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fem_4_taboo
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 56
Straight Male, 63
0 miles · Newquay

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Quote by corrie2008
I feel having read this thread that I never want to post in this forum again. This was a tribute thread to MJ and its become a farce. If someone wanted another type of thread about their thoughts on MJ then they should have started one themselves. How sad.

i agree,
the reaosn the other thread got locked was because it was, and i use the word lightly a joke thread.
dark humor ok, but ffs it was jokes about pedophillia.
i dont get why people cant walk on by if they dont like a thread.
yes you are all entitled to your opinions but fook off and take it into a thread of your own.
ok you didnt like the man,but your not showing him disrespect but being so disrespectfull of the members here who did and want say something?
fem
can we show some respect here please.
keep the jokes out of a thread started to show respects.
his music was far reaching and he was a star.
some people do feel a loss here and when music plays an important part in many peoples lives and a main contributor to recalling those memorys of our childhoods and lives is the music of this man then show some respect and keep your poison out of this thread.
your entitled toyour opinion, but if you have nothing to say in the vain of respect in this thread please take it else where.
i for one and very shocked and sadened at the sudden and early loss of michael.
xx fem xx
i really am shocked.
all said and done he was massive, influenced so much music.
omg
Quote by Cubes
always wanted to have sex in a really heavy rain storm.

Get round here and I'll wheel out the pressure washer! :happy:
Boy's toys! ;-)
pmsl, could have used one of those for half of the meets ive had off here rolleyes stinky men ewghhhh
xx fem xx
Quote by Steve

always wanted to have sex in a really heavy rain storm.
xx fem xx

Get ya skates on and you could be here before it arrives ;-)
knowing my luck the big bang will happen before i get there and youll just be laying in a wet puddle. rolleyes
xx fem xx
Quote by Steve
According to the BBC weather on tele earlier the whole of the south are in for it tonight...

:shock: confused dunno pray tell who is this man who is going to sort us all out in the south?? i dont even have a ad up at the moment??
but im up for being in for it :twisted:
oh you didnt mean that??? bolt
xx fem xx
oh gutted..
i love the atmosphere of a thunder storm, havent seen a good one in years.
i love that smell of rain the errie darkness.
i remember when the eclipse happened it was like watching a speeded up film clip of dawn.
the darkness, the birds going quiet then crazy and the light returning.
always wanted to have sex in a really heavy rain storm. being single is a bummer at times.
xx fem xx
:shock: :cry: thats such sad news.
i remember the farrah hair cut,my sister had one,( i had a perdi)
this is sad news,she was soooo beautiful and a true charlie angel.
rip xxxx
fem xx
i know this will sound daft but at least ive lost my dad as hes dead, where as sadely you have to morn the loss of a dad who isnt there cause hes a **** ( inset chosen word)
all i can say is its never too late.
my dad wanst around when i was a kid, but made up for that in his last 5 years.
my kids have what i refer to as sperm doners, cant be considered a dad waste of space.
xxx fem xx
are you watching this weks with the really ugly upside down weird talking old tanorxic woman on it??
weird
xx fem xx
years ago when the site first started out profiles were very very limited on what info they gave or could be inputted.
i see my profile as just a umm profile,sorry thats flippant,but its a description of who i am. female,age,location. it is not a AD.
if someone were to message me in a friendly manner as they had come across my profile i would reply,if they are blatent looking for sex and think they are replying to a ad i tend to be more inclined to ignore them.
if im activly seeking sex i place an ad,or i browse the ads, not the profiles.
hope i make some sense
xx fem xx
lol i know,i sometimes see it on some catch up at like 2am when i cant sleep.
my idea of hell cooking for a bunch of people i dont like and and then having to spend a further 4 nights in their company.
some very odd people on there.
xx fem xx
oh and while im here, coach trip,whats that all about
lol
i like the name dave actually.
or c4 - c for cat.
any one who now reads this will reveal my identity..
we got 2 kittens,( so much more than 1) and were told its a boy and a girl.
the girl was named mary, she looked likeone and sweet, the other was a stripped grey, we went theough tigger, strippy blurghhh boring. so decided on joseph.
so we have mary and joseph, lol its great watching the receptionist at the vets trying not to laugh incase she offends, joke was on us when the vets tells us they are both girls,but the names have stayed lol.
xx fem xx
cherry cola
or
vodka lime and lemonade or soda
or
cold cold cider on a summer day
or gallio grenache mmmm
xx fem xx
omg theres a really ugly woman on come dine with me.
someone put her mouth on upside down ewghhh
seriousely go take a look NOW
thought id add my own bollox
oh and flower glad ya not really leaving,
XXX fem
kiss
welcome back you,hope life has treated you well while you have been away.
umm been here almost 6 years, not sure the longest ive been away?
probally for like a week whenive gone away from home, but now days i can log in on mobile,no escaping lol
good to see you back xx
xxx fem xxx
spent yesterday with my daughters and grandaughter.
they bought me a pressie for being the best mum-dad in the world lol
couldnt spend it with my dad, miss him so much and today is the anniversary of his passing.
i hope all the dads out there had a lovely day.
xx fem xx
no where near glasgow, im in cornwall, but everyone i know has been saying in last 2 days that where they once had great signal on vodafone it just drops right out at times now.
xx fem xx
big and broad subject,
yes there are women, and men who go on cam and lord it up, but if thats their thing so what?
i used to go on cam in my local romm, it wasnt for compliments, or for people to even comment, it was more of a case of people just seeing me as if we were sat in a cafe chatting, they could see who i was.
i didnt play sexually and would tend to turn the cam off at pub kicking out time as all the cam crawlers would be out in force.
i took all compliments as hot air, id seen the same guys same bullshit to any one and everyone and admit they dont mean it.
if i was sat in a cafe chatting to a friend and a guy walked in, just because he can see me dont mean i have to respond to him. same in chat room, especially if i happen to be set as busy on my status.
if i did decide to play then as someones said why would i wanna stop every few secs to say ty or hi etc? ffs would you walk into a swinging club, go into a room where play is on and expect the player to stop and have a chat with you?
same token, if i view a cam just to see who it is this does not give you the right to whisper me uninvited.
if they dont talk to you i think you just have to accept that.
remember there are plenty of people in the room who are not invisable just because they are not on cam.
xxx fem xx
Quote by meat2pleaseu
Another one who's been here for rather a long time wave
I think for a long time, post take over, it was definitley worse. There were too many changes and too much upset and arguing, no cohesion in the site and it lost any sort of community feel to it. I think the new (well, not so new now owners) made some monumental fuck ups and we all had some full on diva-ish rants about it. Luckily thats calmed down, apart from the odd ripple wink .
I still can't say it's better and i don't think i ever will be able to. I miss chatting to Postie, Happycats, Dino & H'red, cybershine, Polo, Kiss, Sheddy and lots of others- i even remember some whingy drama queen called Bloke who used to be entertaining at times, between the blatant flirting.
so although there's some really great regulars in here to replace those no longer here, and i'm enjoying it a lot more now than i have for a long time, it just feels like something is missing.

kiss what he said.
regarding the munches, the ones i attended were fantasitc.
Socials are good. but this might sound daft but the munches were like 4-5 a year, if that, and so everyone would make the effort to travel and attend.
now the socials are more frequent and more local ( well not in cornwall) people dont travel longer to cost and the excitement has kinda gone a bit.
ok that all makes sense in my head.
i feel the site changing to a sex site ruined things, the aresholes who infiltrated the site and chat rooms may have now fooked off to sell themselves else where, but they reacked havoc and got mambers banned and its not yet bounced back. well not locally anyway.
xx fem xx
as a single female,i have no partner, but i do enjoy 3 sums.
its hard enough to find one decent single guy on here let alone 2 who will play as a 3 sum.
xx fem xx
hi,
i understand what you mean in both aspects.
the site was prety much forum and ads, no web cams etc so i guess the ads were more umm not serious but you now what i mean lol.
as for the socials and munches,well there seems to be alot less munches these days than difference being munches would be in a private venue and only members on this site would be allowed in.
i know some people might say if someone you know is there then their there for the same reason so dont worry.
while im not trying to make you worry i understand your concerns.
not everyone is bothered about other people knowing nor would it impinge on their work reputation.
the plus side is it is just a social, there should not be any acts that could be considered indecent.
munches ive attended have been great, a really fun and relaxed enviroment in company with similer outlooks.
it allows others to see you as a person,not just an ad. that might not always be a good thing though rolleyes lol
i hope you have fun and expand your circle of friends
xxx fem xx
just been reading through the forums,
i noticed some threads that are in the cafe that maybe could be considered debates, so should they be in the other section?
i dont like the split, never did, i think any thing in the cafe could move into debate, after all any conversation that has differing opinions can be considered a debate.
do people think the split is working?
regarding the introductions section, why cant we just have a refreshed new user thread in the cafe? i use dto look at the new user threads before, but i dont go into that section now, and it seems the threads die very quick, id like to see it back in the cafe where there is a natural merge in.
i may be on my own in this,but a few months in i just wondered what other people were thinking.
in edit... i feel the split has for what ever reason made the forums dry up. the cafe is just full of happy birthday threads these days, not that i dont like birthday threads, but thats all it sems to be lately, or should we split that and have a seperate birthday aniversary section???lol
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i work fulltime,im a single mum.
i ensure my children have quality time with me,i cook from scratch every day, i do everything at home/ around the home and have raised balanced happy high achievers.
i wont apologise for being a hard worker,im not rich,far from it,ive never taken a penny from a been independent since i was 15.
If a woman happens to have a good job that happens to pay good money why should she give that up if she has a child? just because she drives a 08 reg car, this does not mean if she got a older car she could walk away from her job ,and income, and future prospects to go on benefit maybe lose her home just so she can stay at home with her child.
the worset ones are those who stay at home to raise their children, claim benefit to do so but actually then ignore those children.
i feel being a good parent is the important thing. working or not.
no ones beter than anyone else we all have our own reasons for what we do.
if you a good parent thats all that matters.
xx fem xx
i work with people on benefit.
in cornwall its no longer going to be a choice if they want it paid to the landlord, it wont be a option.
now every person i have worked with in 7 years,and that over 800 have all said they do not want to recieve their HB direct.
in some situations the HB could be more than their benefit and they may well be tempted to dip into the HB payment.
christmas, birthdays, clothing, peer pressures, twatters of partners, risk of mucking up and bank charges eating into it, those are just some of the reasons the claiments have given.
if they get evicted due to non payment of rent the council will not do anything to help, even if they have children.
not all claiments feel its "their" money and think if the tax payers are paying then it should go direct to whats its ment for.
its a bollocks idea from the government nanny state who make up these rules for the people without consulting the people.
xx fem xx
dunno whos viewed my profile, i dont have extras.
why would you want to bann someone from viewing unless they were stalking you and being abusive, but that would be a seperate issue that admin would tackle.
would be a idea have some way of knowing whos a extras member when seeing a profile in the forum.
i dont tend to view the extras profiles when in chat, reason being it dont mean anything other than me finding out age location etc, if extras see ive viewed they might think imintrested when i may well not be.
and again i have bad memory so may view profiles more than once to jog my memory who they are in chat.
xx fem xx