it would be nice to get this straight so we dont go answering ads or even putting one up and getting or giving the wrong ideas from the start, may i suggest a FAQ and terminology section as a sticky, it might help those who are nervous about even replying to an add in case we do something embarresing, for instance i cant see why so many people stipulate no w/s, i personally like "wearing stilletoes"!!! My point exactly it would be nice to get this straight so we dont go answering ads or even putting one up and getting or giving the wrong ideas from the start, may i suggest a FAQ and terminology section as a sticky, it might help those who are nervous about even replying to an add in case we do something embarresing, for instance i cant see why so many people stipulate no w/s, i personally like "wearing stilletoes"!!!
it would be nice to get this straight so we dont go answering ads or even putting one up and getting or giving the wrong ideas from the start, may i suggest a FAQ and terminology section as a sticky, it might help those who are nervous about even replying to an add in case we do something embarresing, for instance i cant see why so many people stipulate no w/s, i personally like "wearing stilletoes"!!! 
). we want to take this very slowly to start off with and dont want to spoil it with a bad experiance.