people who say in forums want verification, but their ads state they really like to protect their discretion?
their ads say they look after their body and health, but as a single male have photos of penetrative sex with female with no condom?
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the only people who pay the £7 currently are those who are working,so again it will be those paying their ni contributions that have to pay yet again.
its about bloody time that the government gave some respect to the working people and ensured their health was taken care of, after all no treatment, they cant work and therfore less money coming in and yet another claim for benefit going out.
im not on a high income working full time and having to pay my way in all aspects of life, but when my take home wage is hundreds of pound a year lower than a person in the same situation on benefit and i still have to pay for a fucking perscription or dental pain ( so im well enough to keep working) it makes me rather pissed off.
the problem is there are probally more people recieving expensive free health care than there are people paying their NI. I cant even retire now tilli reach 67 as they need that input for 7 years longer than a few years ago.
sorry for my rant but its a very touchy subject for me.
xx fem xx
its about bloody time that the government gave some respect to the working people and ensured their health was taken care of, after all no treatment, they cant work and therfore less money coming in and yet another claim for benefit going out.
im not on a high income working full time and having to pay my way in all aspects of life, but when my take home wage is hundreds of pound a year lower than a person in the same situation on benefit and i still have to pay for a fucking perscription or dental pain ( so im well enough to keep working) it makes me rather pissed off.
the problem is there are probally more people recieving expensive free health care than there are people paying their NI. I cant even retire now tilli reach 67 as they need that input for 7 years longer than a few years ago.
sorry for my rant but its a very touchy subject for me.
xx fem xx
hi,
sorry this may only be relevent to those in cornwall at the moment.
we had the digital switchover take place this week.
prior to the full switch over i had normal tv and the free view with digital ariel.
normal tv was ok, freeview was alot clearer but sometimes would go sticky (?) especially if a bloody moped went by.
well since the switch over the freeview picture is bloody crap. its fuzzy. much much worse than any previous normal tv picture.
ive emailed the digital people, but no reply.
i wondered is it just me experiencing this? is it likely to get better? if not why all the fecking switchover if the picture is crappier than before?
sorry to bore those this does not effect.
xx fem xx
sorry this may only be relevent to those in cornwall at the moment.
we had the digital switchover take place this week.
prior to the full switch over i had normal tv and the free view with digital ariel.
normal tv was ok, freeview was alot clearer but sometimes would go sticky (?) especially if a bloody moped went by.
well since the switch over the freeview picture is bloody crap. its fuzzy. much much worse than any previous normal tv picture.
ive emailed the digital people, but no reply.
i wondered is it just me experiencing this? is it likely to get better? if not why all the fecking switchover if the picture is crappier than before?
sorry to bore those this does not effect.
xx fem xx
i guess sadely with everything in life its about money.
these places have to make money.
i know it may seem wrong and i think the rules should be changed.
but if it was your loved ones service next you would be expecting the same respect and time keeping to start your service. I guess they have to draw a line somewhere, what if the first 3 services all run over by 10- 20 mins?
this is the sad conveyer belt system we now have in place, its the same when you come into the world, baby out 2 hours later discharged for the next delivery.
i know when my dad died we had to wait 3 weeks for a booking at the cremetorium.
the way this crem dealt with this could have been handled better. why not just bill for the 10 mins in the final bill to be sent out? rather than call it a fine?
xx fem xx
these places have to make money.
i know it may seem wrong and i think the rules should be changed.
but if it was your loved ones service next you would be expecting the same respect and time keeping to start your service. I guess they have to draw a line somewhere, what if the first 3 services all run over by 10- 20 mins?
this is the sad conveyer belt system we now have in place, its the same when you come into the world, baby out 2 hours later discharged for the next delivery.
i know when my dad died we had to wait 3 weeks for a booking at the cremetorium.
the way this crem dealt with this could have been handled better. why not just bill for the 10 mins in the final bill to be sent out? rather than call it a fine?
xx fem xx
i think its a shame that since the rise of schools and society saying its not a womens role to keep house and a mans to build things that the teaching of these things has stopped altogether.
im not saying that women/men should conform to the above, but back in my day kids ( ok girls)( me) were taught how to make a bed, iron a shirt etc, make a meal, bake a cake, knit, sew, how to be time saving and routines.
it was in the peter and jane books. boys were taught how to make go karts, build dens.
now i understand that society thought the stereotypical roles should be fazed out, but i wanna say why did that mean we just stopped teaching any of the above??
ok the feminists will scream now and probally argue that i only think the way i do as it was brainwashed into me but... FFS i like keeping a nice house, i enjoy cooking for my friends/kids/partner etc .
and yes im a singe mum completely financially independant and work ful time in a good job and have a degree education that i paid for at 30 years old.
but i like being a woman and doing women things and im pissed off with society making me feel guilty to admit that.
again i know the reasons, ive studied sociology. but i think its gone to far the other way.
i teach/taught my daughters how to cook, clean, sew, etc, cook on a budget and to change a plug, hang wall paper mow a lawn.
its sad school dont teach these things any more.
sorry went off on a bit of a rant. ( typical woman
)
xx fem xx
im not saying that women/men should conform to the above, but back in my day kids ( ok girls)( me) were taught how to make a bed, iron a shirt etc, make a meal, bake a cake, knit, sew, how to be time saving and routines.
it was in the peter and jane books. boys were taught how to make go karts, build dens.
now i understand that society thought the stereotypical roles should be fazed out, but i wanna say why did that mean we just stopped teaching any of the above??
ok the feminists will scream now and probally argue that i only think the way i do as it was brainwashed into me but... FFS i like keeping a nice house, i enjoy cooking for my friends/kids/partner etc .
and yes im a singe mum completely financially independant and work ful time in a good job and have a degree education that i paid for at 30 years old.
but i like being a woman and doing women things and im pissed off with society making me feel guilty to admit that.
again i know the reasons, ive studied sociology. but i think its gone to far the other way.
i teach/taught my daughters how to cook, clean, sew, etc, cook on a budget and to change a plug, hang wall paper mow a lawn.
its sad school dont teach these things any more.
sorry went off on a bit of a rant. ( typical woman
)xx fem xx
ahh in cornwall the problemis reversed in summer,roads are full of holiday makers, and all driving at go slow speeds to admire the views.
any how ....
my kids have always walked to school, hardely enough exersise these days as it is so the walk wil do them good. only time i have dropped them off is if it is pissisting it down and i dont want them sat in soaking wet clothes all day.
maybe schools should ask parents when registering kids at their school if they plan to walk or drive to school? ffs i thought there was a catchment area thing going on, so if you have to live close enough to get into a school why not walk it??
maybe more free bus pick ups might help out? like the park and ride thing? that way if kids must get dropped off at some point they can stop so many dangerous cars being at the schools?
its the way some parents drive near schools that really pisses me off.
xx fem xx
any how ....
my kids have always walked to school, hardely enough exersise these days as it is so the walk wil do them good. only time i have dropped them off is if it is pissisting it down and i dont want them sat in soaking wet clothes all day.
maybe schools should ask parents when registering kids at their school if they plan to walk or drive to school? ffs i thought there was a catchment area thing going on, so if you have to live close enough to get into a school why not walk it??
maybe more free bus pick ups might help out? like the park and ride thing? that way if kids must get dropped off at some point they can stop so many dangerous cars being at the schools?
its the way some parents drive near schools that really pisses me off.
xx fem xx
medi why would you think your post warrented a banned account?
any how back to the op,
when i read the statement as written in the op i do kinda think, ewgh umm maybe not as it makes me think you are just here to shag anything. we alllike to feel sexy and that can be by being with someone who finds you sexy, so to be with someone cause any holes a goal isnt what im after.
i never state a preference to a set look, ideally i like taller than me and not skinny guys. but it would depend on the chemistry.
age wise i will not meet up with any one who is closer to my daughters age than me for a swinging meet, this includes conversation with people my own age or older. i dont find that with youngsters.
xx fem xx
any how back to the op,
when i read the statement as written in the op i do kinda think, ewgh umm maybe not as it makes me think you are just here to shag anything. we alllike to feel sexy and that can be by being with someone who finds you sexy, so to be with someone cause any holes a goal isnt what im after.
i never state a preference to a set look, ideally i like taller than me and not skinny guys. but it would depend on the chemistry.
age wise i will not meet up with any one who is closer to my daughters age than me for a swinging meet, this includes conversation with people my own age or older. i dont find that with youngsters.
xx fem xx
for each child she has she gets £190 healthy in pregnancy money at 25 weeks and another £500 after the 29th week. on top of their reguler benefits.
but whos the fools that should be critizised? them for what shes doing or the government, therfore us for allowing the benifits system to work this way?
x fem
but whos the fools that should be critizised? them for what shes doing or the government, therfore us for allowing the benifits system to work this way?
x fem
it bothers me very much what people think of me.
in work i hope people think ive done the best i can for them, as i do and id hate anyone thinking i wouldnt.
with family i care what they think of me as with out their love im nothing.
with friends i care what they think, if its something bad potentially that means ive hurt or disapointed them and i dont want to do that.
peoplewho dont know me, well still yes i care what people think about me.
if i didnt care what people thought about me then i guess the moral backbone and values i have been raised by would be different and i may not treat people with the same respect as i just wouldnt give a shit.
i understand not everyone will like me, and i dont ponder on that too much or else youd go mad.
no one likes to be disliked.
the above does not mean i dont hold strong opinions or that im afraid to voice them.
just that i dont like to upset people in the process.
xx fem xx
in work i hope people think ive done the best i can for them, as i do and id hate anyone thinking i wouldnt.
with family i care what they think of me as with out their love im nothing.
with friends i care what they think, if its something bad potentially that means ive hurt or disapointed them and i dont want to do that.
peoplewho dont know me, well still yes i care what people think about me.
if i didnt care what people thought about me then i guess the moral backbone and values i have been raised by would be different and i may not treat people with the same respect as i just wouldnt give a shit.
i understand not everyone will like me, and i dont ponder on that too much or else youd go mad.
no one likes to be disliked.
the above does not mean i dont hold strong opinions or that im afraid to voice them.
just that i dont like to upset people in the process.
xx fem xx
maybe its about people thinking asians are more with customs and religious followings than white or black people?
so when they see an asian person with a white person they think its against the asian persons path?
i like men who are tall, asian men typically are short so dont attract me and the swinging ones ive met have been short and have mostaches or have hairy chests.
xx fem xx
so when they see an asian person with a white person they think its against the asian persons path?
i like men who are tall, asian men typically are short so dont attract me and the swinging ones ive met have been short and have mostaches or have hairy chests.
xx fem xx
hi,
the profile here is of a single/married guy looking for men.
this wont get you couples contacting you for meets.
if you do contact couples here to arange a meet with you and your wife it might be an idea to alter your profile.3 reasons, so its clear what your currently after and so people dont let your other side slip to your wife, and i cant imagine that many couples looking to meet you from here based on your current profile.
if you not loking to meet anyone off here then maybe a club might be the way to go?
have a good chat about rules before hand.
and DONT DONT arrange to meet a couple and turn up on your own in the hope they will still play and you get some action with the guy.
china in your hands
xxfem xx
the profile here is of a single/married guy looking for men.
this wont get you couples contacting you for meets.
if you do contact couples here to arange a meet with you and your wife it might be an idea to alter your profile.3 reasons, so its clear what your currently after and so people dont let your other side slip to your wife, and i cant imagine that many couples looking to meet you from here based on your current profile.
if you not loking to meet anyone off here then maybe a club might be the way to go?
have a good chat about rules before hand.
and DONT DONT arrange to meet a couple and turn up on your own in the hope they will still play and you get some action with the guy.
china in your hands
xxfem xx
Quote by SlurpySarah
I'm sorry, but this post is a typical example of the unenlightened and ignorant thinking that surrounds cannabis and prevents it being licensed as a much-needed drug for many patient groups.
Canada has a higher World Health Organisation rating than UK, and they have ratified the use of cannabis for many medical conditions, where the chemical alternative is unacceptable due to it's side effects. Many empirical tests were done, most of which the UK appointed medical trials agreed with.
Sorry to pick apart your post, but it needs to be done. Sources are taken from here:-
wouldnt saying drugs should be available for anyone to buy be promoting the use of?
just because alcohol is not illegal in certain circumstances does not mean that we should legalise all other narcotics.
cannabis is NOT a narcotic ,actually it is The term "narcotic," derived from the Greek word for stupor, originally referred to a variety of substances that dulled the senses and relieved pain
canibis has sometimes been considered to be the harmless drug of choice.
nothing is completely harmless if you ingest or inhale it i never said it was,i said it has been considered to be.
the effects of this drug however are far reaching and damaging to our society.
that's a very dramatic, but completely wrong statement. where did you get your "facts"?i never stated these as "facts" its my personalexperiences, i work with drug and alcohol teams,i work with young people who have psychosis induced from canabis use.
the money to feed the addiction,
people will spend money on whatever they enjoy, be it alcohol, fags, Elton John concerts etc. addiction rates are considerably less than fags, booze or even coffee! could say the same about heroin, its still money used to fund an the adiction rate in comparision toalcoholand fags is lower as its still illegal?
the children who go without when money is spent on the drug.
same answer as aboveagain i see on a daily basis children going without tofund this addiction.
the drop out of youths from activities, getting out of bed, lack of motivation, loss of education, jobs.
again, absolutely no proof of this statement - nothing more than hearsay. i work with teh peopelwho suffer this. There are 2 main types of cannabis - indica and sativa, one will make you feel lethargic, one will make you feel more energetic.
the road traffic accidents while stoned.
Cannabis alone,particularly in low doses,has little effect on the skills involved in car driving. this is a dangeroud statement, who is to say what is considered as little? Cannabis leads to a more cautious style of driving. much like a drunk wouldsay, im drunk im going todrive cautious. However it has a negative impact on decision time and trajectory. This in itself does not mean that drivers under the influence of cannabis represent a traffic safety risk; i think the poilce woulddiffer in this opinion.
the mental ill health depression and psychosis.
Heavy use of cannabis can result in dependence requiring treatment; however, dependence caused by cannabis is less severe and less frequent than dependence on other psychotropic substances,including alcohol and tobacco. i didnt say there was a comparision, i didnt say alcohol wasok, i pointed out he rise in peopel seeking treatment,andnot just medical, but the support, housing, councelling etc.
the rise in state benefits
no proof of this at all the dwp has people on incap due to canabis use.
the rise on nhs resources for associated treatments
what associated treatments? where are you getting your info from? i work in the centres that give treatment.
i could go on but i wont.
just because there are legal drugs that are causing the same crap as above does not mean we should add to the the list.
xx fem xx
Cannabis is organically grown and is a completely natural product with proven health and medicinal benefits. It can be used to alleviate many severe symptoms, where the alternatives are harsh chemicals with some horrendous side-effects. Here's a little something for you - go to wherever you keep your home medications and look at the side-effects and contra-indications of paracetamol or ibuprofen. Frightening, isn't it?
this debate was not if canabis had a place in medical pain intervention in a controled manner,opium is used in a controled medical manner, the debate was about canabis being made street legal.
i do not feel my opinions should be called unenlightened and ignorant. different to your opinion maybe, but based on my training and personal and professional experiences.
i was not looking or comparing canabis to alcohol, tabacco or in medical treatment.
xx fem xx
not good at the multi quote,replys to them etc,but i have witin the above.
wouldnt saying drugs should be available for anyone to buy be promoting the use of?
just because alcohol is not illegal in certain circumstances does not mean that we should legalise all other narcotics.
canibis has sometimes been considered to be the harmless drug of choice.
the effects of this drug however are far reaching and damaging to our society.
the money to feed the addiction,
the children who go without when money is spent on the drug.
the drop out of youths from activities, getting out of bed, lack of motivation, loss of education, jobs.
the road traffic accidents while stoned.
the mental ill health depression and psychosis.
the rise in state benefits
the rise on nhs resources for associated treatments
i could go on but i wont.
just because there are legal drugs that are causing the same crap as above does not mean we should add to the the list.
xx fem xx
just because alcohol is not illegal in certain circumstances does not mean that we should legalise all other narcotics.
canibis has sometimes been considered to be the harmless drug of choice.
the effects of this drug however are far reaching and damaging to our society.
the money to feed the addiction,
the children who go without when money is spent on the drug.
the drop out of youths from activities, getting out of bed, lack of motivation, loss of education, jobs.
the road traffic accidents while stoned.
the mental ill health depression and psychosis.
the rise in state benefits
the rise on nhs resources for associated treatments
i could go on but i wont.
just because there are legal drugs that are causing the same crap as above does not mean we should add to the the list.
xx fem xx
Quote by Reacher359
turned up and obv had not washed for over at least 2 weeks, or brushed teeth and called me a timewaster when after being in my company for no more than 2 mins i declined " to bend over and let him ram his stinky meat rod in my cunt" lovely language,not.
xx fem xx
:shock:
I know that was my reaction :shock:
that was pretty much what my face looked like.Bioke, oh that made me laugh.( cant multi quote) i really feel for you but makes me somehow happy that im not the only one who has bad meets.
i HATE it when i chat/meet and get called princess ewghh
xx fem xx
ive had to many bad meets to recall them all, few spring to mind...
guy turned up at least 10 years older, 5 inches shorter and wearing crocs.
turn up with no money expecting me to pay for everything.
growled in a leary kinda way then licked my face.
turned up and obv had not washed for over at least 2 weeks, or brushed teeth and called me a timewaster when after being in my company for nomore than 2 mins i declined " to bend over and let him ram his stinky meat rod in my cunt" lovely language,not.
oh i cant tell about them all, but might give an insight why i decided to stop swing meets.
xx fem xx
guy turned up at least 10 years older, 5 inches shorter and wearing crocs.
turn up with no money expecting me to pay for everything.
growled in a leary kinda way then licked my face.
turned up and obv had not washed for over at least 2 weeks, or brushed teeth and called me a timewaster when after being in my company for nomore than 2 mins i declined " to bend over and let him ram his stinky meat rod in my cunt" lovely language,not.
oh i cant tell about them all, but might give an insight why i decided to stop swing meets.
xx fem xx
im glad i dont have to make desisions like this.
i expect the people who do are glad there are strict rules and guidelines that thay have to follow.
on one hand i feel for the guy who was declined, he didnt have the chance to prove he could change,
or did he, im sure he was told long before 6 months of his death that he shouldnt keepdrinking at the levels he was?
whos fault is it that he was drining? he started at 13, was his mother providing the drink? there should be tough laws on selling or buying and supplying alcohol to under 18's.
now i understand that there is the concern he may have been given the transplant and then carried on drinking, but he could just as easy decided to take up riding a powerfull moterbike and be reckless, and die from an accident.
do we have the right to give a gift then dictate someones life ?
i know transplants involve a precious gift, and this situation could be considered a waste of that when someone else could benefit.
its just really sad that this young man had to die.
xx fem xx
i expect the people who do are glad there are strict rules and guidelines that thay have to follow.
on one hand i feel for the guy who was declined, he didnt have the chance to prove he could change,
or did he, im sure he was told long before 6 months of his death that he shouldnt keepdrinking at the levels he was?
whos fault is it that he was drining? he started at 13, was his mother providing the drink? there should be tough laws on selling or buying and supplying alcohol to under 18's.
now i understand that there is the concern he may have been given the transplant and then carried on drinking, but he could just as easy decided to take up riding a powerfull moterbike and be reckless, and die from an accident.
do we have the right to give a gift then dictate someones life ?
i know transplants involve a precious gift, and this situation could be considered a waste of that when someone else could benefit.
its just really sad that this young man had to die.
xx fem xx
my number isnt on there,i never put it on there, and if i did i dont see why having it in a friends phonebook is a problem, as it would be in my profile info anyway?? if its not there it isnt in this bit??
in edit, also checked and out of 20 or so friends only 10 of them are in the phone book that i see as only 10 of them ever put their number on their profile
xx fem xx
in edit, also checked and out of 20 or so friends only 10 of them are in the phone book that i see as only 10 of them ever put their number on their profile
xx fem xx
hi,
i dont know if there is a answer to my question, ive tried to find one.
years ago ( 1985ish) a tv programe called no limits filmed a episode in penzance cornwall.
i just wondered if any one knew if there was a place on the internet or a company that can trace the episode and put it onto a dvd?
xx fem xx
i dont know if there is a answer to my question, ive tried to find one.
years ago ( 1985ish) a tv programe called no limits filmed a episode in penzance cornwall.
i just wondered if any one knew if there was a place on the internet or a company that can trace the episode and put it onto a dvd?
xx fem xx
Quote by fun_nd_frolics
thats cause u hav to be invited fem ;) lol
cheers for all the input folks
oh,its just that you asked for opinion on ad and/or photos but i couldnt see photos to make a coment.
just taken another look at your ad, can now see photos, but one thing if you dont write very much it wont look like anyoe has looked at your ad as they dont have to as its all visable on the front screen.
not that that makes any difference( how many viewed) as its replys that count.
again like i said it dont say very much. and with hundrends of ads i would need to now more as with so many out there i dont have time for email tennis with 100's just to get the basics, then be told im a time waster cause now your answered what i had to ask as it wasnt available , im not interested.
it all ( what i just wrote) makes sense to me
lol
xx fem xx
