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Quote by mazandden
Right this is a lot more condensed than my original attempt at this thread which i managed to delete - grrr!
Anyway we're feeling very stupid right now following a chat with a girl in the chatroom last night, which lead to us giving her our msn.
Anyway, she invited us to join some group thing with her, which i was a bit suspicious about, given that we didn't know her at all and she was soooo keen for us to do so.
Den was not so skeptical and proceded to type in our details (thankfully of our joint email account that we rarely use) including address and password. (this was different from the msn account we were talking to her on.)
Stupid - I know, but we were both MORE than a tad tipsy after an entire day and night celebrating my graduation( which was briliiant by the way!)
Anyway, as we were on a different account, we then noticed the one we had just typed in, being signed into! :shock: :shock: :shock:
And the 'girl' kept asking why we had not accepted her invitation with the address we were on just then. She was very pushy and really wanted us to sign up.
We noticed our other account being signed in and out of and when we quizzed her, guess what? she logged off!!
So my question is, HOW BIG A PAIR OF NUMPTIES DO YOU THINK WE ARE?! (please take into account the drunkeness!)
:doh:
Anyway, we have since deleted all emails and changed password in that account.....
But think this takes this biscuit for weirdos on here! lol
from the numpties xx
maz and den. nothing detrimental to you but, need i say more
pretty brilliant polo except maybe, some may get confused as you wrote if theres an afters party for some maybe social isn't correct terminology but if you read the site rules regarding munchies (i always thought munchies was those little chocolate blocks in a red packet) sorry just my humour trying to shine through. they state its "PERFECTLY REASIONABLE" to go on to an afters party although your attendance can't be guaranted because bla..at that afters party.
having said that i wished i'd read that ,other month when our other LMU ad got dragged over burning coals because a guy added to it at a previous social some guys did meet up after the social, and if it's allowed for a strict munch surely its gotta be good enough for a lesser controlled social?
having said that i wished i'd read that ,other month when our other LMU ad got dragged over burning coals because a guy added to it at a previous social some guys did meet up after the social, and if it's allowed for a strict munch surely its gotta be good enough for a lesser controlled social?
Quote by the_Laird
..also there was a locked chatroom last night titled forum debate, if this post was on discussion can anyone whos contributed to this thread be invited next time or is there a conspiracy?
Any chance it was THIS chatroom??
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/795130.html#795130
Does that knacker the conspiracy theory Jas
Unless of course the op's were in disguise
not sure it was password protected "locked" so couldnt gain entry.
morning by the way well afternoon now, i take on board your comments ,ok HLB perhaps i was being niave about that single guys might misrepresent what a social is,and surely hope they didn't think they was being invited to have sex in a public it happened from scores of replies no one showed up from that catagary anyway, (typical) hence is why i dont wanna keep defending them. our preference at the moment is meeting single guys, like a few of our regular couples hence the ad, like i said not to f**k in a public bar more to meet and chat in a safe place and if you gelled could meet another time after the social ended plus if i remember correctly there was an add running too at same time looking for tv / tv admirers as we was going onto a tv party in derby after closing if they didnt gell with us they was meeting others that they may of got on with one organiser put we enjoy using this venue and don't want to jepordise losing it.
if you read our current ad in LMU about next social i hope weve wrote it a little clearer so all can understand, was hoping not to put an ad in photo section this time but can't work out best way to promote the social in a chatroom, any ideas?
if you read our current ad in LMU about next social i hope weve wrote it a little clearer so all can understand, was hoping not to put an ad in photo section this time but can't work out best way to promote the social in a chatroom, any ideas?
looking at your profile and reading your adverts i don't think you will get any positive response my friend, your ads read to me something you may find in a "tatty" newspaper,if you really looking for a nice single fem to take to a club my view is change your mentallity when writing any more a bit more on your profile even include your looking for a fem to join you at a club as a couple, it takes time to find one don't expect to find one same day that will join you in a few hours it just don't work like that. let the brain do the writing not your is only my advise to you but good luck anyway.
jas you can get the idea of how some people feel about the photo ad bridgade on here,quote "quick shag bridgade" because i ran an ad in photo section alongside a LMU forum it stopped some maybe all the forum members from asking to attend the social, they feel the photo ad bridgade are not the right people to attend a social because they may not act gentlemanly, thats why i suggested people with those views maybe shouldn't send a single fem into that area. i thought the mods reply was better info for her. to be honest i'm kicking myself because i seem to be defending people in the photo ads section and we have our views about there genuinity anyway but there not here to put there point across.
this is all about helping newbies to understand what a social is,as some people feel its not worded correctly or doesnt have enough strict rules. although someones proposal for a re right has been locked now..i'm wondering how sincere some people are wanting to help newbies when ive just read a LMU thread where a single fem is new and looking for a shag (maybe straight to the point but she didnt say shag on first date etc) and immediatley shes sent to the photo ads section. feeding the cubs to the wolfs spring to mind. it wasnt till a mod stepped in and correctly pointed her in the right direction. now im not into police state situation but it begs the question should anyone on here offer help or should we leave it to the mods / admin team so newbies get the right sober help?
also there was a locked chatroom last night titled forum debate, if this post was on discussion can anyone whos contributed to this thread be invited next time or is there a conspiracy?
also there was a locked chatroom last night titled forum debate, if this post was on discussion can anyone whos contributed to this thread be invited next time or is there a conspiracy?
we know of a pub in derby that gets only 2 customers on one night in the week and are willing to open it up to swingers on that night but as its only a 1 room venue it would still be open to the public albeit historical data tells us on average only 2 people drink there. other problem is its a tuesday night.
Quote by J3diMast3r
... you cant have dozens of passwords for diferent sites you use ...
Not sure I understood this part of your post. Can't have dozens of passwords ?
I would NOT suggest using the same password on all your accounts - that's very insecure and basically means anyone who discovers one password, knows them all.
It'd be like having all the locks on your house the same so you only need one key to access all areas.
I must admit that I use the same password for unimportant sites - chat forums for example, where there is no personal detail of a financial nature or any address/phone numbers - I even register those against a non-essential email address. Anything financial or where I buy things, I have different passwords for.
of coure same here sorry was only discussing non essential sites like swingers sites, didnt mention banking obviously you would use a much stronger password for such important things like that
hiya were holding our 6th social in derby on saturday july 29th 8pm at a pub in derby.
all forum / chatroom users are welcome to attend.
couples / singles bi,gay or straight.
if you've never attended one of ours before please apply through this forum, even if we've chatted in a room.
it will be held in a public house so dress code and behaviour should be as such.
theres usually a d.j and a karaoke there.
we normally average 20 people evenly spilt between singles and couples but there was 30 at last one however as its holiday season please bear this in mind if your not local to derby.
the venue will be pm'd to you couple of days before bit please don't pass that info onto a 3rd person.
if you have any questions please ask and we will hopefully answer them for you.
our socials are for people to meet, drink and chat to likeminded people.
holiday seasons meaning it could be a quieter social than previous ones at moment.
people attending so far will be:-
cockslut
easycome2003
calista partner
ian dawn
ronchris
paulsue123
cfxxxf
pierced jon
chaotic spirit
stuart rossy
farkuen
foxylady2209
shaunfay
valakari
hornyukforu
slightly sinful
mal1
derby hung male
madida455
pab 1966
sexy liason80
in-mk
shinytights
ramscouple
44dd4u
fogal
notts stallion
silk love22
paul olive
nottsmale
maybe's
hank panky
all forum / chatroom users are welcome to attend.
couples / singles bi,gay or straight.
if you've never attended one of ours before please apply through this forum, even if we've chatted in a room.
it will be held in a public house so dress code and behaviour should be as such.
theres usually a d.j and a karaoke there.
we normally average 20 people evenly spilt between singles and couples but there was 30 at last one however as its holiday season please bear this in mind if your not local to derby.
the venue will be pm'd to you couple of days before bit please don't pass that info onto a 3rd person.
if you have any questions please ask and we will hopefully answer them for you.
our socials are for people to meet, drink and chat to likeminded people.
holiday seasons meaning it could be a quieter social than previous ones at moment.
people attending so far will be:-
cockslut
easycome2003
calista partner
ian dawn
ronchris
paulsue123
cfxxxf
pierced jon
chaotic spirit
stuart rossy
farkuen
foxylady2209
shaunfay
valakari
hornyukforu
slightly sinful
mal1
derby hung male
madida455
pab 1966
sexy liason80
in-mk
shinytights
ramscouple
44dd4u
fogal
notts stallion
silk love22
paul olive
nottsmale
maybe's
hank panky
if someones profile doesn't have pics it don't bother us, as we have NO hang ups whatsoever,and will meet anyone socially at first, however what does p*ss us off is someone with no picks then asking us with 9 pics on our profile send us some more pics.
off and f**k not in that order is our reply.
off and f**k not in that order is our reply.
i understand what your saying darkfire, but why would people join a swingers site (that now costs you) if they not swingers? if we're in chatroom and see a scotland meet tonight if we wasn't in scotland at that time we wouldnt join that room seems pointless, rather spend our time that may bring fruitian.
i got similar views regarding directors in chatrooms hence if we got the kick button they get KICKED.
i got similar views regarding directors in chatrooms hence if we got the kick button they get KICKED.
u gave someone your password, thats VERY stupid, drunk or not, because you cant have dozens of passwords for diferent sites you use if we join any new sites we have an old password to sign in initially because you never know if its genuine site your joining tor some clever bastard gleening info from you then once you know its a genuine site alter the password to a current your still young and learning bless.
ok HLB thanks, i'm wondering why no ones picked up and commented on my earlier post re it wouldn't work if diferent sites had diferent rules concerning swinging ettiquette, as we believe no matter where you are in the world swingers ettiquette must mean the same all over?
do you agree or not?
do you agree or not?
your still reading that advert wrongly guys, the ad was to increase the amount of people attending our socials. which are meets at a vanilla pub where likeminded peeps can meet in a safe environment, it was only open to s.h. members (which is more strict than say) . it's in a bloody vanilla pub so nothing untoward happens there.
it is for s.h. members only either couples or singles,we see socials as safe venues to meet likeminded people and asses if you wanna meet up again at a later date, rather than driving miles to meet 1 person and you dont get on. in a group if you dont gell with 1 person they not left out in the cold they can converse with someone else and likewise,
regarding the quote added above all the guy was trying to say is its a genuine social with genuine people there, ok so some may of got on that well they decided to follow on after closing time (which means social over), which is there perogative, if you read the miunch stle rules again it states there its ok to go to a meet after a munch after all thats what there there for, so if its good enough for a munch why not for a social, theres nothing new in that.
it is for s.h. members only either couples or singles,we see socials as safe venues to meet likeminded people and asses if you wanna meet up again at a later date, rather than driving miles to meet 1 person and you dont get on. in a group if you dont gell with 1 person they not left out in the cold they can converse with someone else and likewise,
regarding the quote added above all the guy was trying to say is its a genuine social with genuine people there, ok so some may of got on that well they decided to follow on after closing time (which means social over), which is there perogative, if you read the miunch stle rules again it states there its ok to go to a meet after a munch after all thats what there there for, so if its good enough for a munch why not for a social, theres nothing new in that.
Quote by da69ve
I'm having a blonde moment here.......but how did this all start..(The Munch Terminology explains it all.)....i've been using this site for nearly two years and have been to a few munches and socials in that time ,in fact there really is no difference in them at all....with no problem to rules so what seems to have changed to drag this all up again......because in my opinion if it can't be sorted....munches and socials could become a thing of the past.
A Munch is purely a social event!.....,thats the first line used in the Munch Terminolgy ,which must mean a Social is also the same!......how difficult is that!
coudn't agree more dave, it's just a few peeps worrying about newbies arranging socials, because theres little or no rules written about a social on here, but surely common sense prevails when attending any because theres an increasing number of socials being arranged in the chatroom there not sure they will be handled correctly, they want to see clear written rules not guidelines from the owners.
we've visited numerous swingers sites in last five years and can't really see it would work if diferent swingers sites had diferent ideas of events like ,meet social, munch etc, surely swingers etiquette should be the same no matter where you visit it would get confusing.
well time is a contributing factor, so a central "thingy" would be easier, my point really was for some forum users to attend a social they may feel "safer" knowing who's attending the event,so they are reading the list of people who's attending, but my main point is a follow on from dambuster who wrote he (like any of us ) would be rightly annoyed if a lot of people had slipped away from the social for sex after travelling 30 miles or so and only half was left there, my point being if half of the people asking to come was continual non showers we have the same scenario,
ok point taken not everyone needs to know you had a !!!!!!!!!. just that the organiser is happy of your non attendance. and if people saw u didnt attend but had notified the organiser in advance wouldn't be too detrimental as the list of peeps who just didn't bother to show.
ok point taken not everyone needs to know you had a !!!!!!!!!. just that the organiser is happy of your non attendance. and if people saw u didnt attend but had notified the organiser in advance wouldn't be too detrimental as the list of peeps who just didn't bother to show.
regarding name and shame, it was mentioned earlier re a hyperthetical social run by a newbie who may not fully understand the etiquette may allow people to disappear during the social for sex and someone may of drove 100's of miles to get there and only half the people left were there wouldn't be very happy, (understandably). surely if the list was full of continual known non showers we got the same scenario.
i think people who are against something are the people who may participate in that thing, as an example, fast drivers are against speed cameras, so don't drive fast, it is the law, (rule)
we all can have a problem that stops us from attending a meet / munch etc but like someone said earlier a cat may have 9 lifes but he can only die once.
i think people who are against something are the people who may participate in that thing, as an example, fast drivers are against speed cameras, so don't drive fast, it is the law, (rule)
we all can have a problem that stops us from attending a meet / munch etc but like someone said earlier a cat may have 9 lifes but he can only die once.
well we dont carry an egg timer with us but surely the time factor is part of the formula that makes up a good meet, which begs the question what factors would you put into the formula to make a good meet.
cleanliness + looks + size + time spent playing + satisfaction = a good meet
have we missed anything out you would put in, or put in something you would take out?
mrs had the club stud once ( 11 inches) he lasted less than 2 minutes and blamed her for giving oral b4 too good, . HA. = bad meet
cleanliness + looks + size + time spent playing + satisfaction = a good meet
have we missed anything out you would put in, or put in something you would take out?
mrs had the club stud once ( 11 inches) he lasted less than 2 minutes and blamed her for giving oral b4 too good, . HA. = bad meet
ok i can swing both ways ., but thought i was understanding from long term "forumers" they get a feel of people by there attitude humour etc from there forum postings, so surely to see a persons continual failure to attend meets, socials, munches etc would be beneficial to any further invites especially if numbers are limited at a venue etc, you could put known non showers on the reserve list say. i'm not saying hang them high if they fail once but surely theres a limit.
Quote by Freckledbird
I like the forum because its full of very funny people
even if they don't realise they are funny, I find them funny
but then again I find lots of things funny that other don't :shock:
I think its a case of little things please little minds
but hey I can laugh at myself
am I making sense
Perfect sense
err maybe or maybe theres a yellow cab with guys in white coats driving to your house .lol.
