Today is the last day of the year or the first day of the new year - don't really care which.
Last year? Hmm, not sure what's new there. Oh yes, the allotment. Not had one before and it's a steep learning curve. Put it this way - I'm buying loads of pidgeon=proof netting this spring as I want to enjoy my cabbages before the flying rats get at them.
With this problem I just cover all the plants with cheap plastic netting. and weigh it down to ground level with lengths of timber. the plants grow and you have to adjust the netting and do some weeding. But don't allow the pigeons to get under the netting.
your identity is already known, particularly if you are logging in from home and paying through your bank. so any authority can access that if need be.
if it meant registering for the porn which is currently available 'free' on the internet, i'd do without. Its just basically acceptable.
You still have to pay for good quality porn, which again means using your identity to buy on the net.
So it sounds like the identity card debate again. porn is irrelevent.
What we need is work. Work that can occupy people. And we need to take a step backward in doing so.
There is less work each year for the new students in the UK. More work is sub contracted abroad and handled by students we educate. It has become a viscious circle of competitiveness.
Most of the students realise they will not get that much work. They won't get a house, or a pension. They don't want to start life with a debt they probably won't be able to pay off. Its no wonder they are angry.
We need work. We need to make things and grow things again.
Yes. Hold a competition to see who can reach size 40 by the time you are 40.
in what way is it considered addictive? i mean i pee several times a day, but is it an addiction?
a lot of decent accessories are hand made. check out the s and m fairs and markets, the gay and lesbian shops and find out the people who actually make them. then book an appointment with them.
eg on old compton street there's a shop run by women providing for the lesbian. they know the makers etc.
it will cost a lot more, but you're better off having one custom made for you.
could somebody please kill jamie oliver, or indeed any of the other smug celebrity cooks; who are now almost on the point of giving up their skills and simply advising us to purchase ready made meals from the nearest suppliers.
ideally you order in grotesque quantities of cancer developing, deep fried scran, swilled down with cut price grog.
people dressed in marks and spencer, fill the house to bursting point. its a wonder no one is pressed against the fireplace and burnt.
i suppose if i wanted to use more imagination i'd listen to a radio play or read a book. but is there as much in chat rooms and such. it all seems so reality confirming and less imaginative.
so i just wondered if anyone felt they were missing that.
o god (eyes roll upwards), isn't there anyone who's hand isn't where their heart is?
oh well if you can't beat them.....
was all this self pleasuring derived from any external source ie porn?
i have no desire to have my imagination stimulated by such thoughts. but thanks for the suggestion.
when was the last time you really used your imagination?
i don't think i have for quite a while. what with reality tv, the world at the touch of the keyboard, just about everything can be represented on screen.
so do you need or use your imagination ?
over the years i have occasionally seen adverts where people declare themselves to be hardened swingers. which gives off the expectation to the worthy and equally an effective use for timewaster screening.
The nearest I think it is, is when a couple and/or singles have gotten through the initial startups, had some experience and developed enough confidence and skill; and expectation to perform in most general swinging situations.
Where they then become hardened is in transferring those things into a newer pursuit of fuck fodder. ie playing whatever game is on to get more sex. But at that point they are no longer swingers, they have become predators.
the site is useful in several ways, all of which have more potential than actual.
you need to get out to the events and meet people.
I can see that people can become quite accomplished at swinging, especially if they do it often enough and have a thriving community with a good turnover of other swingers. And that is what many wish for. But for the majority its not quite so busy and therefore a longer process of acquiring experience.
But does the swinging make you hard or is it that you are like that already and it just comes back once you feel you have achieved something?
They don't exist really do they?
Its just an idea that got about because people feared they might become something that other people wouldn't fancy. Or a way of empathising with others.
But it really is a myth.
I mean what could someone be like that could be so awful as a swinger?
Anyone seen a hardened swinger going about their business?
You'd be better off trying Rios or something similar. Where you are more likely to find people prepared to play. Sunset has closed, but you could try Fantasy Video on City Road, if you want something quite sleazy.
The area around the Raymond Revue Bar and Windmill Theatre have clip joints where women hang about and try to get you to come in. Avoid those.
Old Compton Street is a large gay centre.
There are peep shows, which are fairly dreadful and another ripoff.
I'd say it's one of many expressions people use to state something they think they are not, to avoid saying what they think they are.
Well to save everyone the pointless and brain numbing exercise of calculating their own equations, lets choose the most common birthday which is Christmas Day.
Sorry if that spoiled a pub wind up.
people who make lists.
And those who find that they read them.
well are you worried you might say or do something a bit odd? or get self conscious or something?
For the first dates or so you'll be fine. It is more likely that later in the relationship you begin to associate with and recognise some of the characteristics that make all the different races distinctive. that is the nature of racial relationships. that's the journey, the fun and the heartaches.
You'll be fine. She'll know your nervous and well intentioned etc. She'll go easy on you now. But later on watch out!
Actually the woman is being quite helpful, with the use of at least one word to point you in the general direction.
If it had been 'what are you thinking', well say no more..............
Money is tight, thank god. less sodding fireworks.
Actually if the advertiser is saying 'I am like this and you won't like me if that's not your thing', then that seems to me to be quite realistic, and knowing.
So take the woman's advice.
its getting to be like: say anything and it can become a debate!
jeez you can't even leave the building without it being headline news.
calm down my dear its only an advert
i think its unlikely that the originators of these type of threads simply walk away. in fact their use of the site becomes more intense as they keep checking the thread to see the results.
equally everyone else is fascinated by the variety of responses, thus creating more traffic to the thread. which you would imagine the op had actually wanted not to happen, as they had tired of the site and its peculiar ways.