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30 Oct 2004

Quote by foxy30s_cpl
Sorry to put a dampener on your fun Its took us 6 months to realise that a saucer of tea has more depth than you lot. Very very original stealing Warwicks ex-avatar...not

Im in a bit of a mess here as without our bogus avatar this looks like one eck of an out of character, nasty ,dummy spitting , foot thumping rant. Shouldnt there be a device out there which can detect alcohol on the breath and switch your computer off or somethin similar...or if your machine detects that its taken longer than 5 minutes to finally land the cursor on the moving submit button it should just shut down??
hic redface

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29 Oct 2004

Quote by well_busty_babe
Sorry to put a dampener on your fun Its took us 6 months to realise that a saucer of tea has more depth than you lot. Very very original stealing Warwicks ex-avatar...not

well you have only been here 5 and a half months,.,,,,,,, so you are doing well!!!!
WBB, doh, took us yonks to find these!! Not an exact match though granted

29 Oct 2004

Sorry to put a dampener on your fun sad

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Its took us 6 months to realise that a saucer of tea has more depth than you lot. Very very original stealing Warwicks ex-avatar...not
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29 Oct 2004

Quote by fabio grooverider
i am bloody excited!!!!! i finally get to meet a tons of people i have been wanting to see for a while... and all the people i loved seeing at the NE munch....
i am debating whether to be "shandy man" again................ :) :)
sean xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hey Mr. Fabio, before you leave the shandy you need to try and remember the outcome of the squeeze reformation for us wink

wink

28 Oct 2004

I find it very difficult to contribute in a concise manner to such a subjective issue. Every definite opinion I attempt to make peters out halfway through as I realise I ought to consider the otherside of the arguement, until the end of my sentence ends up contradicting the start. dunno

dunno

"If I had had to do what Lenin did in 1917 I would have said, "Um, I suppose we could possibly perhaps seize control of the workers?...as it were?...sort of on their behalf?...is that a good idea??? On the other hand perhaps we ought to just run that idea past the mensheviks- we dont want to upset anyone. Best stay here then I suppose,yes. ( TM John O`Farrell 1998)
To us swinging does not have a standard set of rigid rules. (We have our own rules however.) It does NOT have to involve having sex with someone, whether single, couple, cheating, approved etc. To us swinging isnt an action as such, it is an ATTITUDE.
For example if we chose to make love whilst lay next to a couple, then that to us constitutes swinging. However I believe that Neilinleeds plying a willing lass from Leeds with booze and his unique brand of humour in the local Zanzibar before bedding her does NOT constitute swinging in the slightest. Inversely Neils invite (sorry to put you in the focus Neil, you just seemed to be the best prop for my ramblings lol

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) to Blue and satins party...and all that went on that night is most DEFINITELY swinging, regardless of his status (i.e couple, single male etc)
I believe single males can swing but do have the HUGE task of having to overcome the reputation of single males who do exist in abundance, who want the perceived quick lay (not in the spirit of swinging)
In further defence to the single male we have found and observed that the majority of timewasters/fakes/dreamers are MALES,whether single, split up or attached. Todays attached male could be tomorrows single male and todays single male could be tomorrows attached male, therefore couples have no right to pedestal themselves for honesty and genuity. Eitherway most of our problems have arisen due to the inability to think above their atanomical equator....for instance, kopping a load of me missuz pics, running away for days/weeks with the idea of a passionate 48 hour free for all ....THEN on the big night deciding to take the next essential step of informing his wife/girlfriend of his ad on one of "them swingerers site" evil

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In summary we apologise for the male bashing (we`re sure there are female timewasters too...Ive certainly heard many unpleasant tales) we have tried to at least bring the stock of the single male UP to the level of the male within the couple.
Hopefully we have attempted to address Heathers question and the hi jacked aspect of the thread.
Foxys x
p.s please keep a look out for thewholesale hashing and re-writing of this post

19 Oct 2004

Quote by MISSCHIEF
Hiya Just gonna move this across to the lets meet up forum
Funny you have posted this, cos was thinking the exact same idea on the way home from work today :shock: Shame it's so far from me - not that I have a clue where Skegness is :lol2:
Will be great fun! :D

My god life is so unfair. I have a flash of humerous ingeniuty circa every 8-12 weeks, but.......as per usual MISSCHIEF swans in and effortlessly puts tears on our cheeks......NO EFFORT whatsoever!!!! evil

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Thank you though xxx

15 Oct 2004

Oh and The Seahorses!!!
(Whooooooooo ?)

15 Oct 2004

squeeze!!!
Apparently VH 1 tried......does anybody know the outcome of that one?

13 Oct 2004

Quote by Vix
It's only sex.

We agree with Vix yet our pre occupation with maintaining our anonimity definitely curbs our enjoyment of the whole thing. So many threads we are unable to respond to for fear of being unmistakebly US in terms of humour, view point or interests/tastes. (how many people listen to Strauss and Nirvana in one sitting,lol, we could never mention that on here for fear of being recognised!)
Weve never gone with the "what are they doing here/there in the first place" arguement as many people we know are out and out gossips. Most people would know about our PRIVATE life without ever having visited a venue or website sad

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We really do envy those who are able to be open on here, though having said that, if you KNOW life will become more complicated by "coming out" then dont...surely.

12 Oct 2004

Just One reservation only. Not sure if the refusal to follow an organised religion makes one an atheist.

12 Oct 2004

Quote by tallnhairy
Now in my time on SH I have seen nothing like that. I have no doubt that the couples I have met love each other deeply, so they explore their sexuality, they still love each other. Can't we as a society get away from this open sexually, closed emotionally approach? Swingers can love as deeply as anyone else, sometimes it may be more complex than our stereotypical MF relationship, but there is still the potential for love there. Just because I have made friends with some of the great people here I still love my wife to the ends of the earth. I know some swingers who have met and ended up together, I bet they love each other. and are open enough to admit them.
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I am not surprised by the reaction of people in normal ( rolleyes

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lol) relationships, purely because until recently I (we) also considered this to be a rather seedy lifestyle. (Difficult to believe now!)
Notwithstanding I have never believed that the more one is willing to open up their attitude to sex the less they love their partner :doh: Sex is far from the be all and end all to a relationship surely???
This style of thought has I guess has helped me greatly to come to turns with the emotional/jealousy which can occur with play. It basically means that I do accept that there may, just MAY be someone out there who is better at some aspects of sex than I am!!! If this happens during the cause of play then I can deal with that.....I suppose mad

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(didnt I see a dummy spitting emoticon recently? Thats the one Im after)
HOWEVER, crucially, if someone turned out to be better COMPANY and spritual soulmate than myself, then that would simply destroy me. Now THAT I would struggle to deal with.
To end, I would say this attitude is probably prevalent here in abundance and to me explains why I, for one, feel that relationships here are stronger than relationships elsewhere. This incidentally goes for anyone here whether they partake or not and also singles out there with the same attitude. Its the attitude that matters. If a couple take a relaxed, non dogmatic view on sexual matters between themselves then Im sure its fair to assume that this attitude carries over to other aspects of relationships which to me is a rational explanation as to why relationships appear, indeed ARE* more solid here than elsewhere.
* Simply our findings and opinions based on comparing say 10 couples we know from "this life" and 10 couple friends from the "otherside!"
Foxys x

9 Oct 2004

The universe is expanding , but not at the critical mph rate required to ensure ongoing expansion....gravity will take over and reverse the process... though before being accused of scaremongering this will very probably occur AFTER the notts munch.

9 Oct 2004

Is it okay to use this thread to confirm / reject urban myths? Or maybe to complete those incomplete myths? For example that gruesome one about how the average human swallows a number of spiders in their sleep? I dont know the figures or even if its true mind.

8 Oct 2004

hiya Mrs.T.E, (ooops, Angelica we now know!)
well done, an excellent decision to announce your arrival. There are one or two "other halves" who will be encouraged by your decision to say hi. smile

smile

8 Oct 2004

Quote by Robbie
The best band i've ever seen live for pure energy and response from the crowd was the prodigy when supporting Oasis at knebworth.... Oasis were pretty special that weekend aswell.
Saw Madonna recently and to be honest i didn't think she was all that. Of recent times the best band i've seen live are the libertines - pre Pete's crack breakdown.

In fairness Robbie, though they were fantastic, it was actually the Manics who caught my eye THAT day at Knebworth (late onto the bandwaggon as per usual). Didnt several bands play that day, I seem to vaguely ( redface

redface

ahem) remember OCS, Chemical Bros ?

8 Oct 2004

Quote by Clare_Lincs
The best cover version for me had to be Mike Flowers Pops with Wonderwall,bloody brilliant

And much to Oasis` annoyance it equalled their number 2 position lol...rather funny lol

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7 Oct 2004

Gosh, everthing from Garfunkel to the Clash...thanks...I`ll make one exception to my anti covers attitude biggrin

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7 Oct 2004

Quote by fruity1976
Nope manics also done Cant take my eyes off you but I know muse did do a rather funky cover of "house of the rising sun" ;)

Gosh......didn`t know.....2 things to look forward to

7 Oct 2004

Im sure " Feeling Good " and "Cant take my eyes off you " were both Muse.....and both brilliant. Maybe the Manics cover was " Suicide is painless"...also excellent

6 Oct 2004

Hiya Nimbus wave

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,
welcome. We had been lurkin around for quite a while and found it quite rewarding to announce our existence. We dont have that much to say but we sure enjoy watching everything that happens on here, having said that we would encourage you to join in whenever you feel the urge...it really is a place to be yourselves.
Hi VCee3 by the way, we missed you first time around :wave:

4 Oct 2004

Quote by ChairmanMiaow
Since getting broadband and unfettered access to huge quantities of free porn of all descriptions, I find that I hardly ever look at the stuff now, maybe once every couple of weeks? The desire just isn't there any more!
Is anyone else bored of porn?
CM

Gosh, I actually long for the days when I would sit up til some unearthly hour, even on a work night in the hope of a nano second of bum or nipple on 1 of the 4 terrestrials.
I/we have become desensitized to wanton porn with the advent of internet porn/broadband capabilities. We`re a little bored of porn but still love sex.

1 Oct 2004

Debbie,
a couple of years ago decided to go for the "perfect" 10 and the glam look. It took a lot of hard work, eating less of what she loved, drinking less of what she loved, many hours training and toning, ruined holidays and summers by feeling obliged too catch EVERY last drip of sun etc etc etc.
thank god she gave all THAT lot up and returned to the perfect 12/14/16 or whatever it is !!!!! smile

smile

Not as happy with her looks but far far happier with life. Like yourself she is conscious of her body but knows that 99% are....she figures that if you go moderation and stay active you`ll find your true size and not the medical book size. I meanwhile am MORE than happy with her philosophy. biggrin

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xx

29 Sep 2004

Quote by neilinleeds
foxy30s
i'd been here about 2 months when i did my first one, knew noone beyong chatroom nicknames, and was absolutely crapping myself. i was blown away. everybody is really lovely, and there to meet everybody else, and put faces to names. you won't be the only ones in the same boat by a long way, and you *will* have a good time i promise.
neil x x x ;)

Neil, you said 'will' have a good time...you almost sound like you`re talking from experience lol

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... it sounds impossible not to by the sound of things. biggrin

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Quote by Countess
[don't worry about not knowing any body well.... I knew nobody at the manchester munch as I wasn't even posting then (the other half was doing enough for the both of us still does :lol: :lol: ) I felt like a spare part for about half an hour then people just came over and said hi and made me feel really welcome. :D :D :D
as for what to wear I 've drove easy spare with what to put on :twisted: :twisted: however as he says i've hired a black dress which is in keeping with my avatar and name :wink: and have a little something to add with the hopes I can get to use them on the night ....who ever is willing to let me :wink: :wink: :wink:

countess

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,thanks for your words , we are looking forward to it.....in a slightly different way to looking forward to that wedding or b`day party (well most b/day parties)
Foxette doesn`t bother asking me what to wear as all she gets is lil predictable ol me bouncing about saying "little black dress, little black dress!" rolleyes

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I wonder what she will wear...I wonder if she would go in haloween dress? I wonder if YOURE going in fancy dress? And what ARE the little something(s) you`re bringing with you? Should we be worried infact? :rascal:
Hope this munch isnt soooo good it leaves us hopelessly addicted to this whole place...I REFUSE to be the one they will all be calling PILOT light...nope siree.... not me..thats for blimmin sure
FOXYS
pilot light=never goes out

29 Sep 2004

Quote by Vix
Well, we're not 'dressing up' and I had not heard about name badges. I figured we'd just introduce ourselves to people, as we have never met anyone before, either.

Vix, our worry is that we will not know anyone even in a cyberficious ( dunno

dunno

)sort of way (hardly able to contribute here between now and the do) which from past experience helps sooooooo much (as in common topics, safe icebreakers etc) just poor timing really..hey ho

29 Sep 2004

Golly, this is a good question which has got mrs fox a little worked up( more so than myself) shes not sure whether to dress for torture garden or for an interview.
Should we just be like everyone else and be individual? (or is there some sort of paradox going on there :uhoh: )
Also how does everyone know who everyone is? (apart from those who already know who eachother are) Due to holidays etc I know that we aint really gonna get to know hardly ANYONE before the night......is it true about name badges and if so if we bottle it redface

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maybe we could remove ours? Then again we would be the only ones without which would surel...nevermind....gosh, so many questions.
In truth we will be easy to spot being such a mismatch. Picture for a moment Kylie walking in with say Iain Dowie.
Yours rather anxiously... :scared:
foxys

27 Sep 2004

Hiya James,
we too have only been posting in earnest for a week or so. Nice intro and a big hi from the both of us. Enjoy your stay wave

wave

27 Sep 2004

Even if Jomu is onto something we have to say that some of the guys on here are brilliant.
The effort some of them put in to try to help the misguided is tangible and genuine.
It never ceases to impress us just how hard they will try to welcome newcomers and persuade them to stick around even though inevitably the cake shrinks and the gratitude received is MOSTLY zero.
Then again this assumes that the guys who post regularly on here do so primarily for sex which clearly isn`t the case....or if it was it certainly aint priority now.

24 Sep 2004

Clare,
your post arouses several thoughts and emotions(as per usual some would say?).
Firstly, to newbies like us, a strange relief that even the accomplished and accepted feel insecurities (sorry if you disagree with the choice of wording )
Its only a relief because you two ARE among the more popular members..we cant ALL be wrong.
Personally I think I know my limitations. Some threads I am happier to sit back and admire as I could not hope to reach the intellect levels (so thats most threads, ha ha), particularly as my forte is smut and pathetic jokes..
I do think intellect is different to intelligence , ALL of the regular posters, including yourselves ,have a higher intelligence level than the average person out there. You are highly regarded on here.
Already on this thread we can see just how many people feel the same way.
I rarely have anything I would regard as remotely interesting to add. We`ve only posted on and off since June but have no idea how we are or will be viewed. Ive knocked up a dodgy poem but Ive no idea if its any good...I `ll treat no news as good news, I have to!
.We received a lukewarm welcome to our unofficial hello on here last Friday...at least we think it was???? dunno

dunno

see we`re all similar.
Mrs Fox wont post ( I hope/think that will change particularly after Oct 30th) as she too has the same insecurities. Having said that if any of my posts appear to flirt with thoughtfulness or threaten to be interesting its normally her input.
Moral? Dont know, maybe you have just put your head above the parapet and actually VOICED what many people FEAR but do not voice. Which almost by definition means your fears may be unfounded or no different the majority on here.
And no your post doesnt contain any attention seeking or pity.....just frustration which possibly isnt warranted?

23 Sep 2004

naah, we meant Hornylondons poll wink

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weve already voted on yours smile

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23 Sep 2004

Quote by HORNYLONDON123
where was the i dont give a fu## option on your poll i would of chose that one

Quote by HORNYLONDON123
just my view thats all maybe i,ll start a few polls myself
(1) should i eat
(2) should i go to work today
ect ect .........................

We are quite new to all of this so sorry if this is a daft question...but how do we vote on this poll? There doesnt seem to be a link to the poll yet we love these poll things. Any help appreciated before we forget how we were going to vote :cry: