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Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 54
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Quote by flower411

Why though? What difference does it make if it's in a different forum? Surely there's room for a little bit of everything? If I could choose, I'd merge the 'lets talk about sex' forum with this one and have all the chat in one place. You can choose what you want to read, normally just by reading the title or the first post. It's way more inclusive and would encourage newbies...

:thumbup: This would actually be my preference.
And that's exactly how it used to be. It was called the Cafe.
In the old days, when us has beens were all here the first time round, we had the brains to decide which threads interested us and which didn't, and responded accordingly. We didn't need separate forums to help us decide what to read.
Get a grip y'all!
Is that why chatters were lamblasted and ridiculed when they had the audacity to enter the cafe ? Because of the intelligence of the forum users !!
Learn something new every day ! rolleyes
Seemed OK when I was here. What happened when I got bored and wandered off is another matter. Clearly as soon as my back was turned you all started playing nasty .... lol
The day I claim that my memory is better than somebody elses will be a special one but did you really leave before the cafe became a childish battleground with a bunch of people who claimed it was theirs because they had never paid to be here over the people who were paying for it ?
Yes.
Quote by flower411

Why though? What difference does it make if it's in a different forum? Surely there's room for a little bit of everything? If I could choose, I'd merge the 'lets talk about sex' forum with this one and have all the chat in one place. You can choose what you want to read, normally just by reading the title or the first post. It's way more inclusive and would encourage newbies...

:thumbup: This would actually be my preference.
And that's exactly how it used to be. It was called the Cafe.
In the old days, when us has beens were all here the first time round, we had the brains to decide which threads interested us and which didn't, and responded accordingly. We didn't need separate forums to help us decide what to read.
Get a grip y'all!
Is that why chatters were lamblasted and ridiculed when they had the audacity to enter the cafe ? Because of the intelligence of the forum users !!
Learn something new every day ! rolleyes
Seemed OK when I was here. What happened when I got bored and wandered off is another matter. Clearly as soon as my back was turned you all started playing nasty .... lol
Quote by noladreams

Why though? What difference does it make if it's in a different forum? Surely there's room for a little bit of everything? If I could choose, I'd merge the 'lets talk about sex' forum with this one and have all the chat in one place. You can choose what you want to read, normally just by reading the title or the first post. It's way more inclusive and would encourage newbies...

:thumbup: This would actually be my preference.
And that's exactly how it used to be. It was called the Cafe.
In the old days, when us has beens were all here the first time round, we had the brains to decide which threads interested us and which didn't, and responded accordingly. We didn't need separate forums to help us decide what to read.
Get a grip y'all!
Quote by Tasitus
No.
But I could be persuaded, if you're really good to me
:rascal:

Who me - I'm always good - apparently
Prove it :grin:
Ooooo your so distrusting you lol
:grin::grin::grin:
I did some work this morning
Then I did "The Big Shop"
Now my back has gone, so I'm sitting on my settee wondering if it is now safe to get up. I need a wee.
To be fair, the majority of social media memes involve cats, so you're a bit of an easy target -- sorry lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by Rogue_Trader
very boring, but all the veg and majority of salad stuff comes out of my garden.
regarding yours though...someone has a sweet tooth :-D

Yeah, that'd be me rolleyes
Get you... all healthy, like worship
Quote by Rogue_Trader
You want persons to comment on your character based on what you have bought...?

If you want, but feel free to post anything you like. I'm just having a laugh really blink
If you have a recent shopping list, post that lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by Tasitus

The first time I met everyone (I think I'd only met one or two forumites in person before this) was at the very first NW Munch. I wasn't even on the list, and I took a non site member in with me. This was the days before Munch rules rotflmao

Blimey - now you'd be hung drawn quartered then shot today if you did that !!!!
Yeah... I'll tell you a secret.... I broke all the Munch rules, one by one, just cos I could
Blue - having met you - just the once I can't say I'm suprised at that comment lol
Have we met? I didn't realise. Did you used to have a different name?
Once a month or so, I like to go to a supermarket for "The Big Shop" surprised. It gives me a chance for a meet and greet with my public, that the delivery service that I used to use simply does not :dry:.
Thinking that you must be able to get to know someone by looking at their shopping list, much like you would if you went through their bin (well, if it's good enough for archaeology....), here is what I bought today.
Block of saver cheese (Red Leicester)
Tub of Dairylea
School Trousers x 2 (Black)
School shirts x 2 (White)
Mathilda (DVD)
Cat food tins x 12
Bag saver dog food x 3 (1kg each)
Timeout single finger bars (pack of 8)
Sugar puffs
Krave x 2
Pack digestives (own brand)
White t-shirts (boys, white) x 2
Fruit pastilles x 3 packs
36 Weetabix
1 bag anti-bacterial cat litter
Ben & Jerry's (Cookie Dough)
Dreamies, the treats cats crave x 2
Rocky biscuits (pack of 8)
Toilet rolls x 12
One meat based thing in a bag (no idea what it is)
Cheese & onion large baps x 4
Foxes Chunky biscuits
Mini flapjacks "bite size"
Muller fruit corners x 8
Mini brownies "bite size"
Cheese & onion quiche (small)
Individual salad tray (regular) x 2
French stick
Foxes chocolate cookies
4 pints semi skimmed milk
Beans (Fridge pack, Heinz)
Pepsi Max 2l x 5
Lemonade 2l x 2
A large laminated world map
Diet Pepsi x 3
Spaghetti hoops x 5
Febreze (Thai Orchid) x 2
Lucozade sport 1l x 4
Paracetamol pack (16 tabs)
Anti bacterial spray (yellow)
1 large kitchen roll (HUGE)
Allergy tablets (pack of 14)
Radox active (shower gel???)
Shampoo (Elvive, cos I'm worth it)
Conditioner (as above, the pink one, I'm still worth it)
Furniture polish (own brand)
Total = :eeek:
Quote by Tasitus

The first time I met everyone (I think I'd only met one or two forumites in person before this) was at the very first NW Munch. I wasn't even on the list, and I took a non site member in with me. This was the days before Munch rules rotflmao

Blimey - now you'd be hung drawn quartered then shot today if you did that !!!!
Yeah... I'll tell you a secret.... I broke all the Munch rules, one by one, just cos I could
You know those funny meme/picture thingies that do the rounds on social media?
Post them here if they are just PERFECT for a forumite....
I'll start
Quote by Tasitus
No.
But I could be persuaded, if you're really good to me
:rascal:

Who me - I'm always good - apparently
Prove it :grin:
See --- you're all getting used it purging your souls now.... well done lol
This one....
Quote by Paddy
Eating Two day old take away Pizza from the box :sad:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
.... is compulsory in my house. When we buy pizza on a Friday night, we buy enough to last us until Sunday eve.
That's the rule.
Quote by pookbunnies
ex's are like prison, if you keep going back then there is a lesson that your not learning.

rotflmao
Totally true.
I could have murdered my ex and have been inside and totally re-habilitated by now
:haha:
:rotflmao:
:sad:
Christmas (the modern one, not the genuine pagan festival) has been invented and is continually propogated by big business who want your money.
S'all.
dunno
Quote by Tasitus
Oh my god - My first social was a personal nightmare, I remamber getting to the place, sitting in the car for about 10 minutes thinkings "shall I - Shant I" then plucking up the courage to go inside thinking they are all human , they are not going to eat you alive !!!!redface
Then I got into the bar and I just stood there frozen, like the preverbial rabbit in the headlights, it felt like time had stood still.
Then Staggy came over introduced himself and I guess as they say the rest is history.
But oh my god - Sh*t scared or what !!! - I am afterall an naturally shy retiring person

Oh yes, I reckon everyone knew that feeling one time or another :eeek:
The first time I met everyone (I think I'd only met one or two forumites in person before this) was at the very first NW Munch. I wasn't even on the list, and I took a non site member in with me. This was the days before Munch rules rotflmao
I was only passing on the way to a club, and stayed about an hour. I was hedging my bets really, as at that time, I hadn't decided if you lot were for me... I just came to check out how many of you I wanted to shag.
I stayed, so that maybe tells its own story :grin:
No.
But I could be persuaded, if you're really good to me
:rascal:
Quote by Dirtygirly
Although I think I'm probably better at it than Blue! :haha:

:-o
What do you mean? I'm great at it, I just choose not to do much of it :haha:
I once did some cleaning of a lecture theatre at work and my colleagues were impressed by my attention to detail. We didn't have any tools, it was an off the cuff idea, so we did it with our fingers. I picked up all sorts of the floor that they completely missed. I even found a set of rather long finger nails - five nails all off the same hand. I searched and searched but perhaps fortunately, didn't find the rest of the student.
Since then I have been known by those who were there on the day as "CSI"
:smug:
Quote by Cubes
Resistance is futile!
Make it so!
Engage!
She canna take much more o' this cap'n!
:lol2:

And afterwards: Tea. Earl Grey. Hot. :grin:
Quote by Cubes
If I'm only allowed three then it has to be Kaley Cuoco, me, and the missus cos we both fancy the pants off her. :twisted:

Oh yes. Good choice. I could certainly find time in my busy schedule for Leonard and Penny!
Quote by Lizaleanrob
What do you do in private that others would find gross? Your really most disgusting private habit?
Mine is picking the hard skin off the bottom of my feet and then eating it.
:giggle:

you know that point when you really wish you hadn`t read somthing :shock:
You would have DIED if I'd posted a picture :grin:
i was already dying this morning............ if i had seen a picture i would have been soooooo violently sick, i would have brought up my own intestines :undecided:
:giggle::giggle::giggle:
Quote by Qbu
This is one of those threads that you're soooo not going to reply to isn't it? lol

Why not? Surely no habit is sooooooooo disgussing that you couldn't openly and honestly talk about it on the internet :grin:
Quote by Lost

My favourite part of those times were the pre-munch meet ups, the stupidity in hotels and the massive build up to each one :thrilled:

the old munch bubble :happy: :dancingpinkelephant:
many of us were carried from one month into the next on the strength of those bubbles lol
Post-munch blues lasted as long as the hangover, then there'd be another one to look forward to and the build would start all over again :lol: Good, but very expensive, times :happy:
Jay and I were only talking yesterday about how we managed to do the social and munches thing financially. To do the same thing now would be nie on impossible. Munches and Socials were a threee hundred pound weekend for us we reckon and to do that nowadays...well we just couldn't. ~Certainly not on the regular basis we once did. Just goes to show how, for us and others, times have become progressively tougher in that way. Should be blimming easier too one would of thought.
Oh yes, the lifestyle was hugely expensive for me too, at one time. I reckon between 2005 and 2006 I was spending £200 - £300 a month on average on "lifestyle" related activities.
The big munches were a big outlay, when you think about hotel costs, travelling, food, drink (especially drink :uhohsmile and clothes (if I cared to buy something new to fulfill whatever fancy dress it was :eeek: ).
But then there was all the smaller socials that I used to run in Manchester. In their heyday we were doing a small one once a month, sometimes more, each with a hotel cost, meal, drinks.....
And then there was all the clubs I did. Each one a small entry fee, but times each small entry fee by the sheer amount of clubs I was doing and it all tots up :dry:
I wouldn't even want to begin to try and add it all up :doh:
And I would reckon that some people would have spent a whole lot more than me. I refrained from the southern munches as I don't do the south, but I know lots of people who did them all. Hats off to ya!!!!
This song represents me and my ex quite well, if I was to be a bit flippant about things (which is usual :lol2smile. Until the song just got too old and samey :undecided:

Not sure who was Katy and who was Alexander though :giggle:
Quote by Rubato_and_Hope
Good point. Though it does look like you might've redefined asexuality as someone who is not attracted to the naked body of either gender to make this point, but that's just me being overly pedantic as usual.

I did. I don't know if there is a *official* definition of asexuality (who would the official be who defines such a thing anyway? :lol2: ), but what I was quite specifically talking about is the lack of attraction to the human body --- i.e. the naked body. The body, clothed, in appropriate attire, can be very attractive.
I guess in this day and age, with the rafts of fetish clothing out there, what I'm talking about is quite the moot point. I could just say I'm a fetishist and leave it at that? I just thought it was interesting to look at what it is about humanity that turns me off. And that's it being nekked :lol2:
If the human race had depended on people like me for its survival, say, 100,000 years ago, it would have been bolloxed :giggle:
My neighbours are still in therapy after answering the door to a cardinal carrying a crate of beer :giggle:
Question for marmite fans.
I hate the stuff so I am not going to try this myself :scared:.
My mother once gave up cheese because she was on a diet. She missed cheese on toast, so she devised something similar but low calorie.
She said that marmite spread thinly on the toast and then coating the marmite-toast with beans tasted like cheese
Was this just wishful thinking on her part or is it true? loon
Quote by Lizaleanrob
What do you do in private that others would find gross? Your really most disgusting private habit?
Mine is picking the hard skin off the bottom of my feet and then eating it.
:giggle:

you know that point when you really wish you hadn`t read somthing :shock:
You would have DIED if I'd posted a picture :grin: