Also - bonus - you can grab the years supply of free condoms while you're there
Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
curvynjackb
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 56
0 miles · Bristol
Forum
That's Cytherea in the vid, famous for her squirting ability, just google her, or look up the Squirtwoman films.
I've been lucky enough to have experienced some very sexy ladies who squirt, it ain't pee and it's definitley for real. it's also different to a 'normal' orgasm - apparently a very different experience, much more emotional, can involve giggling or even crying as well as lots and lots of pleasure.
It's all to do with the G-spot - quick run-thru of one method - hand palm up towards the top of the pussy, middle 2 fingers inside, slightly curled up to the roof of her pussy until you can feel her G-spot and rub. It can help if the other hand presses down like the bloke was doing in the video.
Another tip, if you feel as if you're going to pee, then that's the start, just don't worry and go with the flow . If you're worried about actually peeing, just go before you play!
Theres a great book by Debbie Sundahl on ejaculation, well worth a read.( )
I've been lucky enough to have experienced some very sexy ladies who squirt, it ain't pee and it's definitley for real. it's also different to a 'normal' orgasm - apparently a very different experience, much more emotional, can involve giggling or even crying as well as lots and lots of pleasure.
It's all to do with the G-spot - quick run-thru of one method - hand palm up towards the top of the pussy, middle 2 fingers inside, slightly curled up to the roof of her pussy until you can feel her G-spot and rub. It can help if the other hand presses down like the bloke was doing in the video.
Another tip, if you feel as if you're going to pee, then that's the start, just don't worry and go with the flow
. If you're worried about actually peeing, just go before you play!Theres a great book by Debbie Sundahl on ejaculation, well worth a read.( )
Quote by Sgt Bilko
I used an emoticon as a bit of fun to light heartedly express an opinion, which by the way, the fact I am a Mod is neither here nor there. I am still a member of this site and as entitled as any of you to have an opinion on any subject.
chill all!
jack
I suggest that you take some of your own advice!!!
:roll:I agree you do have a right to post your opinion and i can see how it could be taken light-heartedly but it came across, to me, as expressing disgust, rather than just saying well, i don't like it.
personally, i do think your position as mod does have a bearing on the way that you post an opinion, you are in a position of some authority and that does carry responsibilty. This isn't a huge issue to me, and i don't want it to be blown up into one, just feel that opinions of sexual preferences and practices on the site should be expressed in an accepting way, even if they disagree, just didn't feel that way did. If what we do can't be accepted here, where can it be?
i was chilled, wasn't irate or stroppy, just posting my opinion
stay chilled
jack
Quote by flower411
Eeeeeewwww!!!
Oi Bilko ...wassup ?
That`s the second post of yours this evening that people might just find a bit offensive !! :shock:
You OK ??
have to agree with flower, i would expect a better response, especially from a mod.
opinions were asked for, sure, but this site and forum should be a place where people shouldn't be wary of asking a question and to be told that it's disgusting in such terms isn't very accepting, can see it putting some people off.
i'm all for different opinions and i'm sure we all do things others will find offensive but let's not couch such opinions in terms that some would find offensive.
chill all!
jack
been to club o in bristol on a porn palace afternoon, was fairly quiet when i was there but talking to kaz, the owner, it has been fairly busy other times, including (gasp!) some ladies too :shock:
it's kitted out pretty well, with proper cinema seats, seems fine.
haven't been to the office for a looong time so can't comment.
would also recommend club O on a swingers or fetish or TV night too, great atmosphere and friendly people
it's kitted out pretty well, with proper cinema seats, seems fine.
haven't been to the office for a looong time so can't comment.
would also recommend club O on a swingers or fetish or TV night too, great atmosphere and friendly people
Ah, the joy of alfresco fun.
our garden is fab, private, sunny, handy trees to lean against,table, chairs to bend over, trampoline (that was fun
), hammock (not quite so much fun, more bloody hilarious )
trouble is the kids are home in the summer when it's sunny
noise can be a provblem but then trying to keep quiet can add to the passion, and trying to get yur partner to make some noise can be very naughty too lol
jack
our garden is fab, private, sunny, handy trees to lean against,table, chairs to bend over, trampoline (that was fun
), hammock (not quite so much fun, more bloody hilarious )trouble is the kids are home in the summer when it's sunny
noise can be a provblem but then trying to keep quiet can add to the passion, and trying to get yur partner to make some noise can be very naughty too lol
jack
We have claimed the words tart and slut as part of our sexuality and use both words in certain situations and know not to use them in others, it just wouldn't work. They are a tool we use when we play together, but only when we play alone, not with other people, odd maybe but that's the way it works for us!
Other words such as slag, whore are a different matter, see them as just being very derogative.
J x
Other words such as slag, whore are a different matter, see them as just being very derogative.
J x
Just to add our thanks to somerset couple for a great evening and anais for the afternoon drinks 
and manly hugs to the 3 of you .
Was good to see old friends and even managed to chat to some lovely new people last night and generally had a fab time, it's always good to put faces to body bits :grin:
Roll on the next one we say
xx
and manly hugs to the 3 of you .Was good to see old friends and even managed to chat to some lovely new people last night and generally had a fab time, it's always good to put faces to body bits :grin:
Roll on the next one we say
xx
We swing as a couple and also play separatley, i would say the separately bit means we have an open relationship.
I would say an open relationship is playing on your own, and not always having to have prior permission for each time.
We generally know when one of us is going to play because it is usually arranged beforehand and we have to sort out kids etc etc. I wouldn't expect to know beforehand every time, if an opportunity arose for either of us we would go for it, but we would tell the other half afterwards.
I think it's about not keeping secrets, if we play we both know about it, whether before or after.
J xx
I would say an open relationship is playing on your own, and not always having to have prior permission for each time.
We generally know when one of us is going to play because it is usually arranged beforehand and we have to sort out kids etc etc. I wouldn't expect to know beforehand every time, if an opportunity arose for either of us we would go for it, but we would tell the other half afterwards.
I think it's about not keeping secrets, if we play we both know about it, whether before or after.
J xx
Quote by MikeNorth
<snip>
I think it needs to be made very clear that snogs, gropes etc at munches should happen with the consent of the people concerned.
<snip>
but I think it needs to be made a bit clearer that swingers are not necessarily all “free and easy”, and that most do not welcome the attentions of the wandering hands of total strangers, be they male or female.
Absolutely Mike, the first social we went to, there was a bloke with wandering hands, he soon got a slap round the head from curvy, that soon sorted him!!!
Like you said just cos we swing doesn't mean we don't have morals and limits. We just want to enjoy ourselves.
J
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:Quote by dekntan
i wasnt deliberately picking up on your post just the way things are in general and not knocking foster homes i just think the whole system of discrimated against people for certain things is wrong if they can offer the love and affection these children need
that's ok, just a subject close to my heart. I hear what you're saying but there are genuine reasons behind these guidelines & decisions.
There are so many factors taken into account when assessing and approving potential parents, the 2 highlighted are just 2 of many.
Quote by dekntan
.
The issue of fat smokers is also relevant, you want a child to cope with yet another loss in their lives as a parent or parents dies young cause of health problems. They will have enough issues around loss as it is without giving them anymore.
i disagree id rather know that a child has had a couple of happy years within a family home rather than them staying in foster homes etc just because they discriminate about size and health and smoking etc
many parents are smokers and overweight does this make them bad parents?? would it make them love the child any less ?? things happen and theres nothing stopping an average weight non smoker getting knocked over by a bus any more than there is of an overwight smoker dieing of their ailments
It's not impossible to adopt if you smoke or are overweight, but it will be more dfficult and will certainly not be a factor in your favour and you would be heavily encouraged to do something about it and it will have been highlighted in the assessment.
I never said they would be bad parents or love the child any less, i'm sure they wouldn't, that was a pretty big intuitive leap for you to take. But if it came to the choice of choosing between two sets of parents, more or less equally balanced, it wouldn't come down on the side of smokers or overweight applicants.
Yes, things do happen, but being run over by the proverbial bus is less likely than a premature death due to lifestyle choices, or the health of the child being affected by such choices.
And don't knock foster homes, for some children that is the best therapeutic option they have.
IMHO, of course
J x
