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daveandkelly_uk
2 days ago
Straight Male, 68
Straight Female, 57
United Kingdom

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im sure you will find most bifems on here come with a partner and do things together,or is that just us rolleyes :shock:
and no wonder so many new couples just stop doing it when they get arrogent people talking to them like that...they need guiding not told to go away confused
Quote by jomu
Don't bother then.
Go back to pubbing and clubbing, you won't be missed.
"don't want to out late"....are you real ?
I just got in a few minutes ago, and I've got to be at work by 8...latest.
AND this was an early night....I'm not in 'til 2 or 3 in the morning most nights....no staying power or ability anymore.....no wonder the games going to the dogs.
Let me put this in a few simple words.
You arrange your life to suit the COUPLES needs, if YOU cannot be bothered to put yourself out then GO AWAY
well i dont agree with u..just because u stay out late doesnt mean everyone else does!! we speak/meet couples and arrange it for another night, because most people i know prefer it when there not at work the next day so they can chill and relax more instead of worrying about work....peoples jobs are more important than sex...otherwise how do u keep ya family, when u loose your job because your always tired....think of it logicly
Quote by bluexxx
I was at a well known car park in the Bolton area today around So were a bunch of guys (three I think), in a black car video-camming the cars and taking regs numbers. They drove off before I could get their reg number, and I'm not going to put the make of car here in case they were just innocent saddos who like wanking over film clips of cars confused . Anyways, just thought I'd warn folk, they could be plain clothed police I suppose.... or reporters (well, not likely reporters really cos I don't think they would have been obvious), but hey ho, just be careful :? :? :?
we was in doncaster last week and two nights (within a couple of days of each other) there were 2 men in a car with their interier light on parked on the road side just outside the car park, writing things down and then creeping up and down with no lights on :? and then there was a car with two males in who looked a bit dodgy in the same place but parked on the grass (where no one ever parks) with their light on...may have been nothing, but with whats been going on with alot of places just lately you can never be too careful. :!:
Quote by bluexxx
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OK, sometimes we make plans and have to cancel, like I did yesterday rolleyes .... but the decent thing is to tell people you can't make it, or at least apologise. I've lost count of the amount of times I've arranged to meet guys dogging and they don't turn up. They don't turn up to private meets either, but I think the rate of dogging timewasters is higher than those of private meets. I don't arrange as many dogging meets as I used to for exactly that reason - I am sick of being messed around.
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i totally agree with you there.,...alot of guys make such a fuss about never been able to meet a couple, and when u invite them they just string u along and not even bother to tell you there not coming...its a boring convo i know but its just really annoyed me :x :x with it not been the first time (probs not last neither) that its happend
well...we emailed back about 7 guys last night for fun (they know who they are!!) and not one turned up..this has happend everytime we have tried planning anything on here..no wonder people stop dogging and swinging all the time...so come on guys why even bother emailing saying your going to be there if your not!!!??
ok not been funny or anything here...but dont write exact places where your going...thats how the police and idiots ruin places
we go to donny all the time..to the same car park every night...with everything thats been going on with the police raiding places, its hard to trust anyone really..you never know who they might be :!:
Quote by Notts4Fun
having just looked through some of your previous postings, i see that your partner accompanies you on dogging excursions, so, how does she feel about the sexual duration thing?

Me and my girlfriend havent been dogging yet (not intentionally anyway!) as pointed out in those previous posts.
In the past we've been to carparks and had sex, but that was before we clicked onto the whole dogging thing.
Whilst at it we were once flashed by a car a few times, but at that time we were unaware of its meaning so drove off frustrated!!
We in talks about the whole dogging scene, which is why i originally came on here - to learn more about what to expect and what goes on, then we can make a more informed decision weather or not its something we want to get into - i have to admit that at this moment im more into it than she is - she definantly likes the idea but more cautious and shy about it all.
I know that if/when we do go, then as most of you have pointed out, we'd just be one of those couples into putting on a show (at first anyway) i know how your girlfriend feels, i felt the same as she does now when we first started going out to doggin sites,,,and sometimes u an get some real assholes that have no concideration on what the woman wants, they just expect to get it because they are there....we prefer people to join in, but just lately in donny its dead, no1 seems interested at all...but hey it eint our loss...plenty of other places (just not that many that eint been raided by the police!!)
well i agree that names shouldnt be mentioned because then u get alot of wasters down...then the police down (because they do see these sites) and then everything gets ruined..so i think if people are going to mention names of places...do it in PM
Quote by miltonkeynesmale49
As you may know I am fairly new to this so please can someone enlighten me. I was out last night at a well used Dogging site near Milton Keynes. All that was there was one other car containing a male. He kept putting his interior light on and also flashing his brakelights. Is this a sign for some kind of gay action???
Wigan Couple, Dirty Doggers and Silk and Big G another chance ichael out of me methinks!!!! Look forward to your replies
Mick
well i think the flashing lights are going a bit out of fashion now, because alot of people like us have to put the side lights on to see the time in the car, and when we do that everyone including gays come driving over...easy mistake to make with alot of people, thats why we actually get out of the car and go for a walk...see who follows smile
Quote by *Guy4Gals&Guys*
Yeah,there is also a chance of getting your teeth knocked down the back of your throat from some bruiser who is there shaggin someone else's missus,not there for the same thing as us...lol
well i dont know many that would kick off like that, yeh it does happen but them that kick off like that are just a big waste of space anyway, 99% of people that go out want sex...but not all of us get it cos no1 will come and talk....they follow when we go for a walk and just stand there n not say a word...now that to me is wierd...id rather them talk than just stand next to us staring like they have never seen a woman before confused
well where we go the police have been down a few times, but at the end of the day they cant do a thing because its private property...surely there is no criminals out there to catch, they cant be because they wouldnt be bothering people just having a good time, not harming anybody....unless thats what there into lol lol
well i am not impressed i must say....every night this week..lots of cars but just no men up for anything...if they are not gay then whats wrong with them?? a woman wanting lots of cock and what is there......nothing lol confused:
i agree with you wrek about the people who blurt out the locations on here,but this site has a list of most of the dogging sites in uk,whoever put all them on here didnt really think about who reads these pages.
we have always found that where we go in donny during the week is better...at weekends it is full of no hopers, or men that are too scared to come and talk lol...dont get anything if they dont come and talk wink