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awol
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
0 miles · Greater London

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Apparently my Type is
ENFP
Extroverted = 11
Intuitive = 25
Feeling = 25
Perceiving = 11
and apparently I am
* slightly expressed extrovert
* moderately expressed intuitive personality
* moderately expressed feeling personality
* slightly expressed perceiving personality
Which is funny because I never thought of myself as an extrovert...not even slightly
So, ENFP is that good or bad... am confused! confused
Quote by Comparison
Have I looked at younger guys at munches and thought "I wish I was his age/got his looks/had his physique?".....No I haven't, because people will take me for who I am......and if they don't like me for who I am then they were never likely to have liked me at any stage in my life..........I like where I am in my life at the moment and wouldn't wish to be younger or change anything about my past, because my past and the age I am now are what has made me who I am. And I am more than comfortable and happy with who I am.

Wise words... I wish I could have said that sad now Mr Comparison, you are a threat I can't compete with that! lol
Quote by awol

When was the last time you went swimming?

Last sunday,
If you fart (a silent one) in a lift and there are other people with you would you admit it was you?
Oh dear :cry:
Sorry Fools-Gold I think I've killed your thread!
:shock:
Quote by deancannock
its the ones that sound and look to good to be true..
thats coz they are to good to be true.
You know you seem them...21 year old, size 10, big tits, tight pert arse, wealthy with own house, wants guys any age and size, just for sex. Pic to match
maybe I missing out by not replying...but somehow I don't think i am

I totally agree and like you I stay well away from that kind of ads..
rolleyes
Quote by Scandal
When was the last time you went swimming?

Last sunday,
If you fart (a silent one) in a lift and there are other people with you would you admit it was you?
Quote by duncanlondon
It would be easy to overlook the point here. Most guys will say there is no threat or challenge. That is part of the defense mechanism at work. And that is just what I have done.

I'm sorry but I disagree. I sincerely think that most guys mature enough would definitely see younger ones like the one we're talking about not as a threat. I would see more of a threat an intelligent, articulate and funny mature man because he'd be competing with me at my level (not that I'm articulate intellgent or funny but you get the idea).
Quote by duncanlondon
Guys do go through an initial period of sensitivity and there is some establishing of respect and what they will accept from each other. So in that sense it is a challenge to deal with a younger man who demands more attention.

No, definitely no. Again using the 19 year old as example. His behaviour is so ridiculous it beggars belief. More than a threat or a challenge I see him as an embarrassment to the male polpulation.
Quote by duncanlondon
A young fit and feisty guy can be intimidating and he may push the limits. This can be worrying and force one to make decisions or draw conclusions. But there is a long term way around these issues.

I do not find young fit and feisty guys intimidating at all and that is the truth. As I said if he were very clever, funny, mature in his outlook yes, I'd see him as serious competition.
I don't feel threatened at all. As for the young poster mentioned, or any others like him, I don't think there's need for any of the older males to let him know how to excersise forum etiquete.
The best thing to do is let him make mistakes and he will learn. After all we've all learnt from our mistakes.
Quote by dragonlly
I'd have you Dave, but as I am a newbie, that would defeat the purpose...wouldn't it?
Maybe I could adopt the bike confused:
Lydia xx

Ohhh what if we newbies adopt each other! ... er no maybe not redface
Quote by Clare_Lincs
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que? :shock:
Quote by Mav&Sini
A guy comes on and introduces himself.. he gets flamed.. fair enough... but then he takes it on the chin and appologisises for most of it...
Then people just start having a go again....
Now we're getting sniping on both sides...
Yes he may be a bit of a tosser, but at least he replied instead of dissapearing into obscurity - which shows guts, and I have never seen members of SH be so vicious to a newbie before. Yes comments may be warrented, but this is rather off putting for any newbie who sees this.. they're gonna think you going to eat them alive....

A good point...being a newbie myself I empathise with your post... however I'm not sure if what he's showing is guts or arrogance.
Me, me, me (says jumping up and down!)
Anyone care to adopt me? I won't bite (unless you ask)
:twisted:
Quote by BigDanny12999
....or even just tell them that you are having an affair with a high powered politician?
That way, you will avoid any more questions because they will feel like they are intruding if they ask!!! lol lol lol

I bet if you tell them that, the first thing they'll do is ring The Sun or Max Clifford and try to sell the story!!! lol
lumpy cum?
I've either lived a very sheltered life or you swinging girls are sucking a tad bit too hard!? smile
(am off for a wank - got to test this lumpy cum business) :twisted:
I failed miserably.... 1 out of 3
:cry:
I'm easily distracted
Quote by bluexxx
Tried it, doesn't appear to warm at all, on males or females. Oh well, back to the Deep Heat :shock:

same here I tried it and didn't feel a difference at all sad
rolleyes
Quote by Vix
were the 2 men asleep?
confused:

When I awoke, yeah.
Ah I know what happened... they were true gentlemen and were letting the lady sleep and rest whilst they played with temselves ... biggrin
As a newbie I was also a bit aprehensive at some of the ads.
I don't know but I thought I was quite liberated and would hardly think I led a sheltered life (ahem!) but some of the ads just sound so wild (too good to be true?) that.. I dunno... maybe I have a very suspicious mind I just don't really believe some of them.
Also I can understand ad posters wanting pictures of the people replying to the ads (I have no problem in seinding mine) but some of them only ask to see cock pics not face pics. Don't they want to know who they'll be talking to first? Won't they want to know what kind of person I am first? Or will they prefer to meet a man with a brown paper bag on his head with his zip undone and his cock sticking out?
Dunno... I'm just going along and will surely get to know people little by little
Quote by westerross
Flucking obvious innit? Are you a hermaphrodite zebra!!

f***** brilliant!! rotflmao
oh dear sometimes some guys ah you know I despair - hopefully ladies will realise not all guys are like that - some are worse just wait till I start PMing you ladies
lol
Quote by Vix
Hmm.
Woke up this morning between 2 men.

Quote by Libra-Love
If I was between two men there aint no chance in hell I'd be asleep

were the 2 men asleep?
confused:
Happy (belated) Birthday Helen!!
Hope you get better soon... and when you do we must do some serious salsa!
biggrin
Quote by lorrilove
according to my hubby who's looking over my shoulder... microsoft internet explorer is one huge chunk of spyware anyway, logging you down every time you go on the net, and checking what you're doing... don't ask, if he isn't here behind me i haven't gor a clue what i just been on about lol

Apparently the worst offender is Micro$oft's Windows Media Player. Whenever you listen to music (MP3s or any other format) it reports back to Micro$oft what you were listening to, or viewing if you were looking at films.
I'll try to find the link to the website which reported this.
Quote by freckledbird
OK
Is it easy?
Is it free?
If the answer to the above 2 questions is yes and it won't bugger anything up on my PC, where do I get it from?
Bev
xx

Mozilla Firefox is an alternative browser to Micro$oft's Internet Explorer Freckledbird.
I use it sometimes when I visit doggy sites as I find it more secure than IE and it seems slightly faster. The best thing about it is the tabbed browsing facility where you can view more than one web page in a single window all separated by tabs.
You can get it from
HTH
Actually it was because I watched the first series that I ended up in Radlett's (and thoroughly enjoyed it too).
When I was looking to go I didn't excatly know the address so I asked my good friend google and he pointed me to SH - that's how I found SH and have been visiting sporadically this forum until I gathered enough courage to join.
So you can blame Channel 5 for me being here pestering you
wink
Quote by Vix
Did not know Weetabix wore pants.
Every day is a school day, eh?

Have you had your weetabix? wink
Quote by Vix
Obviously the poor chap in the photo is genitally challenged. Poor wee Willy Winkie.
All real men have penises the size of nuclear missiles and have to drive huge red cars to contain their tackle.
HTH

<looking down his pants>
:cry: suddenly I feel so utterly miserable :cry:
I for one love jokes, sometimes accepting really bad taste ones but this one really is terrible and rather offensive.
Don't like it.
sad
Quote by Dawn_Mids
awol smackbottom smackbottom smackbottom smackbottom smackbottom mad
lol
Dawn :silly:

ah thank you mistress hmmm harder please!!
well actually it was the hands that kept distracting me you know? what did you think I meant !!
rotflmao
ahhh birthdays!
This year I will be 40!! and I would really love a big fat party with lots of bi females all giving me their attention and of course a bucketful of viagra (not that I need it but you know just in case I run out of ammunition!) rotflmao
Quote by Dawn_Mids
My day became unproductive last night rolleyes
One of the kids hurt his head at cubs and ended up at A & E.
Poor Ian had already booked today off so we could have some quility time, go out for lunch then he could pop and see Steve (from Shireen and Steve)
Not quite the same when you have an 8 year old cling-on stuck to you rolleyes
At least Ian has still managed to cos bug the hell out of Steve lol
Dawn :silly:

Dear Dawn,
What was it you said? For the life of me I try to concentrate on what you say in your posts but my eyes keep veering to the left, something in your avatar keeps distracting me! Can you say it again please? redface
rotflmao