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bonnienclyde
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 53
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Quote by foxylady 123
I ask (well a number of you will guess what has realy prompted this)because Im turned 40, and I dont seem to be going anywhere, worst of all I dont knoiw where I want to go!!
Foxylady, I'm perhaps overly chilled out at times or so I've been told. Dont worry about these things, life has a funny habit of throwing things at you when you least expect it, good and bad. So sit back enjoy life and I'm sure new chances or goals will bring themselves to your attention but if you worry to much about these things you may find you miss them as you may not even notice when they present themselves.
Hi RedHot, I have experienced this type of thing before. If this seller had alot of good feedback he is probably reliable within the ebay environment, but that is in the ebay environment. If he/she had items listed they might have had something listed not within ebay rules and this can result in suspension, did you check there other listings by any chance ? If the seller has had the item removed or has been suspended for infringing on ebay rules or both you normally receive an email from ebay advising you that you do not have to complete the transaction. Also bear in mind if this member is no longer a registered user they cant leave you a negative anyway. I would send this person another mail and let them know if they do not reply to you within x amount of hours/days you will not complete the transaction full stop as you are not prepared to deal outside of ebay.
. It really is a great community here this is not the first time I've asked for help on sh regards phone/pc stuff and the help comes so quickly, now all go and pat yourself on the back for being jolly good people :D.Quote by northeastcoupleuk
mmm so if you are in a shop how do you get served
Not a bad point that actually. Try talking to staff in shops that you go into, nothing serious just look for things you could make a comment about as this might help you get talking to people you would not ordinarily talk to, shop staff are used to people talking to them all day so try something other than usual shop talk. When all said and done you wont be trying to make a lasting impression so try not to feel to uncomfortable about it. Try and afford people a smile at every opportunity a smile is so hard not to return and does make you feel good. edinbughchris had a good point aswell there are some good self help books available regarding confidence issues etc.
Best of luck mate
I know this isn't swinging related so I do appologise. I've been given a nokia 3100 that was on contract with o2 now my orange sim card works in it except when i want to use the mobile web it tells me to "check ip" do I need to register a new orange sim to it to be able to access orangeworld or find an ip number. I've emailed orange yesterday but they take forever so I thought you guys may be able to help.
Ok, I'll start by saying I've never had a row on the net yet and I'm not about to start now. This is only my opinion.
I have a somewhat chequered past which and have witnessed violence in some very nasty incidents where the results will stay with the victim for the rest of their lives. Believe me one punch when thrown by someone who knows what they are doing can have a devastating effect. I boxed at amateur level for a few years so I do have a little insight to that.
Knight_of_the_round_table you did absolutely the right thing in checking this guy was ok without a doubt. If this man was ko'd he could quite easily have swallowed his tongue and this could have resulted in death. Dogging is mostly done in secluded areas and you dont mention anyone else there, if you had left the scene, worst case scenario you may have heard about it on the news in the morning think how that would have felt, you did the right thing.
This fella may have been a prick for approaching and trying to enter the vehicle with no invite but perhaps he didn't know the rules of the game and maybe the media is to thank in some way for that afterall they tell us it's a free for all, but that is probably a different thread.
Now this next bit may sound like I am contradicting myself. I do believe in a pre-emptive strike if you believe you are at risk and I believe in using maximum force to make sure that risk doesn't become anymore than just that and it looks like the couple felt they may have been at risk, but i dont think violence should never be condoned just accepted that in certain situations it may have been necessary, but if someone ends up ko'd as k.o.t.r.t. stated then this guy needs attention whether he deserved the punch or not.
I am sorry if I have upset anyone with my oppinion I just felt I had to have my say.
I have a somewhat chequered past which and have witnessed violence in some very nasty incidents where the results will stay with the victim for the rest of their lives. Believe me one punch when thrown by someone who knows what they are doing can have a devastating effect. I boxed at amateur level for a few years so I do have a little insight to that.
Knight_of_the_round_table you did absolutely the right thing in checking this guy was ok without a doubt. If this man was ko'd he could quite easily have swallowed his tongue and this could have resulted in death. Dogging is mostly done in secluded areas and you dont mention anyone else there, if you had left the scene, worst case scenario you may have heard about it on the news in the morning think how that would have felt, you did the right thing.
This fella may have been a prick for approaching and trying to enter the vehicle with no invite but perhaps he didn't know the rules of the game and maybe the media is to thank in some way for that afterall they tell us it's a free for all, but that is probably a different thread.
Now this next bit may sound like I am contradicting myself. I do believe in a pre-emptive strike if you believe you are at risk and I believe in using maximum force to make sure that risk doesn't become anymore than just that and it looks like the couple felt they may have been at risk, but i dont think violence should never be condoned just accepted that in certain situations it may have been necessary, but if someone ends up ko'd as k.o.t.r.t. stated then this guy needs attention whether he deserved the punch or not.
I am sorry if I have upset anyone with my oppinion I just felt I had to have my say.
Quote by alspals
The 'black thing' might get you into bed...but it won't get you breakfast in the morning!:lol: :lol: :lol:
i like your last quote..... can i nick it sometime????
sean xxxxxxxxxx
..you're welcome Sean..and if you ever do get an invite from Bonnie & Clyde..tell em I'll come along to cook it!!
:laughabove:
Quote by LordZenx
Now is this because it has always been done this way, are the men shy or is there a bit of sexism going on.
Thoughts and comments welcome.
For me it was being shy I think, not entirely sure. Our first ad only included pics of Bonnie but after thinking about it we came to the same conclusion as you, that if both partners are going to be involved then both partners should be included in the ad and that includes pics, but I've been a bit braver with our latest ad and included a pic of myself.
Funny thing though with previous ads we had single guys reply even though we said they would not be replied to, but with my pic included we have had none.
Quote by fabio grooverider
you are sooooooooo on my listy now... lol
you don't know how hard it has been for me to keep out of this discussion.. but since i have the body of a greek (althought it is a kebab shop owner) time for 'el lardy' to have my 2p's worth....
i know a lot of people have the "fantasy" of the black cock thing... and i agree with a lot of people that have stated that it may well be the unknown thing.....
but i do hope that anyone who has played with me has done so not because of my cock.. but because of my personality.....
sean xxxxxxxx
I agree with you here Sean, I think it is the unknown or maybe exoxtic. It is a fantasy of Bonnie's to have fun with a lady but the thought of a black lady really appeals to her, but I do know that personality matters a great deal to us both.
Also Sean, I thought I would mention when I read your ad to Bonnie, the bit about being black and being of the rugby/American footballer type of build her eyebrows did raise a little :twisted:
I think what I'm trying to say is personality may be everything to one person and appearance to another, but on the whole I think it is a combination of both when choosing friends, lovers, partners, swing partners or whatever.
I'm at risk of waffling on here so I think it may be wise to shut up now
Quote by Sarah1448
Only no reply because you're soooo far away
Well you are moving soon, arn't you???
So now you know where to move to :twisted: :shock:
We totally agree with Sarah on this one, the naughty north is the place to be :twisted: unless your looking for single bi-fems of course :cry:
Quote by bonnienclyde
Just done a google search for... sexy+woman+Sat+On+car+holding+beer... to find a pic and swinging heaven was top of the list. Must be a sign of sorts...... Oh that was what I was thinking about.
You can see why Bonnie warns me about thinking for myself can't you
Just thought this reply suited two threads.
Ok, this is no major thing but you have to understand what Iknow about pc's you could fit on a postage stamp.
I use windows xp pro and my internet provider is wanadoo anytime dial up. I have just had to re-install my windows due to the whole lot going mad on me and recover my wanadoo account.
Now the thing bothering me is at the very bottom right of my screen where you have the little icons I used to have a little picture of two monitors that flashed indicating I was online these seem to have dissappeared and I want them back, so if anyone has any ideas I would really appreciate them.
I use windows xp pro and my internet provider is wanadoo anytime dial up. I have just had to re-install my windows due to the whole lot going mad on me and recover my wanadoo account.
Now the thing bothering me is at the very bottom right of my screen where you have the little icons I used to have a little picture of two monitors that flashed indicating I was online these seem to have dissappeared and I want them back, so if anyone has any ideas I would really appreciate them.
I agree with curious-catz. I would say reply to the ad mention you know the area and go for the odd drink round there etc. without giving to much away. If they are interested then good for you, if not it may save you all some embarresment and you would still be able to approach them in the pub on a social level without anyone feeling uncomfortable.
Just a thought though, does the ad request photos ?
Just a thought though, does the ad request photos ?
Quote by mattmoleman
What happens when they become a target for school bullies?
Mattmoleman has a point there, a pupil attending a school near us had the crap kicked out of him for wearing one, but who knows it may have happened anyway the thugs maybe just needed an excuse.
I dont really no about this one so I may speak in ignorance so please forgive me. I think whoever came up with the idea of the bands may have thought it was a good idea but it seems they have become a bit of a fashion thing. I'm not sure whether simply wearing an anti bullying band for example will draw peoples attention to the fact something should be done about that cause, I think the media could do a better job of it, if they were not to preoccupied with other things that we honestly couldn't give a toss about.
Charities have given out badges, stickers etc. for donating for a long time and I think it is an extension of that but somehow it does seem the fashion people have cottoned on to something, but that may not be such a bad thing.
I think if you really believe these bands are a good idea you should ensure you buy them from a reputable seller as I have heard of quite a few that I believe were not authentic which is where the fashion idea comes into question.
