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brandon77
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 72
0 miles · West Midlands
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Forum Virgin
Hi all
I'm a 53yr old straight guy who,like most blokes loves sex with ladies...of all shapes colours and a child of the sixties and one who likes to indulge in most thing sexual, i wondered what it would be like to experiment,as i hadn't before in Bi Oral.
Now as some of you may know,there are some woods between Coventry and Kenilworth that are frequented by blokes who,as is their pleasure,like meeting other blokes.I had one very succseful liason with a guy who was curious in the same fashion as myself, then one abortive session due to prowling 'heavyweights'(i'll come to them later)and one absolutley ghastly time due to a 'heavyweight'.
Now these heavyweights are guys who are genuinely 'gay'(which does not present itself) as a problem to me)and they wander through the woods pushing themselves on guys who aren't as experienced or confident as themselves to the point that they make the sex feel unseemly and illustrate my point..i was in the woods masturbating waiting for a bi curious or not so pushy guy,when i saw one of these heavey weights go with another guy...whether it was full sex or just oral i'm not sure,but all the same they had some sort of sex...immediately it was over, the 'heavyweight (wearing just shorts and an Aussie rules football shirt cams over to me "asking if there was anything that i would like to do me to him or visa versa..no problem there..it was the way he said it making it sound really 'shitty',as he got closer penis out slowly wanking..bloody hell i could smell spunk all over him and his dirty foreskin that had just been up another bloke..
i just said no and walked away..he followed me right to my motor still pulling himself off.
Anyway needless to say that experience has put me right off any further experiementation..why is it there are always some people who do not know when to stop and end up ruining things for others by going over the of my adverte says please no single blokes in the headline but still they do.
No wonder dogging,male sex,stress releivers(prostitutes,what a horrible name) get bad press,when most of us just want to have a bit of clean sexual fun,whatever the prefernce.
Pete
I'm a 53yr old straight guy who,like most blokes loves sex with ladies...of all shapes colours and a child of the sixties and one who likes to indulge in most thing sexual, i wondered what it would be like to experiment,as i hadn't before in Bi Oral.
Now as some of you may know,there are some woods between Coventry and Kenilworth that are frequented by blokes who,as is their pleasure,like meeting other blokes.I had one very succseful liason with a guy who was curious in the same fashion as myself, then one abortive session due to prowling 'heavyweights'(i'll come to them later)and one absolutley ghastly time due to a 'heavyweight'.
Now these heavyweights are guys who are genuinely 'gay'(which does not present itself) as a problem to me)and they wander through the woods pushing themselves on guys who aren't as experienced or confident as themselves to the point that they make the sex feel unseemly and illustrate my point..i was in the woods masturbating waiting for a bi curious or not so pushy guy,when i saw one of these heavey weights go with another guy...whether it was full sex or just oral i'm not sure,but all the same they had some sort of sex...immediately it was over, the 'heavyweight (wearing just shorts and an Aussie rules football shirt cams over to me "asking if there was anything that i would like to do me to him or visa versa..no problem there..it was the way he said it making it sound really 'shitty',as he got closer penis out slowly wanking..bloody hell i could smell spunk all over him and his dirty foreskin that had just been up another bloke..
i just said no and walked away..he followed me right to my motor still pulling himself off.
Anyway needless to say that experience has put me right off any further experiementation..why is it there are always some people who do not know when to stop and end up ruining things for others by going over the of my adverte says please no single blokes in the headline but still they do.
No wonder dogging,male sex,stress releivers(prostitutes,what a horrible name) get bad press,when most of us just want to have a bit of clean sexual fun,whatever the prefernce.
Pete
Forum Virgin
Up till a few weeks ago the only thoughts i had about male sex were "not my cup of tea,but live and let live".However my thoughts changed after a chance liason in Crackley Woods.
I had left work in a hurry to teach at a college in Kenilworthand as i passed the woods i took the opportunity to go for a pee.
After peeing, i realised that i was being watched by a bloke in his early 40's,i got a bit of a buzz from this so i gave the 'old trouser snake' a few pulls after shaking the 'drops' off, and the guy got closer.
By this time my todger was stiff "Hmmmm,whats this about" was my thought,but before i could fully reflect on my feelings the guy was asking me if "i needed any help". Why did'nt i say "sod off?" I was genuinely excited,more so when he held my penis ,took my hand and i held looking at each other we pulled each other 'cumming' he knelt domne and took me in his mouth and sucked, just before i came i took 'it' out of his mouth,knelt and returned the i didn't feel bad about it,we thanked each other and went our ways.
I still adore women and givene the chance 'shag' as often as i could,however i really enjoyed the BI expeience and would love to repeat it with someone nearer to my age(40+),who is married or genuinely Bi,not someone who is a practising 'gay'(please those of you that are,excuse my ignorance when saying 'gay' it's just i do not know what else to say).So if you fancy a meet lets chat first.
B77
I had left work in a hurry to teach at a college in Kenilworthand as i passed the woods i took the opportunity to go for a pee.
After peeing, i realised that i was being watched by a bloke in his early 40's,i got a bit of a buzz from this so i gave the 'old trouser snake' a few pulls after shaking the 'drops' off, and the guy got closer.
By this time my todger was stiff "Hmmmm,whats this about" was my thought,but before i could fully reflect on my feelings the guy was asking me if "i needed any help". Why did'nt i say "sod off?" I was genuinely excited,more so when he held my penis ,took my hand and i held looking at each other we pulled each other 'cumming' he knelt domne and took me in his mouth and sucked, just before i came i took 'it' out of his mouth,knelt and returned the i didn't feel bad about it,we thanked each other and went our ways.
I still adore women and givene the chance 'shag' as often as i could,however i really enjoyed the BI expeience and would love to repeat it with someone nearer to my age(40+),who is married or genuinely Bi,not someone who is a practising 'gay'(please those of you that are,excuse my ignorance when saying 'gay' it's just i do not know what else to say).So if you fancy a meet lets chat first.
B77
Forum Virgin
Hi to all that read this...i'm a mature male (52) who lives on the Binley Woods side of the last two years i've been on my own and have no intention of looking for a full time partner as the one i had was with me for 27yrs.
Since 2004 in search of sexual consolation, i visited several massage parlours and ladies who advertise their expertise in local some of these visits were satisfactory and some bloody awful,thats all the majority were..satisfactory..no sexual spark..no what if..no driving home absolutely exhausted with a silly smile on my face.
I joined Swingingheaven looking for like minded couples or females who would like to meet up for a drink or a chat or a chat and a drink and see what transpires.
I would still love to do that.
I,m 5'8", a bit overweight due to stopping smoking, but thats going.I loved my fags so i'm NOT a 'born again' none smoker, oral sex is my absolute favorite..especially giving..where some of the profesional ladies asked me where i learnt how...this they said after the session on my way out...so i will take their words as a compliment...if i'd been told during ,then perhaps not.
The old 'one eyed trouser snake' isn't the lonest in the world 7" but it is fairly thick 5" dia
and i also repeat the looks stakes while i'm not George Clooney..i'm supposed to be more like Sean Connery/Lee Marvin,so possibly quite low down in the 'minger' stakes.
So if their are any ladies/couples who fancy meeting a professional university lecturer, who is totally discrete,who understands the meaning of no the drop me a line.
Pete
Since 2004 in search of sexual consolation, i visited several massage parlours and ladies who advertise their expertise in local some of these visits were satisfactory and some bloody awful,thats all the majority were..satisfactory..no sexual spark..no what if..no driving home absolutely exhausted with a silly smile on my face.
I joined Swingingheaven looking for like minded couples or females who would like to meet up for a drink or a chat or a chat and a drink and see what transpires.
I would still love to do that.
I,m 5'8", a bit overweight due to stopping smoking, but thats going.I loved my fags so i'm NOT a 'born again' none smoker, oral sex is my absolute favorite..especially giving..where some of the profesional ladies asked me where i learnt how...this they said after the session on my way out...so i will take their words as a compliment...if i'd been told during ,then perhaps not.
The old 'one eyed trouser snake' isn't the lonest in the world 7" but it is fairly thick 5" dia
and i also repeat the looks stakes while i'm not George Clooney..i'm supposed to be more like Sean Connery/Lee Marvin,so possibly quite low down in the 'minger' stakes.
So if their are any ladies/couples who fancy meeting a professional university lecturer, who is totally discrete,who understands the meaning of no the drop me a line.
Pete
Forum Virgin
Firstly thanks for reading this far..
Please believe me this isn't a whinge or whine, but is a genuine search for help.
I've been on Swingingheaven for quite a while now (Dec 05) without any 'luck', i hesitate to use any other words because they may make me sound like i'm discussing a meat market, which SwngHvn isn't.
If you are still reading this could you check out my profile and give me any pointers on how to 'sharpen' it up. I realise i'm one of many thousands of single blokes and remain patient as trust and familiararity are key,so a few hints or tips to give me an 'edge' would be appreciated.
I've sent scores of e-mails and only a few winks, i also use the 3 chatrooms which are fun,but do not tend to be or used by many people my age.
Thanks in advance Brandon77
Please believe me this isn't a whinge or whine, but is a genuine search for help.
I've been on Swingingheaven for quite a while now (Dec 05) without any 'luck', i hesitate to use any other words because they may make me sound like i'm discussing a meat market, which SwngHvn isn't.
If you are still reading this could you check out my profile and give me any pointers on how to 'sharpen' it up. I realise i'm one of many thousands of single blokes and remain patient as trust and familiararity are key,so a few hints or tips to give me an 'edge' would be appreciated.
I've sent scores of e-mails and only a few winks, i also use the 3 chatrooms which are fun,but do not tend to be or used by many people my age.
Thanks in advance Brandon77
Forum Virgin
If you are reading this..Hi and thanks.
I would love to meet up with someone from the Coventry area(prefreabley couples or a lady) just to prove to me that this site works.I know it does in most areas,but in thie area we seem to be blessed with alot of time wasters.
I know that you lovely ladies and couples get many single males writting to you but here's one that is more genuine than a News of the World story
lol.
hope to chat soon
brandon
I would love to meet up with someone from the Coventry area(prefreabley couples or a lady) just to prove to me that this site works.I know it does in most areas,but in thie area we seem to be blessed with alot of time wasters.
I know that you lovely ladies and couples get many single males writting to you but here's one that is more genuine than a News of the World story
lol.hope to chat soon
brandon
Forum Virgin
Hi everyone,especially ladies and couples from the Coventry area.
I've been with Swinging Heaven for 12 months now,but with no luck.I know that i'm just one of 'hundreds' of single males(and thats possibly an understatement).Could someone help me, by giving me an idea about how i can single myself out from that crowd.
Cheers
Brandon
I've been with Swinging Heaven for 12 months now,but with no luck.I know that i'm just one of 'hundreds' of single males(and thats possibly an understatement).Could someone help me, by giving me an idea about how i can single myself out from that crowd.
Cheers
Brandon