Quote by PoloLady
I have two double enders - but would love one with 'his' written one end and 'hers' on the other - that would be funny
My other half says :censored: :censored: thas cruel and should never be allowed
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catnpaul
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 62
Straight Male, 60
0 miles · Conwy
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Sexlightened
after reading this thread I think I must say, people also use just the chat or the photo add section of the site and perhaps never read the forum as I do often without posting for months, some may never read it I think is only fair that before you introduce this rule that an email should be sent to all members to inform them of this rules................. and about 12 million messages a year mostly junk as they have to post is gonna cost a lot to host as well as putting a lot of people off reading through all the posts
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Sexlightened
satin sheets, lycra shorts mmmmmmmmmmm nice combination but hey just the sheets when he out the shorts lololol what's it really matter. as long as I like him thas all that matters, now leathers and a biker is another fantasy I'd like to get into but thas another thread :P
thas naughty :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: 
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: Sexlightened
I looked at this and thought I'd wait till someone else replied and see what they said but it did'nt help lol, anyway I'll try answer as I or indeed both of us think about as swingers, as far as I'm concerned and most we have played with when we swing as a couple we are still being faithfull to one another, as we have always been, what you are asking or correct me if I'm wrong is to go behind your partners back and play with others without her knowing, well in our books this is cheating, something we would never do, but it's your life BUT think what would happen if your wife found out or god forbid you contacted a STD, now would she be willing to forgive or would it be the end of a relationship for you blah blah blah going on the point It's always best to talk to your partner tell her your feelings about what you want to do and try, you never know she may give you permission or indeed play with you as a couple or she could simply say no. but then it's upto you as it always was in the first place. ..........end of sermon..............
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Sexlightened
Quote by sheddyThats what I based my asumption on DeviousLiasons
Is it cynical? Or maybe Mr Sheddy looked at "their" profile and saw a lot of ads from a male seeking a woman?
As for Meatys sugestion i'm off to an internet name changey site thingy-me-jig right now I've a plan for my next locked thread quest
yeas and the other posts say he can accomodate at his ONLY on certain nites, not anytime I also looked so I'll stick to my first conclution, anyway I'm not one for arguments so I'll leave it at that
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Sexlightened
Quote by alidar
Hi blonde,
This worked for me.........
.....................i got pregnant!!!
morning sickness and ciggies didnt mix!!
Gave up for 7 years.
A bit drastic I know and besides, naughty girl I started smoking agin!!!
Waits for all the offers of help on this one
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Sexlightened
Quote by firelizard
not sure about England but in wales we have something along the lines of AA here they supply the patches and 24 hour phone support should you feel you need it for as long as you need it, all accessed through our local doctor, not sure if you have a service like that but is just a suggestion. Good luck whichever way you go
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I bet their 24 hour phone support is'nt as good as mine though catnpaul :giggle:
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Maybe not but I said support not cyber line lmao, gis us the number I'll do a comparisson
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Sexlightened
not sure about England but in wales we have something along the lines of AA here they supply the patches and 24 hour phone support should you feel you need it for as long as you need it, all accessed through our local doctor, not sure if you have a service like that but is just a suggestion. Good luck whichever way you go
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Sexlightened
another good one for people who have multiple accounts like aol or just about any accout is eprompter, like outlook express it will check accounts all at once on differant domains, upto 8 I think something outlook won't do any more if you open a new account, a small program worth checking out if you open new accounts, JUST ONE LAST THING ........ what it won't do is check and show junk email so best to log into the account every few days or so incase something you want has gone in there.
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Edit: forgot to say 100% Free
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Edit: forgot to say 100% Free
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Sexlightened
Another strange thing you can do with polygamy is to sign into 2 differant accounts, make sure you are on the other accounts messenger hey presto you are never alone lololololololol u can talk to yaself all nite when everyone else has abandand you for the night 
also handy for the pycsophrenic in you 
.............................................................. NOT that I have ever tried 
:loon:
have fun
also handy for the pycsophrenic in you .............................................................. NOT that I have ever tried :loon: have fun
Sexlightened
Quote by delsutton
Wow, from the lack of responses it sounds like this is not a common activity in the UK. Fab, it's always good to find something new that's enjoyable.
As it happens, I'm going to Italy in the summer so maybe I can find out a bit more then if it's something that's popular there! If there are any Italian people members of the site that can elaborate that would be good too!
that or they all off trying it
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Sexlightened
it's called polygamy and available at mess be do a google on it as well as lots of other stuff we have had upto 5 differant messengers opened at once. u will need to know the messenger vertion you are using now as is a differant patch for each one ......... good luck, and with all sites watch for viruses, but the patches for polygamy are clean
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edit: here it is
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edit: here it is
Sexlightened
just spent a lot of time reading through the microsoft /euro papers and no where does it say it will be shutting down, and even if it was true the software is on your computer and the only way for microsoft to stop you using windows would be a patch to destroy the data in windows on your system, if that happens (which it won't) just reinstall lol, infact microsoft are busy on a newer vertion of windows that will replace XP, anyway I been told to get off and make room for my misses.
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Sexlightened
I hate the cock only shot BUT I don't mind the body and cock shot u know neck downward they can be very sexy lol, a profile with just a cock shot or someone who sends us one as a description of them gets binned, but no matter how many times u tell them this u still get them lololol anyway nuff said
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Sexlightened
We was out in a local pub last week talking to good friends, I dunno how but we got onto the subject of baking more important bread, out friend companion for the night was a allmost 70 y/o, and she was talking to my hubby, but I was half listerning, she went onto the subject of bread making :shock: , now is it just me or do other people PRETEND they know what they on about when PISSED that they know everything 
anyway back to the script, he was on about white and brown bread how to get it soft etc, when she popped up and mentioned bared brith (speckled bread means bread with suger n fruit)
any way I remembered we had it a few week ago and mention paul my partner makes excellent bara brith so they asked him to make them some :? the problem came the day after, he reminded me of the conversation, now here's how it went, " what the feck u doing telling people I will bake them bara brith" well u made it last week" no I said I would like to try make it but don't know how to" well what did we eat on sunday" a shop bout bara brith (tesco) (((((((((( VERY NICE
) then ermmmmmmmmmmm quiet shit why did I drink so many, anyway, he now has a recipe for the bread lol just hope the old gals don't realise it is my hubby that cooks the stuff not me lololol 
but the whole point was have u put your partner in a predicament, and got out of it
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anyway back to the script, he was on about white and brown bread how to get it soft etc, when she popped up and mentioned bared brith (speckled bread means bread with suger n fruit)any way I remembered we had it a few week ago and mention paul my partner makes excellent bara brith so they asked him to make them some :? the problem came the day after, he reminded me of the conversation, now here's how it went, " what the feck u doing telling people I will bake them bara brith" well u made it last week" no I said I would like to try make it but don't know how to" well what did we eat on sunday" a shop bout bara brith (tesco) (((((((((( VERY NICE
) then ermmmmmmmmmmm quiet shit why did I drink so many, anyway, he now has a recipe for the bread lol just hope the old gals don't realise it is my hubby that cooks the stuff not me lololol but the whole point was have u put your partner in a predicament, and got out of itcat
Sexlightened
as we tend to live in a small place, and are stuck with kids, 1 at 16 we find it hard to play so at the moment and last year or so we tend not to play with anyone close to us, but from pics on this site and others we are members of we have realised the identity of a few cpls around us and a few males as well as females, we find it funny that we know and not knowing if they know us lololol and yes some of them are our childrens friends parents, including the cheating husbands :shock:
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Sexlightened
I only tend to post in here in spasms I tend to read it more nowadays lol if come across something I tend to forget to post after reading other posts for hours, same as in the chat room I pop in most weeks but has changed so much I never seem to be in same room as anyone I know lol or the room I want to go into is full 
anyway I visit here everyday just because I don't make meself lknown don't mean I ain't watching lololol.
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anyway I visit here everyday just because I don't make meself lknown don't mean I ain't watching lololol.cat
