new. Not sure what I'm doin'... I hear ya'll friendly dudes here, so iz anyone willin' 2 msg me and explain the whole thing?
P.J. (MizzAmerika)
Hi Mizz A just joined myself, I think they're friendly and don't bite, not too sure yet though
(Not that I mind being bitten, but it has to be in all the right places like) :twisted: Of course you don't do Dogging in the states do you, (I'm assuming you are from across the pond by your name and style) you certainly do swing though.
I think we just have to chat and have reasonably unrestrained fun in general here, and if it leads to something naughty, all the better.
Welcome love, and Hi to all the regulars... I'll post a few of my erotic stories here, I've put one up on the approval list tonight... I might tell you all my real pen name eventually and steer you to some of my other published stuff on the web.
See ya:
arkan.
