If you're both happy with the situation after talking it through thoroughly then I see absolutely no reason why you shouldn't. How and why you swing is completely up to you. If you're both comfortable with the situation then that is all that matters.
we're not with bt, but my internet connection can be a complete bitch at peak times... weekends and early evenings are the worst. Think it has a lot to do with how far we are from the phone exchange and the fact that the exchange is over subscribed and won't take on new broadband customers. Also means that we can't change ISPs because it always comes back with the message "not available in your area". About time some money was spent on the phone exhange I say, then I might not drop offline quite so much when all the other pervs round here log on.
The hardest thing for me was actually admitting to myself that no matter what I tried there was nothing I could do to save my marriage, and boy did I try a lot of things first. It's a bloody difficult decision to make but once you are sure that there's nothing left to salvage then you have to move on, probably for your own peace of mind. I livedfor 5 years trying to make it work and only making myself more and more miserable and since I cut those ties I haven't been happier.
Good luck to you both for the future
Big thanks to Sarah and her helpers for another great munch.
Lovely to meet old friends and some new ones too. I didn't spot any munch newbies sitting shaking in corners after they'd had the first couple of drinks so you must have all relaxed and enjoyed yourselves.
Here's to the next one :bounce:
Find a nice comfy chair honey... me and the lapdancer are confirming :giggle:
Well I would post a pic of my tree... but we've just got home from taking the kids to the cinema to see Flushed Away followed by a trip to Burger King and found my beautiful tree has been attacked by the kitten. Can I post a pic tomorrow when I've fished all the baubles out from under the sofa, behind the tv etc and put it back together again?
Oh and can I have a mulled wine to warm me up... it's parky out there
After a long hard physically exhausting day, running a huge bubble bath, lounging in it for an hour or so with a good book and a bottle of wine. Pure heaven
And lazy sleepy snuggly Sunday morning sex
I keep telling you those kids won't be fooled. This looks nothing like the Nintendo Wii
I heard an interview with the father of one the women on radio 4 this morning. I only heard part of it though because I switched off at one point. The guy was obviously very distraught and he hadn't seen his daughter for years. Anyway I digress, the woman interviewing him referred to his daughter as a prostitute and he clearly said "I don't like hearing that word, I prefer lady of the night" Despite his obvious discomfort of her using that word to refer to his daughter the very next sentence that came out of her mouth refered again to his daughter being a prostitute.
Tactless and/or just reading from a list of scripted questions? Either way it angered me so I switched off and missed the rest of the interview.
I'm sure you'll be hearing from himself later when he gets home from work
