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16 Nov 2004

Quote by Libra-Love
We're kicking around some titles and I'm not really happy with anything that has been suggested just yet. ...
Please feel free to add your thoughts and suggestions to this thread.

'Wired Adventures' ... subtitled "Libra works her way through an internet forum."
Hold on whilst i get my user id changed to 'aardvark' ... lol

... ok, ok.... back to the drawing board.

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16 Nov 2004

Quote by freckledbird
i also think that newcomers to the chat room and indeed to swinging, might be put off by the verified people, seeing them as 'hardened' swingers. Maybe the verification process will work against those verified as much as it could work for them?

i was thinking the same thing myself.
there's a another board (not specifically for swingers) where subscribed members get gold status, priority listings etc... nothing wrong with that, anyone can subscribe, the webmaster needs an angle to fund the site and it's an open system (unlike this one). over time though, i noticed that I was more interested in chatting to people who weren't 'gold', so actively seek them out by searching from the back of the list etc. of course, if the goldies prefer talking to other goldies, then the system suits both. As in this case, because i haven't the energy or the time to develop a fake chat room persona, with or without the being vili... sorry verified.
on the other hand, thanks are due to the people that came up with this idea... it's spilled over into a lively forum discussion encompassing so many interesting issues.
personally i'm adopting the mathematical symbol "*" - mutiplication is far superior to addition ;)

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14 Nov 2004

Quote by bluexxx
However, I think the logic goes something like this. Couple go into chatroom looking to meet up with a bifem. I'm sitting in there with my nick suzybibigboobs and cock in hand.

Yeah, but what about the newbie unverified bi fem who knows no-one who logs in wanting to hook up with a couple?
if that is the problem then simply verifying the gender and using that in nicknames might be the answer. rather than 'trial by intercourse' if I might call it that. Are there that many fakers? Going by the forum, I would have said the vast majority of people on here don't want to play (faker) games and will admit to being lepers..... sorry... males, knowing that some lovely people still give us a chance (and quite frankly i've got no wish to jerk off with someone thinking i'm female, though i'm sure i don't speak for all, each to his own!).
so returning to the point, if there is one, what is the big deal about verifying that someone will meet up? if they're in your target market but don't want to 'buy' then maybe you need to sell yourself a bit better (talking rhetorically here), rather than label them as timewasters.
Why not just verify that a couple is a couple and a single-bi-fem is the sbf and then haven't you covered most of the problem area? A darn sight more democratic and easier to administer than confirming someone's place in the sexual network. why, a simple phone call or web conference should suffice, as is already used by some couples, i notice.
Sounds like some of the proponents of this scheme want to hook up 'Macdonalds style'. Nothing in life is guaranteed, especially not human interactions, as everyone is so fond of telling those admittedly naive and deserving single males. The '+' attribute wouldn't gaurentee satisfaction and the absence of one wouldn't mean a timewaster. So keep it objective - reduce the leeway for those who can't even be honest enough to admit their own gender, whilst leaving open the rich possibilities for everyone else.
Or am I wrong? Is the chatroom a fast-food style hookup joint for couples and their (soon to be validated) quarry? That would explain it's fast pace and low level of content which i've experienced - though to some extent that applies to all chat rooms i've ever tried not just the SH chat room especially.

Quote by bluexxx
Anyways, I don't know why I'm arguing either, it's irrelevant to me, I guess I'm just a shit stirrer :grin: :grin: :grin:

me too... .sorry! guess I need something else to worry about!

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14 Nov 2004

Quote by Vix
If I laugh just a little bit
maybe I can forget the chance
that I didn't have to know you
and live in peace, in peace
...-

nice one! one of my favourites from the man recently added to america's most unwanted list, for nothing more than speaking his mind.

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14 Nov 2004

Quote by RSAB2
Lancashire love winging its way to you all.

are you sure that's not 'lancashire cheese' ?
just kidding wink

here's some liverpool lurve right back at 'cha.

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14 Nov 2004

I can't wait for the launch of the verification service. there are some lovely ladies in my area i would love to be verified by. wink

more seriously, I can see the need and the method is as good as any.... only hope it doesn't lead to a hardening of boundaries, making it more difficult for new members to establish themselves. i suspect it knd of will do that.... becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy, along the lines MikeNorth mentioned - i'm not verified, therefore maybe i'm fake, therefore verified members will avoid me, therefore i won't get verified....
also - what if two unverified people meet? do they need to make sure that someone verified is with them, so their meet will count ?
.... have i misunderstood how this will work ?

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14 Nov 2004

Please will some one video this for the masses ?
(The fight, not the prize.... well, video of the prize, optional)

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14 Nov 2004

Quote by 5exy1
i can,t wait to join one of these clubs don,t forget i,m newbie :D wished i had friends to go with :D

you have a pm .... or two ;)

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14 Nov 2004

Quote by PoloLady
Best music to shag to?
If it is someone warm, soft and attentive - then it has to be Al Green...

saw Al Green in the 80's - excellent live!
having just read your fantasy with a stranger post, all I can say is 'take me to your river', pololady.

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14 Nov 2004

Quote by harry0
In all honesty, I think 'Rap' is a monotenous dirge without tune...

Hmmmm.... can't deny the element of misogyny in some rap lyrics but it's not restricted to rap or ethnic groups only (the lyrics to the Stranglers 'Peaches' come to mind, substitute fruit for meat). I'd suggest it's symptomatic of sociological tensions between male and female rather than something intrinsically part of an entire musical genre.
Try that first brought rap to most people's attention for something more uplifting and humorous.

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14 Nov 2004

Quote by kinkyluton
right ladys join the que
im looking for me first mffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff

funny post. nice one.
wouldn't just be your first, I should think it would be the first in recorded history.
unless any one on this site knows better, of course!

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14 Nov 2004

Quote by fruity1976
Is there such a thing as an orgy machine!!?? Jesus imagine there was and you used it and it malfunctioned!! :cry:

Wasn't there 'The Orgasmatron' featured in a Woody Allen film (Sleeper ?) ? And of course, it did malfunction.

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14 Nov 2004

Quote by SpiritedAway
This one came up with exaxtly the same results for me as the ones that cost a fortune from very expensive consultants.

Same here.
INFP in my case.
22% 44% 22% 56%

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13 Nov 2004

Quote by sheffieldfun4two
...she slipped them in and handed the guy the remote! He switched it on and her little face lit up immediately...

a woman on remote control... not experienced that no but I'm intrigued, did the volume control work ? wink

sticking with the subject matter, fast forward could be very handy for some of us men

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13 Nov 2004

Quote by KitKat

he DId try to redeem himself when he tried to steal me a candle from a cathedral! :lol: :lol:

Was that because of where he tried to hide it? :twisted: :twisted:
lhk
...and was he caught or did he just drop it after singeing something ? confused

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13 Nov 2004

Quote by fruity1976
i was going to bed 10 minutes ago for a wank but still here )

remember what my old nan used to say, 'early to bed, early to rise'.
anyways, i can't see you online now, so you must have got off
line ;)

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12 Nov 2004

(thinking of an old song)
...that's the price of love...

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12 Nov 2004

Quote by wildwilly
I would like to offer an alternative to your BBG, in the form of BOG (Bugger Off Gooners)
he should be condemed to the home for the permenantly bewildered, all sharp instruments put on a high shelf out of his reach, and call for him to be permenantly ostracized from this community.
BOG!!!

time for another poll?
ps i'm right behind you foxylady ... :twisted:

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12 Nov 2004

Quote by da69ve
You are the weakest Link...Goodbye!

blue takes over from ann robinson.
now there's a thought.

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12 Nov 2004

favourite type of music and best tune to shag to ?
sorry if you've posted this already - i'm sure music was a recent thread.

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12 Nov 2004

Quote by foxylady 123
At forty something I can honestly say iv never had a grey hair, either upstairs or down below. The ahirdresser makes sure i dont get on on my head and the razor ensures down below is never affected!!
Get to the hairdresser quick, before anyone notices!!

with that ass i can't say i'm surprised.
i bet your milk teeth are still there too. ;)
as for my grey hairs, i don't find it a problem.
they're dropping like autumn leaves any how! rolleyes

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12 Nov 2004

Quote by Mark
... the funk soul brother.

LMAO ... wasn't just me that thought that then?????
Check it out now...
(no, I guess not lol

)
certainly wasn't - except in my case i could only think of the music and not the words! so thanks Mark!

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12 Nov 2004

Quote by deancannock
well i would like to snog with jackie,s arse....thats the jackie from jackie and ben....does things to me every time i see that avatar

it is jackie then in jackie & ben's pic ?

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12 Nov 2004

thank you for providing this opportunity to express my feelings about marmite, i'm so glad you stayed now wink

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12 Nov 2004

Quote by hayleyw2
If You have met some-one and you were impressed by their,
attitude
reliability
friendliness
discretion
presantation
kindness
humour
etc.
Why not tell us.
Seems better placed in the bit most peeps read,

I would like to recommend you Hayley, I'm already impressed ... but first I need to meet you ;)

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11 Nov 2004

Quote by gooners33
It shows how much bolloxs you have talked !!! The more you talk, over the shorter time span, the more it fills!!
Yours should be on overflow by the end of the week!!

ok thanks for that, i just wondered. i see yours is almost full but i dont think you have talked that much b*****ks?
no but foxy must have been replying to alot of it, i guess that has the same effect.
how is my bar doing ??

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11 Nov 2004

i was within a mouse click of replying to an ad put up by a work colleague, but a 1 million to one chance unintentional clue gave her away, and i decided that discretion was the better part of valour (errr.... well, whatever).

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11 Nov 2004

just going to get myself an apple. ;)
meanwhile, what is your favourite part of the country and why ?

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11 Nov 2004

Quote by PoloLady
what type of polo are you a lady with ?

see answer above :rascal: :grin:
truly, the mint with the hole in. lol

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11 Nov 2004

what type of polo are you a lady with ?

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