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2 May 2006

Quote by Waterbabe
Thanks trying it now!!

good luch hun
If that don't work let me know and i can tell you the name of another program i use, its better than that 1 but a lot more complicated
Shaz x
didn't work.....found deleted files in temp folder....but my doc wasn't there!!
try looking in your sent emails folder most keep a copy in there for a few days
cat

2 May 2006

we use aol, not the best and here we only have a 1mg connection, BT's fault not aol, we have unlimited bandwidth, we have 4 computers on the sinngle connection 1 for each of the kids who are forever downloading films music etc. upto 8 hours a day, I will say they ain't the best liked internet provider but we have never had a problem in the 8 years we have been with them.
cat

1 May 2006

not 100% sure but think is the time the page taked to load ermmmmmmm and is pauls guess in case it wrong lololol
cat

1 May 2006

another way is to go to the members list and find a member search option is there, much more precise
cat

1 May 2006

Quote by JnBwelshcpl
Why is it that when you have some free time to enjoy, that it all falls apart on you,
Arrange to have some one come round to play and the kids roll up and decide to stay the night,
Go to a club and the car will not start.
Arrange to chat to some one on msn and server will not go in.
Is it just us or does it happen to any one else, whats happened to you to make you change plans at the last moment.
J n B

Sods law happens to us all the time, kids always spoiling our fun, we even went to a hotel once had booked it on our credit card, when we got there we had a reservation, presented our credit card and they declined it, said our machine won't accept it, even though we told them and we showed our receipt for the booking same one they took over the phone, they still refused us, took 3 days to find out it was our banks fault glitch on there system anyway another munch ruined, ahh well such is life
cat

29 Apr 2006

Quote by flidais-media
shaven willies look horrible just dont look right just leave natual or trim a bit but dont go OTT!

That's your opinion...but then, at 18, guess you havn't had as many hairs in your teeth as I have had confused

confused

wink

lol

rotflmao

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
compleatly agree with you on this one get rid of the hairs, not only do they get stuck in you teeth but feels more pleasureable when having sticky intercourse seems to feel a lot longer :wink:

29 Apr 2006

redface

double decker bus, grass embankment nr a main road, in works loo, manchester victoria train station loo ermmmmm various pub loo's (just reminded me someone stuck there mobile under the door, took a pic and showed it round the pub) erm lots of other dull places lol best of all is always in bed of course, just as long as it ain't ours lololol
cat

29 Apr 2006

rolleyes

:roll:

innocent

:whistling: poke

poke

27 Apr 2006

Quote by young-begginer
any 1 got any ideas how to fix this? i click on it but nothing happens.

have you tried a reboot

26 Apr 2006

Quote by duncanlondon
Ok since I'm public enemy number one I have to try & please my public so here I go again :twisted: Get yer popcorn at the ready darlings :love:
woman stabs her husbands mistress 17 times!

How many men say nobody will get hurt because nobody will find out!?
If it doesnt hurt then why have these 2 womens lives been destroyed. The only person who comes out unscathed is the husband in this instance.
Anyway my topic is many talk of the elusive single female in swinging I want to know is the SINGLE male even more elusive. How many men swinging alone are actually truely really single. I mean if i swing with any of you guys how can I know im not breaking up a family, hurting a woman or gonna end up being stabbed 17 times in a vengeful frenzy??

Its unlikely that you will find a 'truly single' male in the swinging scene. After all a conventional person does not swing, and generally expects to meet their one and only; in a conventional setting, and live happily ever after in monogamous bliss.
So the guys who 'get into' swinging, and who are unattached, have already progressed away from conventional thinking and dating.
Not entirely true we know of at least 3 swinging males who have played as a single then as a couple when they met someone and then as a single again, so yes there are swinger single males who play in the scene, having said that I will also add a lot of the so called swinger males are just after sex till they find someone to settle with which we have also found.(just my opinion)
cat

26 Apr 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
in fact we have pics of it being done. hope this helps
cat

:shock: :scared:
lol it was a well known male who is on this site lmao I'll let him decide if he wants to identify himself. am looking for the pic now will put it on our profile when I find it.
cat
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/members/view-photo.html?id=0000265321
there you go

26 Apr 2006

Quote by LusciousAss
Does anyone on here have a Christina? If so, can you give me any info/opinions/advice?
I have tried to have a vertical hood piercing done once, and it hurt so much I'm sure I levitated 3 foot off the couch! The piercer tried twice and gave up.
They said they couldn't use any kind of anaethetic/freezing spray in that area - did you have any "help" with the pain?
How painful was your Christina? And if you have other piercings, was the Christina more or less painful?
And finally, can anyone recommend any reputable piercing studios in the South East? Preferably Surrey/Hants

I had mine done nearly 3 years ago with no pain at all, the only shock I felt was when it was inserted, and a pain killing cream was used. it healed within a week and apart from breaking the bar :shock: have never had any trouble whatsoever from it, in fact we have pics of it being done. hope this helps
cat

23 Apr 2006

Quote by SinnEr
Hello folks!
wuts everyone doin at the May bank holiday?
hope ya all have a great weekend !!

next weeks bank holiday, we are up in Llandudno for the victorian extravaganza, a 3 day event, ends on the bank hol monday in fact there are 3 event that the steam thingy and another fair the traveling type plenty here for us and or kids to have a great time

21 Apr 2006

Quote by st3v3
In the chatroom they show as crosses, although I've not seen one yet.

most likely sh*t scared of being hung drawn n quatered LMAO.
cat

21 Apr 2006

Quote by well_busty_babe
i agree completely. my profile has 10 pics of me, and two of him so at least they can see if they like the look of him. we never reply to adverts that only show the woman, after all - i like to know whats on offer for me lol.
i can understand that some guys need to be careful with who sees them on here, but a body pic hiding the face and any distinguishing marks would be enough.

we do the same but I think there are 4 with paul in them.

21 Apr 2006

even if you do see a fem and male on cam, u still have no proof they are swingers they may be journalist or someone has set you up to find out who you are, we found the latter to be true
cat

21 Apr 2006

was it the one warning members of others on here thas one I think not sure of the other, I read it before I went to bed last nite cant find it now. the other I have no idea.
cat

19 Apr 2006

Quote by Dlep
I don't know any that can multitask as all!
Minx x x

smackbottom

Im currently doing the following:
Posting here,
On two other forums,
Cleaning out my Hard drive of old files,
Watching Telly,
And doing a spot of writing that I've neglected to do for the last 5 years.....(i've decided to give writing a novel another go....:shock smile

smile

Doesnt that count.....? (No, I suppose it dont.... rolleyes

rolleyes

)

lol

Multitasking here as well looking at the 3 post re paid membersship thingy and now have a headache so thinking of bed as well night all

19 Apr 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
ok a test: I hereby own all copyrights to our names sentances and (images sent via camera on this and any other site and therefore reseve the right to charge any site a fee if they allow my image (without my consent to be viewed)
Cat

sorry, i beat you to it by about 6 months lol

lol

ok I did it as I don't like the new pay things, have u done owt about it I did it as an example, and I think u will find someone beat u to it as well hun

19 Apr 2006

Quote by BiWelshMinx
just get rid of the bloody stealth mode cam viewing ffs

What the gay male said!
pmsl leave him alone u tight sod

19 Apr 2006

ok a test: I hereby own all copyrights to our names sentances and (images sent via camera on this and any other site and therefore reseve the right to charge any site a fee if they allow my image (without my consent to be viewed)
Cat

19 Apr 2006

Quote by peenut
Well provided you don't "copy" word for word, you can still Quote, and as this is a forum and not a book I would say copyright here is utter tosh !

IT is now

19 Apr 2006

am not being funny but I do know of one member on here who has made all his posts comments ect copyright to himself how would the owners go on if we all did that

19 Apr 2006

ok stop the stelth/site upgrades this week/extra package cant they all be put together sick of jumping between posts here

19 Apr 2006

Quote by Dawn_Mids
Thanks for some of the arsey, disrepectful comments by a few. HE doesnt want much , just a few ideas, YES paid members should get more, YES Free members shouldnt have a say in what paid members get and YES i didnt think i got abusive at all or sarcastic so am a bit naffed off with receiving comments in that vein..
Thanks to the people who kept the thread real and were adult like in their postings, whether in agreement or not. I personally hope that SH doesnt bow down to free members (in whatever guise), I also hope SH can get all the features up and running and keep the Paid members informed.
(Cue more sarcastic remarks, ridicule from certain quarters)

Susie, I just hope that enough *Free* members stick around for you to be able to watch under stealth mode rolleyes

rolleyes

I was gonna pay the extra till I saw this but I think I much prefare the old members.
cat

19 Apr 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Stealth depends on who and for what reason. If a web cam is put in your home without you knowing, thats stealth, but if you broadcast , then thats about as stealthy as having sex in the high street on Saturday afternoon! Can't see what all the fuss is about, people were happy enough to cam on the open net , but at least here you have to be a member and so abide by the rules and be accountable and reasonably traceable !

the problem for me is yes, even though i am on a public cam... i know exactly who is watching me.... if i don't want a person watching me, i can turn it off.... simple because I am armed with all of the facts and the information to make that decision......... if people are then in stealth they take that right away from me to make that reasoned choice.... so i decide not to to put on my cam at all.....then everyone loses so to speak.....
I just think it is creepy..... if you are brave enough to watch someone, why are you not brave enough to let that person know?????.... if someone can come up with a reasoned answer for that i'd love to hear it.......
sean xxxxxxxxx
sea
the law invasion of privacy applies here and I hope that the new team are ready for the influx of claims againt them are ready
I fear it does not!
The watcher has not installed the camera.
The cammer switches their cam on - thus giving concent to watch.
I could be wrong with the interpritation but the owners of the site have given permission for the watchers to watch others who untill today that was not possable therefore they are invading the privicy of the people camming

19 Apr 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Stealth depends on who and for what reason. If a web cam is put in your home without you knowing, thats stealth, but if you broadcast , then thats about as stealthy as having sex in the high street on Saturday afternoon! Can't see what all the fuss is about, people were happy enough to cam on the open net , but at least here you have to be a member and so abide by the rules and be accountable and reasonably traceable !

the problem for me is yes, even though i am on a public cam... i know exactly who is watching me.... if i don't want a person watching me, i can turn it off.... simple because I am armed with all of the facts and the information to make that decision......... if people are then in stealth they take that right away from me to make that reasoned choice.... so i decide not to to put on my cam at all.....then everyone loses so to speak.....
I just think it is creepy..... if you are brave enough to watch someone, why are you not brave enough to let that person know?????.... if someone can come up with a reasoned answer for that i'd love to hear it.......
sean xxxxxxxxx
sea
the law invasion of privacy applies here and I hope that the new team are ready for the influx of claims againt them are ready
I fear it does not!
The watcher has not installed the camera.
The cammer switches their cam on - thus giving concent to watch.
I could be wrong with the interpritation but the owners of the site have given permission for the watchers to watch others who untill today that was not possable therefore they are invading the privicy of the people camming

19 Apr 2006

Quote by fabio grooverider
Stealth depends on who and for what reason. If a web cam is put in your home without you knowing, thats stealth, but if you broadcast , then thats about as stealthy as having sex in the high street on Saturday afternoon! Can't see what all the fuss is about, people were happy enough to cam on the open net , but at least here you have to be a member and so abide by the rules and be accountable and reasonably traceable !

the problem for me is yes, even though i am on a public cam... i know exactly who is watching me.... if i don't want a person watching me, i can turn it off.... simple because I am armed with all of the facts and the information to make that decision......... if people are then in stealth they take that right away from me to make that reasoned choice.... so i decide not to to put on my cam at all.....then everyone loses so to speak.....
I just think it is creepy..... if you are brave enough to watch someone, why are you not brave enough to let that person know?????.... if someone can come up with a reasoned answer for that i'd love to hear it.......
sean xxxxxxxxx
sea
the law invasion of privacy applies here and I hope that the new team are ready for the influx of claims againt them are ready

19 Apr 2006

Quote by Shireen_Mids
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/main/aup.html
Whether you have paid or not you have to abide by the above.... If you dont follow the AUP you can have your account suspended.....
The long and short of it is that members are members....

I hate these sort of thingy's so I did this just for fun and is in no way meant to upset anyone. and I am paul by the way. ok as per site aup with some interesting questions/additions see red for my views,
Escorting ads or any â€˜pay for sexâ€™ (extra's and stelth thingy) type services like 0909 numbers, or pay-for â€˜gangbang parties Attempting to sell a service or product of any kind. (do you now own all members camming sessions)People come to Swinging Heaven to meet like minded people and not to be harassed by you touting for business
The posting of pictures on any part of the Swinging Heaven site that you do not have copyright, (again you are now claiming to own copyright to all members private cam conversations)or posting pictures that are fake, a joke or don't actually contain any part of you in them, or worse, that include a third party without their consent (nowhere do I see anyone who give there consent)
also cat says sorry no more cam for anyone
Paul cats other half.

17 Apr 2006

Quote by BiWelshMinx
BiWelshMinx Post Picker suggests > Wales:
This thread is dedicated to my fellow Welsh swingers to celebrate the wonder that is Wales.

I love Wales because it's got beautiful scenery, some fabulous beaches, good shopping, sexy Welsh ladies, cheap drinks biggrin

biggrin

Oh and some funky sounding insults:

It is not all sheep you know! ( There's leeks and daffodils too rolleyes

rolleyes

)
Minx x x ( Welsh and proud)
what she said and multiplied 10x, great idea and a lot of people are now finding there way here lol, at one time it was impossable to find anyone in north wales.
cat