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Quote by Libra-Love
Not passing moral judgement. Stating my opinion! Don't twist my words to suit your clever response. That's how 'superior' intellects (Hello Mr. Blair) tend to move on with a discussion.
I may have only joined this FORUM today, but I wasn't born yesterday.
I've stated my opinion. Some agree, others don't. Each to their own.
First and foremost, I don't lie to me. I don't intentionally, or knowingly, hurt others. I speak to people in the same tone they use with me.
You might get your opinion across a bit more clearly if you leave your aggression at the door. Just a thought.
Well here i go again, third time in less than a week and i agree with him!! Ice Pie if i didnt know you better i would think i was falling in love!!xx
Perhaps those that have failled relationshipos and baggage should butt out of other peoples relationships and get on with their own lives?
My PM Box remains, as ever open, come on i could do with a laugh today!!
To quote lil gem....
I looked in my bothered bag, and I'm not :P
Have those who (think they) live in glass houses always lived in glass houses???
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Quote by curious_catz
i hope im not one of thse people who start shit threads if so here i appologise
Must say that there have been times when we've been tempted to start a thread and not done it in fear of being bombarded with "the search button is your friend". On occasion we've also been retiscent to post a reply due to concerns about being possibly "controversial".
Maybe it's time to stop hiding and just post the damn replies.... if that's ok with everyone else of course?
:lol: :lol:Yes please lets have some life back on here!!
First of all Mal its great to see you back and I hope your feeling better!!
Now in reply to your questions , Don’t you think people have always had a go at the mods, perhaps its just that now there are more people to have a go at such a small band of people? That said the examples you give do seem a bit extreme, but presumably that’s why you choose them? People being people you are always going to find that a certain small proportion are going to be a pain in the ass, that’s life unfortunately!!
Myself I would prefer that the one liners are left on – then I know who not to talk to!!
I would prefer that there were less locked threads but that more specific guidelines were given about post banning was only done as a last resort a mod had sent at least a couple of pms to an offender pointing out the error of their ways and that they may get banned (do you do this already, I don’t know?) I would prefer this to be a private matter between the person about to be banned and the mod not cheap sarcasm by the mods on a thread. Infact , and this isn’t directed at any mod in particular, I think cheap sarcasm by a mod is unprofessional and only serves to demean the mods authority in the eyes of everyone else. A mods behaviour should be above reproach ,this in itself would in my opinion,n help to keep the standards on the Café high. As Blue said ages ago",....you get what you give on here."http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/40348.html#40348
Most of all I would like to see mods communicate more so if they lock a thread, don’t just lock it but tell us why, it may be obvious
To you but that dosnt mean it is to us!!
Communications has to be the key to all understanding (who said that , Im sure it was someone famous?)
Finally I wouold like to see mods treating us all the same. I feel that particulary since munches were introduced there has been a lot of favouritism, with those that have met (i said met , not shagged ) getting away with far more than others, again all mods should be abouve reproach if you want our respect.
Well there it is , you did ask, and once again good to see you back!!
Now in reply to your questions , Don’t you think people have always had a go at the mods, perhaps its just that now there are more people to have a go at such a small band of people? That said the examples you give do seem a bit extreme, but presumably that’s why you choose them? People being people you are always going to find that a certain small proportion are going to be a pain in the ass, that’s life unfortunately!!
Myself I would prefer that the one liners are left on – then I know who not to talk to!!
I would prefer that there were less locked threads but that more specific guidelines were given about post banning was only done as a last resort a mod had sent at least a couple of pms to an offender pointing out the error of their ways and that they may get banned (do you do this already, I don’t know?) I would prefer this to be a private matter between the person about to be banned and the mod not cheap sarcasm by the mods on a thread. Infact , and this isn’t directed at any mod in particular, I think cheap sarcasm by a mod is unprofessional and only serves to demean the mods authority in the eyes of everyone else. A mods behaviour should be above reproach ,this in itself would in my opinion,n help to keep the standards on the Café high. As Blue said ages ago",....you get what you give on here."http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/40348.html#40348
Most of all I would like to see mods communicate more so if they lock a thread, don’t just lock it but tell us why, it may be obvious
To you but that dosnt mean it is to us!!
Communications has to be the key to all understanding (who said that , Im sure it was someone famous?)
Finally I wouold like to see mods treating us all the same. I feel that particulary since munches were introduced there has been a lot of favouritism, with those that have met (i said met , not shagged ) getting away with far more than others, again all mods should be abouve reproach if you want our respect.
Well there it is , you did ask, and once again good to see you back!!
Quote by BrightonGeezer
I'm married, never even attempted to deny it. But my other half knows I'm here that is for sure. In fact she took the pic of me bum I used to use as my avatar. she went off sex after our fifth child, and to think that I went to the discomfort of a versactomy! :shock:
I think trying to fuck about behind your partners back is a risky business. It could leave you open to blackmail and alsorts. And if one was too discrete, then one could disapear! Its too risky!
looking at your avatar, i dont think you could disapear.(lol dont take offence i dodnt mean it nastily)
I suppose in some instances, there may be the risk of blackmail etc but isnt that up to the individuals involved and no one else?
Yeah I know I'm a big old beast lol! And I am not offended.
The point I was trying to make was about secrets. If you have no secrets then you cannot be blackmailed. Maybe I'm reading too many thrillers?
Tbh i rather think you are reading too many thrillers though of course this would depend upon your job and position in society. But im glad to say most people nowadasy dont really car if your screwing around!!
Quote by BrightonGeezer
I'm married, never even attempted to deny it. But my other half knows I'm here that is for sure. In fact she took the pic of me bum I used to use as my avatar. she went off sex after our fifth child, and to think that I went to the discomfort of a versactomy! :shock:
I think trying to fuck about behind your partners back is a risky business. It could leave you open to blackmail and alsorts. And if one was too discrete, then one could disapear! Its too risky!
looking at your avatar, i dont think you could disapear.(lol dont take offence i dodnt mean it nastily)
I suppose in some instances, there may be the risk of blackmail etc but isnt that up to the individuals involved and no one else?
Quote by Ice Pie
Not passing moral judgement. Stating my opinion! Don't twist my words to suit your clever response. That's how 'superior' intellects (Hello Mr. Blair) tend to move on with a discussion.
I may have only joined this FORUM today, but I wasn't born yesterday.
I've stated my opinion. Some agree, others don't. Each to their own.
First and foremost, I don't lie to me. I don't intentionally, or knowingly, hurt others. I speak to people in the same tone they use with me.
You might get your opinion across a bit more clearly if you leave your aggression at the door. Just a thought.
Well here i go again, third time in less than a week and i agree with him!! Ice Pie if i didnt know you better i would think i was falling in love!!xx
Perhaps those that have failled relationshipos and baggage should butt out of other peoples relationships and get on with their own lives?
My PM Box remains, as ever open, come on i could do with a laugh today!!
Quote by fabio grooverider
a "we hate thread......."
it would be very interesting...... i could also see it starting WW3.........:) :) :) :)
sean xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
So what about a SFZ - Student Free Zone, after all it would be in their best interests, they might get some work done!!!
don't be dissing the students now... i remember when i was a student.... 4 yrs of proping up the student union bar on ridiculously cheap beer....... ahhhhh them were the days.... :) :) :) :)
So tell me honestly, and look me in the eyes well you do so, arnt they getting on your nerves?
)Quote by da69ve
cant believe how much of a tosser this guy is
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
the site is full of them 2nite!!!
Thats a bit harsh....or am i missing something here?
Yes, your male and for that reason are missing the continual onslaught of , "give us a shag" pms, no wonder Blue has gone back to her old avatar!!! It never used to be like this, in the good old days!!!
Yes.....I'm male,please forgive me......but don't tar us all with the same brush......
I dont, but sick and tired of these studenty types who obviously not doing much revision as they are on here 24 hours a day!!!
Well in the old days ...we would lay into these types and send them on there way....but the bleeding hearts put a stop to that!
Not just theat there are so many of them, they are like measles!!!
Quote by da69ve
cant believe how much of a tosser this guy is
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
the site is full of them 2nite!!!
Thats a bit harsh....or am i missing something here?
Yes, your male and for that reason are missing the continual onslaught of , "give us a shag" pms, no wonder Blue has gone back to her old avatar!!! It never used to be like this, in the good old days!!!
Yes.....I'm male,please forgive me......but don't tar us all with the same brush......
I dont, but sick and tired of these studenty types who obviously not doing much revision as they are on here 24 hours a day!!!
Why is it that the people thzat tell us, on so many issues that we not judge, must not make stereotypical judgements, blah blah balh, appear to be the very ones who do so when it comes to marriage?
Marriages come in all different varriations, particualrly nowadays, so why dont we let people work out their own rules that suite them and not others? Surrely part of being single is being open minded and not pre judging everyone?
The bottom (no pun) is, monogomy is not a natural state. Our society does not offer a state recognised and legitimised alternative to marrige, hence those that are not suited to it are pressurised into a condition that does not suit them, hence they are often forced to "cheat"
But if we are to make sweeping (elongated) judgements about marriages where one partner is "cheating" let us remember that as in other areas of like, fault can rarely be whattributed to one party, most times the "victim " has played some part in their problems.
And before anyone tells me i dont know what im talking about as ive never been cheated on, i have, though i was only 16 at the time and i learnt from the experience
Marriages come in all different varriations, particualrly nowadays, so why dont we let people work out their own rules that suite them and not others? Surrely part of being single is being open minded and not pre judging everyone?
The bottom (no pun) is, monogomy is not a natural state. Our society does not offer a state recognised and legitimised alternative to marrige, hence those that are not suited to it are pressurised into a condition that does not suit them, hence they are often forced to "cheat"
But if we are to make sweeping (elongated) judgements about marriages where one partner is "cheating" let us remember that as in other areas of like, fault can rarely be whattributed to one party, most times the "victim " has played some part in their problems.
And before anyone tells me i dont know what im talking about as ive never been cheated on, i have, though i was only 16 at the time and i learnt from the experience
Quote by da69ve
cant believe how much of a tosser this guy is
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
the site is full of them 2nite!!!
Thats a bit harsh....or am i missing something here?
Yes, your male and for that reason are missing the continual onslaught of , "give us a shag" pms, no wonder Blue has gone back to her old avatar!!! It never used to be like this, in the good old days!!!
Hey this is just like a real election, candidates wont answer any questions !!!
I will try again in very slow and simple language (so they may understand)
Which ..........................................of..................................................you............................................................lot
.......................................have ..................................................a yellow.................................................hard.....................................................................hat?
I will try again in very slow and simple language (so they may understand)
Which ..........................................of..................................................you............................................................lot
.......................................have ..................................................a yellow.................................................hard.....................................................................hat?
Hire a nuns costume , a serious one not one with the back missing!!!
Sit down and say , "well i listened to what you said before and ive taken advice, i will never have sex with anyone ever again (keep your fac straight) Now let me talk to you about God..........................." Hopefully this will so shock her that she will be begging you to swiing!!!
On amore serious note , good luck!!
Sit down and say , "well i listened to what you said before and ive taken advice, i will never have sex with anyone ever again (keep your fac straight) Now let me talk to you about God..........................." Hopefully this will so shock her that she will be begging you to swiing!!!
On amore serious note , good luck!!
Quote by manofmuchfun
So come on ...own up which member here has an aversion to closing their curtains ?
Its gotta be one of you lot !...........I dont mind the group sex,.....but really, not closing the curtains is a crime !
Well actually i hate having the curtains closed!!! Not closed any curtains since we moved in here, except the bedroom ones and that is just to keep out the daylight!!!
Mind younot had any group sex parties neither
Quote by Dave__Notts
Still dont know whos got the yellow hard hat
OK...OK....OK......I'll admit it.......I promise I'll see the doctor tommorrow :shock: :shock: :shock:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: 
:D :D :D :D :D Dave_Notts
But your not on the list of electees :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :?
Quote by fabio grooverider
..... karlos/lustylad........ ban or stay of execution???? sean xxxxx
Public execution at dawn please!
Can we make it a mass executions there are so many deserving cases tonight!! I can supply names!!! :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
oh i could name a few as well.... lets just out people we don't like....
i am equal ops... i just hate everyone tonight!!!!!!!
sean xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Oh i know that feeling!!Shall we start a we hate thread?
