Hi Tune essence,
I doubt we could ever get addicted to this. Mind you is it like the "how do I know if Im going mad" thing? How do we measure it? Is it when we start visiting the site MORE than the current once an hour every day ?(with a night shift rota)
Or is it indeed when we find ourselves typing whilst eating (quote from someone else a few weeks ago,sorry cant remember who but it tickled us)
Neil,Alex,Omar,Jdms and Venus and Mars, hiya to you all and thank you for the
This munch thing has gone from a tentative , nervey pipedream to a full blown "wow, cant wait!!!"
Hope we can enjoy it without excessive drink though ...it is a novel idea.
We keep wondering how to best ensure the evening goes well rather than just pass us by....then we think about the prospect of Wbb being set on us.....sure would be nice to accomplish both.
Thank you Keith and you walked in alone..well done!
Hi JudyTV, there are only 2 seats so you can have mine, I dont mind standing. Next time we`ll get a bigger table...or use laps as seats..whatevers the most fun! x
Hiya peps,
thank you for making us feel welcome, we really do appreciate it x
We`ve put our names down for the Nottingham Munch and have just managed to scrape on to the list, so thank you.
Its only right that we come to the nub and say hi to you on here. We`ve often read that the way to treat the cafe if you are new to it is similar to the way you would behave if you walked into a pub for the first time, which is exactly what we have done so far.
Unfortuneately that means we have snuck in through the side door, bought our drinks and anxiously nipped across to the table in the corner which only seats two and We have then people watched and conferred rather than conversed openly as people do or should. We really dont mean to , its because we are nervous, shy and unsure...though people in the pub would probably think we are ignorant, which we are so so not.
Anyway, THIS time we have grabbed the mic from behind the bar and announced our arrival!!! so Hi...and hope its as nice here as it appears.
x
We have never gone for the full swap thing, nor the snogging bit which leaves us underqualified to comment on the jealousy aspect really. One thing is for sure, we do feel that full on snogging (m/f)crosses a boundary which creates a whole new ball (!) game to us. We see another couple as a play thing, a toy if thats not too disrespectful(its not meant to be) and do not see or feel any need to raise the profile any more than that. I guess that there will be one or two about to point out the parodox of approving oral sex but not full on snoggy type kissing. It is always a contencious issue which has almost certainly been covered previously?
Regarding Dlebertos reply..." I find jealousy a strange beast, after 20 years of being together, we still have pangs of it, but under swinging times , hasnt been a problem"
Weird, that really hit the nail on the head for us. Mid 30`s, together 18 years, both occasionally confess to slight pangs of jealousy which have happened during purely social circumstances.....yet playing with another couple....nothing at all!!! Just pure erotism.
And therell be no hiding in corners at the munch,there is no corners its a perfectly round room :haha: 
but we would like to be considered. If you are not already full that is!
