last week i came home from work, more shattered than usual,didnt want to eat and slept. This went on for 2-3 days and i had a banging headache all the time.
my daughter also had the same thing.
i put it down to the constant change in weather, presures at work etc, And i got on with life.
my nephew came home same symptoms and his mum calls the drs, over the phone they say could be swine flu, dont go out, get a flu buddy to collect tammi flu from a chemist we will fax a perscription to and stay in.
ok im not saying he had swine flu, im not saying i didnt.
but thats the thing,no one is actually checking any more, no swabs, just presumption.
now i understand there are some serious cases and im sorry to those who have been ill or lost lives, but the mear sniffle or headache and its swine flu now.
i have even heard people call call up the drs, give the vauge symptons, and call in work and are having a week off. no one is checking.
this will push the figures up.
xx fem xx
you need to talk talk then talk some more.
you could be opening a can of worms.
what if during you decide to say no, will they both be cool with that.
is it going to be someone you know? will they talk out of school?
what if you say an out right no, will your b friend be looking else where, or is there the veiled threat/worry that he will go off and leave you or go off and do it behind your back?
what if it develops and he wants to have 2 women?
i guess you must be interested to pay to join here or you could have researched this without cost.
???
x fem
loved,lost,left,lonely,laughs,fem.
xx fem xx
i hope she never gets to find out lol
im going to book a tandam, hopefully as her b day is in april she will even get to actually do it on her birthday.
thank you for all the advice. i want her to experience these things, before she gets old and is to scared to.
xx fem xx
ahh ty reacher.
she does want to dive alone, but would have to do the statics first.
but for her first experience i think the tandam will give the biggest thrill.
ty
xx fem xx
My daughter has always said she would love to do this, however you have to be 16+ she will be next April.
im looking at booking her a sky dive, but was wondering if i should go for a tandam or a static?
has anyone here ever done it? what would you recomend?
for me id be saying stay with feet firm on ground, i hate heights even standing on a chair to change a lightbulb lol.
xx fem xx
hi ya,
sorry have a bad memory,socant remember, but welcome back xx
fem xx
thats cool, and there arnt any obvious lies in the profile, but when im talking to someone and they say they are single i expect just that, for them to be single.
as long as you recognise that there may be some people with that same view, and not wanna play based on that or feel the wool has been pulled over their eyes than i guess its cool.
xx fem xx
i wouldnt seek out a BHM, but then i dont seek out any type of man.
i do like men who are taller than me, but again its not a must.
what i do hate is people who are not umm honest.
for instance big as in fat isnt muscluar.
i say this as im big as in fat, not a body builder lol
its one thing that makes me avoid any profile or ad when looking if it says one thing but the pic is something completely dferent.
so in short i like all shapes and sizes i fucking hate lies.
xx fem xx
i really dont think this site should be seen to be condoning/recomending the use of a gun on a domestic animal.
these bb guns can kill cats, and any form of animal cruelty is wrong.
ok they shit in your garden? that does not mean you can break the law.
i actually feel that post should be removed. failing that i hope everyone knows it is against the law to shoot a cat.
xx fem xx
it doesnt say very much, nor can i see any photos.
xfemx
ive been swinging since i can remember. but lets for legal reasons say 18.
i decided this year to stop. not because i dont love swinging, but because i was sick and tired of non swingers who were here.
that sounds wrong, i was tired of meeting chatting to people who had a idea of what swinging is that was so far removed form mine i gave up hope.
if i was lucky enough to find my soulmate who was into swinging then yes i woudl be starting again.
so at the moment my shelf life as a swinger amounted to 21 years.
xx fem xx
i cant imagine what it must be like to have to spend so much of your day in an enviroment that you felt uncomfortable,even threatened in, especially as a child.
can she enroll in some clubs at school that she might like, that way find a new set of friends?
is there a school buddy mentoring scheeme?
on a reputable on line one?
give her childlines tel number, there may be stuff and emotions she feels she cant say to you as she doenst want to upset you?
learning a martial art can always help with confidence, im not saying use violence, and i hope it never comes to that, but knowing you could if you needed to might give her some peace of mind, and exercise is great for mental peace of mind and calm.
i woud say get a action plan simmiler to above, get a time line, and if by this date she still really wants to change schools then i would start looking into it and let her look at their prospectus etc.
i hope it all turns out ok.
even if teh other school isnt so good academically happy childhood memories are more important to the longivity of a happy person.
xxx fem xxx
i dont have extras, so dont now whos viewed me.
i do wish there was some icon next to the avatar to show if people are extras, cant tell in the forum only in chat.
that way id know who i can stalk opps i mean view, and know they know i have, or i wouldnt if i knew they were extras
ok that makes sense to me
xxx fem xx
if you pay the full cost after sex ask the couple to pack up and leave :giggle:
failing that once you pay your half tell them which side of the bed you prefer to sleep in and do the hotel know its a 3 person room for the breckfast??
xx fem xx
but it seems tobe repeating on you a bit?
lol
xxfem xx
put me off what?
lol, hi,
i guess your talking about sex. if they have a learning disability that ment they had a mental age lower than actual, then yes.
other than that its the person who id be attracted to, not a disability that would turn me away.
xx fem xx
on a personal level i know my daughters school you can source your own placement. if you fail to secure one you spend that week within the school, doing stuff they set up. eco stuff, job application practice, interview skills etc.
if a child secures a work placement, unless there is a real cause for concern that the child shouldnt return, then they damm well do.
work experience isnt about free labour but learning about what a full working day can entail, time keeping, dealing with public, etc.
including responsibility and the fact you cant just give up, walk out or let people down.
on a work level.
i dont mind having them in if they are actually interested in the line of work, an dtrust me we do not get any free labour from them, in fact I have to re jog my whole diary to teach guide and educate the young person and ensure what is planned is varied and possible,( i deal with some very confidential information) so that has to be put on teh back burner or i stay 4 hours over my work day to do that work i cant complete casue im baby sitting a year 10.
xx fem xx
does anyone still get icecream vans??
i havent heard/seen one in years. maybe its just where i live? but its sad to think kids wont have teh memory of hearing he chimes ad running in for money then chasing the van around the estate to catch it.
i went tescos the other day and found toffee crumbles, omg lush hadnt seen them in years.
used to like funny feet as well.
xx fem x
i watched a programe on the nhs uncovered ,or somthing like that,and it focused on alcohol fulled incidents.
ive also watched police programmes shwoing the levels of violence on teh streets at night from drunken yobs ( male and female)
ive also witnessed the drunken yobs.
yes ok maybe some people feel more confident walking out at club kick out time.
i am a confident person, but im not bloody stupid.
there are loads more fucking idiots who after a few drinks dont give a dam what they do, they are more agressive. they gob off at anyone who even look sat them wrong. they kick cars on passing and this is the adults.
then you get the 12-18 year olds who are pissed up and out to show off.
a few years ago i would be aware of my personal safety regarding attacks from men towards women,but now there is a higher risk of being caught up in violence when out and its random and not just men who are the violent ones.
i live in cornwall, but i have lived in citys. the violence isnt discrimatory to large rough towns, its happening even in small places.
to say there is none would be blind or maybe your the drunk who people are wary of?
xx fem xx
i wouldnt recomend doing that,
its flyposting and Flyposting is illegal and those responsible can be prosecuted through the magistrates’ courts. Where an offence is proven fines of up to £1,000 per poster.
its slightly different to make someone think they have a £40 ticket than togive a friend a fake lottery tickets.
some peopels ideas of funny are mental.
xx fem xx
i still dont see what is funny about treating a "friend" in this manner.
or do some people get off on causing upset?
i know i wouldnt want to be the person responsible for potentially tipping someone over the edge into depression, or do we find peopel suffering from that or other mental ill health funny when its due to debt,loss of homes,families etc? tobe offered a life line of hope by a "friend" then tofindout ohnoits just a huge hilarious joke????
ffs
xfem xx
if any one dd this to me thinking it was funny id like to see how funny they found my foot up their arse.
some people are suffering depression, anxiety ,stress relationship break downs and even suicide when it comes tomoney and debts,
to then do this to them is damm right sick.
we all imagine winning or comming into a windfall. to experience a high of thinking youve won 25k then to find out someone thought it funny to put you through this, especially if youve called family and they think their money worries could be lifted.
its so sick,i really think it should be banned, its not funny.
xx fem xx
i have a profile, thats not a ad.
if im looking i sometimes place a ad,
ill also look in the relevent ad section.
sadely its never any thing new, and if it is its a few lines like..
single male,( really??) good looking,(( arrogant,i'll be the judge if i think your goodlooking, or are you TOO goodlooking i wont bother messaging you)) fun, looking for sex.(( ahh nope im looking for swinging))
no pics,not even in private. not really anything there to make me message. If i did and then with a little bit more info im not interested,as they dont fit what im after i get harrassed and accused of being a time waster.
so yes single males its good to have a ad,but one that actually tells me something. the offer of a face pic helps. Oh and ensure the ad info matches the profile info.
oh and any one with quickies remember us ladies will go view who you are sending quickies to, and personally i dont like seeing quickies. makes me think our encounter would not be kept private.
xx fem xx
Doggin' is driving around looking for a woman/couple to have sex with, if you're a guy who doesn't like sex with guys !
or is it driving about looking for woman/couple to ""watch"" having sex? and not just for guys who dont like having sex with men.
i know im just being picky, but i know doggin has evolved, but when ive gone i do get tired og guys who think we are there for them to have sex with.
or when i go alone that im there for them to have sex with and seem to forget i like to watch the dogging.
xx fem xx