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bouncy332
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 55
Straight Male, 52
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Quote by Lost
no child is born bad it is down to a set of circumstances and as parents it is our job to help them through lifes hard times
Some children will not respond to help...
i disagree all children will respond if the right type of help is found
Sometimes that help maybe in the form of them leaving home.
Oh and I so think there are children that are beyond all help from their parents I really really do I do I do I do
i don't i don't i don't
how would them leaving home help them?
where would they then get help and support
i went right off the rails once i was kicked out ended up living rough sleeping in doorways and squats how was that helping me?
i was one of the incredibly lucky ones that thanks to meeting my now husband who through an awfull lot of understanding and patience i made it out the other side
very few find someone to help them like i did
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Quote by jaymar
Sorry I could not ever turn one of mine out, I walk hell to high water to help them overcome a problem.
I believed when I had children they are for life not until they are teenagers. As my parents say the bigger the child the bigger the problems. We all live independant lives but always know we can rely on each other when things get tough.
Even if one of your children had constantly physically hurt you or another family member? stole? ended up in court? lied? worse?
To be fair Minxy, whilst I understand what you're saying, would you not rather say you would 'attempt' to walk hell or high water to help them. NO person can 100% say what they would or would not do unless they've been in that position to make that decision.
We're just lucky we've not been put in that position, yet, that's why I worded my bit about finances only.
Jaymar if a child ever felt the need to hurt a parent, I would have to ask myself why. I don't believe a child would ever want to hurt their mother, there is normally an underlying reason as to why. Unless we face that reason there will never be a solution.
Don't go there please. It could be any member of a family, you can't comment as you're lucky enough not to have gone through anything like that, nor have I, but believe me others have.
i have gone through it as the child and i see it from the other side and there really are reasons why a child acts up hun trust me
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Quote by Theladyisaminx
Sorry I could not ever turn one of mine out, I walk hell to high water to help them overcome a problem.
I believed when I had children they are for life not until they are teenagers. As my parents say the bigger the child the bigger the problems. We all live independant lives but always know we can rely on each other when things get tough.
Even if one of your children had constantly physically hurt you or another family member? stole? ended up in court? lied? worse?
To be fair Minxy, whilst I understand what you're saying, would you not rather say you would 'attempt' to walk hell or high water to help them. NO person can 100% say what they would or would not do unless they've been in that position to make that decision.
We're just lucky we've not been put in that position, yet, that's why I worded my bit about finances only.
Jaymar if a child ever felt the need to hurt a parent, I would have to ask myself why. I don't believe a child would ever want to hurt their mother, there is normally an underlying reason as to why. Unless we face that reason there will never be a solution.
i do find myself agreeing with minxie as per, no child is just a nasty piece of work there are always underlying reasons and i do NOT blame the parents there can be many reasons why a child has become difficult to deal with they are just crying out for help in the only way they can think of
no child is born bad it is down to a set of circumstances and as parents it is our job to help them through lifes hard times
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two of my friends Diamondsmiles and Maddie are having a birthday party at chams on SUNDAY 15th MARCH and we thought a lot of you lovely peeps might like to join us there for a day of fun and laughter
it will be an all dayer from 2pm-1am so if you wish to make a day of it or just pop along for a couple of hours its all good
you do not need to be a member just need to be on the guest list all we ask is that you are respectfull as you will be there as guests of the birthday girls
there will be a buffet and a champagne fountains, cake and even some party games thrown in for good measure
so those of you that would like to come and wish my lovely friends happy birthday pop your names down here do not pm me as i do not wish to mix you up with anything else ia organising
hope to see you there
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guest list for sunday
bouncy332 c
keithc8765 m
blkmale736 m
tony m
trevor m
tonylisa2006 c
dawnandian c
hstreamval m
tigerfluff f
kinkybifemxx f
cazzywolves c
mike_cov m
robbiem m
geordietop_1 m
gingerjo f
subaruwrx c
wenchef c
nn & sleazy c
bottletop1 m
please be aware that this is just those from this site there are many more coming from other sites and it is a open club so will be a busy ole night
it will be an all dayer from 2pm-1am so if you wish to make a day of it or just pop along for a couple of hours its all good
you do not need to be a member just need to be on the guest list all we ask is that you are respectfull as you will be there as guests of the birthday girls
there will be a buffet and a champagne fountains, cake and even some party games thrown in for good measure
so those of you that would like to come and wish my lovely friends happy birthday pop your names down here do not pm me as i do not wish to mix you up with anything else ia organising
hope to see you there
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
guest list for sunday
bouncy332 c
keithc8765 m
blkmale736 m
tony m
trevor m
tonylisa2006 c
dawnandian c
hstreamval m
tigerfluff f
kinkybifemxx f
cazzywolves c
mike_cov m
robbiem m
geordietop_1 m
gingerjo f
subaruwrx c
wenchef c
nn & sleazy c
bottletop1 m
please be aware that this is just those from this site there are many more coming from other sites and it is a open club so will be a busy ole night
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Quote by Calista
i still to this day resent the fact my mother chose her husband over me so maybe that is why i would NEVER make my boys homeless no matter what they did
Can totally understand this, as I still hold some resentment towards my Dad, however, if a child is causing unhappiness and is unhappy then it is sometimes more logical to remove the source of unhappiness! If you were causing unhappiness to your mum then she is unlikely to choose you and forego her own happiness with your stepfather. Whether it be right or wrong from one person's point of view or not.
see now i would forgo my own happiness for my kids i could never ever choose someone else over my boys no matter what i know i couldn't
plus there was an awfull lot more to it than i was a difficult teen i had had a very difficult childhood i don't mean me being difficult i mean i had things to cope with as a child that no child should have to cope with and then once i had been removed from that situation and finally should of felt safe i was cast aside for another guy that made me life miserable and at the time i was most definatly glad to be out of the situtaion and trust me i feircely deffended my mothers decision to put her happiness first for many years it was only a couple of years later when i myself became a mother that i then found it very hard to understand how she made that choice
i'm truelly not trying to judge anyone that does make the decision to remove a difficult child from the family home i am simply trying to understand how someone could make that choice as i just feel i never could
i count my blessings that i do not find myself in that situation
my boys are not angels don't get me wrong i have had my fair share of difficulties with them but i am incredibly lucky to still be in a stable relationship with their dad so have had support of being a 2 parent family which i am sure makes a huge difference i have no one single doubt that had i been a single parent i would of had many more problems with them and maybe my view would be different but thankfully i will never know
i do feel empathy for those having trouble with thier children and do try very hard to see it from their angle
WBB hunny i do hope things get better for you :therethere:
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Quote by irishgent37
bouncy would love to attend but hoping i might find a lady to accompany me .any one out there looking for an irish hunk and interested in going please mail mexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
oh cool hun i'll keep my ears open for ladies wishing to be chaperoned
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Quote by fabio
actually this has got me thinking
why is it that you cannot make any remark no matter how it is meant either nasty or joking about any character of a person or dissability but yet ginger peeps are seen as fair game??
you never see peeps up in arms when a ginger has the fun poked at them now do ya
if our knob of a PM had been ginger and Clarkson had said the ginger idiot absolutly no-one would of uttered a single word :shock:
so i've decided that i am going to set up the ginger liberation front bout time someone stuck up for um
i love ginger hair have even been known to dye mine the beautifull colour from time to time
I knew what you said reminded me of something.......
here it is............
OMG :shock: that is my point exactly fabs
telling them to dye their hair a different colour wtf???
i have a friend who is ginger and has 2 kids with a ginger guy and both kids are ginger
she is an inspiration she has always been incredibly proud of her hair and both her and her fella have brought the kids up to hold thier heads up high and never be ashamed of thier hair
i hear all too often people talkin about a baby they r due to have making the comment like i don't care what i have as long as its not ginger and it makes my blood boil ok so they might be thinking they do not wish thier child to b bullied but then doesn't that then mean they see ginger as some sort of disability that will make them stand out to the bullys
it seems to me that ginger people are still seen as easy pickings ffs
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Quote by JTS
Click on the BUS url in the start post.
Position sursor on the tag line ends and delete any text in them.
Put your text into all three lines.
Now, the way I do it (since the original pic you alter and then save will be gone in a day) is to right click on the pic and then save it to the pc (remember the folder it is saved to) then upload it to by clicking on BROWSE and then uploading the pic to imagehosting. Position the cursor on the line () and copy and paste it to the SH page in your reply.
oh you make it sound soooooo simple
i have tried all that and still can't manage it
i should point out i am a proper ditzy blonde :silly:
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Quote by annejohn
sorry,kids not working,dossing about all day,wouldn`t happen in my house.i know people who let this happen and i think kids need to contribute something more than their dirty washing to the house, to teach them some responsibility and the basics of living in the real world.
oh most definatly we make our lads help round the house and pull thier weight
we both work and have done since the boys were little so it has always had to be a full tean effort in our house
both boys can cook meals, work the washing machine, iron thier own clothes, work a hoover and generally clean house
the only job i insist on is they take it in turns to do the washing up and the rest they help with of thier own free will and do
the oldest pays board as i feel it is important to learn nothing comes free the youngest doesn't as he is still a student
maybe as things work rather well in our house is why i could not imagine making them homeless maybe because in my eyes they are still so young and vunerable in many ways yet at the age of my oldest i was married, had our first home and him on the way but if he was to tell me he was leaving home i would b worried sick
i know i know bloody cotton wool mum eh
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i just cannot imagine a situation where i would make my child homeless
i was a little cow, very argumentative, but no worse than our own 2 sons are yet i was made homeless as my step father found me difficult to live with at the age of 16
i still to this day resent the fact my mother chose her husband over me so maybe that is why i would NEVER make my boys homeless no matter what they did
also maybe i am just lucky that they are essentialy good lads they might infuriate me with thier opinions sometimes but luckily thats as bad as it gets so far
i was a little cow, very argumentative, but no worse than our own 2 sons are yet i was made homeless as my step father found me difficult to live with at the age of 16
i still to this day resent the fact my mother chose her husband over me so maybe that is why i would NEVER make my boys homeless no matter what they did
also maybe i am just lucky that they are essentialy good lads they might infuriate me with thier opinions sometimes but luckily thats as bad as it gets so far
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i'm just watching the politics show and am absolutly gobsmaked there was a piece on it about a christian home that is taking in teenagers that are being made homeless by their own family because they have no job and they won't let them stay without a job or a parent has been made redundant so they can't afford to keep the teen in the family home
now is it just me or does this seem attrocious
i could not for one second even consider throwing one of my boys out due to finances no matter how bad they were
my kids will always have a home here even if we do have to live on fresh air
now is it just me or does this seem attrocious
i could not for one second even consider throwing one of my boys out due to finances no matter how bad they were
my kids will always have a home here even if we do have to live on fresh air
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Quote by Sassy-Seren
oh!
has anyone mentioned:
City of the Lost Children
or
Delicatesen?
lp
OMG......one of the quirkiest films I've ever seen but still very enjoyable.
I went to see Che Part 1 last night. Top film. Benecio Del Toro is perfect for the role. Can't wait for the second part :bounce:
Anyone going to see this I recommend watching The Motorcycle Diaries first. :thumbup:
where where where omg i spent yonks last night trying to find where che part one is showing and can't find anywhere
i was soooo looking forward to seeing it and was very excited to see Benicio Del Toro on Jonothan Ross thought it must mean its about to be released but oh no he was on there because part flaming two is about to be released :shock:
don't care where it was you saw it i will gladly travel i so want to see it big screen won't be the same on dvd
