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fembernie
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 65
Bisexual Male, 64

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Hi all - some of you will know that I trotted off to Peru recently. Thanks to everyone who sent me good luck wishes before I went - sorry for not replying but I was mega busy just before going away.
I went with a group of around 55 people and we were all raising money for a cancer charity, by trekking the Inca Trail to Macchu Picchu. I got home late on Sunday (my birthday).
I can report back that I got to Macchu Picchu safe and well - although it was very hard work at times. The views on the trek were absolutely fantastic, and the group spirit kept us all going - especially when some people were finding it tough for one reason or another. We had very early starts at am - followed by very long days trekking.
Everyone had their own personal reason for doing the trip and in raising the money for the charity - and as I am sure you can imagine, it was very emotional at times especially once we eventually arrived at Macchu Picchu which is just amazing.
The peruvians are fantastic people - and the porters and guides we had with us on the trip were absolutely brilliant. They brought us tea or hot chocolate to our tents at to wake us up, and provided fantastic 3 course lunches and dinners while we are in the middle of mountains!!! It was unbelievable. The porters have fantasic stamina as they carry all this stuff on the trek on their backs - including the calor gas tanks for the cooking along with all our camping gear, food, portaloos etc etc. They run a lot of the trek with the huge packs on their backs to get to camp and set it all up for us. They still manage to smile and say Hola as they go past us, even though the sweat was pouring off them (it was over 85 degrees on the trip!)
We were told that being a porter is a good job as they get paid around 12 dollars a day! Some of the porters have to walk for 2 days from their villages to get to their starting point for the trek - they obviously then have to walk for 2 days to get home once they are finished. The youngest porter on our trip was 15 years old. They dont even wear walking boots - but sandals or plimsolls. I know people on the trip were saying that they are used to it, but it made me feel very humble at times.
Thanks to Corrie for the Paddington Bear which she gave me the day before I went away. He has also seeen some sights on the way :shock: and has a few badges from Peru on his hat now biggrin
So far, the group I trekked with has raised over £180,000 for the charity and we still have some money to pay in!!! I would like to say once again, a huge huge thanks to those of you who sponsored me - and a huge thanks to Bassman - for putting up with all the stresses and worries I had before I went away xxx
Hi Rob and Etfc - We are not sure if we can make this yet as we may be away that weekend. We may have to let you know closer to the time if thats OK - if we can rearrange our weekend away. We would like to make it though seeing as it's your first event, so will try as hard as we can to be there. If not - then good luck and I am sure you will have a good night out biggrin
Well we have just got home as we went to Corrie's today.
Sarah and Mal - thanks for a great night out. My ears are still ringing from the music - maybe next time I wont stand right next to a huge speaker confused
Myself and Bassman are meeting a male friend of ours on the evening of Weds 12 April in central London. We wondered if there was a couple or female who wanted to join us for a drink biggrin
If you do, send me a PM and I will be in touch with more information.
NO SINGLE GUYS- thank you
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Dare i ask ??
Has he come up for air yet winchwench ??
Be nice to meet yo at the nxt 'do'

Thanks-would be lovely to meet you all!
Nope, he's still not been seen! I have info that he gave some peeps a lift home........then the trail goes cold!
Thinking of reporting him "missing presumed tied to a bed and used as a sex slave" :grin:
Just hope that whoever it is hasn't worn him out completely :twisted:
Right, off to the old bill to file a missing "Fluck Buddy" Report. Do you think they have a form for that dunno
He made a post on the site somewhere yesterday - so I am sure he's just fine wink
Oh What a Night !!!
Thanks for all the thanks biggrin
I wanna say thank you for all turning up plus extra thanks to those who helped out on the door and with the raffle etc. I was totally knackered today but it was definately worth it lol
I will arrange something for later in the year - around Oct/November time maybe. Shall we have another theme confused: If so what shall we have
:idea:
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Hmmmmmmm, seeing as it was Fembernies social, shes been very quiet today .....................

I am always quiet lol
Quote by SurreyNewbie
know travel cards bought today cover the night busses in the early hours tomorrow
if thats any help

Seeing as my last train departs Waterloo at 00:09, I'd have hoped it was the case for rail too! ;)
At least it forces me to have a more sensible night's sleep tonight!
I am sure it will be valid but maybe ask when you buy your ticket
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yawn
Just woke up.
Had a good evening last night at Ab Fab (the jacuzzi is wonderful - could stay there all night!) - although it meant I got home around 3:30am and to bed by 5am. As it was my first party, I never expected to stay that long! ;)
!

I wanna know what you were doing from till 5am biggrin
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I think I'm in London this afternoon and this evening as well - what a coincidence lol

Really :lol: If I bump into you I will buy you a drink wink
I need to check my diary - but I am sure I am already doing something in London tonight rolleyes
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
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and do we think he'll let you have a go in his new car ??
:lol2:
bolt

evil :evil: :evil: :evil: (am gonna buy my own - so there :P) And this thread is about a social night out - not OUR new car rotflmao
Am off now to do the ironing :violin:
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And I'm going back up in a minute for a "snuggle"

I don't have anyone to snuggle with sad Bassman has gone to pick up OUR new car and I am ironing bedding for guests we have staying tonight. (well I will be when I get off here..lol..)
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Why ? Are they closing the bar early ??????????????????

YES evil at 1am lol
Dambuster - have you been asleep?? Don't be falling asleep at the social will you wink
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9/9:30 (pre-wobble time)
Has anyone mentioned any pre-munch drinks yet ? I can't find anything. I don't know which Hotel chain we're staying in ( I'm a bloke) but I know we're within easy wobble distance of the venue, so we'll probably call in to the venue for one or two when we get down to that London.
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is that AM or PM rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Pre munch drinks were mentioned in the PM which HLB should have
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OK you lot - we have a real mix of people coming along on Saturday biggrin Some "oldies" and some "newies" too. While I am meeting and greeting, I may direct some new people in the direction of some of you old people (if you know what I mean wink ) so they can be introduced to a few others etc. Just dont go scaring em off rolleyes

BOO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:shock:
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OK you lot - we have a real mix of people coming along on Saturday biggrin Some "oldies" and some "newies" too. While I am meeting and greeting, I may direct some new people in the direction of some of you old people (if you know what I mean wink ) so they can be introduced to a few others etc. Just dont go scaring em off rolleyes

I guess i'm still an "newbie" but i'm also an "oldie" confused So does that mean i have to introduce me to myelf lol
:roll: I could introduce you to you if that would be better:lol:
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biggrin as a newie to this munch /social chat can someone explain how a banned member can stop a munch, if they are banned from the site so cant get imfo on munch in first place,
how does someone get banned in the first place
told you i was new :!:

confusedWhat you on about :?:
OK you lot - we have a real mix of people coming along on Saturday biggrin Some "oldies" and some "newies" too. While I am meeting and greeting, I may direct some new people in the direction of some of you old people (if you know what I mean wink ) so they can be introduced to a few others etc. Just dont go scaring em offrolleyes
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WHOOWHOOOHOOOO!!!!
so looking fwd to this... but i'll probably end up being very shy n drunk in a corner somewhere :crazy:
as Robert1961 says 2 more sleeps to go :eeek:

redpantherman - we are all shy rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: BUT never get drunk :shock: ...lol......NAH - no worries you will be fine biggrin
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WE would LOVE to come -Are we too late.
We would be lots of fun-honest
xx

nlondoncouple - YES you are very late evil - but are on the list anyway lol You have a PM waiting for you wink
Quote by Robert1961
Cheers Bernie :

as you are asking I will have a Vodka and Slimline Tonic with ice and a slice - cheers to you Robert1961 ..lol....
OK PM's done now (about hour and half!!) If you dont have a PM about Satruday night venue but think you should have had one, then get in touch with me.
I have a couple of people on the list who I can't find redface - but will see if someone can find them for me
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OK - am just about to start sending out PMs biggrin Will be back later when they are all done
:happy: :happy:
Jest - Where have you been?? Nice you see you back here though - hope you had a nice dinner in York and Huddersfield biggrin
Are you staying around on the site confused:
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Am I allowed to get excited yet? lol lol

Yeah course ya can biggrin Are you gonna start the How Many Sleeps thingy confused:
:happy: :happy:
Only 4 sleeps to go!!!!! Wooo
Keeps checking his PMs for the details... (Sorry, I'm just excited!)
Is that it???? What about all the Emoticons you could have used!! (Can't seem to get mine to work just now - except the ones on this page evil )